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How easy is it for you to find local fwbs?
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over a year ago
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Getting back on topic, I'd love to find a local person. I ALWAYS end up with ppl ages away who want to love me and it's just not the convenience it's supposed to be....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Getting back on topic, I'd love to find a local person. I ALWAYS end up with ppl ages away who want to love me and it's just not the convenience it's supposed to be.... "
At least you are loved  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"impossible in kent
Depends what you’re looking for, we’ve met lots of hot people locally "
Depends what you are looking for indeed. Judging from the winks and messages which I have recieved from men, I imagine it is much easer if you are bi. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home?
Not easy as The years tick by, hitting 50 is a killer  "
It's no better hitting 40 mate |
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Been my mission ever since i signed up. Still no joy. Doesn't help living out in the sticks.
Having plenty fun during my search though. And made some (non sex related) friends, so all is good in pringles land |
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"Been my mission ever since i signed up. Still no joy. Doesn't help living out in the sticks.
Having plenty fun during my search though. And made some (non sex related) friends, so all is good in pringles land "
Well sorry to say distance wise is do-able however but I’m not going to grow 2 inches, height wise lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty much impossible find someone we click with that's close enough.. Mainly we get straight guys messaging us saying " oh I am bi but" insert excuse of choice here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty much impossible find someone we click with that's close enough.. Mainly we get straight guys messaging us saying " oh I am bi but" insert excuse of choice here "
Oh damn, I bet that's a regular thing aswell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am sure there are people in the Wilted Shire willing to meet but I am still working on my strut  by the time lockdown is over,you should have it down to perfection "
Haha very true. I might start giving lessons after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a couple of good ones and the odd fb too.
I guess they turn up when you least expect them.
You've also got to kiss alot of frogs before you find your prince  |
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"Move to where they are 
What ! Move house for a fwb , noooooo lol
Turn up right next door. Ooh Hellooo
Or Just move to where more people are  "
You’re spot on, I’m moving to Wye, what’s your address |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home? "
Not a problem, found the fab of my life and she is next door to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home?
Not a problem, found the fab of my life and she is next door to me "
Awww bonus points for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home?
Not a problem, found the fab of my life and she is next door to me
Awww bonus points for you "
Would you let me do it up the bum next then tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's getting harder.
Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple
Of mins
What will be gone?"
the walnut whips.......... soon as you open box...... woooosh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's getting harder.
Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple
Of mins
What will be gone?
The moment it seems  lol"
Is it gone now? Lol |
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"It's getting harder.
Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple
Of mins
What will be gone?
The moment it seems lol
Is it gone now? Lol"
It keeps coming back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's getting harder.
Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple
Of mins
What will be gone?
The moment it seems lol
Is it gone now? Lol
It keeps coming back "
Well I'll be gone soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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finding a meet in a city may be easy enough but for that person to become a FB there needs to be some element of attraction, be good company to be with, good sex & within 30 minutes away should you be in need of a quick shag.. most importantly there should be no emotional attachment...you FB is a sexual relationship, that 1 800 number you can call when you need more than your vibrator |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the walnut whips....... yes
You're quick really..... is that a good thing
Not always  you were really slow to say that
I went shopping, just got back "
ooooooo what did you buy you could throw me something from 3 m |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the walnut whips....... yes
You're quick really..... is that a good thing
Not always you were really slow to say that
I went shopping, just got back ooooooo what did you buy you could throw me something from 3 m "
Fruit and gin with tonic and some wipes |
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On here it's not easy. Thankfully this is not my only source of a good time. In the past I have joined a site and found someone I really liked who lived in walking distance within the first month, met him at least once a week for a few years and we're still in touch (though purely platonic friends these days).
It helps to live in a heavily populated area! |
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"It's getting harder.
Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple
Of mins
What will be gone?
The moment it seems lol
Is it gone now? Lol
It keeps coming back
Well I'll be gone soon "
Not this time think it’s hanging around for a while |
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Back where I used to live - Milton Keynes, hence the 'MK' part of my username - I had a few over the years...
....one I saw on-and-off for three years, who was only a five-minute drive from me; and one I saw for a few months who was only a two-minute walk away in a parallel road, almost within sight of my house...
....but down here in Cornwall, after over two-and-a-half years of trying, I haven't found a single playmate - and the way things are going, maybe never will... |
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"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home? "
I find it difficult but that’s because I’m looking for far more than good looks in an Fwb. There are loads of good looking chaps locally who’d be great for a one-off - or even a semi regular shag.
However - an fwb is to all intents and purposes a non exclusive relationship (but hopefully without the boredom, jealousy and drama of a ‘real’ relationship) - so personalities need to align as much as sexual attraction.
It can be as hard, or probably harder, to find a ‘good’ fwb as it is to find a good relationship.
Also - when you see someone local it’s the norm to spend a few hours together fairly regularly. When you’re seeing someone over 100 miles away you tend to spend around 24 hours of ‘quality’ time together and drop everything else. I find this works really well and helps with compartmentalisation - when you’re not together you’re living your own lives - when you’re together you give each other 100%.
Works great in my experience tbh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home? "
95% of the locals here are fucking cringey.
A decent percentage further afield typically only want to meet if you live next door to them.
Shit state of affairs all round really |
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"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home?
I find it difficult but that’s because I’m looking for far more than good looks in an Fwb. There are loads of good looking chaps locally who’d be great for a one-off - or even a semi regular shag.
