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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The whole "your loss" "their loss" guff has never made much sense to me tbh... Nobody is loosing out by not meeting someone they don't want to, whatever the reason. |
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By *adeite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The whole "your loss" "their loss" guff has never made much sense to me tbh... Nobody is loosing out by not meeting someone they don't want to, whatever the reason. "
Exactly my thoughts.
I said no. If I wasn't interested in the first place why would I be losing?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's a typo, they mean to say "you're lost". Not quite sure what that means though
Ahh. I took a right by tesco. Should have taken a left  "
Maybe they are looking for directions to the G spot, left a bit, back a bit, oh you're lost. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To hide their latent insecurities. Plus it's quicker and easier to write than "Your rejection has dented my pride and I will use this as validation that I am not worthy of a meaningful and rewarding relationship.....and although I wanted to have sex with you not 5 minutes ago, I would now be secretly happy if some major catastrophe befell you!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So, It's our loss as we didn't want to meet someone who wanted to meet us, but because we declined the meet it's our loss, so the meet won't now take place which creates the loss, so the loss is our loss and not their loss, because if it was their loss then the loss would be there's, but the loss can't be there's because it should be our loss.
Phew, think I covered that rather well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, It's our loss as we didn't want to meet someone who wanted to meet us, but because we declined the meet it's our loss, so the meet won't now take place which creates the loss, so the loss is our loss and not their loss, because if it was their loss then the loss would be there's, but the loss can't be there's because it should be our loss.
Phew, think I covered that rather well "
Couldn’t of put it better myself haha |
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By *adeite OP Woman
over a year ago
Poole, but up in lincs for a bit |
"So, It's our loss as we didn't want to meet someone who wanted to meet us, but because we declined the meet it's our loss, so the meet won't now take place which creates the loss, so the loss is our loss and not their loss, because if it was their loss then the loss would be there's, but the loss can't be there's because it should be our loss.
Phew, think I covered that rather well "
nicely done |
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"Why do men use this phrase after being rejected?
I'm very confused.
Let's discuss."
Never mind that, I've heard stories of beautiful women becoming fat and ugly when they've rejected someone, wtf is that all about ? |
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Quite literally it means they are confident that had you met, you would have had a great time, hence you have lost something by not meeting them.
In reality, it means they are a bit peeved by the rejection and want to make feel like you've been rejected, not them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women use it as well. And couples. It means ‘fuck you for not wanting to meet me, I’m amazing!!!! No I’m not upset it’s their loss not mine, didn’t wanna meet them anywan’ |
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By *adeite OP Woman
over a year ago
Poole, but up in lincs for a bit |
"Why do men use this phrase after being rejected?
I'm very confused.
Let's discuss.
Never mind that, I've heard stories of beautiful women becoming fat and ugly when they've rejected someone, wtf is that all about ?"
Some people love fat and ugly is a perception down to the individual. Your idea id ugly is another's idea of beauty  |
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By *adeite OP Woman
over a year ago
Poole, but up in lincs for a bit |
"Women use it as well. And couples. It means ‘fuck you for not wanting to meet me, I’m amazing!!!! No I’m not upset it’s their loss not mine, didn’t wanna meet them anywan’"
very accurate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had quite a bit of abuse off single males on here simply because we've met singles before. I sure some em think it's there god given rite you should meet them as well pmsfl I just tell em to fuck off lol. If Leanne wants to meet that's different as long as when they chat its respectful dont get me wrong sometimes she dont want the respect she enjoys the dirty talk lol and I'm not saying all are the same there are sum decent guys on here that we will reply to. But no means fuckin no and fancy a qwic fuck is getting you no where ha ha. |
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"We've had quite a bit of abuse off single males on here simply because we've met singles before. I sure some em think it's there god given rite you should meet them as well pmsfl I just tell em to fuck off lol. If Leanne wants to meet that's different as long as when they chat its respectful dont get me wrong sometimes she dont want the respect she enjoys the dirty talk lol and I'm not saying all are the same there are sum decent guys on here that we will reply to. But no means fuckin no and fancy a qwic fuck is getting you no where ha ha."
Off topic slightly, but we've been on here about four years, probably get around ten messages a day from single men, reject 99% of them, yet have only had two abusive messages. That's out of about 1300 rejections.
We reject by not replying to mails. Maybe that's the way to not get abused? |
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By *adeite OP Woman
over a year ago
Poole, but up in lincs for a bit |
"Why do men use this phrase after being rejected?
