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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Following on from the what do women want thread.
I want to know what men really want? I refuse to believe its any less complex than the female wants. And if it is simpler, why is that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Following on from the what do women want thread.
I want to know what men really want? I refuse to believe its any less complex than the female wants. And if it is simpler, why is that? "
Personally...compliments and a genuine attraction for me goes a long way. Knowing your sexy and wanted is one of the biggest turn ons! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Following on from the what do women want thread.
I want to know what men really want? I refuse to believe its any less complex than the female wants. And if it is simpler, why is that?
Personally...compliments and a genuine attraction for me goes a long way. Knowing your sexy and wanted is one of the biggest turn ons! "
I absolutely agree and actually I reckon for some it's possibly more important than the sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To feel wanted and desired. I never read the women's thread, but I'd imagine it's similar. "
I think that's the crux of it but we dress it up within a list of other things! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To feel wanted and desired. I never read the women's thread, but I'd imagine it's similar. "
Ah this is good. I want and desire very hard when I get going.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Peace of mind and less stress  This woman of mine has saved me because she’s managed to achieve what nobody else did in all the years before I found her. She completes me, a soulmate; that’s what I wanted |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Decent conversation that flows. To feel sexy and wanted. Flirty banter and a sexy female to mutually enjoy each others bodies"
I think that's something we all want too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Following on from the what do women want thread.
I want to know what men really want? I refuse to believe its any less complex than the female wants. And if it is simpler, why is that?
Personally...compliments and a genuine attraction for me goes a long way. Knowing your sexy and wanted is one of the biggest turn ons!
I absolutely agree and actually I reckon for some it's possibly more important than the sex. "
It is for me x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Peace of mind and less stress This woman of mine has saved me because she’s managed to achieve what nobody else did in all the years before I found her. She completes me, a soulmate; that’s what I wanted "
Aww that's lovely.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Zig a zig ah.
It's that thing you can't quite describe but when you find it it's magic? "
Is that what it is? I just assumed they couldn't be bothered to finish the lyric. |
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"Following on from the what do women want thread.
I want to know what men really want? I refuse to believe its any less complex than the female wants. And if it is simpler, why is that? "
Someone with a pulse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Following on from the what do women want thread.
I want to know what men really want? I refuse to believe its any less complex than the female wants. And if it is simpler, why is that? "
i want a woman who has confidence, who is lovely, intelligent, great smile, likes to ride and who is wealthy and generous and adventurous    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great question OP 
I definitely desire that which tempts me to bring out my inner erotica. You can't beat that insatiable thirst to taste,touch,indulge,control with plenty of sensual passion.
Patience is a virtue which is lost in today's world of wanting today rather than tomorrow
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Generally, I just want a woman that cares about social issues, it’s well read, is self aware and is confident in herself sexually. Fortunately I found that in my partner. *awwww*
On fab I just want an intelligent lefty that likes face sitting and can ride cock.  |
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Someone to excite me with words.
Desire me in person
Cause me to have a spring in my step without even meeting them
And want and will to talk and not be worried about contacting first just do what feels natural.
Want me for me and not just the good stuff I show but willing to dig deeper and see the real me.
We all put on some form of a front to attract people. It's when you choose to drop that guard and let them see the other side of you and they stick around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attraction last longer when i'm attracted to the ladys personality, rather than looks. Energy, sense of humour and a smile. Although great boobs also helps (not necessarily big). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am lucky to have found my best friend someone i can talk to about anything and everything.
We are simple creatures really but do every now and again need more than food and sex believe it or not.
Finding a connection with someone is important even if it's just for one night of fun, being able to have a laugh a joke and talk is important as well ......... no matter what you might think of us we are a little deeper than you than that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A women who just genuinely wants to please you as they desire you, it's drives me sex crazy to want to return the favour then, meaning we both have an awesome time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it was Gerry Hall, when talking about what men want, who once said... Men want their mother in the kitchen and a slut in their bedroom... Very smart lady! |
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Right now, I want to feel attractive and have some good chat with woman with a sense of humor.
