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What do they say? Better, same or worse?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My lfwb always says my new pics look nice and he has seen me most recently so I guess I must look like them.
Of course he may be too polite to say that he could have me for trade descriptions.
I did go on a date from a "dating site" with a guy once and he looked nothing like his pictures in the flesh as in real life he looked at least 10 years older. He asked me as we were parting did I think he looked older and I kindly said about 3 years. He put some snotty comment on his profile before I had even got on my train. Needless to say I never saw him again.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My lfwb always says my new pics look nice and he has seen me most recently so I guess I must look like them.
Of course he may be too polite to say that he could have me for trade descriptions.
I did go on a date from a "dating site" with a guy once and he looked nothing like his pictures in the flesh as in real life he looked at least 10 years older. He asked me as we were parting did I think he looked older and I kindly said about 3 years. He put some snotty comment on his profile before I had even got on my train. Needless to say I never saw him again.
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You are way too kind for your own good. So looking forward to meeting you when this shite is all over and we’re both better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My lfwb always says my new pics look nice and he has seen me most recently so I guess I must look like them.
Of course he may be too polite to say that he could have me for trade descriptions.
I did go on a date from a "dating site" with a guy once and he looked nothing like his pictures in the flesh as in real life he looked at least 10 years older. He asked me as we were parting did I think he looked older and I kindly said about 3 years. He put some snotty comment on his profile before I had even got on my train. Needless to say I never saw him again.
You are way too kind for your own good. So looking forward to meeting you when this shite is all over and we’re both better "
Kindness goes a long way before a facepalm 
Me too we can compare scars although of course that will mean me whipping a boob out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apparently I was better looking in person, I don’t see it myself "
Hmmm. Well if I check my extensive vid collection, I reckon you’re one who’ll definitely be better in action  |
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I don't think many people have confessed their true feelings to me about this to be fair. However one lady decided to tell everyone at a club that I looked nothing like my pictures  I was flattered that she cared enough to talk about me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t have a clue. Nobody has ever said. But I always think I look better in photos  "
Yeah but what we think is often different to what others think, no? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The same usually. Although I always get you're taller than I thought, even though my height is correct on my profile! Heels do make you a bit taller people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The same usually. Although I always get you're taller than I thought, even though my height is correct on my profile! Heels do make you a bit taller people "
I get the opposite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope they say i look like my photos .
A lot of you on this thread have met me, so you tell me. "
Even better! Your smile shines ! Your bouncy personality too  photos dont convey that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently I was better looking in person, I don’t see it myself
Hmmm. Well if I check my extensive vid collection, I reckon you’re one who’ll definitely be better in action "
Christ I’ve something to live up to now, she just said it as she pulled me in through her front door  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope they say i look like my photos .
A lot of you on this thread have met me, so you tell me.
Even better! Your smile shines ! Your bouncy personality too photos dont convey that x"
Oh i absolutely love you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apparently I was better looking in person, I don’t see it myself
Hmmm. Well if I check my extensive vid collection, I reckon you’re one who’ll definitely be better in action
Christ I’ve something to live up to now, she just said it as she pulled me in through her front door "
Wonder where I’ll be pulling you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hope they say i look like my photos .
A lot of you on this thread have met me, so you tell me. "
I haven’t seen your boobs but you’re better in real life and soooooo cute with your other half |
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"I hope they say i look like my photos .
A lot of you on this thread have met me, so you tell me.
Even better! Your smile shines ! Your bouncy personality too photos dont convey that x"
And she gives an awesome cuddle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently I was better looking in person, I don’t see it myself
Hmmm. Well if I check my extensive vid collection, I reckon you’re one who’ll definitely be better in action
Christ I’ve something to live up to now, she just said it as she pulled me in through her front door
Wonder where I’ll be pulling you "
And what by  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope they say i look like my photos .
A lot of you on this thread have met me, so you tell me.
I haven’t seen your boobs but you’re better in real life and soooooo cute with your other half "
Aww thanks lovely.
I think The 1st thing you ever said to me "was Christ you talk a lot" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hope they say i look like my photos .
A lot of you on this thread have met me, so you tell me.
Even better! Your smile shines ! Your bouncy personality too photos dont convey that x
And she gives an awesome cuddle "
Right back at ya. X
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hope they say i look like my photos .
