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Why is when you are polite and respectful to some women on here that they choose to ignore you the block you...I find it very ignorant....can anyone explain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yawn |
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"Read the FAQ's.   "
No interest. No reply. Simple |
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"Why is when you are polite and respectful to some women on here that they choose to ignore you the block you...I find it very ignorant....can anyone explain "
Read the FAQ - it answers your question perfectly. They are not ignorant. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Why is when you are polite and respectful to some women on here that they choose to ignore you the block you...I find it very ignorant....can anyone explain "
They are not interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not ignorant, they just dont want to talk to you |
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Exactly the attitude I expected.... |
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"Exactly the attitude I expected...."
You get what you give, chum.  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Exactly the attitude I expected...."
So why ask? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Read the FAQ's.
No interest. No reply. Simple"
Simple init dont take it to heart women must get 1000s of messages cant reply to all n say oh am sorry mate but your not my type |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have no public photos or a profile pic so I wouldnt even contemplate opening your message sorry. If you did send a face pic but it wasn't for me id say no thankyou and bloke you as 98% of the time I get shitty abuse back. Women also get bombarded on here with 100s of messages daily  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly the attitude I expected...."
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But what have I given I have only been gracious and kind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty simple to understand. They aren’t interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you get spam mail through the post, do you reply to it? |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"But what have I given I have only been gracious and kind "
I love you x |
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"Exactly the attitude I expected...."
Which is what exactly. You have asked a question and been given a variety of answers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP why aren’t you replying to everyone? Rude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP why aren’t you replying to everyone? Rude"
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"But what have I given I have only been gracious and kind "
If they don't respond your attention wasn't desired. Unfortunately that's the way it works. For some it's physically impossible to answer all their messages. Many find it not worthwhile for various reasons.
It's the norm of this site, for better or worse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't sweat it OP. It happens to everyone. If I send a message, (which is very rare ) and it's ignored and deleted, i just block them and move on. Then me or them will never darken each other's days again  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"But what have I given I have only been gracious and kind "
You may have been gracious and kind in your opening message but how does someone know that you're not going to be rude and abusive when they send you a message rejecting you? Which sadly is how *some* men react to rejection and someone has no way of knowing whether you'll be that type so take the safe way out, which is recognised in the FAQs as being an acceptable way of saying thanks but no thanks.
There's also the thing that once someone replies it opens up a route through any future filters they may set - so another valid reason not to reply if they're not interested.
It's not worth worrying about it's just the way the site works - what real difference does it make if they don't reply to reject you anyway? You're not better or worse off if they do than if they don't. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Maybe they mislaid it, if not blocked you could try resending the same message but in CAPS ? It might work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is when you are polite and respectful to some women on here that they choose to ignore you the block you...I find it very ignorant....can anyone explain "
You've no public pics & no veris..i would ignore you |
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(Quietly getting the popcorn Out and tiptoeing into the forum to listen in) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because we can.
We are now allowed to choose what women do without anyones permission
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have no public photos or a profile pic so I wouldnt even contemplate opening your message sorry. If you did send a face pic but it wasn't for me id say no thankyou and bloke you as 98% of the time I get shitty abuse back. Women also get bombarded on here with 100s of messages daily "
100% agree.
No profile picture means I wouldn’t even open the message to read it.
Instant delete. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is when you are polite and respectful to some women on here that they choose to ignore you the block you...I find it very ignorant....can anyone explain "
Love a good trolling. Gets the regulars nicely riled. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Report them as fake OP "
Shut it you |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
To the OP, some people reply , some don't, if you accept that you might enjoy the site better
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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It would be helpful on these type of threads not to bait the OP. It isn't pleasant |
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