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Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?  |
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"Probably. Probably not. They get that attention for a reason I believe. They are welcome to celebrate it. 
Let's no rain on other peoples parade eh?
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Maybe some people feel like are judged less or be more themselves on fab.
It’s still real life to me as you still meet people. You only do the actually first part online, so it’s all real life to me  |
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We love the social side of swinging nearly as much as the playing. We have made some fabulous connections and friends. We are no different on here as we are in real life. We are both still quite modest and shy but with the right people, we happily let our guards down...  xx |
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"This will blow your minds, this is real life.
So we aren't in The Matrix then?"
Morpheus offered me either the red pill or the blue pill. I just took both of them at once. Now I know I'm living in a hallucination but I'm not bothered like... |
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"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down "
No I’m
Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts? "
Hmm. How do you know who gets attention on fab, or off fab? Cos that kind of track and trace technology could be handy right about now.
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"Attractive to one is not necessarily attractive to another, that's real life.
Im not going to find the kinky men I want up my local  "
Very very true!!! Agree! |
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"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down
No I’m
Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it"
What do you mean inflated egos?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Hmm. How do you know who gets attention on fab, or off fab? Cos that kind of track and trace technology could be handy right about now.
Mrs TMN "
It’s an assumption I’m making I’m not saying it’s true. |
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I'm probably one of those people but it doesn't give me an ego boost. I don't think about it.
I suppose in some ways If people are willing to lower their standards that's their concern not mine.
Attraction has to be mutual though so I guess its win win. |
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"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down
No I’m
Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it"
Possibly in the same way that people online can be so nasty and spiteful when behind a screen yet probably wouldn't have the backbone to say boo to a goose when confronted with them face to face.
You can reinvent yourself on here, be more confident, funny because you have time to compose your witty reply. Clever because you can just open Google on another tab.
It's Fab, don't overthink it. |
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Whenever I see a thread like this one I always read the subtext as "People who think they are attractive feeling miffed by people they consider not attractive getting more sex than they are"
Or to paraphrase "Sour Grapes"...
Always amuses me
Happy fabbing OPs |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts? "
Gotta agree there are a few egos on here, kinda like the popularity contests back at school some days |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Whenever I see a thread like this one I always read the subtext as "People who think they are attractive feeling miffed by people they consider not attractive getting more sex than they are"
Or to paraphrase "Sour Grapes"...
Always amuses me
Happy fabbing OPs "
Oh Minnie Minnie Minnie, how wrong you are! I am very content with my fab life thank you...are you?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Gotta agree there are a few egos on here, kinda like the popularity contests back at school some days "
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"Probably. Probably not. They get that attention for a reason I believe. They are welcome to celebrate it.
Let's no rain on other peoples parade eh?
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Yeah that’s totally cool good opinion |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts? "
Have you found that OP?
I think women definitely get more attention on here, you can set up an account and have no pics and you’ll still get some men messaging saying “Hi, you look gorgeous, fancy meeting ?” 
I think it can dent egos rather than inflate them.
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Have you found that OP?
I think women definitely get more attention on here, you can set up an account and have no pics and you’ll still get some men messaging saying “Hi, you look gorgeous, fancy meeting ?”
I think it can dent egos rather than inflate them.
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Ha yeah same here think you only literally need to say female and you get tons of messages just like that ...weird .
More curious to see if folk have come across this or not.
It doesn’t necessarily have to be appearance it could be how they come across in real life like perhaps some are total dicks and don’t get any attention but maybe here they can be more themselves and get more attention ... |
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"How do you know they don’t get attention in real life OP?
I didn’t say I KNOW it it’s an assumption I’m making "
Why do you assume they don’t get attention in real life? |
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"Whenever I see a thread like this one I always read the subtext as "People who think they are attractive feeling miffed by people they consider not attractive getting more sex than they are"
Or to paraphrase "Sour Grapes"...
Always amuses me
Happy fabbing OPs
Oh Minnie Minnie Minnie, how wrong you are! I am very content with my fab life thank you...are you??"
I've always said if you have the confidence and skills in real life, you'll do ok on here. FAB works for me |
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"How do you know they don’t get attention in real life OP?
I didn’t say I KNOW it it’s an assumption I’m making
Why do you assume they don’t get attention in real life?"
Am I not allowed to ASSUME things...? |
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I get on with people in real life too. It's the same on here, some will like you and you'll annoy the hell out of others.
If you mean attraction, then yeah, it's difficult to know if you'll be attracted physically until you meet unless you've been sending copious amounts of pictures! Even then the chemistry might not work.
But I certainly don't think you can generalise and say people wouldn't be attractive to others in the real world.
I've waffled on enough |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Whenever I see a thread like this one I always read the subtext as "People who think they are attractive feeling miffed by people they consider not attractive getting more sex than they are"
Or to paraphrase "Sour Grapes"...
