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It’s difficult. I’m white, so I can’t claim ‘it’s racist!’ as I’ve seen a load do black men use the term to describe themselves, whereas I’ve seen black men say they find it offensive and racist.
I think it’s fetishising black men, I wouldn’t use the term and I tend not to engage in those who do. |
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"It’s difficult. I’m white, so I can’t claim ‘it’s racist!’ as I’ve seen a load do black men use the term to describe themselves, whereas I’ve seen black men say they find it offensive and racist.
I think it’s fetishising black men, I wouldn’t use the term and I tend not to engage in those who do. "
Couldn't have put it better myself  |
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"It's no more racist than BBW is fatist or MILF us ageist.
If it used in a derogatory negative way then there is prejudice, then it becomes a form of racism."
I hate the term MILF |
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By *LSCPL34 OP Couple
over a year ago
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Well, I believe the blacks (especially in the USA) have had to endure much more than those women referred as BBW or aging beautiful women referred to as MILF or Cougar.
SO I am not sure the parallellism really works ? |
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"Well, I believe the blacks (especially in the USA) have had to endure much more than those women referred as BBW or aging beautiful women referred to as MILF or Cougar.
SO I am not sure the parallellism really works ?"
Another trigger post. Why would a positive label have racial implications. And why does it matter to you? |
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I personally find it a compliment. The word big is so subjective. I take the view that I'm smaller than some and bigger than others. Like I said in my profile I'm really not going to measure mine to make a comparison. (I genuinely have better uses for a tape measure.)
Black cock. Well there's vitalago .other than that it's black/ brown and it's not going to change colour. And yep it's a cock. That's not changing either.
Let's be honest. Some prefer black some, prefer white. (BWC). Some prefer everything in between. I genuinely don't see a problem with BBC. But ladies, it's not just about the cock but the person pushing it in. |
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"It's no more racist than BBW is fatist or MILF us ageist.
If it used in a derogatory negative way then there is prejudice, then it becomes a form of racism."
MILF can be viewed as derogatory but certainly not ageist. A mum can be anyone from age 16 to 96. So could quality for MILF status any age between them. How is that ageist? |
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"Well, I believe the blacks (especially in the USA) have had to endure much more than those women referred as BBW or aging beautiful women referred to as MILF or Cougar.
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They do, and you’re right. I hate the term ‘milf’ and I hate being called it, but it really doesn’t matter |
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"It's no more racist than BBW is fatist or MILF us ageist.
If it used in a derogatory negative way then there is prejudice, then it becomes a form of racism.
MILF can be viewed as derogatory but certainly not ageist. A mum can be anyone from age 16 to 96. So could quality for MILF status any age between them. How is that ageist? "
I know someone who gave birth at 13, so... |
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By *LSCPL34 OP Couple
over a year ago
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Thank you for your view
"I personally find it a compliment. The word big is so subjective. I take the view that I'm smaller than some and bigger than others. Like I said in my profile I'm really not going to measure mine to make a comparison. (I genuinely have better uses for a tape measure.)
Black cock. Well there's vitalago .other than that it's black/ brown and it's not going to change colour. And yep it's a cock. That's not changing either.
Let's be honest. Some prefer black some, prefer white. (BWC). Some prefer everything in between. I genuinely don't see a problem with BBC. But ladies, it's not just about the cock but the person pushing it in. "
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By *LSCPL34 OP Couple
over a year ago
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you are a very young and beautiful anyways ...
"Well, I believe the blacks (especially in the USA) have had to endure much more than those women referred as BBW or aging beautiful women referred to as MILF or Cougar.
They do, and you’re right. I hate the term ‘milf’ and I hate being called it, but it really doesn’t matter "
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"It's no more racist than BBW is fatist or MILF us ageist.
If it used in a derogatory negative way then there is prejudice, then it becomes a form of racism.
MILF can be viewed as derogatory but certainly not ageist. A mum can be anyone from age 16 to 96. So could quality for MILF status any age between them. How is that ageist?
I know someone who gave birth at 13, so..."
Well of course that's possible and unfortunately happens too often. But clearly it would be both wrong and illegal to consider that person in the category of MILF. Was just trying to prove point while demonstrating common decency and legalaties! |
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"so the summary is this, whites are a bit more sensitive abiut using BBC as it may have racial intonations but black gentleman mostly dont see it that way  "
I can't speak for others but to me thats pretty much bang on. |
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