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Dare to have an opinion

By *reatformeat OP Woman over a year ago

my own bubble

Has anybody ever noticed when you voice an opinion in a thread which goes against the opinion of a regular forumite they all gang up on you like a pack of wolves. Like bullying well sorry i am not one to be bullied

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has anybody ever noticed when you voice an opinion in a thread which goes against the opinion of a regular forumite they all gang up on you like a pack of wolves. Like bullying well sorry i am not one to be bullied

Oh yes. For sure.

Best way by far to get judged and bullied is to make a contribution that suggests, even a little bit, that someone might have a valid reason for seeking company without their spouse knowing.

Hard hat time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of the threads now are sht. I find them more depressing by the day. That's my opinion

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By *reatformeat OP Woman over a year ago

my own bubble

All hypocrypts half of them not even verified amd pathetic profiles saying not meeting only here for the forums.

Oh yes. For sure.

Best way by far to get judged and bullied is to make a contribution that suggests, even a little bit, that someone might have a valid reason for seeking company without their spouse knowing.

Hard hat time."

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By *reatformeat OP Woman over a year ago

my own bubble

"Most of the threads now are sht. I find them more depressing by the day. That's my opinion "

Baking a cake who wants one ? Morning coffee anyone ?? That sort of shit you mean

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By *elle xWoman over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Most of the threads now are sht. I find them more depressing by the day. That's my opinion

Baking a cake who wants one ? Morning coffee anyone ?? That sort of shit you mean

What’s wrong with cake

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By *lbinoGorillaMan over a year ago

Redditch

Yep

And everyone pretending that there isn't one giant forum clique annoys me

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By *lbinoGorillaMan over a year ago

Redditch

"Most of the threads now are sht. I find them more depressing by the day. That's my opinion

Baking a cake who wants one ? Morning coffee anyone ?? That sort of shit you mean

What’s wrong with cake

Depends who's serving it

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By *atricia ParnelWoman over a year ago

In a town full of colours

If it was a heated topic then a lot more people will naturally speak out, everyone is entitled to give an opinion on here but that does not give them the excuse to personally have a go at you, report if you need to.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

Oh god yeh. It's very amusing. Just mention the word clique and watch them heads spin

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

"Yep

And everyone pretending that there isn't one giant forum clique annoys me"

Oh god you mentioned the C word......off with ya head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If it was a heated topic then a lot more people will naturally speak out, everyone is entitled to give an opinion on here but that does not give them the excuse to personally have a go at you, report if you need to."

I find that people who cannot communicate, always assume you’re arguing.

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By *affeine DuskMan over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Most of the threads now are sht. I find them more depressing by the day. That's my opinion

Baking a cake who wants one ? Morning coffee anyone ?? That sort of shit you mean

It's how humans interact with other humans in this testing time. Keeps them connected.

But y'know. Everyone has an opinion here. It's a forum. Can't let it get to you, just do you and all that.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Yes i think its not very mature thing to do tbh. Puts some people off from posting which makes me sad. I love hearing other people opinion from all walks of life. Beauty of being human

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By *moothdickMan over a year ago

stoke

Be careful with that opinion, the clique will be lurking waiting to pounce ... And yes yr right, it is a strong form of bullying... always said, opinions are like arseoles, we all have one ..

good thread op

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By *zoreanMan over a year ago

Witney

I was thinking about this a minute ago.... If you are not part of the "cool kids" then you're out... And when you try to actually make a difference or come up with something fun, nobody ever takes part on it and then the "I'm the alpha male cunt" comes in, talks some shit and the thread dies..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was thinking about this a minute ago.... If you are not part of the "cool kids" then you're out... And when you try to actually make a difference or come up with something fun, nobody ever takes part on it and then the "I'm the alpha male cunt" comes in, talks some shit and the thread dies.."

My threads are always dying at the moment, but I could guarantee if someone more well ‘liked’ made it, it would take off

No skin off my nose, I’ll keep pottering around

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By *picknspanMan over a year ago

North West Leeds

Opinions are like arses

Everyone has one but not everyone else wants to hear it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I totally agree lovely

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By *zoreanMan over a year ago

Witney

My threads are always dying at the moment, but I could guarantee if someone more well ‘liked’ made it, it would take off

No skin off my nose, I’ll keep pottering around "

But you are an amazing person who always comes up with topics that are cool, I always try to take part in them as much as possible.

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By *zoreanMan over a year ago

Witney

My threads are always dying at the moment, but I could guarantee if someone more well ‘liked’ made it, it would take off

No skin off my nose, I’ll keep pottering around

But you are an amazing person who always comes up with topics that are cool, I always try to take part in them as much as possible.

Lol, roll eyes emoji again, I mean to use this one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My threads are always dying at the moment, but I could guarantee if someone more well ‘liked’ made it, it would take off

No skin off my nose, I’ll keep pottering around

But you are an amazing person who always comes up with topics that are cool, I always try to take part in them as much as possible.

Sadly, some people have the opinion that I’m one of the ‘cool kids’ you’re describing

it’s funny how many different opinions can be made about some people. But thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes i think its not very mature thing to do tbh. Puts some people off from posting which makes me sad. I love hearing other people opinion from all walks of life. Beauty of being human

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My threads are always dying at the moment, but I could guarantee if someone more well ‘liked’ made it, it would take off

No skin off my nose, I’ll keep pottering around "

Sod the ones that don't like you, they are not worth your time. Love you

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By *zoreanMan over a year ago

Witney

My threads are always dying at the moment, but I could guarantee if someone more well ‘liked’ made it, it would take off

No skin off my nose, I’ll keep pottering around

But you are an amazing person who always comes up with topics that are cool, I always try to take part in them as much as possible.

Sadly, some people have the opinion that I’m one of the ‘cool kids’ you’re describing

it’s funny how many different opinions can be made about some people. But thank you

I guess the difference is that you're inclusive as opposed to being selective... I felt welcomed by you since day 1, however, some other people just want to play with the other cool kids as opposed to welcoming new members

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By *ustyshowoffCouple over a year ago

Cyprus

That’s the same on most forums to honest.

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By *ictoriaathomeTV/TS over a year ago

Huddersfield

As with everything there is always another side to every story. Got to look beyond the headlines and get to the truth. Sometimes the truth goes against the populace view or that which 'social media' promotes. Opinions are for us all, bullying is a easy option when they have no defence.

Watch this space!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve seen people come to defend their mates. Just try and ignore. Hope people see through it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am sick of it i can see who these people are and although it pisses me of i enjoy doing it just to get their back up now . Like wind the key and watch them go

. It amuses me some have no veris yet strong opinions on swinging or the way people should behave whilst swinging

Some of the strong opinions on swinging can get very heated and can be very outdated. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and that's great but doesn't mean it has to be forced down everyone else's throat. It's great when I announce, I don't class myself as a swinger

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By *ememberTheNameMan over a year ago

barnsley

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