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Something I've long been curious about !!
This is mainly for couples that met in the " traditional " way .
If you met your other half in a non swinging capacity , how on earth and more pertinently, when , does the subject of fucking other people come up ??
I mean surely during sexy time one of you doesnt blurt out " This would be so much better if Linda next door was sucking me off as well " .
Just being nosy  |
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"Something I've long been curious about !!
This is mainly for couples that met in the " traditional " way .
If you met your other half in a non swinging capacity , how on earth and more pertinently, when , does the subject of fucking other people come up ??
I mean surely during sexy time one of you doesnt blurt out " This would be so much better if Linda next door was sucking me off as well " .
Just being nosy "
With us it started when we would read naughty stories in mens magazines, then gradually started watching porn together and one thing led to another....... etc |
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"Something I've long been curious about !!
This is mainly for couples that met in the " traditional " way .
If you met your other half in a non swinging capacity , how on earth and more pertinently, when , does the subject of fucking other people come up ??
I mean surely during sexy time one of you doesnt blurt out " This would be so much better if Linda next door was sucking me off as well " .
Just being nosy With us it started when we would read naughty stories in mens magazines, then gradually started watching porn together and one thing led to another....... etc"
Fair enough, was just curious and a tad nosy  |
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It kinda just did . During a night of passion I did say “I wonder what it would be like if we watched another couple & vise- versa “ and with that it was a natural progression onto swinging , we spoke about it ie what we would like / not like ,a really open discussion about letting another couple in on our sex life . Never looked back it’s such fun when it works for all |
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"Something I've long been curious about !!
This is mainly for couples that met in the " traditional " way .
If you met your other half in a non swinging capacity , how on earth and more pertinently, when , does the subject of fucking other people come up ??
I mean surely during sexy time one of you doesnt blurt out " This would be so much better if Linda next door was sucking me off as well " .
Just being nosy With us it started when we would read naughty stories in mens magazines, then gradually started watching porn together and one thing led to another....... etc
Fair enough, was just curious and a tad nosy "
No problem. I can't remember the exact details but that was pretty much the origins that gave us the idea later on. |
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"It kinda just did . During a night of passion I did say “I wonder what it would be like if we watched another couple & vise- versa “ and with that it was a natural progression onto swinging , we spoke about it ie what we would like / not like ,a really open discussion about letting another couple in on our sex life . Never looked back it’s such fun when it works for all "
Cool , I suppose its different for each couple really |
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"Something I've long been curious about !!
This is mainly for couples that met in the " traditional " way .
If you met your other half in a non swinging capacity , how on earth and more pertinently, when , does the subject of fucking other people come up ??
I mean surely during sexy time one of you doesnt blurt out " This would be so much better if Linda next door was sucking me off as well " .
Just being nosy With us it started when we would read naughty stories in mens magazines, then gradually started watching porn together and one thing led to another....... etc
Fair enough, was just curious and a tad nosy No problem. I can't remember the exact details but that was pretty much the origins that gave us the idea later on."
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"Something I've long been curious about !!
This is mainly for couples that met in the " traditional " way .
If you met your other half in a non swinging capacity , how on earth and more pertinently, when , does the subject of fucking other people come up ??
I mean surely during sexy time one of you doesnt blurt out " This would be so much better if Linda next door was sucking me off as well " .
Just being nosy "
Haha our next door neighbor is actually called Linda xx |
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"Something I've long been curious about !!
This is mainly for couples that met in the " traditional " way .
If you met your other half in a non swinging capacity , how on earth and more pertinently, when , does the subject of fucking other people come up ??
I mean surely during sexy time one of you doesnt blurt out " This would be so much better if Linda next door was sucking me off as well " .
Just being nosy
Haha our next door neighbor is actually called Linda xx"
 omg haha |
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"Something I've long been curious about !!
This is mainly for couples that met in the " traditional " way .
If you met your other half in a non swinging capacity , how on earth and more pertinently, when , does the subject of fucking other people come up ??
I mean surely during sexy time one of you doesnt blurt out " This would be so much better if Linda next door was sucking me off as well " .
Just being nosy
Haha our next door neighbor is actually called Linda xx
omg haha "
And she knows we are swingers  |
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"Something I've long been curious about !!
This is mainly for couples that met in the " traditional " way .
If you met your other half in a non swinging capacity , how on earth and more pertinently, when , does the subject of fucking other people come up ??
I mean surely during sexy time one of you doesnt blurt out " This would be so much better if Linda next door was sucking me off as well " .
Just being nosy "
I would imagine it’s all about one broaching the subject some time into their relationship and them then living out the fantasy. I can’t imagine any new relationships would immediately seek swinging lifestyle unless they met at a swingers club initially.
Quite obvious really OP. |
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"Something I've long been curious about !!
This is mainly for couples that met in the " traditional " way .
If you met your other half in a non swinging capacity , how on earth and more pertinently, when , does the subject of fucking other people come up ??
I mean surely during sexy time one of you doesnt blurt out " This would be so much better if Linda next door was sucking me off as well " .
Just being nosy
Haha our next door neighbor is actually called Linda xx
omg haha
And she knows we are swingers "
I like Linda |
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"It came up while I was putting washing in the washing machine
trust you "
I fancied his pal and used to always joke about going home with it. We had a night out that night and while I was doing the washing, I joked again. And C was like ‘well...I wouldn’t be angry about it’ and we got chatting |
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"Something I've long been curious about !!
This is mainly for couples that met in the " traditional " way .
If you met your other half in a non swinging capacity , how on earth and more pertinently, when , does the subject of fucking other people come up ??
