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over a year ago
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I really cant stand short and pushy/demanding messages. Like asking for certain pictures and throwing a fit if they dont get them after one or 2 messages. Sometimes you just can tell it wont click between you. Messages off woman should have a bit of flirt both ways I believe. And its a great way to tell if the attraction is mutual. |
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We’re only looking for males to join us but what I hate (male half) when reading the message is the hey how are you?
I give them then benefit of the doubt and try to engage with them but the 2nd reply is still short and boring mostly just a one word or few word answer
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’re only looking for males to join us but what I hate (male half) when reading the message is the hey how are you?
I give them then benefit of the doubt and try to engage with them but the 2nd reply is still short and boring mostly just a one word or few word answer
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some guys just find it hard to engage in conversation until they know there is an attraction or connection of some sort |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel that those approach with a genuine interest is the best.
I have had really strange requests and bizarre messages that leave you wondering if it’s a picture collector or just a very rude couple.
Be yourself, show a genuine interest and express your feelings. You can’t go wrong with honesty  |
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Thank you for your kind answers. Unfortunately, I feel like forums portrait men that they would be interested with any sort of interaction as long as there is an interaction and women are the ones who actually demanding specific approach or the ones actually decides the final outcome which I don’t believe that’s always the case. Men can loose interest too during conversation. It’s just my humble thinking  |
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"Thank you for your kind answers. Unfortunately, I feel like forums portrait men that they would be interested with any sort of interaction as long as there is an interaction and women are the ones who actually demanding specific approach or the ones actually decides the final outcome which I don’t believe that’s always the case. Men can loose interest too during conversation. It’s just my humble thinking "
true. Connection and conversation needs to flow both ways. |
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"Thank you for your kind answers. Unfortunately, I feel like forums portrait men that they would be interested with any sort of interaction as long as there is an interaction and women are the ones who actually demanding specific approach or the ones actually decides the final outcome which I don’t believe that’s always the case. Men can loose interest too during conversation. It’s just my humble thinking "
not for us, we need a connection between all parties for there to be any meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I get a message I will always read the profile and politely reply back appropriately. What I cant deal with is very short replies as it gives nothing to bite onto for a chat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t get any messages and I don’t engage in any either, seems like to much hard work but enjoy the pictures and the chat in forums so I stick to that, I’m in my own drama free bubble  |
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"When the rules for contacting them are as complex as a space shuttle instruction manual. Pointless. I don’t exactly message anyone though generally."
Now an instruction manual for the space shuttle would surely only have one picture
Press to start as you really think an American can read  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When they beat around the bush. If you're interested in potentially meeting get to it! I don't need to hear about your favourite food and TV shows first! |
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Same things that put women off. We’re not too different as people.
A really short message and almost empty profile doesn’t give you much to chat about, unless it’s off the back of a specific forum thread.
Generally if the conversation feels like it’s hard work, it’s time to end it. No matter how nice the norks pictures |
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over a year ago
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It's rare I message anyone first (unless it's a forum thing). When I do I try to pay them a compliment and make the message relevant to their profile or their status.
Sometimes I even attach a face picture. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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For me, the make or break comes down to how *we* communicate whether that be with a woman, a couple, a man or a TV/TS - if the conversation flows naturally and engages me that's what counts - anything else is superfluous.
And that communication is a two way thing so if it doesn't work, it's as much down to me as it is the other person. |
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