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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Out of curiosity I’m just looking for help, I’ve been with a few women older than me oldest being 38 and it’s been great, I love older women, but on this app I don’t have much luck. I know not everyone is going to find me attractive, I’m 25 and I’m thinking this app is out of my range as I’m either blocked by a lot of women or they have in their profile 29/30 plus only. Any tips or thoughts, I’m open minded |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do like men younger than me but not as young as you. I love tall men who make me laugh and have as much stanima as i have."
Yeah I’ve definitely noticed, older women love younger guys but just not as young as me, it’s tough |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A lot will like the idea that you like them for them and not their age OP  "
I’m not someone with a weird fantasy of older women. I just enjoy the maturity and comfort of being with someone older , could even be someone in their late 20’s |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the women in the age range you’re looking for that are open to or ‘into’ you get guys are out there. I mean lots of guys your age or younger have had meets with them on fab. It’s okay if people have filters because they’re not interested in younger men. It’s going to sound like absolute cheese, but I think it’s all in the personality and in how you treat people. When you’re looking, make sure you have the filter ‘I’m the age they’re looking for’ on and also just be patient. A good profile is bound to grab someone’s attention at some point!  |
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"Good sex that's all and so long as they are not full of themselves.xx  "
Also a great imagination I hate straight forward meat n two veg sex, I love it when guys are really filthy with me and think they are shocking me but never have been yet! But still hoping. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Those really thin bladder control pants that are advertised every time I'm eating!
You might get something similar one day you know."
100%! Already got a dripping tap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Those really thin bladder control pants that are advertised every time I'm eating!
Some of us look after our pelvic floor and do t need them !!!  "
Yes...I sanded and varnished mine last week..  |
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"Those really thin bladder control pants that are advertised every time I'm eating!
Some of us look after our pelvic floor and do t need them !!!
Yes...I sanded and varnished mine last week.. "
Treated for rot & worm? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do like men younger than me but not as young as you. I love tall men who make me laugh and have as much stanima as i have."
*checks Amazon for joke books* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good sex that's all and so long as they are not full of themselves.xx Also a great imagination I hate straight forward meat n two veg sex, I love it when guys are really filthy with me and think they are shocking me but never have been yet! But still hoping. xx"
Meat n two veg sex is the best term Ive heard for vanilla |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you look for couples at all? Suspect you would be quite popular as a third party for couples shenanigans.
Why do you think that?"
He seems pretty mature, confident in himself, able to have the conversations about fantasies. Views after reading just one forum post |
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This older woman who is by no means representative of all and probably double the age the op is thinking of, is looking for men with humour not based on tired cliché, respect and an understanding of sensual and erotic sex.
I'm not particularly keen on being stereotyped due to my age for *any*reason |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They look for men who want to meet them for them, and not because of the ‘I’m fucking an older woman!’ gimmick "
I appreciate all replies but please let’s not project here I previously stated that “ I’m not someone with a weird fantasy of older women. I just enjoy the maturity and comfort of being with someone older , could even be someone in their late 20’s“ I want to be with someone for who they are not age Lool |
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"Those really thin bladder control pants that are advertised every time I'm eating!
Some of us look after our pelvic floor and do t need them !!!
Yes...I sanded and varnished mine last week.. "
Mine needs very little work |
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Women are all different... we don't all suddenly want the same things just because we got older, it hard older than you.
There is no magic answer.
Forget thinking about a wonans age, if you fancy her and you meet her requirements, send an interesting message.
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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago
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When I turned 50 on fab I suddenly started receiving messages from young guys interested in me as they considered me an ‘older woman’. I don’t see myself as that and thought they had a fetish for granny sex - which is absolutely fine but not me!
On a serious note I would not make any moves on people probably under 35. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personality, experience, warmth, intelligence, sensuality and stamina, good conversation for starters.
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I like this answer, really appreciate it. Thank you |
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"I do like men younger than me but not as young as you. I love tall men who make me laugh and have as much stanima as i have."
having seen your profile and now red that I can’t help but think you are one hot fuck! |
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The problem you have, is that many women/couples on here now have children your age and don't meet with people in a similar age group.
If /when things get back to normal, try a club, people are less likely to write you off because age isn't something they ask about straight away or maybe at all and if you have made a good impression may forget the age thing as you tick all of their other boxes...
All the best. |
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