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Dating posts do get added by the forum members.
So we really dont need one, as you would end up with loads of idiots on here.
Though sometimes its bad enough as it is now, With no shows or the dreamers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d like this! Would be fun to have a bit more of a ‘matching’ system too, especially if you still used the same profiles ie. you both like Anal and Webcams and live within 50 miles of each other - it’s a match!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d like this! Would be fun to have a bit more of a ‘matching’ system too, especially if you still used the same profiles ie. you both like Anal and Webcams and live within 50 miles of each other - it’s a match! "
Great idea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be good but I don’t think *some* guys can see past the fact that women on here are worth more than a fuck. A lot of guys wouldn’t date us women because we’re on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be good but I don’t think *some* guys can see past the fact that women on here are worth more than a fuck. A lot of guys wouldn’t date us women because we’re on this site. "
Swings and roundabouts like any dating site.....theres girls I wouldn't fuck, theres girls I would only fuck and I'm sure there's some on here that I'd happily marry!
I'm also under no illusions that some women would feel the same 3 for me too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’  |
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I'd be all for it, just like any other dating sites, there would obviously be people that use it with a different intention, but I think if it was a different section, at least could differentiate between the two a little, therefor giving people options for either the full swinging experience and then a more conventional, as conventional as it could be, dating options |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanx for the replies tbh I've found most people are more honest on here than normal dating sites, yes alot are wanting NSA but some just wanting to meet someone who isnt afraid of non vanilla sex lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be good but I don’t think *some* guys can see past the fact that women on here are worth more than a fuck. A lot of guys wouldn’t date us women because we’re on this site. "
This! I was told by a guy I was with from here that he had absolutely no respect for any woman who was on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else think a dating bit on this site would be nice, would make it easier to meet like minded people?? "
Would be good but I think it would be misused by many.  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else think a dating bit on this site would be nice, would make it easier to meet like minded people??
Would be good but I think it would be misused by many. "
I agree with this. |
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"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’ "
That’s so sad. Completely blinked view. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is that guys with no intention of dating tell women whatever they think the woman wants to hear to get her into bed. When they’ve done it a few times they move on. "
Jesus dude.....don't give away all of our secrets! Remember the "Mancode"  |
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"It would be good but I don’t think *some* guys can see past the fact that women on here are worth more than a fuck. A lot of guys wouldn’t date us women because we’re on this site.
This! I was told by a guy I was with from here that he had absolutely no respect for any woman who was on this site. "
I hope you got your coat and left him then and there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’ "
I've had exactly this aswell.... It was a "we can't be more because we met on fab" I was still fairly new to fab life and I was actually a bit offended ... But I got over it and learnt a valuable lesson about getting too close to a fuck buddy... Although I'm not sure a dating version could change that mind set, it's still fab, it's still kinky and many people are still "discreet" about their fab/kinky lifestyles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just for everyone’s interest, I have been using an app called KinkD, I think of it as a BDSM tinder.
I’ve made friends on there so it’s definitely worth checking out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’
I've had exactly this aswell.... It was a "we can't be more because we met on fab" I was still fairly new to fab life and I was actually a bit offended ... But I got over it and learnt a valuable lesson about getting too close to a fuck buddy... Although I'm not sure a dating version could change that mind set, it's still fab, it's still kinky and many people are still "discreet" about their fab/kinky lifestyles "
I’ve had this too, guy was essentially taking me on dates but I’m ‘not the kind of girl you’d introduce to your mum’ his loss though, mums love me |
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A dating section would be fun. We spent a year with a lady we met on here. We would go on dates, go out for dinner, give birthday, Christmas and valentines gifts. She would stay over with us. She even met my dad. It just depends what people are actually looking for, or even what people are just open to explore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did not join Fab to be dated."
Same.
There are a plethora of good dating websites and apps out there which do a better job at displaying your interests and personality.
I feel like many on here think they're special 'cause they're on fab lol. Believe it or not, there are people outside of fab who are kinky and open minded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did not join Fab to be dated.
Same.
There are a plethora of good dating websites and apps out there which do a better job at displaying your interests and personality.
I feel like many on here think they're special 'cause they're on fab lol. Believe it or not, there are people outside of fab who are kinky and open minded."
Allowing other people opportunities doesn't restrict your own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did not join Fab to be dated.
Same.
There are a plethora of good dating websites and apps out there which do a better job at displaying your interests and personality.
I feel like many on here think they're special 'cause they're on fab lol. Believe it or not, there are people outside of fab who are kinky and open minded."