A lot of you on this thread have met me, so you tell me.
I haven’t seen your boobs but you’re better in real life and soooooo cute with your other half
Aww thanks lovely.
I think The 1st thing you ever said to me "was Christ you talk a lot" "
Was I wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I generally disappoint but still get laid. It’s all good
Rubbish and you know it.
No lovely I do not. I also make people car sick. "
Yes you do, no denying that one |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Ermmm, I'm not sure. I think how they feel about me affects how they view me. I've had people say I'm attractive, express surprise I'm not white and there was one who told me I was a lot fatter than she was expecting... so mixed bag. I probably look better in photos. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ermmm, I'm not sure. I think how they feel about me affects how they view me. I've had people say I'm attractive, express surprise I'm not white and there was one who told me I was a lot fatter than she was expecting... so mixed bag. I probably look better in photos. "
You’re better in life gorgeous |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Tends to be "you're just as I expected" if it gets discussed at all, but usually by the time it's got to meeting with the people I meet we've been talking for so long and have established a connection and chemistry, and know each other well enough, that I wouldn't expect anything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ermmm, I'm not sure. I think how they feel about me affects how they view me. I've had people say I'm attractive, express surprise I'm not white and there was one who told me I was a lot fatter than she was expecting... so mixed bag. I probably look better in photos. "
You’re very pretty. And that voice! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first met my fwb face to face he had no trouble recognising me in the coffee shop.
If he thought I didn't look like my pics then he hid it very well and had no hesitation in arranging again
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When I first met my fwb face to face he had no trouble recognising me in the coffee shop.
If he thought I didn't look like my pics then he hid it very well and had no hesitation in arranging again
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So looking forward to seeing you in real |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When you finally meet someone off here, what have they said about you? That you look better, the same or worse than your pics?
You tell me "
You’re just as beautiful in real life as your pics show |
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"Ermmm, I'm not sure. I think how they feel about me affects how they view me. I've had people say I'm attractive, express surprise I'm not white and there was one who told me I was a lot fatter than she was expecting... so mixed bag. I probably look better in photos. "
You know you're gorgeous Meli  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you finally meet someone off here, what have they said about you? That you look better, the same or worse than your pics?
You tell me
You’re just as beautiful in real life as your pics show "
Ahhh, thank you lovely. I need the today
You're very beautiful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you finally meet someone off here, what have they said about you? That you look better, the same or worse than your pics?
You tell me
You’re just as beautiful in real life as your pics show
Ahhh, thank you lovely. I need the today
You're very beautiful "
We havent met yet but sending love x I'm always in awe of your strength and flexibility x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Ermmm, I'm not sure. I think how they feel about me affects how they view me. I've had people say I'm attractive, express surprise I'm not white and there was one who told me I was a lot fatter than she was expecting... so mixed bag. I probably look better in photos.
You’re very pretty. And that voice!"
Thanks Nora. x
(And thank you Slim and Inca as well ) |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"When you finally meet someone off here, what have they said about you? That you look better, the same or worse than your pics?
You tell me
You’re just as beautiful in real life as your pics show "
Isn't she just? Hippy you're a stunner and the positive radiates from you x |
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"Ermmm, I'm not sure. I think how they feel about me affects how they view me. I've had people say I'm attractive, express surprise I'm not white and there was one who told me I was a lot fatter than she was expecting... so mixed bag. I probably look better in photos.
You’re very pretty. And that voice!
Thanks Nora. x
(And thank you Slim and Inca as well )"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive never had anyone say anything. That's not good is it
It means you’re the same as in your pics then which are lovely
I'll go with that. It's better than the one I thought - better to just say nothing "
. No way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you finally meet someone off here, what have they said about you? That you look better, the same or worse than your pics?
You tell me
You’re just as beautiful in real life as your pics show
Ahhh, thank you lovely. I need the today
You're very beautiful
We havent met yet but sending love x I'm always in awe of your strength and flexibility x"
Thank you . I'm looking forward to meeting you one day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you finally meet someone off here, what have they said about you? That you look better, the same or worse than your pics?
