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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me."
Is he satisfying you? Or just unloading? I think it’s time to talk if you want this to continue. Maybe go with the idea that you want to try out some teasing and build up games? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me.
Is he satisfying you? Or just unloading? I think it’s time to talk if you want this to continue. Maybe go with the idea that you want to try out some teasing and build up games?"
I feel like he is just unloading cos sometimes he doesn’t even wake me up he just slides it in without lube or anything? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me.
Is he satisfying you? Or just unloading? I think it’s time to talk if you want this to continue. Maybe go with the idea that you want to try out some teasing and build up games?
I feel like he is just unloading cos sometimes he doesn’t even wake me up he just slides it in without lube or anything? "
Nah.. that’s not good if that’s not what you want. You sure you want to keep him? |
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"So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me.
Is he satisfying you? Or just unloading? I think it’s time to talk if you want this to continue. Maybe go with the idea that you want to try out some teasing and build up games?
I feel like he is just unloading cos sometimes he doesn’t even wake me up he just slides it in without lube or anything? "
Sounds like he's using you for his own gratification. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I feel like he is just unloading cos sometimes he doesn’t even wake me up he just slides it in without lube or anything? "
Sweetie, I hate to be that person but that’s really REALLY not ok! He’s offloading hard with no concern for your comfort or even consciousness!! I’d be seriously concerned by that behaviour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me.
Is he satisfying you? Or just unloading? I think it’s time to talk if you want this to continue. Maybe go with the idea that you want to try out some teasing and build up games?
I feel like he is just unloading cos sometimes he doesn’t even wake me up he just slides it in without lube or anything? "
This is wrong on soooo many levels! There doesn’t seem to be any consent or any even attempt to try and get consent! I would have words, and if he leaves well good riddance to bad news! |
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"So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me.
Is he satisfying you? Or just unloading? I think it’s time to talk if you want this to continue. Maybe go with the idea that you want to try out some teasing and build up games?
I feel like he is just unloading cos sometimes he doesn’t even wake me up he just slides it in without lube or anything? "
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By *Wman15Man
over a year ago
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Is this just about sex or do you do other things together?
What do you want the relationship to develop into - if of course you are looking for a greater depth
It certainly sounds as though he is taking some degree of advantage at the moment and at 23 he may not really know what he wants in a few years time
A great longer term relationship is more difficult to find and nurture than exciting but maybe short term sex |
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