I’ve seen a lot of white women claiming the want Big Black Cock and on their pics I see them fucking ABC. So why don’t many of them just say they like black cock. Maybe you just prefer your entertainment with no commercial breaks or adverts!
Some even have the audacity to call themselves a Queen of Spades!!! and still get blacks fucking them!!
Have you no SHAME. She’s calling you a SPADE and you’re still giving her pleasure!!!
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Maybe because they want a big black cock instead of an average black cock many black men label themselves as bbc maybe they think it a usp and that many women prefer bbc as apposed to an average cock Personally I find fab full of silly labels some I haven’t a clue what they even are  |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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There's been loads of threads on this subject, we see it as a derogatory term suggesting a black man is nothing more than just a cock - others see it as a fetish.
Either way, whilst black men respond positively to the term, it will continue. K. |
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"Everyone has their preferences, some men like skinny, some curves, some blonde some brunette. Same with women, some want black, others white, some hung, others not.
Its choices!"
Did you read my post by any chance? |
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over a year ago
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The whole spade thing baffles me as well. I only recently learnt what it means, I’ve seen loads of women on fab with the queen of spades tattooed on them |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
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"Everyone has their preferences, some men like skinny, some curves, some blonde some brunette. Same with women, some want black, others white, some hung, others not.
Its choices!"
I see many couples where neither of them are black but they only want to meet a black guy. So this implies to me that black men are good enough to fuck but not to enter into a proper relationship with. That's how I see it in those cases. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's always someone complaining about this! You don't see the Asians whinging.
I know this isn't the truth of the matter but...in my mind
Black - Big
White - Average
Asian - small
Guess who I'm attracted to?
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Yeah
It’s some kind of post colonial / post slavery fetish it seems in some instances.
Not that mind being used for sex as it works both ways. But being disrespected is a totally different matter. I’m average / decent sized and wouldn’t class myself as big. Neither do I find the term BBC disrespectful.
I’m more confused as it doesn’t seem to mean VWE to some people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Certainly isn't the truth.
I know, I've been shown, alot!
But they really shouldn't say it's a BBC unless the first B really belongs there.
Which 'B' ??"
The first B |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's been loads of threads on this subject, we see it as a derogatory term suggesting a black man is nothing more than just a cock - others see it as a fetish.
Either way, whilst black men respond positively to the term, it will continue. K."
I think you're spot on there. I have a friend who absolutely hates the idea of being reduced to his cock, and I totally agree. If you focus on the "BBC" you miss the funny, hot man it's attached to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve seen a lot of white women claiming the want Big Black Cock and on their pics I see them fucking ABC. So why don’t many of them just say they like black cock. Maybe you just prefer your entertainment with no commercial breaks or adverts!
Some even have the audacity to call themselves a Queen of Spades!!! and still get blacks fucking them!!
Have you no SHAME. She’s calling you a SPADE and you’re still giving her pleasure!!!
Sorry I digress "
One woman's spade, is a mans mechanical digger, oops sounds a bit suspect! As a last resort hate fuck her! |
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over a year ago
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"I’ve seen a lot of white women claiming the want Big Black Cock and on their pics I see them fucking ABC. So why don’t many of them just say they like black cock. Maybe you just prefer your entertainment with no commercial breaks or adverts!
Some even have the audacity to call themselves a Queen of Spades!!! and still get blacks fucking them!!
Have you no SHAME. She’s calling you a SPADE and you’re still giving her pleasure!!!
Sorry I digress "
Digress this IS fun!
Hell of a Queen that allows foreigners to spunk in her face and mouth! Who knows what goes on in the corridors of power these days.
The foreigners don't mind, most of them are not too long arrived well after the spade slang thing.
For those who know, maybe they like hate fucking.
Or don't give a damn about fucking a two-bit delusional queen?
As for me I know TOO much and struggle with the idea of bowing to anyone, even HM Elizabeth, so that's me out.
