my partner wants to dp with me
but the times we have tried anal its been unconfutable
I have tried using a few toys to get use to it but not working
anyone any advice or tips on what I can do to get use to it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lube lube lube and prep. I've only tried anal once, but I lubed up lots, popped a butt plug in, kept in there all through normal sex, took it out and lubed myself up again until I could fit three fingers in myself. Absolutely no pain whatsoever. |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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I find by taking your mind of it helps to I think sometimes when we no we are going to have anal we tense up to, which makes it harder have a toy on the clit when they trying anal ur mind will be elsewere  and maybe try anal before dp |
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Do not, I repeat do not, use the numbing lube you could end up getting injured and not be aware.
For me anal is something I enjoy most when already relaxed and very turned on.
Take it slowly and use lots and lots of lube.
Don't attempt DP until/unless anal is enjoyable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"my partner wants to dp with me
but the times we have tried anal its been unconfutable
I have tried using a few toys to get use to it but not working
anyone any advice or tips on what I can do to get use to it
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What do YOU want? If you don't enjoy it don't do it. |
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Have different sizes of butt plug, a smaller dildo, before even attempting the full monty!
Let your ass become accustomed to the feeling and like someone else said... a toy on your clit!
Alternatively... how about DVP? Different sense of fullness |
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