However - an fwb is to all intents and purposes a non exclusive relationship (but hopefully without the boredom, jealousy and drama of a ‘real’ relationship) - so personalities need to align as much as sexual attraction.
It can be as hard, or probably harder, to find a ‘good’ fwb as it is to find a good relationship.
Also - when you see someone local it’s the norm to spend a few hours together fairly regularly. When you’re seeing someone over 100 miles away you tend to spend around 24 hours of ‘quality’ time together and drop everything else. I find this works really well and helps with compartmentalisation - when you’re not together you’re living your own lives - when you’re together you give each other 100%.
Works great in my experience tbh! "
Couldn't agree more |
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"Try living near the Shropshire, Worcestershire, Herefordshire border there is no one local, just lots of sheep. Luckily though I am welsh 
Baaaaa "
Careful I’ll be after you if you make that noise |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hard. There dont appear to be any particularly local hotties!"
Ahh, yes not many within a hours drive of me.. And the ones who I like, don't know I exist lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In the past I’ve had two lovely ones from Fab. Both an hour from me. Is that close enough?"
I was thinking I could of found someone who I clicked with in the same town as me. But I never click with anyone localish, they're all miles! away.
One hour away is starting to feel local to me now. |
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Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating. |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating."
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating."
What about us 2/10 women? |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women? "
You are definitely a good looking women x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating."
Problem is, Men allow women to be "superior" on here.
Power gets to their heads |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
Problem is, Men allow women to be "superior" on here.
Power gets to their heads "
It's not that. It's pure economics. Fab has way more men than women. |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
Problem is, Men allow women to be "superior" on here.
Power gets to their heads "
#pussypower |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women? "
You are not a 2/10 at all!!! |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women?
You are not a 2/10 at all!!!"
Fine! 3.5 in the right light. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women?
You are not a 2/10 at all!!!
Fine! 3.5 in the right light. "
I might let you ride me one day if you play your cards right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women?
You are not a 2/10 at all!!!
Fine! 3.5 in the right light. "
Come on you know is not true! At least 8/10 in my opinion. |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
Problem is, Men allow women to be "superior" on here.
Power gets to their heads
#pussypower"
Just like that.
Cringe  |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women?
You are not a 2/10 at all!!!
Fine! 3.5 in the right light.
I might let you ride me one day if you play your cards right"
One can only dream! |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women?
You are not a 2/10 at all!!!
Fine! 3.5 in the right light.
I might let you ride me one day if you play your cards right
One can only dream! "
 nothing wrong with dreaming big |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women?
You are not a 2/10 at all!!!
Fine! 3.5 in the right light.
Come on you know is not true! At least 8/10 in my opinion."
Does that mean I need to find 16/10 men on here? |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
Problem is, Men allow women to be "superior" on here.
Power gets to their heads
#pussypower
Just like that.
Cringe "
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women?
You are not a 2/10 at all!!!
Fine! 3.5 in the right light.
I might let you ride me one day if you play your cards right
One can only dream!
nothing wrong with dreaming big"
Yeah but there's big and then there's you (that's what she said) |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women?
You are not a 2/10 at all!!!
Fine! 3.5 in the right light.
I might let you ride me one day if you play your cards right
One can only dream!
nothing wrong with dreaming big
Yeah but there's big and then there's you (that's what she said) "
The 'that's what she said' joke just got you a huge step closer |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women?
You are not a 2/10 at all!!!
Fine! 3.5 in the right light.
I might let you ride me one day if you play your cards right
One can only dream!
nothing wrong with dreaming big
Yeah but there's big and then there's you (that's what she said)
The 'that's what she said' joke just got you a huge step closer "
Note to self: brush up on teenage boy type humour |
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over a year ago
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Difficult as I never have my location set to my actual postcode
But I think in general finding a fwb is difficult. I depends how much your willing to sway from your desires. I've yet to find one that could keep up with me.
The thing is they could tick every box but you could find your just not compatible in the bedroom. So it's hard to find the ideal person |
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"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home? "
There are plenty of people local for me, but it’s who you make a connection with that counts, plus there’s always that added thrill of meeting someone you know very little about, and may never see again...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's getting harder.
Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple
Of mins
What will be gone?
The moment it seems lol
Is it gone now? Lol
It keeps coming back
Well I'll be gone soon "
Depends on different things like the area you live in. If secluded not easy and some Fabbers prefer only meeting out of their areas. |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women?
You are not a 2/10 at all!!!
Fine! 3.5 in the right light.
Come on you know is not true! At least 8/10 in my opinion.
Does that mean I need to find 16/10 men on here? "
Exactly ... minimum requirement 16/10 |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women?
You are not a 2/10 at all!!!
Fine! 3.5 in the right light.
Come on you know is not true! At least 8/10 in my opinion.
Does that mean I need to find 16/10 men on here?
Exactly ... minimum requirement 16/10 "
I'll update my profile right away! |
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"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.
What about us 2/10 women?
You are not a 2/10 at all!!!
Fine! 3.5 in the right light.
Come on you know is not true! At least 8/10 in my opinion.
Does that mean I need to find 16/10 men on here?
Exactly ... minimum requirement 16/10
I'll update my profile right away! "
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"Difficult as I never have my location set to my actual postcode
But I think in general finding a fwb is difficult. I depends how much your willing to sway from your desires. I've yet to find one that could keep up with me.
The thing is they could tick every box but you could find your just not compatible in the bedroom. So it's hard to find the ideal person "
It’s difficult even to start a chat with someone on this days in here... at least for me. |
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