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Ladies..... i cant apologise enough
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To all the ladies on here..
Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...
A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..
Guys.. we have to cop on... its not fair on some of the ladies. My friend was just dipping her toe in for a look.... and the messages she got.. and her profile was blank. No pictures up .. and still the messages and content.. not fair on them..
Again i apologise..
Guys..
Cop on ! |
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Thats the problem. There are some total plonkers on here that can put women off before they even start. The genuine good guys sadly get tarred with the same brush.
It can feel like you're lookinh for a needle in a haystack when looking for the nice people on here but there are plenty who exist. We have been fortunate and have met/chatting to some real gems, incl a few single guys. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Thats the problem. There are some total plonkers on here that can put women off before they even start. The genuine good guys sadly get tarred with the same brush.
It can feel like you're lookinh for a needle in a haystack when looking for the nice people on here but there are plenty who exist. We have been fortunate and have met/chatting to some real gems, incl a few single guys."
Na I disagree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To all the ladies on here..
Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...
A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..
Guys.. we have to cop on... its not fair on some of the ladies. My friend was just dipping her toe in for a look.... and the messages she got.. and her profile was blank. No pictures up .. and still the messages and content.. not fair on them..
Again i apologise..
Guys..
Cop on !"
Its almost a certainty that those guys don't use the forums to read this and given their attitude towards the girls they are uncapable of treating them any different.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP you don’t have to apologise for me, in the time I’ve been here I’ve never and never intend to start being rude or demanding.......rudeness is a reflection on the individual and will be treated accordingly  |
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Works both ways bud, as its already been said, most of the guys in the forums will already be treating everyone with the respect they deserve anyway, but a lot of people, of all genders and sex sign up wanting it to be just a pure sex site and think everyone will just meet them regardless |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fresh meat... it gets them circling 
It will calm down a little after a week or so, but tell her to set her filters and delete and block (to prevent multiple messages) those she’s not interested in.
When I first joined I was shocked at the volume of messages and the content, it’s not often I’m shocked any more  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To all the ladies on here..
Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...
A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..
Guys.. we have to cop on... its not fair on some of the ladies. My friend was just dipping her toe in for a look.... and the messages she got.. and her profile was blank. No pictures up .. and still the messages and content.. not fair on them..
Again i apologise..
Guys..
Cop on !"
I'm always polite, agreed about filters tighten them to le out a lot or just look for guys herself and block guys all together using filters  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To all the ladies on here..
Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...
A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..
Guys.. we have to cop on... its not fair on some of the ladies. My friend was just dipping her toe in for a look.... and the messages she got.. and her profile was blank. No pictures up .. and still the messages and content.. not fair on them..
Again i apologise..
Guys..
Cop on !I'm always polite, agreed about filters tighten them to le out a lot or just look for guys herself and block guys all together using filters "
we#edle out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Arseholes come in all and non sexes. I think anyone on here who gets an arsehole in their inbox knows how to deal with them. Some people like one type of approach and some people don’t. This site is all about choice. If you want the vanilla then try a dating site. I’m on tinder btw  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"To all the ladies on here..
Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...
A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..
Guys.. we have to cop on... its not fair on some of the ladies. My friend was just dipping her toe in for a look.... and the messages she got.. and her profile was blank. No pictures up .. and still the messages and content.. not fair on them..
Again i apologise..
Guys..
Cop on !I'm always polite, agreed about filters tighten them to le out a lot or just look for guys herself and block guys all together using filters we#edle out "
You polite? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No need to apologise on my behalf thank you kind sir, I am always polite and courteous in messaging people. If I get any sort of rejection, I am always dignified and reply politely.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To all the ladies on here..
Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...
A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..
Guys.. we have to cop on... its not fair on some of the ladies. My friend was just dipping her toe in for a look.... and the messages she got.. and her profile was blank. No pictures up .. and still the messages and content.. not fair on them..
Again i apologise..
Guys..
Cop on !I'm always polite, agreed about filters tighten them to le out a lot or just look for guys herself and block guys all together using filters we#edle out
You polite?"
yes always |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"To all the ladies on here..
Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...
A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..
Guys.. we have to cop on... its not fair on some of the ladies. My friend was just dipping her toe in for a look.... and the messages she got.. and her profile was blank. No pictures up .. and still the messages and content.. not fair on them..
Again i apologise..
Guys..
Cop on !I'm always polite, agreed about filters tighten them to le out a lot or just look for guys herself and block guys all together using filters we#edle out
You polite?yes always "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a male friend who joined and got plenty abuse and awful messages from females after 2wks on here. Bad people come in male and female form."
Agree I’ve now blocked all single women
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Such a shame for the decent guys to struggle amongst the idiots.
I can honestly say I’ve never sent (or received) anything other than pleasant messages 
I’m polishing my ...errrr ....halo this evening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had the same. My friend joined but couldn't handle the messages she got so left after a week! We were planning all sorts
I think you should ask her to reconsider. Um...........plans? "
A three way with Bertie Bassett. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly I think OP was just trying to be kind on behalf of his friend. Don't think he meant to insult every nice guy out there, of which there are many. But there are some people, male and female, who spoil Fab for the rest of us with abusive messages. It's a shame. |
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