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Have you ever given a bad veri?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know not every meet from here results in sexual euphoria (so I hear), so I'm just curious to know if you've ever left anyone a negative veri? I've never seen one on someone's profile, but I assume that's because you can choose what you show.
So come on, 'fess up! If someone was rubbish in the sack or didn't resemble their pics, have you called them out in a veri?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No I just wouldnt veri them or meet them again "
I'm the same, I couldn't be that rude to them. A bit like if you have a tradesman that doesn't do a great job, I'd just not review them because I don't want to mess with their livelihood. (Not that Fab should be your livelihood, but you get what I mean) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm too polite. I would give them a veri in return if they gave me one too but it would be a polite dampened down one. Then I wouldnt see them again.  "
Haha you're just like me |
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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm too polite. I would give them a veri in return if they gave me one too but it would be a polite dampened down one. Then I wouldnt see them again. "
Polite but if someone read between the lines, they'd know it wasn't too flattering.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have had the odd meet where the sex could have been better but I think it takes 2 to tango. I wouldn't lay blame on anyone else for it. Maybe they'd rock someone else's world.
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That's a very diplomatic way to look at it  |
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"I'm too polite. I would give them a veri in return if they gave me one too but it would be a polite dampened down one. Then I wouldnt see them again. "
This is the same for me. A no frills veri and I wouldn't see them again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've never given nor had one but if I did receive a bad veri, I would hope it was seriously awful and I would proudly display it!"
I love this answer  Own it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wanted to but just didn’t verify at all. Shagged a guy god years ago now, afterwards we went downstairs for a fag. He said he had heartburn and was gonna get his rennies out the car then fucked off. Cheeky prick still to this day asks to meet me again though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm too polite. I would give them a veri in return if they gave me one too but it would be a polite dampened down one. Then I wouldnt see them again.
Polite but if someone read between the lines, they'd know it wasn't too flattering.... "
"Jeff was punctual and polite, and said some nice things about my wallpaper. He will probably make someone happy" (apologies if your name actually is Jeff) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't see any point as they wouldn't show it 
Yeah very true. I'm also just too polite  "
Guess as well it might just have been bad karma between you so better just to move on without any negativity |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't see any point as they wouldn't show it
Yeah very true. I'm also just too polite
Guess as well it might just have been bad karma between you so better just to move on without any negativity "
I am impressed how the replies have all been good vibes only
If I had a bad experience, I think I'd not leave a veri, but find a private way to let the person know what I didn't like about the meet |
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"I'm too polite. I would give them a veri in return if they gave me one too but it would be a polite dampened down one. Then I wouldnt see them again. "
But then you are misleading others surely ?
If he's an axe murderer you should at least hint at it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really a bad one. He went really overboard by describing me as being as delicious as free chocolate. I said that he'd visited me and treated me to lunch. That was it and that was my worse meet of any kind. |
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"Not really a bad one. He went really overboard by describing me as being as delicious as free chocolate. I said that he'd visited me and treated me to lunch. That was it and that was my worse meet of any kind."
"As delicious as free chocolate" - what the heck does that mean? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm too polite. I would give them a veri in return if they gave me one too but it would be a polite dampened down one. Then I wouldnt see them again.
But then you are misleading others surely ?
If he's an axe murderer you should at least hint at it. "
If you survived to write a veri then you should tell the world he's not much of an axe murderer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really a bad one. He went really overboard by describing me as being as delicious as free chocolate. I said that he'd visited me and treated me to lunch. That was it and that was my worse meet of any kind.
"As delicious as free chocolate" - what the heck does that mean?"
Wish I knew |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not really a bad one. He went really overboard by describing me as being as delicious as free chocolate. I said that he'd visited me and treated me to lunch. That was it and that was my worse meet of any kind."
So was he hinting that you did more than lunch? Or just going overboard with the praise? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's why I dont take much notice of them..we are mostly all too polite or wouldnt show bad ones.. also people want a good one back."
I agree with this, generally people don't want to hurt others' feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's why I dont take much notice of them..we are mostly all too polite or wouldnt show bad ones.. also people want a good one back.
I agree with this, generally people don't want to hurt others' feelings."
I havent verified a few because I didnt want to lie..lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really a bad one. He went really overboard by describing me as being as delicious as free chocolate. I said that he'd visited me and treated me to lunch. That was it and that was my worse meet of any kind.
So was he hinting that you did more than lunch? Or just going overboard with the praise?"
I have no idea! We did other stuff (not sex) so he was probably hinting at that. It was five years ago now.
