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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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.. you like to hear from others?
The word (or words) which make your eyelashes go in overdrive... consciously (!) sweep your hair in a flirtatious gesture.. prop your tits up and bite your lip or make your chest widen magically like a peacock showing off his glorious feathers! 
In other words favourite compliments? 
I do like "witty". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not great with compliments, that those that have met me know, I bat them away change the subject and damn if someone tries to say something nice you better be ready for tears  "
Simply delightful |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m not great with compliments, that those that have met me know, I bat them away change the subject and damn if someone tries to say something nice you better be ready for tears "
I'm neither. I'm ok in writing, like in here.. But in real life I would do the same. Witty is the one I can take without an issue and overthinking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Unfortunately I often don't notice compliments and if I do I wonder why they are really saying those things. "
As in assuming they are doing it because they have some interest in it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You'll do
I got someone a card with a little heart pin saying: You'll do
Loved the reaction "
Awww. Thats rather lovely.
Last card I received said....
We came to read the gas meter.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You'll do
I got someone a card with a little heart pin saying: You'll do
Loved the reaction
Awww. Thats rather lovely.
Last card I received said....
We came to read the gas meter.
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Are you going to write back?
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"I’m not great with compliments, that those that have met me know, I bat them away change the subject and damn if someone tries to say something nice you better be ready for tears
I'm neither. I'm ok in writing, like in here.. But in real life I would do the same. Witty is the one I can take without an issue and overthinking. "
Same, write it in a message it’s fine. In person make a joke of it and I’ll be fine, easier not to do it to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You'll do
I got someone a card with a little heart pin saying: You'll do
Loved the reaction
Awww. Thats rather lovely.
Last card I received said....
We came to read the gas meter.
Are you going to write back?
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Not a chance. They might want me to pay the bill |
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"You'll do
I got someone a card with a little heart pin saying: You'll do
Loved the reaction
Awww. Thats rather lovely.
Last card I received said....
We came to read the gas meter.
Are you going to write back?
Not a chance. They might want me to pay the bill "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dated a bit of a writer. He would write stories about me and the way he would describe me was incredible. Although I didn't belive a word of it. He seemed to and it made me melt.
He would describe me as his 'magnificent goddess of sexual joy, with bomb like breasts and eyes as blue as the sea.'
He wrote the most beautiful things about us. One of which I have kept.
'Our chemistry was combustive! She was my oxygen, heat and fuel!!
It only took a look but like a spark which would start a wide huge red fire I couldn't stop looking, staring, fixating my eyes upon her now. She was a goddess of joy, sexual excitement and lust. I was addicted she was my cocaine, my heroin, my ecstasy.'
Sadly was a very broken man deep down and it wasn't to be.
However the fact he felt that way at all still makes my heart skip many beats at the mention of his name. |
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"I dated a bit of a writer. He would write stories about me and the way he would describe me was incredible. Although I didn't belive a word of it. He seemed to and it made me melt.
He would describe me as his 'magnificent goddess of sexual joy, with bomb like breasts and eyes as blue as the sea.'
He wrote the most beautiful things about us. One of which I have kept.
'Our chemistry was combustive! She was my oxygen, heat and fuel!!
It only took a look but like a spark which would start a wide huge red fire I couldn't stop looking, staring, fixating my eyes upon her now. She was a goddess of joy, sexual excitement and lust. I was addicted she was my cocaine, my heroin, my ecstasy.'
Sadly was a very broken man deep down and it wasn't to be.
However the fact he felt that way at all still makes my heart skip many beats at the mention of his name. "
That is beautiful and I can see why you kept it |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"Unfortunately I often don't notice compliments and if I do I wonder why they are really saying those things.
As in assuming they are doing it because they have some interest in it? "
Yes, want something and feel they wouldn't get it without the compliment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dated a bit of a writer. He would write stories about me and the way he would describe me was incredible. Although I didn't belive a word of it. He seemed to and it made me melt.
He would describe me as his 'magnificent goddess of sexual joy, with bomb like breasts and eyes as blue as the sea.'
He wrote the most beautiful things about us. One of which I have kept.