You tell me
You’re just as beautiful in real life as your pics show
Isn't she just? Hippy you're a stunner and the positive radiates from you x"
Thank you , you're beautiful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Better but that’s cos you’re there and moving about and able to touch each other.
I’m trying real hard to lose the fat around my middle it’s my worst place and where I store all my weight gain. In a video or a picture you can see the round pot belly but in real life it’s not so noticeable and plus you can focus on other things! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They always say "fuck me! You're even uglier than your pictures! Can I put a paper bag over your head?""
Is that because they know what you want to hear?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Better but that’s cos you’re there and moving about and able to touch each other.
I’m trying real hard to lose the fat around my middle it’s my worst place and where I store all my weight gain. In a video or a picture you can see the round pot belly but in real life it’s not so noticeable and plus you can focus on other things!"
Ach you... your pics are gorgeous and I can imagine you’re much, much better live. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Better but that’s cos you’re there and moving about and able to touch each other.
I’m trying real hard to lose the fat around my middle it’s my worst place and where I store all my weight gain. In a video or a picture you can see the round pot belly but in real life it’s not so noticeable and plus you can focus on other things!
Ach you... your pics are gorgeous and I can imagine you’re much, much better live."
Thanks. Did you read my post on your surgery thread about things to avoid before going in? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Better but that’s cos you’re there and moving about and able to touch each other.
I’m trying real hard to lose the fat around my middle it’s my worst place and where I store all my weight gain. In a video or a picture you can see the round pot belly but in real life it’s not so noticeable and plus you can focus on other things!
Ach you... your pics are gorgeous and I can imagine you’re much, much better live.
Thanks. Did you read my post on your surgery thread about things to avoid before going in?"
Nope . Will check now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always say I look better which I guess is the preferred thought haha.
Usually hear they are surprised I'm on fab since I look too innocent, never quite sure how to take that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always say I look better which I guess is the preferred thought haha.
Usually hear they are surprised I'm on fab since I look too innocent, never quite sure how to take that "
Take it as the compliment it’s meant to be I say... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do sometimes get the reaction of "you don't look like I thought you would " when I send a face pic
I never quite know how to take that one "
Compliment |
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Mostly they dont know it's me in the first place as I turn up looking like some middle aged dude unless they're lucky enough to find me in a club
Ad for do I look better or worse, fuck knows, you tell me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do sometimes get the reaction of "you don't look like I thought you would " when I send a face pic
I never quite know how to take that one "
Let’s see your face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do sometimes get the reaction of "you don't look like I thought you would " when I send a face pic
I never quite know how to take that one
Let’s see your face "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been told prettier in person a few times before. Probably because I display a lot of stupid photos "
I've had this once too.
I just think "oh pee off." It's not a compliment at all
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No one has ever said if I look better,older or younger in person
I did. You can't have been paying attention
Oh pray tell
I don't kiss and tell 
Unless there's a very good incentive "
Oh no secrets. Better, same or worse? |
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"No one has ever said if I look better,older or younger in person
I did. You can't have been paying attention
Oh pray tell
I don't kiss and tell
Unless there's a very good incentive
Oh no secrets. Better, same or worse?"
Better x he's gorgeous
And not just saying that as im now bias. I told him he looked better first time I saw him in person. |
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"I've been told prettier in person a few times before. Probably because I display a lot of stupid photos
And because you're prettier in person  "
Oh god that could sound bad too....hand me a shovel and let me dig my way out.
You're mighty fine in your pics as it is and better still in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I first met my fwb face to face he had no trouble recognising me in the coffee shop.
If he thought I didn't look like my pics then he hid it very well and had no hesitation in arranging again
So looking forward to seeing you in real "
You too hon! But concentrate on you first and getting better |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No one has ever said if I look better,older or younger in person
I did. You can't have been paying attention
Oh pray tell
I don't kiss and tell
Unless there's a very good incentive
Oh no secrets. Better, same or worse?
Better x he's gorgeous
And not just saying that as im now bias. I told him he looked better first time I saw him in person. "
I didn't hear a thing I was in shock at the beauty of the godess standing in front of me |
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"No one has ever said if I look better,older or younger in person
I did. You can't have been paying attention
Oh pray tell
I don't kiss and tell
Unless there's a very good incentive
Oh no secrets. Better, same or worse?
