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what things in a conversation turn you off?!
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
There aren't specific terms or phrases, although I abhor text speak so that would be an instant turn off - it's more general attitude and approach or if I find a conversation isn't flowing that I lose interest quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In person, strange noises like sniffling or heavy breathing. In writing, bad spelling. In both, vulgar language. You can talk dirty and swear with class but most fail at it. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
Arrogance or a big ego turn me off, if somebody plays any kind of mental games I'm straight out of there, apart from that the normal things.
I also like people to be extremely respectful of others and tolerant of differences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im hugly into BDSM too but when I get 'Hi Slut' its an instant block, they assume because im a submissive that I must be a slut and I hate it, 'whore' is another name they think I should be called  |
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Anyone who skips / ignores what I've said, or has almost total obsession over their needs without mine, has started to be saying goodbye.
Anyone saying anything that I experience as pushy or insensitive to me is also a no. A high proportion of men here are excessively pushy, lacking in social graces and finesse, almost as if they have spent their lives in prison, away from decent, respectful people.
Infantile talking is a turnoff |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had a woman once say "I dont care what you want am here for me" i understand we are all here to get somthing, but i think its fair to give and recieive so that ended my conversation ahah  |
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Single word answers when I’m trying to chat and get to know someone. I don’t get why you’d agree to messaging but then just reply to messages with a yes, no, maybe, guess, possibly or whatever single word they chose to use. After the 3rd single word reply I’ve been known to ask if they can say more than one word |
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When they actually live up to what it says in their bio! Nothing worse than a profile that makes the person who wrote it sound wild, fun and sexy but is just lies and pure fantasy!
I'll happily chat to anyone on here but all I ask is for whoever Im speaking to to be themselves.
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"Im hugly into BDSM too but when I get 'Hi Slut' its an instant block, they assume because im a submissive that I must be a slut and I hate it, 'whore' is another name they think I should be called "
WTF is wrong with folk. We’ve chatted a fair bit and I still wouldn’t start a conversation with comments like slut n whore ffs  |
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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Im hugly into BDSM too but when I get 'Hi Slut' its an instant block, they assume because im a submissive that I must be a slut and I hate it, 'whore' is another name they think I should be called "
Oh god yes.
Actually the right person, in the right situations calling me slut or whore makes me a puddle. The wrong person is likely to get a broken nose! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im hugly into BDSM too but when I get 'Hi Slut' its an instant block, they assume because im a submissive that I must be a slut and I hate it, 'whore' is another name they think I should be called
Oh god yes.
Actually the right person, in the right situations calling me slut or whore makes me a puddle. The wrong person is likely to get a broken nose!"
In play with a Dom slut is tolerable but in the first message of fake doms is a definite no. The fakes really do stand out then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im hugly into BDSM too but when I get 'Hi Slut' its an instant block, they assume because im a submissive that I must be a slut and I hate it, 'whore' is another name they think I should be called
Oh god yes.
Actually the right person, in the right situations calling me slut or whore makes me a puddle. The wrong person is likely to get a broken nose!"
In play with a Dom slut is tolerable but in the first message of fake doms is a definite no. The fakes really do stand out then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those war and peace efforts where they are describing what think they are going to do to you.
Yes never mind all that... No mention of dinner or breakfast and you've lost me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those that send essays about what they want to do to me, without even asking what I like, all I think is..... erm no you won't!
I also just here "me me me" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who are pushy or monosyllabic put me off. I do understand that some people don't want to get into long and tedious message tennis but a lack of manners and warmth tends to dilute my interest. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
When the second or third message is "what are you wearing"? Like I sit here all day in sexy underwear??
And "what will you do to/with me"?
How the fuck do I know, it's a stupid question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when people say they are horny in the first few messages
I'm not some magical cure to your horniness
I also don't just fuck anyone
honestly couldn't care less about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those who tell me when they have read my profile and it is amazing and they really want to get to know me when there is nothing but "I will be updating my profile later" so cut and paste is so obvious here it is unreal. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Short two or three worded messages. The worst are when they initiate it with interesting profile. Then you have to wait a few days to get a second reply with a couple words.
It makes me question why they messaged in the first place. |
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