Perfect woman:
Fit in a sporty sense
Witty
Self confident
Intelligent
A healthy sex drive
Willing to have adventurous sex occasionally.
I'd take 4 out of the 6 to be honest. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Oh we’re simple.... Someone out of reach but eventually gives in. Red and Brunette alternate days, pale skin and asian, thin , but curvy, needy, but only when we’re lonely and need them, doesn't go salty if we forget to reply for a day or 2. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like a Spitfire, an Aston Martin, a yacht, a helicopter, a house with a balcony and a sea view, World Peace...
Yes I'd like a regular fwb who is just fun to be with, but let's not be unrealistic... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone who rocks their world. A friend lover another they trust with their secrets, and they protect her secrets.
That other who fits perfectly for them in every way, where each knows often without words just what that other needs, where passion isnt just about sex but about every part of living.
That one person that makes the world a lighter brighter more beautiful place where good days and bad days come and go yet still that bond is unbroken no matter what the world throws at each one of us.
That other who no matter where we are or what we may be doing always feels like home....
Maybe men or women we all sometimes want to just be the one....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone who rocks their world. A friend lover another they trust with their secrets, and they protect her secrets.
That other who fits perfectly for them in every way, where each knows often without words just what that other needs, where passion isnt just about sex but about every part of living.
That one person that makes the world a lighter brighter more beautiful place where good days and bad days come and go yet still that bond is unbroken no matter what the world throws at each one of us.
That other who no matter where we are or what we may be doing always feels like home....
Maybe men or women we all sometimes want to just be the one....
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Agreed x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mutually fulfilling and explorative sex with one lady for our own benefit and enjoyment but with no commitments part from a sexual one between the two of us. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Honestly? I look for someone who I am attracted to, have a connection and chemistry with, who's on my wavelength and I feel comfortable and relaxed with both in and out of the bedroom, who doesn't take things too seriously, doesn't get involved in dramas and who I can laugh and cry with - who's happy to go with the flow and see where it takes us - it really is that simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We want a woman that thinks and acts rationally. And understands that men sometimes genuinely thinks about nothing at all and that we need time on our own too and not for them to fill our time up with their ideas. Simple really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I really really want I'll tell you what I really really want I just want someone decent someone that isn't going to play games and someone who actually like what they see me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's complicated. The days of edible treats to keep men satisfied are long gone I reckon. (Food is still my kryptonite... )
Kinky Debauchery... not enough on it's own.
What do I want?
All or nothing. I have an image in my mind of a happy ending (not that kind of ending, well it's part of the package ) more like "happily ever after". Till that image becomes reality...
I want adventures, but lockdown so on hold.
Ps. I have many fantasies. Will share 2 for now... fuck under a waterfall and on a flowerbed.
Just thought I put that out there.
End of thoughts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's complicated. The days of edible treats to keep men satisfied are long gone I reckon. (Food is still my kryptonite... )
Kinky Debauchery... not enough on it's own.
What do I want?
All or nothing. I have an image in my mind of a happy ending (not that kind of ending, well it's part of the package ) more like "happily ever after". Till that image becomes reality...
I want adventures, but lockdown so on hold.
Ps. I have many fantasies. Will share 2 for now... fuck under a waterfall and on a flowerbed.
Just thought I put that out there.
End of thoughts."
You’re a darling! Would love to help you with some of those fantasies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So I would essentially like a friend who can hold a conversation, flirt like mad, shameless in many ways, knows we aren’t in a relationship but we are friends who can hang out without the sex, although the sex will also be awesome! Someone to socialise and fuck essentially! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I would essentially like a friend who can hold a conversation, flirt like mad, shameless in many ways, knows we aren’t in a relationship but we are friends who can hang out without the sex, although the sex will also be awesome! Someone to socialise and fuck essentially!"
And forgot, not all men are looking for women only, I am currently seeking a couple for a bi experience |
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By *asyukMan
over a year ago
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Attractive looks - why pretend otherwise?
The ability to have a conversation about both sexual desires and actual things in the world.
To be interested in you too.
To know that you are attracted to them. We like compliments too.
For you to tell is what really does turn you on so that we can try to indulge you.