By the way OP what's your racial background? Mine is African via the Caribbean. |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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"The whole spade thing baffles me as well. I only recently learnt what it means, I’ve seen loads of women on fab with the queen of spades tattooed on them"
Exactly this.
To fetishise people for an attribute I find weird (I've had it done to me, I don't like it)
But more so, that people who are objectified for something such as ethnicity accept it I find even more weird.
I should say I have no issue with attraction.
But to say I do or don't like an entire group of people I can't understand. |
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over a year ago
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"The whole spade thing baffles me as well. I only recently learnt what it means, I’ve seen loads of women on fab with the queen of spades tattooed on them
Exactly this.
To fetishise people for an attribute I find weird (I've had it done to me, I don't like it)
But more so, that people who are objectified for something such as ethnicity accept it I find even more weird.
I should say I have no issue with attraction.
But to say I do or don't like an entire group of people I can't understand."
A person that fetishises Snails for their taste in certain dishes are they wrong?
Have you heard how some chefs go on? Blah, blah, blah?
If you don't like the dish baby...don't eat it! |
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"The whole spade thing baffles me as well. I only recently learnt what it means, I’ve seen loads of women on fab with the queen of spades tattooed on them
Exactly this.
To fetishise people for an attribute I find weird (I've had it done to me, I don't like it)
But more so, that people who are objectified for something such as ethnicity accept it I find even more weird.
I should say I have no issue with attraction.
But to say I do or don't like an entire group of people I can't understand. A person that fetishises Snails for their taste in certain dishes are they wrong?
Have you heard how some chefs go on? Blah, blah, blah?
If you don't like the dish baby...don't eat it!"
Baby..not baby as in crybaby! |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
"The whole spade thing baffles me as well. I only recently learnt what it means, I’ve seen loads of women on fab with the queen of spades tattooed on them
Exactly this.
To fetishise people for an attribute I find weird (I've had it done to me, I don't like it)
But more so, that people who are objectified for something such as ethnicity accept it I find even more weird.
I should say I have no issue with attraction.
But to say I do or don't like an entire group of people I can't understand. A person that fetishises Snails for their taste in certain dishes are they wrong?
Have you heard how some chefs go on? Blah, blah, blah?
If you don't like the dish baby...don't eat it!"
So, let's get this straight.
I agree with you (I think)
But yet you have a dig at me and call me a child?
OK!
I think I'll step back at this point. |
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For hundreds of years, black men have been stereotypes as hypersexual. Their sexuality has been portrayed as “animalistic” and out of control, not least because it’s easier to oppress a group when you remove their humanity.
I remain shocked by the casual racism and racist stereotyping on the swinging scene. |
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over a year ago
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I like black guys but dont generally call any a BBC unless they want. Some of them even when average like to be called a BBC.
Most men regardless of race like to be told how big they are even if they are distinctly average at best.
I also will wear a Queen of Spades Temporary Tattoo if the guy I am going to meet wants me to. This has nothing to do with racism for me, my hubby or the guy we meet. Its about a very public display that I am in a bar sitting at the same table as my husband but showing clearly that I am going to be fucking someone else. |
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over a year ago
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"For hundreds of years, black men have been stereotypes as hypersexual. Their sexuality has been portrayed as “animalistic” and out of control, not least because it’s easier to oppress a group when you remove their humanity.
I remain shocked by the casual racism and racist stereotyping on the swinging scene. "
If you can run the hundred meters like Usain Bolt...you best not always fuck like a tortoise! |
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"For hundreds of years, black men have been stereotypes as hypersexual. Their sexuality has been portrayed as “animalistic” and out of control, not least because it’s easier to oppress a group when you remove their humanity.
I remain shocked by the casual racism and racist stereotyping on the swinging scene. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The whole spade thing baffles me as well. I only recently learnt what it means, I’ve seen loads of women on fab with the queen of spades tattooed on them
Exactly this.
To fetishise people for an attribute I find weird (I've had it done to me, I don't like it)
But more so, that people who are objectified for something such as ethnicity accept it I find even more weird.