Probably going overboard too tbh. He was creepy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's why I dont take much notice of them..we are mostly all too polite or wouldnt show bad ones.. also people want a good one back.
I agree with this, generally people don't want to hurt others' feelings.
I havent verified a few because I didnt want to lie..lol"
Haha I think I'd get the hint if I had a meet and no veri was received after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's why I dont take much notice of them..we are mostly all too polite or wouldnt show bad ones.. also people want a good one back.
I agree with this, generally people don't want to hurt others' feelings.
I havent verified a few because I didnt want to lie..lol
Haha I think I'd get the hint if I had a meet and no veri was received after "
Some dont like to kiss and tell |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's why I dont take much notice of them..we are mostly all too polite or wouldnt show bad ones.. also people want a good one back.
I agree with this, generally people don't want to hurt others' feelings.
I havent verified a few because I didnt want to lie..lol
Haha I think I'd get the hint if I had a meet and no veri was received after
Some dont like to kiss and tell "
Well if that's the case, I'd want to know upfront that no veri will be left regardless, so there are no misunderstandings |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not really a bad one. He went really overboard by describing me as being as delicious as free chocolate. I said that he'd visited me and treated me to lunch. That was it and that was my worse meet of any kind.
So was he hinting that you did more than lunch? Or just going overboard with the praise?
I have no idea! We did other stuff (not sex) so he was probably hinting at that. It was five years ago now.
Probably going overboard too tbh. He was creepy."
I can't imagine there being any creepy men here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's why I dont take much notice of them..we are mostly all too polite or wouldnt show bad ones.. also people want a good one back.
I agree with this, generally people don't want to hurt others' feelings.
I havent verified a few because I didnt want to lie..lol
Haha I think I'd get the hint if I had a meet and no veri was received after
Some dont like to kiss and tell
Well if that's the case, I'd want to know upfront that no veri will be left regardless, so there are no misunderstandings "
Really? Do they mean that much to you,? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really a bad one. He went really overboard by describing me as being as delicious as free chocolate. I said that he'd visited me and treated me to lunch. That was it and that was my worse meet of any kind.
So was he hinting that you did more than lunch? Or just going overboard with the praise?
I have no idea! We did other stuff (not sex) so he was probably hinting at that. It was five years ago now.
Probably going overboard too tbh. He was creepy.
I can't imagine there being any creepy men here "
Oh noooo, absolutely not! He told porkies too, he was about five years older than his face photo and he was shorter than me (I'm 5'8) when he claimed to be 5'10. Thank god I got better at picking meets... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had a couple of disasters but too polite to say it was crap in a verification. They might have thought the same about us for all I know lol. That's why I dont take veris seriously.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's why I dont take much notice of them..we are mostly all too polite or wouldnt show bad ones.. also people want a good one back.
I agree with this, generally people don't want to hurt others' feelings.
I havent verified a few because I didnt want to lie..lol
Haha I think I'd get the hint if I had a meet and no veri was received after
Some dont like to kiss and tell
Well if that's the case, I'd want to know upfront that no veri will be left regardless, so there are no misunderstandings
Really? Do they mean that much to you,?"
As a single male, they are fairly important on this site. Some members won't even consider chatting to someone not verified |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have had a couple of disasters but too polite to say it was crap in a verification. They might have thought the same about us for all I know lol. That's why I dont take veris seriously. "
I think everyone has a disaster here every now and then! At least everyone is polite about it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What would constitute a bad veri we are curious ?
Hygiene ? Appearance ? "
Anything negative about the meet. Appearance not matching pics, poor hygiene, creepiness, not being able to back up claims that have been made... I'm sure there are more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had a couple of disasters but too polite to say it was crap in a verification. They might have thought the same about us for all I know lol. That's why I dont take veris seriously.
I think everyone has a disaster here every now and then! At least everyone is polite about it "
I could never hurt anyones feelings x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's why I dont take much notice of them..we are mostly all too polite or wouldnt show bad ones.. also people want a good one back.
I agree with this, generally people don't want to hurt others' feelings.
I havent verified a few because I didnt want to lie..lol
Haha I think I'd get the hint if I had a meet and no veri was received after
Some dont like to kiss and tell
Well if that's the case, I'd want to know upfront that no veri will be left regardless, so there are no misunderstandings
Really? Do they mean that much to you,?
As a single male, they are fairly important on this site. Some members won't even consider chatting to someone not verified"
once you have one though..that's ok right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not on this site as people probably wouldn’t public it.