I think many so called dating sites have many men who would prefer to just fuck and go
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some on here want to date
Some on here say they don’t want to date, but secretly do
Some on here just want to feel liked
Some on here just want to stir up hornets nests
Some on here don’t care..... use the site how you wish to. If there’s a dating part - it’ll be like most others. |
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The men would bombade it, just play along and then still try and just bed the women and the men that really want it would get swallowed up..
Good idea would need a system to filter out the one nighters |
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I personally don't think it needs a separate dating section - perhaps just the option to choose if you do want to date, which would show an icon on your profile, with the option to filter searches/contact to those also looking to date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The men would bombade it, just play along and then still try and just bed the women and the men that really want it would get swallowed up..
Good idea would need a system to filter out the one nighters "
But there isn’t a filter on dating sites ....
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"The men would bombade it, just play along and then still try and just bed the women and the men that really want it would get swallowed up..
Good idea would need a system to filter out the one nighters
But there isn’t a filter on dating sites ....
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I can’t see it working any differently, people will say what they think you want to hear. Put it on your profile what you are after, a separate section isn’t needed |
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"Some on here want to date
Some on here say they don’t want to date, but secretly do
Some on here just want to feel liked
Some on here just want to stir up hornets nests
Some on here don’t care..... use the site how you wish to. If there’s a dating part - it’ll be like most others. "
I'd also add:
Some on here say they want to date but secretly don't, they just see it as a way to not get an instant block from people that only want to date. |
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By *edrickWoman
over a year ago
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"I would love to date someone i met through fab, although the connection would have to be there, trust on all sides built etc"
I dated someone from fab for 7 months. Never expected to connect with someone on here in that way but it worked, untill it didnt 
I expected it might be me with trust issues but it was actually the other way round which I found really hard as I gave him my everything! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’
I've had exactly this aswell.... It was a "we can't be more because we met on fab" I was still fairly new to fab life and I was actually a bit offended ... But I got over it and learnt a valuable lesson about getting too close to a fuck buddy... Although I'm not sure a dating version could change that mind set, it's still fab, it's still kinky and many people are still "discreet" about their fab/kinky lifestyles
I’ve had this too, guy was essentially taking me on dates but I’m ‘not the kind of girl you’d introduce to your mum’ his loss though, mums love me "
Makes me laugh... The not the kind of girl you take home to mum.... Yes dear, cause I'd meet your mother in fishnets and a ball gag in my mouth lol but def his loss... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is that guys with no intention of dating tell women whatever they think the woman wants to hear to get her into bed. When they’ve done it a few times they move on.
Jesus dude.....don't give away all of our secrets! Remember the "Mancode" "
hahaha worst kept secret ever! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did not join Fab to be dated.
Same.
There are a plethora of good dating websites and apps out there which do a better job at displaying your interests and personality.
I feel like many on here think they're special 'cause they're on fab lol. Believe it or not, there are people outside of fab who are kinky and open minded."
i disagree, i scroll past people from every day life including work and family friends on normal dating sites all the time, pretty sure most users do, so if something like this is included in your interests i don't see it getting shouted from the rooftops on a dating profile on a standard dating site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’
I've had exactly this aswell.... It was a "we can't be more because we met on fab" I was still fairly new to fab life and I was actually a bit offended ... But I got over it and learnt a valuable lesson about getting too close to a fuck buddy... Although I'm not sure a dating version could change that mind set, it's still fab, it's still kinky and many people are still "discreet" about their fab/kinky lifestyles
I’ve had this too, guy was essentially taking me on dates but I’m ‘not the kind of girl you’d introduce to your mum’ his loss though, mums love me
Makes me laugh... The not the kind of girl you take home to mum.... Yes dear, cause I'd meet your mother in fishnets and a ball gag in my mouth lol but def his loss... "
Wait that’s not how you dress for sunday lunch?? Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’
I've had exactly this aswell.... It was a "we can't be more because we met on fab" I was still fairly new to fab life and I was actually a bit offended ... But I got over it and learnt a valuable lesson about getting too close to a fuck buddy... Although I'm not sure a dating version could change that mind set, it's still fab, it's still kinky and many people are still "discreet" about their fab/kinky lifestyles
I’ve had this too, guy was essentially taking me on dates but I’m ‘not the kind of girl you’d introduce to your mum’ his loss though, mums love me
Makes me laugh... The not the kind of girl you take home to mum.... Yes dear, cause I'd meet your mother in fishnets and a ball gag in my mouth lol but def his loss...
Wait that’s not how you dress for sunday lunch?? Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong... "
You're clearly forgetting about butt plug, yup that must be it |
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"It does work, although you need to be aware that most people come on here for sex. Dating is far from their minds.
It would be nice though "
Yeah I agree here.
I been on dating sites and nothing happens, happy being single anyway, but missing the sex and pleasing a woman.
