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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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It seems to me that lots of people are exhausted, feeling low or run-down.
So I have lots of fresh hugs, ready and waiting to give to anyone in need. It's ok to not be ok, and to reach out for a hug xxx |
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over a year ago
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I'd really like a feel better spoon tbh.
The feel of my chest on their back, arm tucked under their breasts, the cold of their buttocks against my groin.
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"I'd really like a feel better spoon tbh.
The feel of my chest on their back, arm tucked under their breasts, the cold of their buttocks against my groin.
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I’m sure everyone loves a good spooning too |
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I saw my bestie in Tesco late this afternoon - we cried because we couldn’t hug like we normally would  doesn’t seem as traumatic in FaceTime
As if supermarkets aren’t already a weekly traumatic experience these days.... I made the effort to self scan to cut out handling of my purchases by anyone other than me. When I went to pay an assist rescanned several items as a check .... totally defeating the object, no gloves, no hand sanitiser I was fuming and crying at that point! |
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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'd really like a feel better spoon tbh.
The feel of my chest on their back, arm tucked under their breasts, the cold of their buttocks against my groin.
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You have such a lovely chest..I'll be your little spoon x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I saw my bestie in Tesco late this afternoon - we cried because we couldn’t hug like we normally would doesn’t seem as traumatic in FaceTime
As if supermarkets aren’t already a weekly traumatic experience these days.... I made the effort to self scan to cut out handling of my purchases by anyone other than me. When I went to pay an assist rescanned several items as a check .... totally defeating the object, no gloves, no hand sanitiser I was fuming and crying at that point! "
Have an extra sanitised hug from me for your tough day DC xx |
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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I saw my bestie in Tesco late this afternoon - we cried because we couldn’t hug like we normally would doesn’t seem as traumatic in FaceTime
As if supermarkets aren’t already a weekly traumatic experience these days.... I made the effort to self scan to cut out handling of my purchases by anyone other than me. When I went to pay an assist rescanned several items as a check .... totally defeating the object, no gloves, no hand sanitiser I was fuming and crying at that point! "
Aw DC...you really need lots of TLC & hugs xxxxx |
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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Can I get a hug please? Happy to return the favour with a big squeezey hug!"
Of course.
Human contact, especially the long hugs, release oxytocin, the 'feel good' hormone. But only if the hug is given with real feeling and care. I think that social distancing has really highlighted how important human touch is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd really like a feel better spoon tbh.
The feel of my chest on their back, arm tucked under their breasts, the cold of their buttocks against my groin.
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 this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I always love hugs. I'm a very tactile and huggy person. Would you?"
Me too. Not being able to hug my nearest & dearest is so hard. I’m really missing the contact and, like a lot of others, finding it even more difficult this week.
Sending you all warmest hugs x |
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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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" I always love hugs. I'm a very tactile and huggy person. Would you?
Me too. Not being able to hug my nearest & dearest is so hard. I’m really missing the contact and, like a lot of others, finding it even more difficult this week.
Sending you all warmest hugs x"
Thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd really like a feel better spoon tbh.
The feel of my chest on their back, arm tucked under their breasts, the cold of their buttocks against my groin.
You have such a lovely chest..I'll be your little spoon x"
Deal. |
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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"When I can be sure I'm not a threat and am safe myself, I've got a lot of hugging to do. I might see if I can figure out how to give a good scalp massage, I miss those."
Then have a PPE hug xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems to me that lots of people are exhausted, feeling low or run-down.
So I have lots of fresh hugs, ready and waiting to give to anyone in need. It's ok to not be ok, and to reach out for a hug xxx"
I have a lot of time for that. A hug can do so much...i do love myself a nice cuddle xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I can be sure I'm not a threat and am safe myself, I've got a lot of hugging to do. I might see if I can figure out how to give a good scalp massage, I miss those.
Then have a PPE hug xx"
Its the 2m rule that ruins it...but id be happy to hug in gloves and mask  lol xx |
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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It seems to me that lots of people are exhausted, feeling low or run-down.
So I have lots of fresh hugs, ready and waiting to give to anyone in need. It's ok to not be ok, and to reach out for a hug xxx
I have a lot of time for that. A hug can do so much...i do love myself a nice cuddle xx"
What' not to like? |
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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"When I can be sure I'm not a threat and am safe myself, I've got a lot of hugging to do. I might see if I can figure out how to give a good scalp massage, I miss those.
