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Have you ever used a safe word?
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over a year ago
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G here. An ex was interested in exploring consensual non-consent, and we set a safe word in case either of us became uncomfortable with things along the way, since she wanted to be able to say “no” and “stop” without meaning them as part of the play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never used as I forgot 
We were meeting a couple for the first time and chose two similar words to mean, yes- proceed or no- run away.
Anyway forgot which word was which. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"G here. An ex was interested in exploring consensual non-consent, and we set a safe word in case either of us became uncomfortable with things along the way, since she wanted to be able to say “no” and “stop” without meaning them as part of the play. "
Try and say 'consensual non-consent' very fast.
Sorry finding my own entertainment here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive had one, but rarely ever used it.. Obviously he knew when i was reaching it, took it down a level until I was ready for more.
regardless if its a word/look/hand signal/whatever.. communication is so so important!
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"I just say stop or no. Never really seen the point of any other words.
It's easy to say no, and not really mean it, because it's such a natural reaction when something is borderline. "
When i say no i mean it. No will always mean no to me. |
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over a year ago
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Someone asked me if I would use a safe word. I didn't know why I'd need one surely my body language will tell you whether I'm enjoying it or not?
No, not always , he said.
I'm sure when I kick you in the face you'll get the message.
Didn't meet him |
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