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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm maybe should stop with the BBC AND JUST say BC (big cock) thoughts? "
Would suit me
After all, and I'm stealing this from a friend of mine ' black lives matter asuch as the black cocks attached to them!'
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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I used to think it was very demeaning, but have over time learnt that the term tends to be used more by those that have a race kink, as opposed to those that perhaps just happen to have a preference for black men.
As long as (some) black men respond positively to it, it will persist.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a discussion with a black guy about this and he said the fetishising of bbc made him feel like he was being objectified because of his cock and not who he was a person.
That's of course what women have faced for years. Nonetheless it's demeaning. |
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"I had a discussion with a black guy about this and he said the fetishising of bbc made him feel like he was being objectified because of his cock and not who he was a person.
That's of course what women have faced for years. Nonetheless it's demeaning. "
Some black men or women play into these things, but I'll not participate. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"I had a discussion with a black guy about this and he said the fetishising of bbc made him feel like he was being objectified because of his cock and not who he was a person.
That's of course what women have faced for years. Nonetheless it's demeaning. "
Clearly not to those that introduce themselves as a BBC - or to those that respond to the term. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a discussion with a black guy about this and he said the fetishising of bbc made him feel like he was being objectified because of his cock and not who he was a person.
That's of course what women have faced for years. Nonetheless it's demeaning. "
Also this fetishisation is obviously rooted in racism but it translates to racial violence. Stereotypes about black male hypersexuality has violently oppressed black men, contributed to our death in many cases and also translates to our perceived threat. White supremacy creating this stereotype that some guys can use to get a shag doesn’t change any of the racial violence it allowed and allows.
If some black guys want to use it to get a leg over, whatever but it should be a term only used with the consent of all parties involved, not thrown about all over the internet to objectify us. |
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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago
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Me personally no one has upset me. People have their preference who they are attracted to and who they would like to meet and have fun with.
Let's all be happy. Spread more love for each other regardless of their opinions and preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nonsense call it what it is. BBC isn’t offensive and many black guys use it in their profiles.
Political correctness is going mad"
I had this discussion with a few guys in the swinging community and this is my conclusion...
The black guys with big cocks don’t mind the term bbc at all because they live up to the term BBC...
The average or smaller black guys have a problem with this term and will scream from the rafters it’s demeaning... Think short man syndrome....
Now in all my years of swinging, I have never gotten sex just because of the size of my penis... I still had to be a gentleman and charming.... When meeting people in the vanilla or swinging world no one using the term Bbc except in the bedroom...,. |
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If a guy presents himself as BBC that it tell me as much about where he's coming from as those actively looking for BBC.
If a black guy approaches be without using BBC then I know it's not that angle he is coming from.
Just a guy looking to meet a woman.
If the BBC doesn't have an issue with it then I don't. |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
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Whenever I see a thread like this, I think we have to be careful to distinguish between preferences and being racist, ageist or just offensive. People shouldn't be made to feel it's not ok to express a preference, but at the same time they need to be careful not to objectify, either deliberately or through the thoughtlessness that comes with relying on porn, which I suspect accounts for a lot of it. Same as the threads saying things like "I wanna meet a shemale". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nonsense call it what it is. BBC isn’t offensive and many black guys use it in their profiles.
Political correctness is going mad
I had this discussion with a few guys in the swinging community and this is my conclusion...
The black guys with big cocks don’t mind the term bbc at all because they live up to the term BBC...
The average or smaller black guys have a problem with this term and will scream from the rafters it’s demeaning... Think short man syndrome....
Now in all my years of swinging, I have never gotten sex just because of the size of my penis... I still had to be a gentleman and charming.... When meeting people in the vanilla or swinging world no one using the term Bbc except in the bedroom...,."
My black mate hated it coz women always ended up disappointed when he unzipped lol he'd tell people to shut up going on about bbc......
Personally black dicks for white chicks and bbc is racist, it doesn't offend me, but if we changed cock for lips I bet people can see my point? Racial stereotyping in one direction only is ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nonsense call it what it is. BBC isn’t offensive and many black guys use it in their profiles.
Political correctness is going mad
I had this discussion with a few guys in the swinging community and this is my conclusion...
The black guys with big cocks don’t mind the term bbc at all because they live up to the term BBC...