I'm very confused.
Let's discuss.
Could it be something to do with how you’ve worded your reply? "
I believe "No thank you" is my usual reply. |
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"Why do men use this phrase after being rejected?
I'm very confused.
Let's discuss.
Never mind that, I've heard stories of beautiful women becoming fat and ugly when they've rejected someone, wtf is that all about ?
Some people love fat and ugly is a perception down to the individual. Your idea id ugly is another's idea of beauty "
Why are you raising an eye at me, I've don't call anyone fat and/or ugly, I take rejection well as it's just someone's personal preference.
I'm saying some guys call women beautiful and then change instantly when rejected which is dam false and kinda sad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've had quite a bit of abuse off single males on here simply because we've met singles before. I sure some em think it's there god given rite you should meet them as well pmsfl I just tell em to fuck off lol. If Leanne wants to meet that's different as long as when they chat its respectful dont get me wrong sometimes she dont want the respect she enjoys the dirty talk lol and I'm not saying all are the same there are sum decent guys on here that we will reply to. But no means fuckin no and fancy a qwic fuck is getting you no where ha ha.
Off topic slightly, but we've been on here about four years, probably get around ten messages a day from single men, reject 99% of them, yet have only had two abusive messages. That's out of about 1300 rejections.
We reject by not replying to mails. Maybe that's the way to not get abused? "
Ha ha your probably right but I just cant my self sometimes ?? |
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By *adeite OP Woman
over a year ago
Poole, but up in lincs for a bit |
"Why do men use this phrase after being rejected?
I'm very confused.
Let's discuss.
Never mind that, I've heard stories of beautiful women becoming fat and ugly when they've rejected someone, wtf is that all about ?
Some people love fat and ugly is a perception down to the individual. Your idea id ugly is another's idea of beauty
Why are you raising an eye at me, I've don't call anyone fat and/or ugly, I take rejection well as it's just someone's personal preference.
I'm saying some guys call women beautiful and then change instantly when rejected which is dam false and kinda sad "
I was just saying too.
I use your as a term for everyone otherwise I would have said you and been direct. Chill dude |
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"Why do men use this phrase after being rejected?
I'm very confused.
Let's discuss.
Never mind that, I've heard stories of beautiful women becoming fat and ugly when they've rejected someone, wtf is that all about ?
Some people love fat and ugly is a perception down to the individual. Your idea id ugly is another's idea of beauty
Why are you raising an eye at me, I've don't call anyone fat and/or ugly, I take rejection well as it's just someone's personal preference.
I'm saying some guys call women beautiful and then change instantly when rejected which is dam false and kinda sad
I was just saying too.
I use your as a term for everyone otherwise I would have said you and been direct. Chill dude "
Apologies, I read it wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've had quite a bit of abuse off single males on here simply because we've met singles before. I sure some em think it's there god given rite you should meet them as well pmsfl I just tell em to fuck off lol. If Leanne wants to meet that's different as long as when they chat its respectful dont get me wrong sometimes she dont want the respect she enjoys the dirty talk lol and I'm not saying all are the same there are sum decent guys on here that we will reply to. But no means fuckin no and fancy a qwic fuck is getting you no where ha ha.
Off topic slightly, but we've been on here about four years, probably get around ten messages a day from single men, reject 99% of them, yet have only had two abusive messages. That's out of about 1300 rejections.
We reject by not replying to mails. Maybe that's the way to not get abused? "
Lucky you I don’t even need to get an initial message to reject before the abuse comes |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"Why do men use this phrase after being rejected?
I'm very confused.
Let's discuss."
Women use this as well. It's a common phrase associated with rejection in general. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've had quite a bit of abuse off single males on here simply because we've met singles before. I sure some em think it's there god given rite you should meet them as well pmsfl I just tell em to fuck off lol. If Leanne wants to meet that's different as long as when they chat its respectful dont get me wrong sometimes she dont want the respect she enjoys the dirty talk lol and I'm not saying all are the same there are sum decent guys on here that we will reply to. But no means fuckin no and fancy a qwic fuck is getting you no where ha ha.
Off topic slightly, but we've been on here about four years, probably get around ten messages a day from single men, reject 99% of them, yet have only had two abusive messages. That's out of about 1300 rejections.
We reject by not replying to mails. Maybe that's the way to not get abused?
Lucky you I don’t even need to get an initial message to reject before the abuse comes "
I dont bite anymore lol just laugh it's there loss pmsfl ha ha x |
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