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By *rsPricklePants OP Woman
over a year ago
Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk |
I know not everyone uses or takes notice of the wink function on here but has anyone winked someone then regretted it because the person has not been like you expected?
I had a recent regretted wink, I winked a guy but he seems incapable of having a conversation as doesn't reply with more than 3 words although he messaged me, I know that not everyone likes to chat just curious to know if anyone else has a wink they regret, not including the winks with no response as think many people have experienced that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know not everyone uses or takes notice of the wink function on here but has anyone winked someone then regretted it because the person has not been like you expected?
I had a recent regretted wink, I winked a guy but he seems incapable of having a conversation as doesn't reply with more than 3 words although he messaged me, I know that not everyone likes to chat just curious to know if anyone else has a wink they regret, not including the winks with no response as think many people have experienced that"
Move on, some people seem bereft of being able to chat in a sensible way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Move on, some people seem bereft of being able to chat in a sensible way
I have it just made me wonder about other people's experiences"
I’ve not really had any bad experiences from winks I think they largely get ignored but it can be a way of knowing someone likes your profile |
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By *rsPricklePants OP Woman
over a year ago
Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk |
"I read the title and thought you meant like a missed wink from an absolute stunner..... 
I have neither problem  "
I always check out the profiles that wink me not that I get many of interest |
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By *rsPricklePants OP Woman
over a year ago
Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk |
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Move on, some people seem bereft of being able to chat in a sensible way
I have it just made me wonder about other people's experiences
I’ve not really had any bad experiences from winks I think they largely get ignored but it can be a way of knowing someone likes your profile "
I don't often wink people but have had some great fun that's started with just a wink in either direction, I do take winks as being a compliment and a way to just test the water so to speak |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read the title and thought you meant like a missed wink from an absolute stunner.....
I have neither problem
I always check out the profiles that wink me not that I get many of interest"
I've just given you something to check out lol  |
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By *rsPricklePants OP Woman
over a year ago
Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk |
"I read the title and thought you meant like a missed wink from an absolute stunner.....
I have neither problem
I always check out the profiles that wink me not that I get many of interest I've just given you something to check out lol "
Haha I was already having a peek after your earlier comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read the title and thought you meant like a missed wink from an absolute stunner.....
I have neither problem
I always check out the profiles that wink me not that I get many of interest I've just given you something to check out lol
Haha I was already having a peek after your earlier comment"
that stealth mode again lol  |
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By *rsPricklePants OP Woman
over a year ago
Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk |
"I read the title and thought you meant like a missed wink from an absolute stunner.....
I have neither problem
I always check out the profiles that wink me not that I get many of interest I've just given you something to check out lol
Haha I was already having a peek after your earlier comment that stealth mode again lol "
Yeah had too many incidents of accidentally clicking on a profile when scrolling past on my phone and getting messages about looking at their profile so went stealth did fab a pic of yours though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read the title and thought you meant like a missed wink from an absolute stunner.....
I have neither problem
I always check out the profiles that wink me not that I get many of interest I've just given you something to check out lol
Haha I was already having a peek after your earlier comment that stealth mode again lol
Yeah had too many incidents of accidentally clicking on a profile when scrolling past on my phone and getting messages about looking at their profile so went stealth did fab a pic of yours though "
thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I've received a wink and responded, only to find a flowing conversation was really difficult.
If I'm going to make contact which is rare these days, I try to focus on that person and not keep several disjointed conversations going. Why contact someone if you cant really be bothered? |
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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago
London St Helier Trier |
I always check who winks at me.
Had some lovely Socials come about from a wink from a Lady.
I ignore the ones from those I do not seek. How they are received is dependent on the mood and preferences of the other person.
It is nice to be complimented I find. |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
My only regret with winks is that people can send them. I never wink back or delete so they can't wink again for a while. But then I'm all for if you have something to say then do so, don't attempt attention with a stupid wink. |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish) |
"I know not everyone uses or takes notice of the wink function on here but has anyone winked someone then regretted it because the person has not been like you expected?