The average or smaller black guys have a problem with this term and will scream from the rafters it’s demeaning... Think short man syndrome....
Now in all my years of swinging, I have never gotten sex just because of the size of my penis... I still had to be a gentleman and charming.... When meeting people in the vanilla or swinging world no one using the term Bbc except in the bedroom...,."
Very fair points. Trying to stop people using BBC isn't really a universal decision. It's a fetishised term and there are many out there that aren't judged.
The term BBC doesn't hurt anyone beyond pride |
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"I had a discussion with a black guy about this and he said the fetishising of bbc made him feel like he was being objectified because of his cock and not who he was a person.
That's of course what women have faced for years. Nonetheless it's demeaning.
Also this fetishisation is obviously rooted in racism but it translates to racial violence. Stereotypes about black male hypersexuality has violently oppressed black men, contributed to our death in many cases and also translates to our perceived threat. White supremacy creating this stereotype that some guys can use to get a shag doesn’t change any of the racial violence it allowed and allows.
If some black guys want to use it to get a leg over, whatever but it should be a term only used with the consent of all parties involved, not thrown about all over the internet to objectify us. "
This!! Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nonsense call it what it is. BBC isn’t offensive and many black guys use it in their profiles.
Political correctness is going mad
I had this discussion with a few guys in the swinging community and this is my conclusion...
The black guys with big cocks don’t mind the term bbc at all because they live up to the term BBC...
The average or smaller black guys have a problem with this term and will scream from the rafters it’s demeaning... Think short man syndrome....
Now in all my years of swinging, I have never gotten sex just because of the size of my penis... I still had to be a gentleman and charming.... When meeting people in the vanilla or swinging world no one using the term Bbc except in the bedroom...,.
Very fair points. Trying to stop people using BBC isn't really a universal decision. It's a fetishised term and there are many out there that aren't judged.
The term BBC doesn't hurt anyone beyond pride"
It’s really on the black guy to judge if he is being fetishized or not...
Example....
“ My wife wants your bbc “
if I get a email like this , I just block and delete.... because we are not on the same wavelength and after reading my long profile.. that’s all they can come up with...
Now if I get a email stating....
“ Great profile and pics , I think you are what we are looking for “
I’ll answer because they are on my wavelength....
So we as black men have a choice of letting people fetishize us or not.....
We can’t just blame the phase BBC.....
The next thing you know BBW and pawg will be banned also... |
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The guys who actively play up the term BBC really don’t get the historical context behind the objectification of black men. Since the white man laid eyes on the black man, we’ve been another’s species,
I genuinely feel sorry for the men who play up to it and don’t have a sense of the nuances meanings behind it. I am pretty sure when they really educate themselves beyond their dicks, they’d get it.
As for the white people who engage with this wholeheartedly, I really have nothing to say to them. Don’t expect any better.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guys who actively play up the term BBC really don’t get the historical context behind the objectification of black men. Since the white man laid eyes on the black man, we’ve been another’s species,
I genuinely feel sorry for the men who play up to it and don’t have a sense of the nuances meanings behind it. I am pretty sure when they really educate themselves beyond their dicks, they’d get it.
As for the white people who engage with this wholeheartedly, I really have nothing to say to them. Don’t expect any better.. "
You do realize that the term BBC is only used in porn ? Right
Women don’t come up to black men in public saying “ Hey , BBC I want your cock “
Now let’s say you get your wish and the term BBC is banished from the universe....
Now how the hell are we going to search for interracial porn...
“ Educated black man has sex with German polish Caucasian suburban housewife “
“ A group of 5 black gentleman Has sex with inexperienced doctoral south Asian University student “
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guys who actively play up the term BBC really don’t get the historical context behind the objectification of black men. Since the white man laid eyes on the black man, we’ve been another’s species,
I genuinely feel sorry for the men who play up to it and don’t have a sense of the nuances meanings behind it. I am pretty sure when they really educate themselves beyond their dicks, they’d get it.
As for the white people who engage with this wholeheartedly, I really have nothing to say to them. Don’t expect any better..
You do realize that the term BBC is only used in porn ? Right
Women don’t come up to black men in public saying “ Hey , BBC I want your cock “
Now let’s say you get your wish and the term BBC is banished from the universe....
Now how the hell are we going to search for interracial porn...