I mean surely during sexy time one of you doesnt blurt out " This would be so much better if Linda next door was sucking me off as well " .
Just being nosy
I would imagine it’s all about one broaching the subject some time into their relationship and them then living out the fantasy. I can’t imagine any new relationships would immediately seek swinging lifestyle unless they met at a swingers club initially.
Quite obvious really OP. "
I know that, that's why I asked " at what point " |
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"It came up while I was putting washing in the washing machine
trust you
I fancied his pal and used to always joke about going home with it. We had a night out that night and while I was doing the washing, I joked again. And C was like ‘well...I wouldn’t be angry about it’ and we got chatting"
Haha you weren't even joking |
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It came up in a conversation when we'd been together for a wee while, you know the conversation about past partners and/or experiences. And that lead us to other discussions. |
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"It came up in a conversation when we'd been together for a wee while, you know the conversation about past partners and/or experiences. And that lead us to other discussions. "
Ah I see , I can see how that works |
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"It came up in a conversation when we'd been together for a wee while, you know the conversation about past partners and/or experiences. And that lead us to other discussions. Ah I see , I can see how that works "
We not hardcore swingers, we've had very few experiences as couple, and few separately. Think just being open and honest is the key  |
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"It came up in a conversation when we'd been together for a wee while, you know the conversation about past partners and/or experiences. And that lead us to other discussions. Ah I see , I can see how that works
We not hardcore swingers, we've had very few experiences as couple, and few separately. Think just being open and honest is the key "
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I just asked her her fantasies and asked if she wanted to try them for real. The first one was me watching her with another guy while playing with myself we both enjoyed it so much weve just carried on lol... |
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"I just asked her her fantasies and asked if she wanted to try them for real. The first one was me watching her with another guy while playing with myself we both enjoyed it so much weve just carried on lol..."
And why not indeed |
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"It kinda just did . During a night of passion I did say “I wonder what it would be like if we watched another couple & vise- versa “ and with that it was a natural progression onto swinging , we spoke about it ie what we would like / not like ,a really open discussion about letting another couple in on our sex life . Never looked back it’s such fun when it works for all "
We were similar, we had discussed it over the years and when the time was right, I asked the Mr if he fancied it, luckily he agreed  |
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"It kinda just did . During a night of passion I did say “I wonder what it would be like if we watched another couple & vise- versa “ and with that it was a natural progression onto swinging , we spoke about it ie what we would like / not like ,a really open discussion about letting another couple in on our sex life . Never looked back it’s such fun when it works for all
We were similar, we had discussed it over the years and when the time was right, I asked the Mr if he fancied it, luckily he agreed "
Good job really |
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We started the conversation after talking about an incident involving the police outside my work, a couple and a woman arguing after leaving the local club over the road from my work,
Then both looked the place up online and found this site |
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"We started the conversation after talking about an incident involving the police outside my work, a couple and a woman arguing after leaving the local club over the road from my work,
Then both looked the place up online and found this site "
Stroke of luck there then |
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"Something I've long been curious about !!
This is mainly for couples that met in the " traditional " way .
If you met your other half in a non swinging capacity , how on earth and more pertinently, when , does the subject of fucking other people come up ??
I mean surely during sexy time one of you doesnt blurt out " This would be so much better if Linda next door was sucking me off as well " .
Just being nosy
I would imagine it’s all about one broaching the subject some time into their relationship and them then living out the fantasy. I can’t imagine any new relationships would immediately seek swinging lifestyle unless they met at a swingers club initially.
Quite obvious really OP.
I know that, that's why I asked " at what point " "
Doubt any couples will remember the exact date they thought it up. It’s usually a few years into the relationship where trust and familiarity are in place. Doesn’t take a genius to work it out. |
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"Something I've long been curious about !!
This is mainly for couples that met in the " traditional " way .
If you met your other half in a non swinging capacity , how on earth and more pertinently, when , does the subject of fucking other people come up ??
I mean surely during sexy time one of you doesnt blurt out " This would be so much better if Linda next door was sucking me off as well " .
Just being nosy
I would imagine it’s all about one broaching the subject some time into their relationship and them then living out the fantasy. I can’t imagine any new relationships would immediately seek swinging lifestyle unless they met at a swingers club initially.
Quite obvious really OP.
I know that, that's why I asked " at what point "
Doubt any couples will remember the exact date they thought it up. It’s usually a few years into the relationship where trust and familiarity are in place. Doesn’t take a genius to work it out. "
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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Just be brave and talk about things! It’s the only way. “Hey babe, fancy fancy getting a hot guy or girl to join us in bed sometime?” How hards that to say ?
I’ve known guys try and orchestrate accidental 3 and 4 somes with their partner and us or others, definitely a recipe for disaster. |
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"Just be brave and talk about things! It’s the only way. “Hey babe, fancy fancy getting a hot guy or girl to join us in bed sometime?” How hards that to say ?
I’ve known guys try and orchestrate accidental 3 and 4 somes with their partner and us or others, definitely a recipe for disaster."
Communication is key with everything. |
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"Just be brave and talk about things! It’s the only way. “Hey babe, fancy fancy getting a hot guy or girl to join us in bed sometime?” How hards that to say ?
I’ve known guys try and orchestrate accidental 3 and 4 somes with their partner and us or others, definitely a recipe for disaster."
I dont have a partner, I was just curious |
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Ours started by accident after watching a tv series based in Belgium, and the main character, who was also called Hannah, inspired us. Since then, we've had some rather naughty nights, a few meets, and hopefully we can build from there.. |
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