Utterly filthy, debauched sexual acts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's complicated. The days of edible treats to keep men satisfied are long gone I reckon. (Food is still my kryptonite... )
Kinky Debauchery... not enough on it's own.
What do I want?
All or nothing. I have an image in my mind of a happy ending (not that kind of ending, well it's part of the package ) more like "happily ever after". Till that image becomes reality...
I want adventures, but lockdown so on hold.
Ps. I have many fantasies. Will share 2 for now... fuck under a waterfall and on a flowerbed.
Just thought I put that out there.
End of thoughts.
You’re a darling! Would love to help you with some of those fantasies "
You see...
Scotland has it all! Scottish Highlands... when you get thirsty you can bottle your own water
Thank you, made me smile. I have visited twice, that is where my waterfall fantasy began... always been in my mind to make it a reality.
Everyone deserves respect and happiness x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's complicated. The days of edible treats to keep men satisfied are long gone I reckon. (Food is still my kryptonite... )
Kinky Debauchery... not enough on it's own.
What do I want?
All or nothing. I have an image in my mind of a happy ending (not that kind of ending, well it's part of the package ) more like "happily ever after". Till that image becomes reality...
I want adventures, but lockdown so on hold.
Ps. I have many fantasies. Will share 2 for now... fuck under a waterfall and on a flowerbed.
Just thought I put that out there.
End of thoughts.
You’re a darling! Would love to help you with some of those fantasies
You see...
Scotland has it all! Scottish Highlands... when you get thirsty you can bottle your own water
Thank you, made me smile. I have visited twice, that is where my waterfall fantasy began... always been in my mind to make it a reality.
Everyone deserves respect and happiness x"
Well if you ever visit again handsome and need a tour guide (with a Scottish history degree ) drop me a line. I know a couple of beautiful waterfalls too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's complicated. The days of edible treats to keep men satisfied are long gone I reckon. (Food is still my kryptonite... )
Kinky Debauchery... not enough on it's own.
What do I want?
All or nothing. I have an image in my mind of a happy ending (not that kind of ending, well it's part of the package ) more like "happily ever after". Till that image becomes reality...
I want adventures, but lockdown so on hold.
Ps. I have many fantasies. Will share 2 for now... fuck under a waterfall and on a flowerbed.
Just thought I put that out there.
End of thoughts.
You’re a darling! Would love to help you with some of those fantasies
You see...
Scotland has it all! Scottish Highlands... when you get thirsty you can bottle your own water
Thank you, made me smile. I have visited twice, that is where my waterfall fantasy began... always been in my mind to make it a reality.
Everyone deserves respect and happiness x
Well if you ever visit again handsome and need a tour guide (with a Scottish history degree ) drop me a line. I know a couple of beautiful waterfalls too. "
ROOOOOAAAADDDDD TRIIIIIIIIIIIP!!!! |
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Probably easier to think of it in terms of what do people want, rather than making it about men and women. People are complex, contradictory creatures and we don't all want the same things based on our genitalia.
Personally, I want to feel desired and to desire (and there are many facets to someone's personality and appearance that make them desirable). I'm looking for someone who appreciates what I can offer them, be that emotionally or physically. I like to give, so I want someone who likes to receive but also reciprocate. Ideally I'd like to find someone I connect with on a deeper level for something exclusive, or possibly an open relationship with ground-rules (this would depend on our circumstances). I've come tantalisingly close to this, but alas I'm not the primary partner so the search continues...
Some people just want to fuck everything with a pulse. Nothing wrong with that, but you just have to find those looking for the same thing as you (not those who just tell you they are). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's complicated. The days of edible treats to keep men satisfied are long gone I reckon. (Food is still my kryptonite... )
Kinky Debauchery... not enough on it's own.
What do I want?
All or nothing. I have an image in my mind of a happy ending (not that kind of ending, well it's part of the package ) more like "happily ever after". Till that image becomes reality...
I want adventures, but lockdown so on hold.
Ps. I have many fantasies. Will share 2 for now... fuck under a waterfall and on a flowerbed.
Just thought I put that out there.