'Our chemistry was combustive! She was my oxygen, heat and fuel!!
It only took a look but like a spark which would start a wide huge red fire I couldn't stop looking, staring, fixating my eyes upon her now. She was a goddess of joy, sexual excitement and lust. I was addicted she was my cocaine, my heroin, my ecstasy.'
Sadly was a very broken man deep down and it wasn't to be.
However the fact he felt that way at all still makes my heart skip many beats at the mention of his name. "
Words are very powerful and dangerous thing sometimes. Remember it for the good it was though. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dated a bit of a writer. He would write stories about me and the way he would describe me was incredible. Although I didn't belive a word of it. He seemed to and it made me melt.
He would describe me as his 'magnificent goddess of sexual joy, with bomb like breasts and eyes as blue as the sea.'
He wrote the most beautiful things about us. One of which I have kept.
'Our chemistry was combustive! She was my oxygen, heat and fuel!!
It only took a look but like a spark which would start a wide huge red fire I couldn't stop looking, staring, fixating my eyes upon her now. She was a goddess of joy, sexual excitement and lust. I was addicted she was my cocaine, my heroin, my ecstasy.'
Sadly was a very broken man deep down and it wasn't to be.
However the fact he felt that way at all still makes my heart skip many beats at the mention of his name. "
Just WOW  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone told me a long time ago that I was the only reason they came to visit.
( The beach I was on at the time )
They said they had been having a crap time before they met me 
I was so flattered!
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By (user no longer on site)
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The best compliment I ever got that felt the most genuine came from a lad below me at school, he ran past me and said I had a lovely bum. He then avoided me pretty much forever but it made my year! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dated a bit of a writer. He would write stories about me and the way he would describe me was incredible. Although I didn't belive a word of it. He seemed to and it made me melt.
He would describe me as his 'magnificent goddess of sexual joy, with bomb like breasts and eyes as blue as the sea.'
He wrote the most beautiful things about us. One of which I have kept.
'Our chemistry was combustive! She was my oxygen, heat and fuel!!
It only took a look but like a spark which would start a wide huge red fire I couldn't stop looking, staring, fixating my eyes upon her now. She was a goddess of joy, sexual excitement and lust. I was addicted she was my cocaine, my heroin, my ecstasy.'
Sadly was a very broken man deep down and it wasn't to be.
However the fact he felt that way at all still makes my heart skip many beats at the mention of his name. "
Words can sometimes make the soul sing. Even when the words are forgotten people remember how the words made them feel.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m really rubbish at accepting compliments, of somebody tells me I look nice I get all awkward and will probably respond with “yes, the weathers terrible”
L x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dated a bit of a writer. He would write stories about me and the way he would describe me was incredible. Although I didn't belive a word of it. He seemed to and it made me melt.
He would describe me as his 'magnificent goddess of sexual joy, with bomb like breasts and eyes as blue as the sea.'
He wrote the most beautiful things about us. One of which I have kept.
'Our chemistry was combustive! She was my oxygen, heat and fuel!!
It only took a look but like a spark which would start a wide huge red fire I couldn't stop looking, staring, fixating my eyes upon her now. She was a goddess of joy, sexual excitement and lust. I was addicted she was my cocaine, my heroin, my ecstasy.'
Sadly was a very broken man deep down and it wasn't to be.
However the fact he felt that way at all still makes my heart skip many beats at the mention of his name. "
I am sentimental too. And when someone writes a story for you.. oh that is just the best gift.. x
Those are beautiful words to keep and go back to !  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Unfortunately I often don't notice compliments and if I do I wonder why they are really saying those things.
As in assuming they are doing it because they have some interest in it?
Yes, want something and feel they wouldn't get it without the compliment. "
It's very self protective but also stops you from taking a leap.of faith.. which prevents you from taking in good things..no? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I don't take compliments well and tend to laugh them off or make a self-deprecating joke out of them most of the time, which can sometimes appear like I don't take them seriously or treating them with disrespect, which is quite the opposite of my intent - I just find them awkward to deal with especially when they're up front and blatant ones.