I had a recent regretted wink, I winked a guy but he seems incapable of having a conversation as doesn't reply with more than 3 words although he messaged me, I know that not everyone likes to chat just curious to know if anyone else has a wink they regret, not including the winks with no response as think many people have experienced that"
I kind of had that in reverse.
A woman winked me and we ended up meeting at hers about a week later. Had been blocked by the time I'd got home??  |
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By *rsPricklePants OP Woman
over a year ago
Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk |
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I kind of had that in reverse.
A woman winked me and we ended up meeting at hers about a week later. Had been blocked by the time I'd got home?? "
That seems a little rude did they not give you an idea that they didn't want to stay in contact before you left? |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish) |
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I kind of had that in reverse.
A woman winked me and we ended up meeting at hers about a week later. Had been blocked by the time I'd got home??
That seems a little rude did they not give you an idea that they didn't want to stay in contact before you left?"
Yes very rude...not quite sure what it was all about. She was having a day off work for some plumbing work and think she wanted to make the most of her day while her kids were still at school. Think I was her first meet and she left the site fairly soon afterwards so I'm kinda guessing that it was some kind of fantasy that she then immediately regretted or I had bad breath and she thought I was a crap shag |
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By *rsPricklePants OP Woman
over a year ago
Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk |
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I kind of had that in reverse.
A woman winked me and we ended up meeting at hers about a week later. Had been blocked by the time I'd got home??
That seems a little rude did they not give you an idea that they didn't want to stay in contact before you left?
Yes very rude...not quite sure what it was all about. She was having a day off work for some plumbing work and think she wanted to make the most of her day while her kids were still at school. Think I was her first meet and she left the site fairly soon afterwards so I'm kinda guessing that it was some kind of fantasy that she then immediately regretted or I had bad breath and she thought I was a crap shag "
Maybe it was just a fantasy then or decided it just wasn't what she really wanted to do or wasn't single and felt guilty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know not everyone uses or takes notice of the wink function on here but has anyone winked someone then regretted it because the person has not been like you expected?
I had a recent regretted wink, I winked a guy but he seems incapable of having a conversation as doesn't reply with more than 3 words although he messaged me, I know that not everyone likes to chat just curious to know if anyone else has a wink they regret, not including the winks with no response as think many people have experienced that"
I absolutely hate the no more than three word answers, and even worse, the not being able to string more than two sentences together... |
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We love the wink button, as with most things fab, some have been disappointing but others have led to great meets. We have kept a few winks we have received recently as a way to remember that we want to make contact after lockdown/social distancing. We mainly received winks but if a sexy male catches my eye I send a cheeky wink.
Lily |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish) |
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I kind of had that in reverse.
A woman winked me and we ended up meeting at hers about a week later. Had been blocked by the time I'd got home??
That seems a little rude did they not give you an idea that they didn't want to stay in contact before you left?
Yes very rude...not quite sure what it was all about. She was having a day off work for some plumbing work and think she wanted to make the most of her day while her kids were still at school. Think I was her first meet and she left the site fairly soon afterwards so I'm kinda guessing that it was some kind of fantasy that she then immediately regretted or I had bad breath and she thought I was a crap shag
Maybe it was just a fantasy then or decided it just wasn't what she really wanted to do or wasn't single and felt guilty"
Yeah that's what I think...don't think she had a partner though..but I may be wrong on that..but she left her front door open and was waiting blindfolded on the bed...so the fantasy thing kinda fits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always check my winks. It gives me the opportunity to check the profile and see if I'm interested.
I've used winks before also.
Some have been good, some not so. I wouldn't blame the wink system though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know not everyone uses or takes notice of the wink function on here but has anyone winked someone then regretted it because the person has not been like you expected?
I had a recent regretted wink, I winked a guy but he seems incapable of having a conversation as doesn't reply with more than 3 words although he messaged me, I know that not everyone likes to chat just curious to know if anyone else has a wink they regret, not including the winks with no response as think many people have experienced that"
I regretted winking recently as when I logged back in I had numerous messages from the same guy going 0-100 because I hadn't replied, Apparently I led him on by winking.
Won't stop me winking though  |
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he basically called me a silly little girl 