Always amuses me
Happy fabbing OPs
Oh Minnie Minnie Minnie, how wrong you are! I am very content with my fab life thank you...are you??
I've always said if you have the confidence and skills in real life, you'll do ok on here. FAB works for me "
As it most certainly does for me |
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"How do you know they don’t get attention in real life OP?
I didn’t say I KNOW it it’s an assumption I’m making
Why do you assume they don’t get attention in real life?
Am I not allowed to ASSUME things...?"
I’m just curious would help me form an opinion |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts? "
How does that play out for you OP? |
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"I get on with people in real life too. It's the same on here, some will like you and you'll annoy the hell out of others.
If you mean attraction, then yeah, it's difficult to know if you'll be attracted physically until you meet unless you've been sending copious amounts of pictures! Even then the chemistry might not work.
But I certainly don't think you can generalise and say people wouldn't be attractive to others in the real world.
I've waffled on enough "
Totally agree with you there |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How does that play out for you OP?"
Not sure what you mean? |
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I’m probably one of those people as I’m very introverted in my daily life and prefer being under the radar...on fab I get a little attention because I’m able to express more of myself where it’s socially acceptable. But I absolutely don’t think it’s given me and ego, just confidence. And I’d imagine a lot of people on here are the same. |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts? "
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type? |
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Other way round for me. I probably get more attention in real life than here. I’m too picky here and probably come across a bit different to how I do in real life. |
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"I’m probably one of those people as I’m very introverted in my daily life and prefer being under the radar...on fab I get a little attention because I’m able to express more of myself where it’s socially acceptable. But I absolutely don’t think it’s given me and ego, just confidence. And I’d imagine a lot of people on here are the same."
That’s ace!! Yeah got to agree there huge difference between confidence and ego! And gaining more confidence through fab is ace |
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"I’m probably one of those people as I’m very introverted in my daily life and prefer being under the radar...on fab I get a little attention because I’m able to express more of myself where it’s socially acceptable. But I absolutely don’t think it’s given me and ego, just confidence. And I’d imagine a lot of people on here are the same."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whenever I see a thread like this one I always read the subtext as "People who think they are attractive feeling miffed by people they consider not attractive getting more sex than they are"
Or to paraphrase "Sour Grapes"...
Always amuses me
Happy fabbing OPs "
This. |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How does that play out for you OP?
Not sure what you mean?"
Do you get more attention on fab than real life? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type? "
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How does that play out for you OP?
Not sure what you mean?
Do you get more attention on fab than real life?"
Umm I get a lot in both. You? |
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"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down
No I’m
Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it
Possibly in the same way that people online can be so nasty and spiteful when behind a screen yet probably wouldn't have the backbone to say boo to a goose when confronted with them face to face.
You can reinvent yourself on here, be more confident, funny because you have time to compose your witty reply. Clever because you can just open Google on another tab.
It's Fab, don't overthink it."
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"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down
No I’m
Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it"
For me "real life" has been a few decades of shame and hiding my inner self. My relatively short "Fab life" has on the whole involved acceptance and encouragement. Yes there has been positive attention and yes at times that has hugely boosted my ego. It may be at times I have encouraged that attention, but on the whole this scene has been a reassuring experience. So perhaps the Fab me is to a degree more real than the real me? |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How does that play out for you OP?
Not sure what you mean?
Do you get more attention on fab than real life?"
i get lots of attention in life its about how you are with people, if you have good skills with people   |
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"Whenever I see a thread like this one I always read the subtext as "People who think they are attractive feeling miffed by people they consider not attractive getting more sex than they are"
Or to paraphrase "Sour Grapes"...
Always amuses me
Happy fabbing OPs
This. "
Yeah good one |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How does that play out for you OP?
Not sure what you mean?
Do you get more attention on fab than real life? i get lots of attention in life its about how you are with people, if you have good skills with people "
Okay. What skills are we talking about on here? |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not"
But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life? |
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"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down
No I’m
Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it
For me "real life" has been a few decades of shame and hiding my inner self. My relatively short "Fab life" has on the whole involved acceptance and encouragement. Yes there has been positive attention and yes at times that has hugely boosted my ego. It may be at times I have encouraged that attention, but on the whole this scene has been a reassuring experience. So perhaps the Fab me is to a degree more real than the real me?"
That’s awesome!! Yeah I have a few tv friends who have to hide their tv from friends and families and it must be so hard! Getting the confidence through fab is awesome really happy for you and all tvs who don’t have to hide here! Go girl!xx |
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"Why does it bother you so much OP? Everyone’s entitled the use the site in a way that helps them maximise their chances of meeting compatible people right? "
Curious to know this too |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How does that play out for you OP?
Not sure what you mean?
Do you get more attention on fab than real life? i get lots of attention in life its about how you are with people, if you have good skills with people
Okay. What skills are we talking about on here?"
verbal diarrhoea lol |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not
But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?"
