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So i got friend zoned
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"Yeah it sucks  guess i wasnt enough badboy again.
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So cos they have friend zoned u you are going to be a badboy (which I always see as being a total knob - never understood the badboy bit). Why resort to being a bad boy/knob? |
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Are you saying you slept with her then she friend zoned you? Or just put you in friend zone by talking to you? I have many male friends i put in the friends category. Don't know if they think I will change my mind as we carry on getting to know each other. |
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Being bad isn't the reason. Usually it's because they don't find you physically attractive enough to want to fuck you but enjoy your friendship. Most of my best friends are men. I just don't think they're my type to fuck, willy too small, not attractive face etc but they great friends of mine and I would never want to change that. Not even if i was too d*unk and horny  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it wasnt because you're not a bad boy
Maybe you're just not as nice as you think you are"
DAMN I SENT YOU THAT BABE
Thank you for using my wisdom  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it wasnt because you're not a bad boy
Maybe you're just not as nice as you think you are
DAMN I SENT YOU THAT BABE
Thank you for using my wisdom "
Ah yea I thought I read it somewhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over the years ive met and played with some lovely men but over time ive found myself just more comfortable around then as friends so they end up friend zoned and im still great friends with them.
Some ive not played with but get on better then I do with my own brother, they become friend zoned and there would be no chance of play as id not risk that friendship. A few on fab are friend zoned and I think the world of them. I treasure the friends I have and if ive friend zoned someone it means we will be friends forever x |
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Sometimes it's better to be put in the zone. Shows she trusts you and respects you. Someone they can talk to about their feelings. Or would you prefer to be the notch on the bedpost who gets the d*unken texts at 3am on a Saturday night? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Why does it suck OP?
Think of it this way - there wasn't sufficient attraction to take things beyond friendship, but they think enough of you to want to maintain that friendship - surely that's a good thing?
Or another way, if this were a site dedicated to something other than swinging, you'd be celebrating a friend made.
It happens, I have friends on here I think a lot of and whose friendship I value very much, and yet have no sexual inclination towards whatsoever - I see that as a positive and not a "missed opportunity". |
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Don't give up... As one guy on fab message me lots and chatted to me on forums, we eventually got chatting and now we really like each other. At the beginning, he just got lost in fab traffic, I didn't really rate his profile photo but then he improved his photo and chat with me... And now I'm so excited to meet him after lockdown  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finding a real friend is much harder than just finding a fuck.
Friends are the ones who stand by you, stand up for you, dont fuck you over when something more "shiney" comes along.
They are the ones who will be honest with you, about all things, even if it's not what you want to hear. When you stumble.... They will not let you fall. And if you do they will pick you up and carry you.
Real friends will not abuse your trust or you theirs. They will stick by you in good times and in bad. But that only ever works if you do the same with them.
If they are only friends when they want something, then that's not friendship, no matter how finely it may be dressed up.
There is a fortune in friendship....
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"Finding a real friend is much harder than just finding a fuck.
Friends are the ones who stand by you, stand up for you, dont fuck you over when something more "shiney" comes along.
They are the ones who will be honest with you, about all things, even if it's not what you want to hear. When you stumble.... They will not let you fall. And if you do they will pick you up and carry you.
Real friends will not abuse your trust or you theirs. They will stick by you in good times and in bad. But that only ever works if you do the same with them.
If they are only friends when they want something, then that's not friendship, no matter how finely it may be dressed up.
There is a fortune in friendship....
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Very very true 
Fucks are ten a penny. A good friend is much harder to find |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The friend zone doesn’t exist."
I can't be bothered to write an essay on here, but I suggest you do a bit of googling. The friend zone isn't a real thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont worry I'm so far in the friend zone with some id need a helicopter air life to get me out but it's better that way than having people dis like you
 hey my bestie  "
see what I mean!!!! This beautiful lady sees me as nothing but a friend I'm ok with that though she still likes cuddles thats what counts |
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