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Men, how many messages do you get a day?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care
I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care
I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls
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Thanks for popping in   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One normally,
And it’s usually the same guy, one with a fetish about socks
Well you can't blame him... Those red socks are like phoaaaar "
Haha, many thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care
I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls
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Why is being a silver site supporter stupid? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One normally,
And it’s usually the same guy, one with a fetish about socks
Well you can't blame him... Those red socks are like phoaaaar "
They are sexy socks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im new and unverified but not many, maybe 2-4 new massages a day, if I'm lucky, some women like to send you two word responses every few days or so, the slowest process ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once created an account for my friend. Not on fab.. And the amount of messages I got in 4 hours was crazy. I was unindated. So not sure why men say they don't get any attention   "
We’re just coming to terms with being ugly is all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once created an account for my friend. Not on fab.. And the amount of messages I got in 4 hours was crazy. I was unindated. So not sure why men say they don't get any attention "
A lady will know exactly what another lady wants to hear, maybe you could write my profile for me and I'll pay you
for services rendered, who knows, you could start a business as a profile ghostwriter, ill be the first to recommend you  |
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But the guy needs to keep up the chat when you get to phone or meet eachother in person. Tbh I even found a wife for my socially inept male friend who been single for years. So yes I make a good wing man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care
I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls
Thanks for popping in "
Jessica if it wasn’t for you this site was a disaster |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care
I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls
Why is being a silver site supporter stupid?"
Because you pay for what exactly?
For the petrol of the car of the site administrator maybe ... |
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I carried out a social test, I randomly said "hi" to 10 men online on fab. 9 out of 10 replied back. But non i stayed in touch with.... So moral of the story.choose someone you are genuinely interested in and say more than "hi" as it usually results in being ignored or dead end conversation |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But the guy needs to keep up the chat when you get to phone or meet eachother in person. Tbh I even found a wife for my socially inept male friend who been single for years. So yes I make a good wing man. "
WW, Wing Woman. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care
I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls
Why is being a silver site supporter stupid?
Because you pay for what exactly?
For the petrol of the car of the site administrator maybe ..."
You pay for additional features. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get loads and loads from men I've never spoken to asking if I would do things to them or let them do things to me  from women I get the odd one unless I message them first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get about 2 messages a day.
95% are from guys seeking one on one fun which isn't what I'm looking for.
I use this site to look for threesomes or more and have met some really nice people who I would call friends.
I would rather not block other single guys so I just usually politely refuse their requests |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care
I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls
Thanks for popping in
Jessica if it wasn’t for you this site was a disaster "
I agree mate, its actually easier to pull in the real world than this merry-go-around site, and alot more fun too
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None but the odd interesting individual or couple do pop up every now & then, even if they clearly aren't what I'm looking for.
Fab never fails to surprise me!
Post lockdown, I'm looking forward to getting involved with a local club on a night that's actually busy or whenever it's safe out there rather than wishful thinking/hoping for the best.
P.s take care in the sun guys; suncream is your best friend remember! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel like some women are only here for an ego boost
Don’t trigger them mate!!!"
Just saying the women have to take some serious shit on here. They are bombarded with messages with most just asking to let guys fuck that pussy.
Chances are low on here due to the ratio so I'm not surprised they don't respond at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel like some women are only here for an ego boost
Don’t trigger them mate!!!
Just saying the women have to take some serious shit on here. They are bombarded with messages with most just asking to let guys fuck that pussy.
Chances are low on here due to the ratio so I'm not surprised they don't respond at times."
You should try havin a face like mine pal... my inbox is like Christmas at Harrods |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel like some women are only here for an ego boost
Don’t trigger them mate!!!
Just saying the women have to take some serious shit on here. They are bombarded with messages with most just asking to let guys fuck that pussy.
Chances are low on here due to the ratio so I'm not surprised they don't respond at times.
You should try havin a face like mine pal... my inbox is like Christmas at Harrods "
I'd say you're a good looking guy so I'd hope that is true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel like some women are only here for an ego boost
Don’t trigger them mate!!!
Just saying the women have to take some serious shit on here. They are bombarded with messages with most just asking to let guys fuck that pussy.
Chances are low on here due to the ratio so I'm not surprised they don't respond at times.
You should try havin a face like mine pal... my inbox is like Christmas at Harrods "
and then you woke up |
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
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Here's a strange one I had recently
Has anyone else had back and forth with someone until the messages die out, for whatever reason...
But then they keep winking you and fabbing your shit? Whilst leaving you on unread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's a strange one I had recently
Has anyone else had back and forth with someone until the messages die out, for whatever reason...