Better x he's gorgeous
And not just saying that as im now bias. I told him he looked better first time I saw him in person. I didn't hear a thing I was in shock at the beauty of the godess standing in front of me "
Oooh you are so cheesy sometimes |
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"Nobody has appeared to be shocked when they have seen me so I must look at least fairly similar to my photos
I’ve been told I’m as lovely in person as I am on here. I’m happy with that "
You absolutely are |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No one has ever said if I look better,older or younger in person
I did. You can't have been paying attention
Oh pray tell
I don't kiss and tell
Unless there's a very good incentive
Oh no secrets. Better, same or worse?
Better x he's gorgeous
And not just saying that as im now bias. I told him he looked better first time I saw him in person. I didn't hear a thing I was in shock at the beauty of the godess standing in front of me
Oooh you are so cheesy sometimes "
I know |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been told prettier in person a few times before. Probably because I display a lot of stupid photos
And because you're prettier in person
Oh god that could sound bad too....hand me a shovel and let me dig my way out.
You're mighty fine in your pics as it is and better still in person "
You know I'm damn hard to offend X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I look better in my pics, nobody says that but I know it's the case. I wouldn't post them if I looked worse in them, what would be the point."
. Fair point |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"The same usually. Although I always get you're taller than I thought, even though my height is correct on my profile! Heels do make you a bit taller people "
Well...you were quite the sight the first time seeing you in person |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Nobody has appeared to be shocked when they have seen me so I must look at least fairly similar to my photos
I’ve been told I’m as lovely in person as I am on here. I’m happy with that
You absolutely are "
As are you, lovely lady |
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"I havent really asked. I think I want to know now too x
Me too but I feel a bit weird bout asking 
I cant imagine anyone would say to someone they look horrendous though x "
Think I'd rather not find out |
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"I havent really asked. I think I want to know now too x
Me too but I feel a bit weird bout asking
I cant imagine anyone would say to someone they look horrendous though x
Think I'd rather not find out "
I'm thinking the same now x |
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"I look better in my pics, nobody says that but I know it's the case. I wouldn't post them if I looked worse in them, what would be the point."
In pics / in real life you know you look great in both {is that white knighting or lamppost pissing?} |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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"I look better in my pics, nobody says that but I know it's the case. I wouldn't post them if I looked worse in them, what would be the point.
In pics / in real life you know you look great in both {is that white knighting or lamppost pissing?} "
I don't know but I'll take it |
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"I can't remember it was that long ago.
Jo.Xx
You are both just as hot and just as lovely in person as you are on here. Maybe more so x"
Thank you Red! The same goes for you, definitely better in person
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"I don't think many people have confessed their true feelings to me about this to be fair. However one lady decided to tell everyone at a club that I looked nothing like my pictures I was flattered that she cared enough to talk about me. "
I think your pics are a good representation maybe you are a little sexier in person
D. |
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"When you finally meet someone off here, what have they said about you? That you look better, the same or worse than your pics?
One of my meet veris said "not as funny in person"
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Absolute bastards (although it would make a wonderful t shirt) |
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"When you finally meet someone off here, what have they said about you? That you look better, the same or worse than your pics?
One of my meet veris said "not as funny in person"
Absolute bastards (although it would make a wonderful t shirt)"
I might get it on a mug..... |
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"When you finally meet someone off here, what have they said about you? That you look better, the same or worse than your pics?
One of my meet veris said "not as funny in person"
Absolute bastards (although it would make a wonderful t shirt)
I might get it on a mug..... "
You are absolute f...g delight;-) x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I look better in my pics, nobody says that but I know it's the case. I wouldn't post them if I looked worse in them, what would be the point.
In pics / in real life you know you look great in both {is that white knighting or lamppost pissing?}
I don't know but I'll take it "
I’ve got to agree. You’re as hot in real life as in your pics. Plus your accent is cute |
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"When you finally meet someone off here, what have they said about you? That you look better, the same or worse than your pics?
One of my meet veris said "not as funny in person"
Absolute bastards (although it would make a wonderful t shirt)
I might get it on a mug.....
You are absolute f...g delight;-) x"
This is true. I am, I am.... |
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you definitely take good pics, but there’s just something about the lighting in the gents toilets 