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By *zorean OP Man
over a year ago
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Do you think that they play a part when meeting someone?
In my opinion, there needs to be a connection with the other person for sex to taste better, however, having said that, I'm not ditching just casual sex encounters.
What's your opinion on the subject?  |
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over a year ago
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Some sort of connection is pretty vital for us, be it friendship, a romantic spark or just a strong physical attraction that causes an emotional surge. We’re definitely more interested in making connections than having one-off physical pleasure with people we don’t know or like. |
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"Do you think that they play a part when meeting someone?
In my opinion, there needs to be a connection with the other person for sex to taste better, however, having said that, I'm not ditching just casual sex encounters.
What's your opinion on the subject? "
Some sort of feeling/lustful connection has to be there for me. I don’t do causal sexual encounters |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I say emotions, I'm talking about connections, feelings, sparks, chemistry, whatever you want to call it, and not only on a physical level, just overall..."
One doesn't come without the other for me in terms of sex. I can appreciate a good looking woman but I don't want fuck her if she's a complete dickhead....
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"When I say emotions, I'm talking about connections, feelings, sparks, chemistry, whatever you want to call it, and not only on a physical level, just overall...
One doesn't come without the other for me in terms of sex. I can appreciate a good looking woman but I don't want fuck her if she's a complete dickhead....
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Damn, that's me out then  |
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There has to be something that sparks your interest.
As long as they are average people and can chat a little, no problem, let's see where the night goes.
Boring, arrogant, full of themselves people, no thanks.
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"When I say emotions, I'm talking about connections, feelings, sparks, chemistry, whatever you want to call it, and not only on a physical level, just overall...
One doesn't come without the other for me in terms of sex. I can appreciate a good looking woman but I don't want fuck her if she's a complete dickhead....
Damn, that's me out then "
I'm sure he'll make an exception for you. I certainly would 
But yes, émotions do come into play. I can't go with anyone I don't find attractive on at least some level
And there seem to be a surprising number of men here who think / feel the same way, considering we're stereotypically seen as cold, calculating bastards who'll fuck anything. Pulse optional  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I say emotions, I'm talking about connections, feelings, sparks, chemistry, whatever you want to call it, and not only on a physical level, just overall...
One doesn't come without the other for me in terms of sex. I can appreciate a good looking woman but I don't want fuck her if she's a complete dickhead....
Damn, that's me out then "
Shush, you're lovely and beautiful to boot and you know it!  |
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"There has to be something that sparks your interest.
As long as they are average people and can chat a little, no problem, let's see where the night goes.
Boring, arrogant, full of themselves people, no thanks.
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Also, I'm not looking for a new partner so the usual criteria doesn't apply. |
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"Some sort of connection is pretty vital for us, be it friendship, a romantic spark or just a strong physical attraction that causes an emotional surge. We’re definitely more interested in making connections than having one-off physical pleasure with people we don’t know or like. "
We feel the same. We've met people for socials and I've felt nothing so it's not gone any further. We've also met people who I probably wouldn't fancy on first look but we've just got on really well and just clicked x |
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"I am not really an emotional person. I know what i like and know what i dislike and usually can tell within 10mins of meeting someone if they are for me."
I'll remember this next time im in glasgow! X |
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By *zorean OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have to like them but apart from that I'm not interested in romance, jealousy, love etc etc. "
Yeah definitely, romance is one thing but caring and liking is a whole different thing I'd say. |
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"I have to like them but apart from that I'm not interested in romance, jealousy, love etc etc.
Yeah definitely, romance is one thing but caring and liking is a whole different thing I'd say."
Caring to me implies a whole level of commitment I don't want to make or for anyone to expect from me in a nsa encounter . I care on a general level for my fellow human beings but I'm not looking to make commitments beyond that unless we become friends |
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"I usually play at clubs, so if I see someone sexy whilst there, the only emotion I feel is lust "
Pretty much this.
There's more than one sort of connection. Sure, while it's nice to get on with someone, I'm also quite happy operating in the manner that Ivy describes. I'm one of the least emotional people I know.
I think more men would be happier with their Fab experience if they were more accepting of their inherent disposablility. Hah. |
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"Some people in swinging will put on a faux caring face in order to either appear like a nice person or to hook the people looking for something more meaningful. Present company excepted of course "
Totally agree |
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