I'm here to have safe and fun sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i disagree, i scroll past people from every day life including work and family friends on normal dating sites all the time, pretty sure most users do, so if something like this is included in your interests i don't see it getting shouted from the rooftops on a dating profile on a standard dating site "
But why would you put it on a dating profile? Kinks are quite personal and private for most people.
Somewhere along the line when you're getting to know someone the topic of kinks and sex comes up almost always.
I don't list kinks on my dating profile because I don't want a relationship which evolves around them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else think a dating bit on this site would be nice, would make it easier to meet like minded people?? "
That's a great idea. Would like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’ "
Ouch! I never understood that because if getting along so well on a regular basis and chemistry is great... why not!?
For me, I treat this just as I am outside of Fab and this is the only site I am on so would be great for dating to see what the potential is... seen as you already know sex is amazing so that has been ticked already.
Not easy though because things have been the opposite for me in the past... a few times after meeting regulars things did turn... it was ok for them to continue as normal and I encouraged it because didn't want to restrict on our adventures and we would do many things, but if I even spoke to another woman... oh lord all hell will break out! The jealousy takes over and ruins what we had.
It should work both ways. If you don't want me talking to others, you don't either... I used to think finding someone on here would be perfect because no secrets, no guessing/assuming... just grow together like many other Fabbers have done that started out as singles...
Finding that match is the holy grail. If we stayed on here together as a couple or went off site together... I wouldn't mind either for the right person. Till that time just continuing solo adventures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i disagree, i scroll past people from every day life including work and family friends on normal dating sites all the time, pretty sure most users do, so if something like this is included in your interests i don't see it getting shouted from the rooftops on a dating profile on a standard dating site
But why would you put it on a dating profile? Kinks are quite personal and private for most people.
Somewhere along the line when you're getting to know someone the topic of kinks and sex comes up almost always.
I don't list kinks on my dating profile because I don't want a relationship which evolves around them."
you wouldn't thats my point , but for many who would look for dating on here it is because those kinks are a very important part of dating for them so they would like to be able to get it out up front , and date from a source where they know they have a higher chance of meeting people with compatible sexual interests |
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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago
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"The problem is that guys with no intention of dating tell women whatever they think the woman wants to hear to get her into bed. When they’ve done it a few times they move on.
Jesus dude.....don't give away all of our secrets! Remember the "Mancode" "
We know the man code! Trust me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kinks are a very important part of dating for them so they would like to be able to get it out up front , and date from a source where they know they have a higher chance of meeting people with compatible sexual interests"
That right there is a good point! Exactly why I think it would be great to find someone on here with compatible sexual interests. Some Fabbers are on multiple 5/6 different sites so I suppose more opportunities, but this is only site i'm on so my 'eggs are all in one basket' so to speak
If it ain't gonna happen on here then it ain't gonna happen... I should really put a time limit on it now because 5yrs+ is a long time.
Fab  Dreams can come true!
Fingers crossed for 2021 |
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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago
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I would love a dating section. I'm on other dating websites. The problem with 'dating' websites is when I have told men about my likes and its either no thanks weirdo mentally (which is fine) or the whole conversation turns instantly in to sex all the time and he wants to talk about nothing else thinking I'm a sexual vending machine.
If I met someone on here it's all in the open and I wouldn't have to worry about explaining it. X |
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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago
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"I would love a dating section. I'm on other dating websites. The problem with 'dating' websites is when I have told men about my likes and its either no thanks weirdo mentally (which is fine) or the whole conversation turns instantly in to sex all the time and he wants to talk about nothing else thinking I'm a sexual vending machine.
If I met someone on here it's all in the open and I wouldn't have to worry about explaining it. X"
Mentality *  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there are plenty of dating sites, this is a swingers site, very different things"
easy for someone already in a swinging couple to say
but what about the numerous posters above who have said they are looking for a swinging relationship ... those aren't easy to come by on conventional dating sites where people are generally looking for monogamy
people using a different section of the site for a different purpose wouldn’t take anything away from your experience would it? plus they might even form a hot couple you would like to meet n future ... so why object ? |
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"there are plenty of dating sites, this is a swingers site, very different things
easy for someone already in a swinging couple to say
but what about the numerous posters above who have said they are looking for a swinging relationship ... those aren't easy to come by on conventional dating sites where people are generally looking for monogamy
people using a different section of the site for a different purpose wouldn’t take anything away from your experience would it? plus they might even form a hot couple you would like to meet n future ... so why object ? "
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
What percentage of single females and males on Fab would you say are looking for a swinging relationship as a couple? A friend of ours as been trying for ages on here to find that and no joy at all. |
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