End of thoughts.
You’re a darling! Would love to help you with some of those fantasies
You see...
Scotland has it all! Scottish Highlands... when you get thirsty you can bottle your own water
Thank you, made me smile. I have visited twice, that is where my waterfall fantasy began... always been in my mind to make it a reality.
Everyone deserves respect and happiness x
Well if you ever visit again handsome and need a tour guide (with a Scottish history degree ) drop me a line. I know a couple of beautiful waterfalls too.
ROOOOOAAAADDDDD TRIIIIIIIIIIIP!!!! "
Curiouscats please excuse my new friend, well technically not yet because I am not in her friends list. She teased me with her edible fruit basket and then didn't message me for 2 weeks... I know, right! What are some people like eh! To make up for that lost time she has told me I can have a picnic surprise for my birthday in October.
I suppose I can pick her up on the way if you don't mind I will accept your kind offer because I am passionate about learning
Scottish Highlands... 3rd time lucky! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just depends if I find the right person it’s intermacy, if not I would ideally prefer casual sex where we actually get on outside of sex. But then again I’m okay with doing just sex and nothing else. Loool it’s all down to the person I meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from the what do women want thread.
I want to know what men really want? I refuse to believe its any less complex than the female wants. And if it is simpler, why is that?
Personally...compliments and a genuine attraction for me goes a long way. Knowing your sexy and wanted is one of the biggest turn ons! "
What this guy said  |
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Great company a great giggle laugh want to pleasure and be pleasures nice to have people who you bounce off and have magical times and can hook up with whenever..... temptation it all depends on the mood and company you are with |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Someone who rocks their world. A friend lover another they trust with their secrets, and they protect her secrets.
That other who fits perfectly for them in every way, where each knows often without words just what that other needs, where passion isnt just about sex but about every part of living.
That one person that makes the world a lighter brighter more beautiful place where good days and bad days come and go yet still that bond is unbroken no matter what the world throws at each one of us.
That other who no matter where we are or what we may be doing always feels like home....
Maybe men or women we all sometimes want to just be the one....
Agreed x "
perfect
I’d take just 60% of that even
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cuddles "
Good morning, Beautiful Busty Bedazzling Bubbles Belle. And no not a sugar rush. 5B is better than 5G just saying... haha
I was in here last night sharing my deepest thoughts and desires. Cuddles are lovely, it's the warmth that counts 
What do I want right now...
What do I really, really want...
Breakfast number 2.
Ps. I'm not greedy honest, just feeling peckish for something to nibble on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly? I look for someone who I am attracted to, have a connection and chemistry with, who's on my wavelength and I feel comfortable and relaxed with both in and out of the bedroom, who doesn't take things too seriously, doesn't get involved in dramas and who I can laugh and cry with - who's happy to go with the flow and see where it takes us - it really is that simple "
Spot on Gemini! |
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My female friends all tell me about how much it hurts when they realise that the person they thought was their friend is just interested in sex. About how tired they are of being treated like an object rather than a person. I understand. Being deluged in exactly what you *don't* want is terrible.
I understand this because I want the *opposite* of that.
I *want* to be used for sex.
I'm tired of being treated like a person, when I really want to be used like an object.
I'm always a touch disappointed when it turns out someone doesn't appreciate anything about me *except* my personality.
I'm always happy to be a friendly spare penis. A component in someone's fantasy. Meat and bone for their appetites of the flesh.
I realise I'm speaking entirely for myself, but right now I *want* to be objectified and lusted after and used for gratification.
I don't want it to matter whether I'm smart or funny or whatever. I want it to matter that I can *fuck*. |
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By *rOralMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
Pretty much a Matching likeminded to cope with me. Evrything else comes later with the level of naughtyness I seek, only if I happen to find proper person to get along with. Fuck her mind, fuck mine, then lets fuck the hell out of each other. |
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From a relationship, connections, fun, kissing, affection, security of feeling wanted and needed and all those things.
From a sexual point of view, if it was say a swinging meet.. a connection, lust, kissing, licking, sucking, fucking with a side (could be a large or small side ) of Kink |
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