“ Educated black man has sex with German polish Caucasian suburban housewife “
“ A group of 5 black gentleman Has sex with inexperienced doctoral south Asian University student “
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But it's just used in porn. It's used in kink and is a well known stereotype that a lot of get approached with in different situations. I've been approached in a bar by a woman saying I'm sure you're black where it's important. Have to say that conversation didn't last long, always a red flag |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guys who actively play up the term BBC really don’t get the historical context behind the objectification of black men. Since the white man laid eyes on the black man, we’ve been another’s species,
I genuinely feel sorry for the men who play up to it and don’t have a sense of the nuances meanings behind it. I am pretty sure when they really educate themselves beyond their dicks, they’d get it.
As for the white people who engage with this wholeheartedly, I really have nothing to say to them. Don’t expect any better..
You do realize that the term BBC is only used in porn ? Right
Women don’t come up to black men in public saying “ Hey , BBC I want your cock “
Now let’s say you get your wish and the term BBC is banished from the universe....
Now how the hell are we going to search for interracial porn...
“ Educated black man has sex with German polish Caucasian suburban housewife “
“ A group of 5 black gentleman Has sex with inexperienced doctoral south Asian University student “
But it's just used in porn. It's used in kink and is a well known stereotype that a lot of get approached with in different situations. I've been approached in a bar by a woman saying I'm sure you're black where it's important. Have to say that conversation didn't last long, always a red flag"
Honestly , all black Men have to do to not feel fetishized is avoid any women that state they are size queens...
These females put penis size as a top priority....
Also , if you think all females and couples that use the term bbc are fetishized black men.... For some strange reason they always ask for a face and body pic before a meeting....
You would think if all they cared about was my penis, my appearance would be irrelevant.....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guys who actively play up the term BBC really don’t get the historical context behind the objectification of black men. Since the white man laid eyes on the black man, we’ve been another’s species,
I genuinely feel sorry for the men who play up to it and don’t have a sense of the nuances meanings behind it. I am pretty sure when they really educate themselves beyond their dicks, they’d get it.
As for the white people who engage with this wholeheartedly, I really have nothing to say to them. Don’t expect any better..
You do realize that the term BBC is only used in porn ? Right
Women don’t come up to black men in public saying “ Hey , BBC I want your cock “
Now let’s say you get your wish and the term BBC is banished from the universe....
Now how the hell are we going to search for interracial porn...
“ Educated black man has sex with German polish Caucasian suburban housewife “
“ A group of 5 black gentleman Has sex with inexperienced doctoral south Asian University student “
But it's just used in porn. It's used in kink and is a well known stereotype that a lot of get approached with in different situations. I've been approached in a bar by a woman saying I'm sure you're black where it's important. Have to say that conversation didn't last long, always a red flag
Honestly , all black Men have to do to not feel fetishized is avoid any women that state they are size queens...
These females put penis size as a top priority....
Also , if you think all females and couples that use the term bbc are fetishized black men.... For some strange reason they always ask for a face and body pic before a meeting....
You would think if all they cared about was my penis, my appearance would be irrelevant.....
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I agree. There are others (queen of spades) that also just seek it. Not all couples who seek BBC are like that but when you broadcast your profile saying BBC only it will be scrutinized |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is only something that black men can get rid of. If we don't react to it then it will stop being used. "
Tell that to black night, black ram, chocolate lollipop and all the other black guys using inappropriate colour related names that no one else can use in their direction lol 
So funny how people want rules but want to apply and not apply said rules as and when they see fit, just them lol go back to 70s and fuck the rules lol |
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"The guys who actively play up the term BBC really don’t get the historical context behind the objectification of black men. Since the white man laid eyes on the black man, we’ve been another’s species,
I genuinely feel sorry for the men who play up to it and don’t have a sense of the nuances meanings behind it. I am pretty sure when they really educate themselves beyond their dicks, they’d get it.
As for the white people who engage with this wholeheartedly, I really have nothing to say to them. Don’t expect any better..
You do realize that the term BBC is only used in porn ? Right
Women don’t come up to black men in public saying “ Hey , BBC I want your cock “
Now let’s say you get your wish and the term BBC is banished from the universe....
Now how the hell are we going to search for interracial porn...
“ Educated black man has sex with German polish Caucasian suburban housewife “
“ A group of 5 black gentleman Has sex with inexperienced doctoral south Asian University student “
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No, the term BBC is not just used in porn. It is used here too and in the swinging world generally, which is why we are having this convo.
