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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There are five love languages: Word of affirmation, Acts of service, Receiving gifts, Quality time and Physical touch. Each one is important and express love in it's own way. What is yours? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I lure them into a false sense of security. I build them up, make them feel special. Tell them I love them, I want to build a future with them. But then when they find out my pictures are fake, I make them feel shit and slag them off and give them abuse.
Then I start again.
One day, someone will fall for my tricks. And we can settle down together and move to Sweden |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are five love languages: Word of affirmation, Acts of service, Receiving gifts, Quality time and Physical touch. Each one is important and express love in it's own way. What is yours?"
im intrigued to read more about this, from title alone i would guess i am a physical touch person |
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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
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I remember this thread from some weeks ago - not sure if it was you OP under your old profile?
I did the online quiz and it came out:
Words of Affirmation
closely followed by
Physical Touch
Although this was pre-COVID so my priorities may have changed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I remember this thread from some weeks ago - not sure if it was you OP under your old profile?
I did the online quiz and it came out:
Words of Affirmation
closely followed by
Physical Touch
Although this was pre-COVID so my priorities may have changed"
do you have a link? |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"There are five love languages: Word of affirmation, Acts of service, Receiving gifts, Quality time and Physical touch. Each one is important and express love in it's own way. What is yours?"
Time and touch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he presents bacon, I love him. If he does not I don't
I'm a butcher so endless supply here 
Where have you been all my life?
Selling Bacon  "
Well get ya bacon out for the lads the |
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"If he presents bacon, I love him. If he does not I don't
I'm a butcher so endless supply here
Where have you been all my life?
Selling Bacon
Well get ya bacon out for the lads the "
I have a chipolata as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I remember this thread from some weeks ago - not sure if it was you OP under your old profile?
I did the online quiz and it came out:
Words of Affirmation
closely followed by
Physical Touch
Although this was pre-COVID so my priorities may have changed
do you have a link?"
https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/
It's particularly good in knowing how to show it without it being misunderstood. Human nature means we tend to express it to others not in the way they want it but in the way we want it shown, thinking behind it is we assume others do and think as we do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he presents bacon, I love him. If he does not I don't
I'm a butcher so endless supply here
Where have you been all my life?
Selling Bacon
Well get ya bacon out for the lads the I have a chipolata as well "
Lets see it then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I remember this thread from some weeks ago - not sure if it was you OP under your old profile?
I did the online quiz and it came out:
Words of Affirmation
closely followed by
Physical Touch
Although this was pre-COVID so my priorities may have changed
do you have a link?
https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/
It's particularly good in knowing how to show it without it being misunderstood. Human nature means we tend to express it to others not in the way they want it but in the way we want it shown, thinking behind it is we assume others do and think as we do."
thanks |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't have one love language - right now it's physical touch and quality time with words of affirmation a point behind. I know before when I took it the results were different again. Those three are the most important to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I remember this thread from some weeks ago - not sure if it was you OP under your old profile?
I did the online quiz and it came out:
Words of Affirmation
closely followed by
Physical Touch
Although this was pre-COVID so my priorities may have changed
do you have a link?
https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/
It's particularly good in knowing how to show it without it being misunderstood. Human nature means we tend to express it to others not in the way they want it but in the way we want it shown, thinking behind it is we assume others do and think as we do.
thanks "
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"If he presents bacon, I love him. If he does not I don't
I'm a butcher so endless supply here
Where have you been all my life?
Selling Bacon
Well get ya bacon out for the lads the I have a chipolata as well
Lets see it then? "
I'm holding one in my pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he presents bacon, I love him. If he does not I don't
I'm a butcher so endless supply here
Where have you been all my life?
Selling Bacon
Well get ya bacon out for the lads the I have a chipolata as well
Lets see it then?
I'm holding one in my pics "
That is a penis! I wanted an actual chipolata sausage! It is lunchtime and I'm hungry   |
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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago
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For me it's respect a lady , being polite and pleasant, listening to what she wants, buying the flowers often making a fuss of her when it's her birthday or Christmas or an anniversary and just being the person she can confide in and trust, and obviously spending all the attention on her and making sure of her happiness  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I lure them into a false sense of security. I build them up, make them feel special. Tell them I love them, I want to build a future with them. But then when they find out my pictures are fake, I make them feel shit and slag them off and give them abuse.
Then I start again.
One day, someone will fall for my tricks. And we can settle down together and move to Sweden"
FFS!  Nearly spat out my coffee!
For me it’s acts of service.....I’m always having to do something for my wife. |
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We incorporated the love languages theory into our marriage a few years ago and it helped us through a very difficult time. Now it’s something we apply to all our relationships with friends. It’s an exceptionally good tool to help you develop better communication, not just in expressing yourself, but also listening between the lines to understand another person’s needs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine changes slightly every time I do the test. But I tend to get quality time and physical touch at the top, acts of service next, words of affirmation, then receiving gifts at the bottom. |
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"Mine changes slightly every time I do the test. But I tend to get quality time and physical touch at the top, acts of service next, words of affirmation, then receiving gifts at the bottom. "
This is exactly Ailsa |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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Words of affirmation and Acts of service. Pretty much equally.
Unsurprisingly for me, physical touch was last on the list. But I suspect that's because I have a more or less total disconnect between emotion and sex. |
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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
from Home Counties to Middle Earth |
"I remember this thread from some weeks ago - not sure if it was you OP under your old profile?
I did the online quiz and it came out:
Words of Affirmation
closely followed by
Physical Touch
Although this was pre-COVID so my priorities may have changed
do you have a link?"
I'm not sure we're allowed to post it on here, but if you Google 5lovelanguages there should be a site with a .com suffix that will take you there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I remember this thread from some weeks ago - not sure if it was you OP under your old profile?
I did the online quiz and it came out:
Words of Affirmation
closely followed by
Physical Touch
Although this was pre-COVID so my priorities may have changed
do you have a link?"
There a few books written by Garry Chapman on love languages. Your love language changes in different ages and stages of your life. It's an interesting read! |
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