I should say I have no issue with attraction.
But to say I do or don't like an entire group of people I can't understand."
1. How have people fetishized you?
2. If a race is admired by another
individual for their skin colour so what?
3. Within attraction many many things can attract.
4. Some people have no interest in certain types often it's called a healthy preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve seen a lot of white women claiming the want Big Black Cock and on their pics I see them fucking ABC. So why don’t many of them just say they like black cock. Maybe you just prefer your entertainment with no commercial breaks or adverts!
Some even have the audacity to call themselves a Queen of Spades!!! and still get blacks fucking them!!
Have you no SHAME. She’s calling you a SPADE and you’re still giving her pleasure!!!
Sorry I digress "
So IF I get you right your saying just because a white woman states she likes big black cock...well it's big to her.
She cannot then fuck other races she must be devoted to the one?
That she's having TOO much sex by digressing? |
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over a year ago
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"I’ve seen a lot of white women claiming the want Big Black Cock and on their pics I see them fucking ABC. So why don’t many of them just say they like black cock. Maybe you just prefer your entertainment with no commercial breaks or adverts!
Some even have the audacity to call themselves a Queen of Spades!!! and still get blacks fucking them!!
Have you no SHAME. She’s calling you a SPADE and you’re still giving her pleasure!!!
Sorry I digress So IF I get you right your saying just because a white woman states she likes big black cock...well it's big to her.
She cannot then fuck other races she must be devoted to the one?
That she's having TOO much sex by digressing?"
Reads like you want exclusivity on your own terms
BUT are pissed when someone displays a form of exclusivity that you don't like. This opinion is taking your whole initial post into account.
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over a year ago
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This topic is exhausted. People will fetishise, some will be offended, some won’t. It won’t stop, it’s one of the things that some find more difficult about fab and others don’t care about in the slightest.
But I hear your frustrations.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Na I prefer C4 myself
I like to peruse all channels
How else will you know whether or not you’re missing something good?!
Variety is the spice of life  "
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"This topic is exhausted. People will fetishise, some will be offended, some won’t. It won’t stop, it’s one of the things that some find more difficult about fab and others don’t care about in the slightest.
But I hear your frustrations. "
To each their own I say |
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"This topic is exhausted. People will fetishise, some will be offended, some won’t. It won’t stop, it’s one of the things that some find more difficult about fab and others don’t care about in the slightest.
But I hear your frustrations.
To each their own I say "
I’m really over this topic on fab. I’ve gone grey over it  |
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"Maybe because they want a big black cock instead of an average black cock many black men label themselves as bbc maybe they think it a usp and that many women prefer bbc as apposed to an average cock Personally I find fab full of silly labels some I haven’t a clue what they even are "
Very true, if im looking for a BBW, i want a proper one, not some size 16 wannabe. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm more into TVX
I'm a channel hopper 
Can I be your space hopper..? Boing Boing 
I do so love a good boing "
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"I’ve seen a lot of white women claiming the want Big Black Cock and on their pics I see them fucking ABC. So why don’t many of them just say they like black cock. Maybe you just prefer your entertainment with no commercial breaks or adverts!
Some even have the audacity to call themselves a Queen of Spades!!! and still get blacks fucking them!!
Have you no SHAME. She’s calling you a SPADE and you’re still giving her pleasure!!!
Sorry I digress Digress this IS fun!
Hell of a Queen that allows foreigners to spunk in her face and mouth! Who knows what goes on in the corridors of power these days.
The foreigners don't mind, most of them are not too long arrived well after the spade slang thing.
For those who know, maybe they like hate fucking.
Or don't give a damn about fucking a two-bit delusional queen?
As for me I know TOO much and struggle with the idea of bowing to anyone, even HM Elizabeth, so that's me out.
By the way OP what's your racial background? Mine is African via the Caribbean."