But then they keep winking you and fabbing your shit? Whilst leaving you on unread "
My mum does that on Facebook |
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"Here's a strange one I had recently
Has anyone else had back and forth with someone until the messages die out, for whatever reason...
But then they keep winking you and fabbing your shit? Whilst leaving you on unread
My mum does that on Facebook"
Mate don't, fucking embarrassing having her on social media!! Cock blocking me left right and centre |
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"Here's a strange one I had recently
Has anyone else had back and forth with someone until the messages die out, for whatever reason...
But then they keep winking you and fabbing your shit? Whilst leaving you on unread "
Of you ever saw just how full a womans inbox is and how it works youd realise they probably missed it in amongst the hundreds of others and when your inbox gets to 100 I think it is anyway they fall off the end of it so they can't find it hence it remains unread.
The only way it goes is if they bulk delete the whole inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was having this discussion before, i think its very much on guys to make the moves on here! Ive not had many first contacts from girls at all! Maybe im doing something wrong?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was having this discussion before, i think its very much on guys to make the moves on here! Ive not had many first contacts from girls at all! Maybe im doing something wrong??"
Try more on forums?
All my fwbs we have had first contact on forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was having this discussion before, i think its very much on guys to make the moves on here! Ive not had many first contacts from girls at all! Maybe im doing something wrong??
Try more on forums?
All my fwbs we have had first contact on forums "
I am trying that now |
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"Here's a strange one I had recently
Has anyone else had back and forth with someone until the messages die out, for whatever reason...
But then they keep winking you and fabbing your shit? Whilst leaving you on unread
Of you ever saw just how full a womans inbox is and how it works youd realise they probably missed it in amongst the hundreds of others and when your inbox gets to 100 I think it is anyway they fall off the end of it so they can't find it hence it remains unread.
The only way it goes is if they bulk delete the whole inbox."
I quickly scan my messages. If the profile pic, their message header, name and first line entices me. I will open. Otherwise mass delete as it is too time consuming  |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
Unsolicited non spammy messages from females? Probably about 5 in 2-3 years since joining as a single guy. Probably around a dozen messages from my club reviews of Rios and Eurekas, probably my biggest site contribution.
Even when I have struck up conversation/connection with someone, I always have to initiate the conversation when I am online. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"69? 3¼ 42?"
Several a week from guys that can't read. Rarely ever a reply to messages I send, and never from couples or ladies initiating contact.
I'm not counting banter/chats from people I've known for years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once created an account for my friend. Not on fab.. And the amount of messages I got in 4 hours was crazy. I was unindated. So not sure why men say they don't get any attention "
This "friend" profile was for a guy? Unless the bio said "straight man looking to suck any cock" I very much doubt that's a true story. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Less than 10. But the follow up question is how many do I send? Perhaps the same number give or take."
So 0 or 1 then like pretty much every other guy on here?
You must be mega fussy with all those messages if you've only managed one veri in over a year. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
Hopefully this thread will give comfort to most men on here! I would say though that my friend on Tinder managed to get a different date each week. He went on so many dates that once he went on a date and then back to her place and realised that he had been on a date with her flatmate previously. And no, it didn't turn into a threesome as far as I know. Maybe we are all better off on regular dating sites. But then he is a tall, muscular black guy so maybe that is a factor itself. Update... Still zero messages btw. |
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"I once created an account for my friend. Not on fab.. And the amount of messages I got in 4 hours was crazy. I was unindated. So not sure why men say they don't get any attention
This "friend" profile was for a guy? Unless the bio said "straight man looking to suck any cock" I very much doubt that's a true story. "
Nooo this is on a vanilla dating site. Why do I need to lie? I obviously had the charm to get the ladies as the photo I chosen was pretty average looking guy in my opinion. I wanted to prove a point to my friend its really easy to meet women online. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I once created an account for my friend. Not on fab.. And the amount of messages I got in 4 hours was crazy. I was unindated. So not sure why men say they don't get any attention
This "friend" profile was for a guy? Unless the bio said "straight man looking to suck any cock" I very much doubt that's a true story.
Nooo this is on a vanilla dating site. Why do I need to lie? I obviously had the charm to get the ladies as the photo I chosen was pretty average looking guy in my opinion. I wanted to prove a point to my friend its really easy to meet women online. "
Fab can't be compared to any other dating/sex/hook-up site in my experience. Much harder to get a response or a conversation instigated by a lady on here if you're a guy. Saying that, i think it's fair to say that guys who have certain physical characteristics *generally do better on here.
* I'm sure there are a few exceptions to the rule before someone points it out! |
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