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Do you really think society expects most women to be bi?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, but the question you should ask is are Bi women better play mates than straight?"
This is the type of question that leads to any kind of expectations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok do, you get alot of men assume you are bi, just because you are on here?
Society is not made up of some men on a swinging site.
Oh thanks for making that clear  "
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No I don’t think so in general society
As to your second question, I don’t think they do here either. Maybe people feel more comfortable asking the question here, not necessarily are you bi or fab straight, but ask whether you’ve ever thought about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok do, you get alot of men assume you are bi, just because you are on here?"
This has certainly been my experience.
Some do assume it, and when you make it clear you're not they think it is a green light to challenge it and turn you.
Or you get challenged "I know your profile says straight, but do you ever play bi"
It used to make me feel inadequate, but then I realised some guys are just dickheads as standard. |
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"Ok do, you get alot of men assume you are bi, just because you are on here?
This has certainly been my experience.
Some do assume it, and when you make it clear you're not they think it is a green light to challenge it and turn you.
Or you get challenged "I know your profile says straight, but do you ever play bi"
It used to make me feel inadequate, but then I realised some guys are just dickheads as standard."
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No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.
However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok do, you get alot of men assume you are bi, just because you are on here?"
Yes without fail few minutes into a conversation. Would you have a threesome? I've always wanted a threesome with two ladies, I have a friend what you think?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.
However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous."
Pretend to be bi? Is there such a thing or is it that they’re curious about being with another girl but not sure wether to go ahead and take the plunge? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.
However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous.
Pretend to be bi? Is there such a thing or is it that they’re curious about being with another girl but not sure wether to go ahead and take the plunge?"
I think there's a lot of pretence about it as a way of being seen to be more sexually adventurous |
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"No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.
However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous.
Pretend to be bi? Is there such a thing or is it that they’re curious about being with another girl but not sure wether to go ahead and take the plunge?"
There is such a thing, trust me, I have met a few (women who are part of a couple) They have admitted afterwards they only did it to fulfill their mans fantasy/their man wanted to see them with another woman. It's silly selfish behaviour and made me feel unwanted and used. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.
However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous.
Pretend to be bi? Is there such a thing or is it that they’re curious about being with another girl but not sure wether to go ahead and take the plunge?
There is such a thing, trust me, I have met a few (women who are part of a couple) They have admitted afterwards they only did it to fulfill their mans fantasy/their man wanted to see them with another woman. It's silly selfish behaviour and made me feel unwanted and used."
Oh gosh, I don’t get why they’d do something they don’t want to do, just to fulfil their partners wants, if it’s not something they genuinely want to do...It almost makes a mockery of that relationship tbh. |
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"No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.
However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous.
Pretend to be bi? Is there such a thing or is it that they’re curious about being with another girl but not sure wether to go ahead and take the plunge?
There is such a thing, trust me, I have met a few (women who are part of a couple) They have admitted afterwards they only did it to fulfill their mans fantasy/their man wanted to see them with another woman. It's silly selfish behaviour and made me feel unwanted and used.
Oh gosh, I don’t get why they’d do something they don’t want to do, just to fulfil their partners wants, if it’s not something they genuinely want to do...It almost makes a mockery of that relationship tbh. "
Exactly. I guess some women will fo anything to try and please their men. It's sad and a little worrying really. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Society at large? Definitely not.
On here, I'm not sure it actually is the case that it's "expected" at all, apart from by a small section of the Fab community, but they are mostly the ones that "expect" to get meets just for signing up.
I do however think in the swinging world there are some women who may feel pressured into it by others because they possibly have a mis-perception it is the done thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.
However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous.
Pretend to be bi? Is there such a thing or is it that they’re curious about being with another girl but not sure wether to go ahead and take the plunge?
There is such a thing, trust me, I have met a few (women who are part of a couple) They have admitted afterwards they only did it to fulfill their mans fantasy/their man wanted to see them with another woman. It's silly selfish behaviour and made me feel unwanted and used."
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