Then have a PPE hug xx
Its the 2m rule that ruins it...but id be happy to hug in gloves and mask lol xx"
Deal. |
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"I saw my bestie in Tesco late this afternoon - we cried because we couldn’t hug like we normally would doesn’t seem as traumatic in FaceTime
As if supermarkets aren’t already a weekly traumatic experience these days.... I made the effort to self scan to cut out handling of my purchases by anyone other than me. When I went to pay an assist rescanned several items as a check .... totally defeating the object, no gloves, no hand sanitiser I was fuming and crying at that point!
Have an extra sanitised hug from me for your tough day DC xx "
awe thanks Lois x |
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"I saw my bestie in Tesco late this afternoon - we cried because we couldn’t hug like we normally would doesn’t seem as traumatic in FaceTime
As if supermarkets aren’t already a weekly traumatic experience these days.... I made the effort to self scan to cut out handling of my purchases by anyone other than me. When I went to pay an assist rescanned several items as a check .... totally defeating the object, no gloves, no hand sanitiser I was fuming and crying at that point!
Aw DC...you really need lots of TLC & hugs xxxxx"
Tomorrow will be a better day |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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Contact, hugs and touch with our peers or intimate partners are, for most of us, essential for our mental health, well being and general functioning.
Our bio chemistry is designed so that even from being in the womb, we help to regulate each other with touch,sound, movement and exchange and response.
Our mood, instincts, parasympathetic nervous system, serotonin, oxytocin, dopamine levels and all rely on close human contact and in the flesh exchange ranging from smiles and conversation to touch.
It's so wrong that lots of us are without this during such a stressful time with many people facing huge challenges.
Our bodies and minds know it innately and it causes us to feel imbalance and confusion in our regulation systems.
I have found it jarring and challenging. Like a feeling of losing all my reference points at times!
My children give me hugs but the chemistry is different .. as a parent, I'm hard wired to be in the role of 'regulator', so it's not quite the same .. and this is the reason why lots of single parents quarantining with children are still suffering with lack of meaningful contact.
Oh for a beautiful regulating hug to sink into. I wonder when it will come.
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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Contact, hugs and touch with our peers or intimate partners are, for most of us, essential for our mental health, well being and general functioning.
Our bio chemistry is designed so that even from being in the womb, we help to regulate each other with touch,sound, movement and exchange and response.
Our mood, instincts, parasympathetic nervous system, serotonin, oxytocin, dopamine levels and all rely on close human contact and in the flesh exchange ranging from smiles and conversation to touch.
It's so wrong that lots of us are without this during such a stressful time with many people facing huge challenges.
Our bodies and minds know it innately and it causes us to feel imbalance and confusion in our regulation systems.
I have found it jarring and challenging. Like a feeling of losing all my reference points at times!
My children give me hugs but the chemistry is different .. as a parent, I'm hard wired to be in the role of 'regulator', so it's not quite the same .. and this is the reason why lots of single parents quarantining with children are still suffering with lack of meaningful contact.
Oh for a beautiful regulating hug to sink into. I wonder when it will come.
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I can only offer a virtual hug, I'm afraid. But it's yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I can be sure I'm not a threat and am safe myself, I've got a lot of hugging to do. I might see if I can figure out how to give a good scalp massage, I miss those.
Then have a PPE hug xx
Its the 2m rule that ruins it...but id be happy to hug in gloves and mask lol xx
Deal."
Cant wait |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hugs to all that need one and an extra squishy one to you Lisa as you always do a hug thread for us xx
Thank you, Lois. Are you feeling any better?"
Different meds are helping now. Just longing for the day I can put a bra on again. And that is something I never thought I would hear myself say  |
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"Hugs to all that need one and an extra squishy one to you Lisa as you always do a hug thread for us xx
Thank you, Lois. Are you feeling any better?
Different meds are helping now. Just longing for the day I can put a bra on again. And that is something I never thought I would hear myself say "
Hope you are ok Lois xxx |
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"Hugs to all that need one and an extra squishy one to you Lisa as you always do a hug thread for us xx
Thank you, Lois. Are you feeling any better?
Different meds are helping now. Just longing for the day I can put a bra on again. And that is something I never thought I would hear myself say "
I didn't know you were unwell Louis. I'm glad the meds are working for you x |
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