I’m the same African via Caribbean. Sorry I hardly hit the forums and only cane back thanks to your PM. |
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"I like black guys but dont generally call any a BBC unless they want. Some of them even when average like to be called a BBC.
Most men regardless of race like to be told how big they are even if they are distinctly average at best.
I also will wear a Queen of Spades Temporary Tattoo if the guy I am going to meet wants me to. This has nothing to do with racism for me, my hubby or the guy we meet. Its about a very public display that I am in a bar sitting at the same table as my husband but showing clearly that I am going to be fucking someone else."
So you’ve actually had a black guy ASK you to put a Queen of Spades tattoo on unprompted!!!?
Sounds very unlikely but of it’s true then so be it.
I would say most men are dogs anyway so the same way many would say anything to get some pussy, they are willing to see and / or hear anything for a little pussy treat. |
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As a black man to another black man.....
Just come here for the sex , 90 percent of the people you meet will be one off sexual experiences... The other 10 percent will become good friends.....
Don’t stress the small stuff and just focus on meeting compatible people to have great sex with...
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"There's always someone complaining about this! You don't see the Asians whinging.
I know this isn't the truth of the matter but...in my mind
Black - Big
White - Average
Asian - small
Guess who I'm attracted to?
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Who’s whinging?
I’m curious to what most people term as big. I prefer the ones who specify size such as 8”+ etc.
A cock isn’t big JUST because it’s black. The main reason I ask the question is because I don’t class myself as big. So I don’t approach those requesting BBC. But at a closer look they just want black cock (cue eye roll).
Size isn’t down to race and how many people living in a multicultural society and showering with many races at school and gym as an adult I know this to be true.
I can almost accept whinging about my Queen of Spades digression. But call a black person a Spade while you’re both queuing for a bus and see how quick social distancing is forgotten. |
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"I’ve seen a lot of white women claiming the want Big Black Cock and on their pics I see them fucking ABC. So why don’t many of them just say they like black cock. Maybe you just prefer your entertainment with no commercial breaks or adverts!
Some even have the audacity to call themselves a Queen of Spades!!! and still get blacks fucking them!!
Have you no SHAME. She’s calling you a SPADE and you’re still giving her pleasure!!!
Sorry I digress So IF I get you right your saying just because a white woman states she likes big black cock...well it's big to her.
She cannot then fuck other races she must be devoted to the one?
That she's having TOO much sex by digressing?"
Nah I’m just asking what “big” is as it seems some just want black cock. Which is fair enough. If they want VWE black men then BBC is also fair enough. I would just appreciate some clarification as I’m weird like that and don’t try to fight in the heavyweight ring as a medium weight. That’s all.
You can also call a spade a spade. But calling me a Spade is racist as far as I’m concerned.
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"As a black man to another black man.....
Just come here for the sex , 90 percent of the people you meet will be one off sexual experiences... The other 10 percent will become good friends.....
Don’t stress the small stuff and just focus on meeting compatible people to have great sex with...
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I hear ya. Not sweating just something that passed through my mind as I went on the forum.
But I do like intelligent debate. So I’m hooked for now. |
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"As a black man to another black man.....
Just come here for the sex , 90 percent of the people you meet will be one off sexual experiences... The other 10 percent will become good friends.....
Don’t stress the small stuff and just focus on meeting compatible people to have great sex with...
I hear ya. Not sweating just something that passed through my mind as I went on the forum.
But I do like intelligent debate. So I’m hooked for now. "
Well just a little heads up ....
Just because someone agrees with what you say in the forums... Doesn’t mean they will meet you.....
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"As a black man to another black man.....
Just come here for the sex , 90 percent of the people you meet will be one off sexual experiences... The other 10 percent will become good friends.....
Don’t stress the small stuff and just focus on meeting compatible people to have great sex with...
I hear ya. Not sweating just something that passed through my mind as I went on the forum.
But I do like intelligent debate. So I’m hooked for now.
Well just a little heads up ....
Just because someone agrees with what you say in the forums... Doesn’t mean they will meet you.....
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Lol
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