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Why should you choose an average, married guy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None of those are exclusive to married men.
3 should be a basic requirement for everyone regardless of if you’re planning to meet them to get your frisk on, or if they’re delivering your post in the morning  |
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By *smith45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"None of those are exclusive to married men.
3 should be a basic requirement for everyone regardless of if you’re planning to meet them to get your frisk on, or if they’re delivering your post in the morning "
3 is more like, in an mmf situation, being average wont be intimidating to other men. Otherwise, what you refer to goes without saying. |
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By *smith45 OP Man
over a year ago
wantage |
"Are we talking married cheating guys?
Aawh moral high grounder.
Can we not just accept people are into different things?"
I always do, labelling is easy and what I said was reflection in a sense |
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"Are we talking married cheating guys?
Aawh moral high grounder."
She simply asked if married and cheating - I wouldn’t meet a guy who was married and partner didn’t know they were on here.
Some people would, not everyone is the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are we talking married cheating guys?
Aawh moral high grounder.
Can we not just accept people are into different things?
I always do, labelling is easy and what I said was reflection in a sense"
You labelled the person you responded to quick enough...
Maybe fucking someone else's husband without their knowledge doesn't sit well with them? They didn't judge you, they asked a question...
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By *smith45 OP Man
over a year ago
wantage |
"Are we talking married cheating guys?
Aawh moral high grounder.
She simply asked if married and cheating - I wouldn’t meet a guy who was married and partner didn’t know they were on here.
Some people would, not everyone is the same "
Fair enough. |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;
1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.
2. appreciates.
3. doesn't intimidate.
4. requires and provises discreation"
1. Can't prove that unless he turns up with his marriage certificate/album
2. Subjective
3. No guarantee of that
4. Suggests he's cheating. Besides, does anyone shout out publicly that they're on fab and who they've met?!? |
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"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;
1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.
2. appreciates.
3. doesn't intimidate.
4. requires and provises discreation"
1. What does “has the ultimate verification” actually mean? Being married doesn’t make you a better meet than a single guy who can provide all that I am looking for, in fact the last it would make you so much more less attractive to me.
2. Single guys appreciate us 
3. Women and couples can be intimidating
4. Discretion in this scenario sounds more like creeping around to avoid the wife 
Married men, no ta  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"None of those are exclusive to married men.
3 should be a basic requirement for everyone regardless of if you’re planning to meet them to get your frisk on, or if they’re delivering your post in the morning
3 is more like, in an mmf situation, being average wont be intimidating to other men. Otherwise, what you refer to goes without saying. "
If you’re comfortable with yourself, you won’t be intimidated by anyone else in that sort of situation. |
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By *smith45 OP Man
over a year ago
wantage |
"None of those are exclusive to married men.
3 should be a basic requirement for everyone regardless of if you’re planning to meet them to get your frisk on, or if they’re delivering your post in the morning
3 is more like, in an mmf situation, being average wont be intimidating to other men. Otherwise, what you refer to goes without saying.
If you’re comfortable with yourself, you won’t be intimidated by anyone else in that sort of situation. "
Its not intimidating me, me being average wont be an intimidation to others, just a possible thing that can be putting off mf couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"None of those are exclusive to married men.
3 should be a basic requirement for everyone regardless of if you’re planning to meet them to get your frisk on, or if they’re delivering your post in the morning
3 is more like, in an mmf situation, being average wont be intimidating to other men. Otherwise, what you refer to goes without saying. "
And number 1? The ‘ultimate verification’ is you being married. And we would know you’re dishonest so that verification would be redundant.
Not judging anyone for cheating, or those that meet married men. I’m just pointing out the flaws in your logic And let you see it from an outsiders point of view |
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"Are we talking married cheating guys?
Aawh moral high grounder."
I ask because my only experience with married men is those in open relationships and didn't want to wade into a discussion if my contribution was irrelevant but whatever |
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"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;
1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.
2. appreciates.
3. doesn't intimidate.
4. requires and provises discreation"
Well I am sold.
Put me down for 6 of those, thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;
1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.
2. appreciates.
3. doesn't intimidate.
4. requires and provises discreation"
Sorry but this makes no sense whatsoever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;
1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.
2. appreciates.
3. doesn't intimidate.
4. requires and provises discreation"
What ultimate verification? ? We don't see it.
Appreciates? Question there is does the married man appreciate his unsuspecting trusting wife at home enough to tell her what he is doing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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imagine how upset his wife would be if she knew, if you want to play away do the honest thing and tell her, if she is ok with it then fine, but if she kicks you out then move on, understand that some couples dont have much of a relationship, but cheating is never ok |
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"What is the ultimate verification ?
Being verified for 10 or more years
The Queen has been married for 72 years. Does that make her a better swinger than you ?"
It’s amazing how people’s mind works innit |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;
1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.
2. appreciates.
3. doesn't intimidate.
4. requires and provises discreation"
I think even an average married guy can fail on those points  they are only human after all. |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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"What is the ultimate verification ?
Being verified for 10 or more years
The Queen has been married for 72 years. Does that make her a better swinger than you ?
It’s amazing how people’s mind works innit "
Well she is always getting licked on the back of her head, or being fingered in pockets |
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"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;
1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.
2. appreciates.
3. doesn't intimidate.
4. requires and provises discreation"
If this is what I was looking for I have my hubby up the other end of the sofa.. Only difference is he gives me respect - if he wants to go for a sexy meet he is honest and tells me |
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"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;
1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.
2. appreciates.
3. doesn't intimidate.
4. requires and provises discreation"
Definitely not. There's no challenge or fun. Average is what you do when you're desperate right? Why can't you find someone that ticks all your boxes then you appreciate each other more instead of feeling like you're just using each other. |
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