The compliments I like the best are the ones that are almost subtle or unspoken - it might be a gesture or a way someone looks at me, just a sub-conscious touch can say so much more than someone telling me something to my face, or something they do for you because they want to not because you asked them - it's things like that that tend to stick in my mind more |
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".. you like to hear from others?
The word (or words) which make your eyelashes go in overdrive... consciously (!) sweep your hair in a flirtatious gesture.. prop your tits up and bite your lip or make your chest widen magically like a peacock showing off his glorious feathers!
In other words favourite compliments?
I do like "witty". "
Well I have to laugh when a woman tells me I'm handsome yeah that will be the day that I am |
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".. you like to hear from others?
The word (or words) which make your eyelashes go in overdrive... consciously (!) sweep your hair in a flirtatious gesture.. prop your tits up and bite your lip or make your chest widen magically like a peacock showing off his glorious feathers!
In other words favourite compliments?
I do like "witty". "
Mine is
“ it’s ok I nearly cum” when I hear those words spoken by a women, fills me with pride and brings a tear to my eye |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The best compliment I ever got that felt the most genuine came from a lad below me at school, he ran past me and said I had a lovely bum. He then avoided me pretty much forever but it made my year! "
He must have been gearing up for this for ages.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Emoji's... do your thing:
Pow wow
Woohoo
Now i've totally forgotten what the question was! Damn it... #EmojiPower
A smile is enough "
You better translate those to me
I totally lost you after two emojis |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If someone pays me a, compliment, even MrsMcD, I tend to turn it into a joke, and often reply at some point with "what you after" "
Ha. What if they say:
I am after you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Emoji's... do your thing:
Pow wow
Woohoo
Now i've totally forgotten what the question was! Damn it... #EmojiPower
A smile is enough
You better translate those to me
I totally lost you after two emojis"
      
How do you like them Emoji's?
No translator can crack those bad boys and girls so you just have to accept them as virtual gifts. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Emoji's... do your thing:
Pow wow
Woohoo
Now i've totally forgotten what the question was! Damn it... #EmojiPower
A smile is enough
You better translate those to me
I totally lost you after two emojis
How do you like them Emoji's?
No translator can crack those bad boys and girls so you just have to accept them as virtual gifts."
I will assume they are all compliments for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone pays me a, compliment, even MrsMcD, I tend to turn it into a joke, and often reply at some point with "what you after"
Ha. What if they say:
I am after you! "
I'd go a few shades redder then do this and pretend I'm all coy |
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"I’m not great with compliments, that those that have met me know, I bat them away change the subject and damn if someone tries to say something nice you better be ready for tears "
Exactly this
My non-existent self esteem and extremely negative self image mean that if anyone does ever compliment me I ignore it but insults cut right to the bone. And stay lodged iny mind |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m not great with compliments, that those that have met me know, I bat them away change the subject and damn if someone tries to say something nice you better be ready for tears
Exactly this
My non-existent self esteem and extremely negative self image mean that if anyone does ever compliment me I ignore it but insults cut right to the bone. And stay lodged iny mind"
Is it time to change your inner filters ? And make things more balanced ? It must be hard if it's been imprinted for so long.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When people think I’m funny
When they compliment my hair or eyebrows (usually this means 10x more when it’s coming from a woman)
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I made a boo boo three or 4 days ago and didn't notice partner had tinted/dyed her own eyebrows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That either I or something I’ve done is appreciated; that I’m enough as I am, because when you’re your own harshest critic that thought/feeling doesn’t come about very often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Emoji's... do your thing:
Pow wow
Woohoo
Now i've totally forgotten what the question was! Damn it... #EmojiPower
A smile is enough
You better translate those to me
I totally lost you after two emojis
How do you like them Emoji's?
No translator can crack those bad boys and girls so you just have to accept them as virtual gifts.
I will assume they are all compliments for me "
Flippin heck, that one always gets away...
Little p Big p
Makes a difference!
I'm going to check some tunes later  always in stealth mode  we need more emoji's 
Grrr-ing
Might see some over the weekend in some parts of UK. Lucky for some! This thread is getting a big complimentary 
Haha pack it in emoji's. Over and out...
well till later |
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