Your response to a serious conversation is “how the hell do we search for porn?”. Really?!
They can make up something else that is not offensive with all the historical garbage behind it.
And no, it doesn’t have to be educated black man bla bla as you say. That would be too much of a reach for the ppl in porn, but am sure they can come up with something that’s not offensive. After all, there a lot of English worlds to choose from. |
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"It is only something that black men can get rid of. If we don't react to it then it will stop being used. "
I agree to this partially. This is also something that the people doing the objectifying are also responsible for.
There no issue with saying a black man has a big dick in your personal or one-to-one interactions with them, but when you equate a whole person to their appendage, that’s not healthy, am sorry. That becomes a problem when you have white people emailing people they don’t know and saying “looking for bbc”.
If I emailed a woman on here and emailed the same but replacing the term bbc with someotjnf derogatory that is linked to the historical shit that women have gone through, you probably would be incensed. But somehow, you aren’t for black men.
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"It is only something that black men can get rid of. If we don't react to it then it will stop being used.
Tell that to black night, black ram, chocolate lollipop and all the other black guys using inappropriate colour related names that no one else can use in their direction lol
So funny how people want rules but want to apply and not apply said rules as and when they see fit, just them lol go back to 70s and fuck the rules lol "
Oh I will, if I have the chance. The fact that some black men don’t get it, doesn’t justify it being alright.
And this isn’t about rules, it’s about respecting people.
Not sure what rules you mean. Maybe clarify your point. |
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"It is only something that black men can get rid of. If we don't react to it then it will stop being used.
Tell that to black night, black ram, chocolate lollipop and all the other black guys using inappropriate colour related names that no one else can use in their direction lol
So funny how people want rules but want to apply and not apply said rules as and when they see fit, just them lol go back to 70s and fuck the rules lol
Oh I will, if I have the chance. The fact that some black men don’t get it, doesn’t justify it being alright.
And this isn’t about rules, it’s about respecting people.
Not sure what rules you mean. Maybe clarify your point. "
I'm with you black metal, I didn't mean rules I meant political correctness and social etiquette.... People on here want to pick and choose when and when THEY want it lol they were all taking the piss out of native Americans with big chief pow wow and mighty boner lol and that's not racist apparently..... Just fun! I'm fine with jocks are tight and Welsh shag sheep if others are ok with what I can think up! But then they climb on that high horse over there lol |
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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago
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"Nonsense call it what it is. BBC isn’t offensive and many black guys use it in their profiles.
Political correctness is going mad
I had this discussion with a few guys in the swinging community and this is my conclusion...
The black guys with big cocks don’t mind the term bbc at all because they live up to the term BBC...
The average or smaller black guys have a problem with this term and will scream from the rafters it’s demeaning... Think short man syndrome....
Now in all my years of swinging, I have never gotten sex just because of the size of my penis... I still had to be a gentleman and charming.... When meeting people in the vanilla or swinging world no one using the term Bbc except in the bedroom...,."
I think you hit the nail on the head, Black and mixed race men that can live up to the name,(had to put myself in there lol) there's no issue but black guys that can't, chat bullocks. |
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"Nonsense call it what it is. BBC isn’t offensive and many black guys use it in their profiles.
Political correctness is going mad
I had this discussion with a few guys in the swinging community and this is my conclusion...
The black guys with big cocks don’t mind the term bbc at all because they live up to the term BBC...
The average or smaller black guys have a problem with this term and will scream from the rafters it’s demeaning... Think short man syndrome....
Now in all my years of swinging, I have never gotten sex just because of the size of my penis... I still had to be a gentleman and charming.... When meeting people in the vanilla or swinging world no one using the term Bbc except in the bedroom...,.
I think you hit the nail on the head, Black and mixed race men that can live up to the name,(had to put myself in there lol) there's no issue but black guys that can't, chat bullocks. "
But I think why women look for black men with big cocks is the whole package. They just on a different level if you find a good guy who is a gentleman but very hory and obedient in bed. There's just something really hot about a good black guy. |
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It's had staying power because of the glorious BBC media organisation. It wouldn't have remained as commonplace without it, I think. BWC doesn't have the same recognition as BBC but if it had been KFC or another known acronym, it would have. |
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