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How can I put this diplomatically as not to get a deluge of " how very dare you replies"...
Is it fare you say that you guys get equal as much satisfaction from a good old flirt and chat and being a fuss of from a guy and knowing you can with hold physicality. Than the obvious goal / agenda of sex that the guy is pursuing..?
Hope that makes sense...
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"How can I put this diplomatically as not to get a deluge of " how very dare you replies"...
Is it fare you say that you guys get equal as much satisfaction from a good old flirt and chat and being a fuss of from a guy and knowing you can with hold physicality. Than the obvious goal / agenda of sex that the guy is pursuing..?
Hope that makes sense...
Oh gawd !!! Finger hovering over send ...... ooooo shall I or shan't, I.... oooooopps .. "
Withhold physicality?
What does that mean? |
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"How can I put this diplomatically as not to get a deluge of " how very dare you replies"...
Is it fare you say that you guys get equal as much satisfaction from a good old flirt and chat and being a fuss of from a guy and knowing you can with hold physicality. Than the obvious goal / agenda of sex that the guy is pursuing..?
Hope that makes sense...
Oh gawd !!! Finger hovering over send ...... ooooo shall I or shan't, I.... oooooopps ..
Withhold physicality?
What does that mean?"
I think it’s romantically involved with ghosts  |
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"Do I like flirting with men and not fucking them if they do wanna fuck?"
No
I can’t seriously flirt with people I don’t find attractive and would want to sleep with. |
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This is the age old game of men wanting sex and women withholding it. It is a game and one I refuse to play. I'm not withholding sex if I'm friendly or flirty, it's my choice to have sex or not. If a guy is only being nice to me because he believes I will have sex with him he will quite often be sadly dissapointed. |
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"This is the age old game of men wanting sex and women withholding it. It is a game and one I refuse to play. I'm not withholding sex if I'm friendly or flirty, it's my choice to have sex or not. If a guy is only being nice to me because he believes I will have sex with him he will quite often be sadly dissapointed. "
You’re so wise
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"This is the age old game of men wanting sex and women withholding it. It is a game and one I refuse to play. I'm not withholding sex if I'm friendly or flirty, it's my choice to have sex or not. If a guy is only being nice to me because he believes I will have sex with him he will quite often be sadly dissapointed.
You’re so wise
This ^ "
That is because I'm old and have seen nearly all of it.  |
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"I really think it's time we moved away from the idea of sex being some precious commodity that women need to be cajoled and persuaded into giving up and men have to win with flattery and gifts. "
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"How can I put this diplomatically as not to get a deluge of " how very dare you replies"...
Is it fare you say that you guys get equal as much satisfaction from a good old flirt and chat and being a fuss of from a guy and knowing you can with hold physicality. Than the obvious goal / agenda of sex that the guy is pursuing..?
Hope that makes sense...
Oh gawd !!! Finger hovering over send ...... ooooo shall I or shan't, I.... oooooopps .. "
Yes. The flirting and chatting and him trying desperately to shag me is massively more fun than the eventual disappointment of sex. |
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No, I don't flirt with people and lead them on and then get off on withholding sex.
But with that said, I don't want to fuck everyone I flirt with, or maybe we've been flirting and then I change my mind about fucking for whatever reason. That's totally my right, as it would be if the other person decided they didn't want to do it anymore. That doesn't make anyone a tease, it's just a matter of consent. |
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"Can men not “withhold” physicality? Seriously? 
Wow. "
I have: one of my old house mate made a move one me(she was in my room). But I didn't allow it to happen. Well I asked her to please go and have a shower. Otherwise I can't do it with her. She wasn't the most hygienic person. She didn't like water. |
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"Can men not “withhold” physicality? Seriously?
Wow.
I have: one of my old house mate made a move one me(she was in my room). But I didn't allow it to happen. Well I asked her to please go and have a shower. Otherwise I can't do it with her. She wasn't the most hygienic person. She didn't like water."
criiiipes she sounds like a catch..
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"Can men not “withhold” physicality? Seriously?
Wow.
I have: one of my old house mate made a move one me(she was in my room). But I didn't allow it to happen. Well I asked her to please go and have a shower. Otherwise I can't do it with her. She wasn't the most hygienic person. She didn't like water."
criiiipes she sounds like a catch..
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"Can men not “withhold” physicality? Seriously?
Wow.
I have: one of my old house mate made a move one me(she was in my room). But I didn't allow it to happen. Well I asked her to please go and have a shower. Otherwise I can't do it with her. She wasn't the most hygienic person. She didn't like water."
criiiipes she sounds like a right catch..
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"How can I put this diplomatically as not to get a deluge of " how very dare you replies"...
Is it fare you say that you guys get equal as much satisfaction from a good old flirt and chat and being a fuss of from a guy and knowing you can with hold physicality. Than the obvious goal / agenda of sex that the guy is pursuing..?
Hope that makes sense...
Oh gawd !!! Finger hovering over send ...... ooooo shall I or shan't, I.... oooooopps ..
Yes. The flirting and chatting and him trying desperately to shag me is massively more fun than the eventual disappointment of sex. "
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"Ive read this 5 times and I still dont understand the question lol"
It's basically saying do women get a more of a kick out of chatting, flirting and being friendly with a man knowing that when it comes down to it they can deny the guy sex? That's how I read it anyway. |
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"I really think it's time we moved away from the idea of sex being some precious commodity that women need to be cajoled and persuaded into giving up and men have to win with flattery and gifts. "
This....totally agree....its 2020!!! |
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