On a site I used to be on you message admin If you are concerned about something or Somebody messed you about, wasn't who they said they were ect...
And if approved they would put a red marker on the profile.
If someone got too many they would have there account removed.
It was a much smaller site than this one, so much easier to manage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Although I don’t tend to leave them or receive them. Not keen on veris unless they’re social ones.
I agree. "
Me and you are agreeing too much lately lady!! Which one of us is mellowing?!  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Although I don’t tend to leave them or receive them. Not keen on veris unless they’re social ones.
I agree.
Me and you are agreeing too much lately lady!! Which one of us is mellowing?! x"
Oh my goodness this has to stop Nora! The world has already changed so much, I need some normal.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Although I don’t tend to leave them or receive them. Not keen on veris unless they’re social ones.
I agree.
Me and you are agreeing too much lately lady!! Which one of us is mellowing?! x
Oh my goodness this has to stop Nora! The world has already changed so much, I need some normal. "
I know! I’m being too reasonable. I need to sort it!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't give anyone a bad veri and I can't really see the point, because it's not like they're going to display it.
PS- I'm waiting for one if any ladies would like to Video chat now?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't give anyone a bad veri and I can't really see the point, because it's not like they're going to display it.
PS- I'm waiting for one if any ladies would like to Video chat now? "
Waiting for a bad veri? That’s a novel approach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nobody leaves a bad veri as they wouldn't show it. However you xam leave a very vague one and to me, that's very telling. "
I leave shit veris because I can never think what to say. "Lovely person, was great to meet" or some crap like that. That's because I'm shit, not them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a social meet with a guy, it was awful, i was very frightened. He asked for a veri even though he knew i was unhappy, obviously i refused. I reported him to Fab but nothing was done. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
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I do not ever give verifications or feedback for any item I buy or service I have received.
Too much faking and social media manipulation.
I do however always give tips in Hotels and restaurants and to taxi drivers, hairdressers et al |
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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago
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"I have had the odd meet where the sex could have been better but I think it takes 2 to tango. I wouldn't lay blame on anyone else for it. Maybe they'd rock someone else's world.
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I think that's a brilliant response. |
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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago
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As stated by many, there's not a lot of point as it almost certainly wouldn't be displayed.
But even leaving that aside, it's not something I'd want to do anyway. Would just diplomatically say a no thanks to any further meeting. Not on here to hurt anyone and we can't all gel with everyone sexually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no desire to gratuitously hurt others for what could only ever be a "failure" by two people to connect on a level that may have been less than either hoped for....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm too polite. I would give them a veri in return if they gave me one too but it would be a polite dampened down one. Then I wouldnt see them again.
Polite but if someone read between the lines, they'd know it wasn't too flattering....
"Jeff was punctual and polite, and said some nice things about my wallpaper. He will probably make someone happy" (apologies if your name actually is Jeff)"
Whose Jeff?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm too polite. I would give them a veri in return if they gave me one too but it would be a polite dampened down one. Then I wouldnt see them again.
But then you are misleading others surely ?
If he's an axe murderer you should at least hint at it.
If you survived to write a veri then you should tell the world he's not much of an axe murderer"
"Jeff was really crap at being an axe murderer...he left the key under the plant pot and tied me up with cheap tape. I wont be seeing him again". |
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"I know not every meet from here results in sexual euphoria (so I hear), so I'm just curious to know if you've ever left anyone a negative veri? I've never seen one on someone's profile, but I assume that's because you can choose what you show.
So come on, 'fess up! If someone was rubbish in the sack or didn't resemble their pics, have you called them out in a veri??"
A well known forumite has 2 dreadful veris which he proudly shows.
I used to have one that said "not as funny in person".
Sometimes a bad veri isn't really a bad veri.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm too polite. I would give them a veri in return if they gave me one too but it would be a polite dampened down one. Then I wouldnt see them again.
But then you are misleading others surely ?
If he's an axe murderer you should at least hint at it.
If you survived to write a veri then you should tell the world he's not much of an axe murderer
"Jeff was really crap at being an axe murderer...he left the key under the plant pot and tied me up with cheap tape. I wont be seeing him again". "
"Jeff didn't offer me a drink before showing me his axe collection, and didn't say bless you when when the chloroform made me sneeze. Overall, 5 out of 10" |
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"i dont generally get asked for veris or receive them but why would you waste your time giving a negative one "
I agree, just because two people (or more) don’t hit it off it doesn’t mean I would give a bad veri |
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