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Is distance an issue when engaging in conversation?
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I’ve noticed quite a lot of the views of my profile recently have been from those who live quite a distance from me. a lot of which I find rather good looking. I’m happy to travel (post lockdown of course) if I find I click with said person or couple.
Wondering if someone’s location, say if they’re live too far away is a deal breaker or not? |
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed quite a lot of the views of my profile recently have been from those who live quite a distance from me. a lot of which I find rather good looking. I’m happy to travel (post lockdown of course) if I find I click with said person or couple.
Wondering if someone’s location, say if they’re live too far away is a deal breaker or not? "
Not a deal breaker for me at all.. I find if you really want something or someone then you make the effort 
I do find messages I send to people far away get ignored a lot though so not everyone agrees |
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"Distance doesn't bother us, worse case scenario is they are a "no show" and we will just enjoy each other instead. "
Good thing you both have each other then. I think that’s the biggest factor that’s put me off starting a conversation with someone who lives in far away a “no show” that is, but maybe I may change that. “Shoot my shot” as the saying goes. Guess the worst that could happen is they don’t reply or say not interested. |
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I don't find distance a issue! Probably find that you miss a person you might actually click with have a decent Convo with at a distance rather than settling for the same tedious chat locally!!
Not saying that's always the case!
I have some I get on with well and have decent convo with at quite a distance!
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In most cases its definitely a deal breaker because travelling too far is a no for me and I know that the person im chatting too wont travel to Wales just for a few hours of fun.
It would be very frustrating getting to know and click with them in messages if I know we will never meet so I ask for local.  |
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"Distance doesn't bother us, worse case scenario is they are a "no show" and we will just enjoy each other instead.
Good thing you both have each other then. I think that’s the biggest factor that’s put me off starting a conversation with someone who lives in far away a “no show” that is, but maybe I may change that. “Shoot my shot” as the saying goes. Guess the worst that could happen is they don’t reply or say not interested. "
Worse case scenario is you end up at a local swinging club  Always have a back up plan. |
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"Distance doesn't bother us, worse case scenario is they are a "no show" and we will just enjoy each other instead.
Good thing you both have each other then. I think that’s the biggest factor that’s put me off starting a conversation with someone who lives in far away a “no show” that is, but maybe I may change that. “Shoot my shot” as the saying goes. Guess the worst that could happen is they don’t reply or say not interested.
Worse case scenario is you end up at a local swinging club Always have a back up plan. "
Couldn’t agree more, if I’m going to travel a fair distance, I’ll definitely make it worth both my time and money  |
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I never used to find it a problem but as time went on I did. I would rather find someone localish rather than travelling more than an hour. HAving said that, I have found meeting someone local, that I 'click' with, hard. |
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"I never used to find it a problem but as time went on I did. I would rather find someone localish rather than travelling more than an hour. HAving said that, I have found meeting someone local, that I 'click' with, hard. "
You're back again! |
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"I never used to find it a problem but as time went on I did. I would rather find someone localish rather than travelling more than an hour. HAving said that, I have found meeting someone local, that I 'click' with, hard.
You're back again!"
I went somewhere? |
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"I never used to find it a problem but as time went on I did. I would rather find someone localish rather than travelling more than an hour. HAving said that, I have found meeting someone local, that I 'click' with, hard.
You're back again!
I went somewhere?"
Just haven't seen you on the forums  |
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"I never used to find it a problem but as time went on I did. I would rather find someone localish rather than travelling more than an hour. HAving said that, I have found meeting someone local, that I 'click' with, hard.
You're back again!
I went somewhere?
Just haven't seen you on the forums "
I went into hiding. Now, as I see no one, I can come out  |
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"I never used to find it a problem but as time went on I did. I would rather find someone localish rather than travelling more than an hour. HAving said that, I have found meeting someone local, that I 'click' with, hard.
You're back again!
I went somewhere?
Just haven't seen you on the forums
I went into hiding. Now, as I see no one, I can come out "
You do tend to that, glad you're back, new old perv material  |
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"No, not with us. We enjoy travelling and happy to make a weekend of it. Naughty meet with some quality time for us both. What more could we wish for. "
Awesome, sounds great! I’d love to chat and get to know you both a little more you both seem like a great couple |
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Last guy I met was from the North East of England and he came down for a full weekend. Was a lush weekend but was only a one off due to distance.
I want something more regular so less than 2 hours travelling time would be more manageable. |
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"I never used to find it a problem but as time went on I did. I would rather find someone localish rather than travelling more than an hour. HAving said that, I have found meeting someone local, that I 'click' with, hard.
You're back again!
I went somewhere?
Just haven't seen you on the forums
I went into hiding. Now, as I see no one, I can come out
You do tend to that, glad you're back, new old perv material "
Yeah, sorry about that, no updated pics-far too much effort when I'm enjoying my pjs a bit too much. |
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
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"Last guy I met was from the North East of England and he came down for a full weekend. Was a lush weekend but was only a one off due to distance.
I want something more regular so less than 2 hours travelling time would be more manageable. "
Just like us then |
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