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over a year ago
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One I have mused upon for many a year.
I had previously used self generated questions to discover some of the great mysteries of our time.
BUT I have yet to find a suitable answer to this one!
"Do I love to love because it's love or would I love anyway"?
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just love anyway.
I will explain:
I had just turned 16, and a punk walks into my parents pub. Immediately I felt a pull to him, love at first site, we flirted for 3 months, then eventually were together 8 years, married and had 2 children.
Now, at 16 I did not know what love was, so I did not love because I loved to love, I just loved.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just love anyway.
I will explain:
I had just turned 16, and a punk walks into my parents pub. Immediately I felt a pull to him, love at first site, we flirted for 3 months, then eventually were together 8 years, married and had 2 children.
Now, at 16 I did not know what love was, so I did not love because I loved to love, I just loved. "
I will muse on this.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just love anyway! Explain?
The best love is the one that make you a better person, without changing you into someone other than yourself!"
Some people hate themselves! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wanna know what love is ...
I want you to show me You talk love then show me your backside!?
That must be the B side  "
I cannot laugh until this serious project is over! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just love anyway! Explain?
The best love is the one that make you a better person, without changing you into someone other than yourself! Some people hate themselves!"
Self hate is the biggest issue in this world. We see others the way we see ourselves. So if you love yourself, you tend to love others. If you hate others, you tend to be judgmental, disliking others and carry around the baggage of all those negative energy around you! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just love anyway.
I will explain:
I had just turned 16, and a punk walks into my parents pub. Immediately I felt a pull to him, love at first site, we flirted for 3 months, then eventually were together 8 years, married and had 2 children.
Now, at 16 I did not know what love was, so I did not love because I loved to love, I just loved. I will muse on this. "
I have come to the conclusion that each individual's experience is different. Though your story is explainable to YOU using MY method because it is MY method YOU may have left things out. |
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over a year ago
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"Love anyway. You dont chose to love, it happens.
MsD Like random?
Like random. It finds you at the most oddest times!!"
Thanks for reply but why odd times and not normal?
Is Love odd? |
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over a year ago
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There are moments which mark your life. Moments when you realise nothing will ever be the same and time is divided into two parts. Before this and after this! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just love anyway! Explain?
The best love is the one that make you a better person, without changing you into someone other than yourself! Some people hate themselves!
Self hate is the biggest issue in this world. We see others the way we see ourselves. So if you love yourself, you tend to love others. If you hate others, you tend to be judgmental, disliking others and carry around the baggage of all those negative energy around you!"
So having a pet hate can be destructive? |
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"There are moments which mark your life. Moments when you realise nothing will ever be the same and time is divided into two parts. Before this and after this!"
Like before the big bang and after the big bang?
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over a year ago
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"Depends on the type of love your talking about. The love of a partner or the love of a child. They to me are completely different kinds of love.
Mr"
I prefer dogs to children so my radar has NEVER encountered such a conundrum! |
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For me there are different types of love...
The first is unconditional from birth, child to parents / grandparents and vice versa.
Friendship love, a closeness you have to friends that is earned over the years and they become like family.
Then (and to me the rarest) is to love a partner, doesn’t happen naturally, has to grow over time, you need to learn to trust, allow them into your life, your thoughts
Finally, self love. If you cant be comfortable with who you are, how can you expect someone else to love you for you
So it’s both you are born to love, but you have to learn to love in other aspects of your life |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I Can't Tell You Why ...
The Eagles no less
  The secretive lover?
Take it easy"
Take it easy? Is that ALL you have concerning such deep issues?
Your such an enigma! |
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You never love for the sake of it.
Love is about feelings, emotions, its sacred and without it lifes meaninless.
You know that instant it happens because no other feelings compare to it. It is better to have loved a little then never to have love at all xx |
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"I Can't Tell You Why ...
The Eagles no less
The secretive lover?
Take it easy
Take it easy? Is that ALL you have concerning such deep issues?
Your such an enigma!"
Just living ... life in the fast lane |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me there are different types of love...
The first is unconditional from birth, child to parents / grandparents and vice versa.
Friendship love, a closeness you have to friends that is earned over the years and they become like family.
Then (and to me the rarest) is to love a partner, doesn’t happen naturally, has to grow over time, you need to learn to trust, allow them into your life, your thoughts
Finally, self love. If you cant be comfortable with who you are, how can you expect someone else to love you for you
So it’s both you are born to love, but you have to learn to love in other aspects of your life "
I will let this go uncommented on as it sounds deep and good...but I personally don't think it needs to be that hard!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You never love for the sake of it.
Love is about feelings, emotions, its sacred and without it lifes meaninless.
You know that instant it happens because no other feelings compare to it. It is better to have loved a little then never to have love at all xx"
I will let this go by uncommented on as I like the poetry within it. |
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"Love anyway. You dont chose to love, it happens.
MsD Like random?
Like random. It finds you at the most oddest times!!
Thanks for reply but why odd times and not normal?
Is Love odd?"
Yes love can be odd. It pops along when you might not expect it. I wasnt and it happened. Wasnt looking for love at all. Thats why it still is a revelation to me as I wasnt looking for it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Love anyway. You dont chose to love, it happens.
MsD Like random?
Like random. It finds you at the most oddest times!!
Thanks for reply but why odd times and not normal?
Is Love odd?
Yes love can be odd. It pops along when you might not expect it. I wasnt and it happened. Wasnt looking for love at all. Thats why it still is a revelation to me as I wasnt looking for it. "
That sounds like an exciting experience...I will quote you in my dissertation! |
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"One I have mused upon for many a year.
I had previously used self generated questions to discover some of the great mysteries of our time.
BUT I have yet to find a suitable answer to this one!
"Do I love to love because it's love or would I love anyway"?
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There are different types of Love, 7 in fact. Love is a reaction of you psyche in relation to your body. Some would say love is a condition and yes heart break is an actual thing, people can really die from it. |
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Your answer lies in the art of loving book by Erich Fromm;
Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision.  |
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"One I have mused upon for many a year.
I had previously used self generated questions to discover some of the great mysteries of our time.
BUT I have yet to find a suitable answer to this one!
"Do I love to love because it's love or would I love anyway"?
There are different types of Love, 7 in fact. Love is a reaction of you psyche in relation to your body. Some would say love is a condition and yes heart break is an actual thing, people can really die from it. "
I feel like I've just had a triple bypass reading this! |
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