I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train |
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"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down
No I’m
Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it
For me "real life" has been a few decades of shame and hiding my inner self. My relatively short "Fab life" has on the whole involved acceptance and encouragement. Yes there has been positive attention and yes at times that has hugely boosted my ego. It may be at times I have encouraged that attention, but on the whole this scene has been a reassuring experience. So perhaps the Fab me is to a degree more real than the real me?
That’s awesome!! Yeah I have a few tv friends who have to hide their tv from friends and families and it must be so hard! Getting the confidence through fab is awesome really happy for you and all tvs who don’t have to hide here! Go girl!xx"
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How does that play out for you OP?
Not sure what you mean?
Do you get more attention on fab than real life?
Umm I get a lot in both. You?"
I get way less attention on fab. Hence, I have to flirt my way through fab. My strike rate is sitting at .12%. Planning to increase to .5% by end of May. It's a tough yalker tbh! |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not
But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?
I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train"
“ I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?”
You said probably, not perhaps... have you forgotten what you’ve written?
How do you come to the conclusion that someone probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life? There’s no “negative train” I’m curious. |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not
But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?
I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train"
I don’t think anybody’s being negative, we’re just wondering why you perhaps think they don’t get attention in real life |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How does that play out for you OP?
Not sure what you mean?
Do you get more attention on fab than real life? i get lots of attention in life its about how you are with people, if you have good skills with people
Okay. What skills are we talking about on here?verbal diarrhoea lol "
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not
But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?
I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train
“ I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?”
You said probably, not perhaps... have you forgotten what you’ve written?
How do you come to the conclusion that someone probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life? There’s no “negative train” I’m curious. "
Maybe they’re fuck ugly |
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"Why does it bother you so much OP? Everyone’s entitled the use the site in a way that helps them maximise their chances of meeting compatible people right?
Curious to know this too"
When did I say it bothered me...nope pretty sure I didn’t say that. I think this site is awesome for many reasons as I’ve mentioned in other responses if you care to read them rather than just make up your mind before reading carefully...main point is huge difference between inflated egos and gaining confidence ...is there not? |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How does that play out for you OP?
Not sure what you mean?
Do you get more attention on fab than real life?
Umm I get a lot in both. You?
I get way less attention on fab. Hence, I have to flirt my way through fab. My strike rate is sitting at .12%. Planning to increase to .5% by end of May. It's a tough yalker tbh! "
maybe if you use better pictures of yourself youll be more successful |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not
But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?
I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train
“ I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?”
You said probably, not perhaps... have you forgotten what you’ve written?
How do you come to the conclusion that someone probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life? There’s no “negative train” I’m curious.
Maybe they’re fuck ugly "
I did ask if they’re not they’re type but they talked about personality too, so it can’t be that!
Besides one man’s ugly is another’s beautiful or attractive. |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not
But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?
I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train
I don’t think anybody’s being negative, we’re just wondering why you perhaps think they don’t get attention in real life "
Its an assumption... are people not allowed to assume things these days without offending folk? |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not
But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?
I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train
I don’t think anybody’s being negative, we’re just wondering why you perhaps think they don’t get attention in real life
Its an assumption... are people not allowed to assume things these days without offending folk?"
Who have you offended? Like I’ve explained, I’m asking why you’d assume that, so I can answer your OP profiler |
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over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not
But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?
I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train
“ I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?”
You said probably, not perhaps... have you forgotten what you’ve written?
How do you come to the conclusion that someone probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life? There’s no “negative train” I’m curious.
Maybe they’re fuck ugly
I did ask if they’re not they’re type but they talked about personality too, so it can’t be that!
Besides one man’s ugly is another’s beautiful or attractive."
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not
But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?
I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train
I don’t think anybody’s being negative, we’re just wondering why you perhaps think they don’t get attention in real life
Its an assumption... are people not allowed to assume things these days without offending folk?"
You’re welcome to assume.
I don’t think anyone’s offended, we are just curious as to where this assumption came from. |
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I'm so confused OP, are you saying people on here that get attention, dont get it in real life???
I'll answer it how I think you've asked.
I get attention on here and in real life, not always wanted attention. I'm here because it fits my lifestyle, it's not all about attention but it helps to attract people's attention if I want to create a connection with them or even just fuck them.
Does that answer your question? |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not
But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?
I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train
I don’t think anybody’s being negative, we’re just wondering why you perhaps think they don’t get attention in real life
Its an assumption... are people not allowed to assume things these days without offending folk?"
ASSUME = You make an ASS out of U and ME! |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not
But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?
I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train
“ I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?”
You said probably, not perhaps... have you forgotten what you’ve written?
How do you come to the conclusion that someone probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life? There’s no “negative train” I’m curious.
Maybe they’re fuck ugly
I did ask if they’re not they’re type but they talked about personality too, so it can’t be that!
Besides one man’s ugly is another’s beautiful or attractive."
True but a person can be stunning on the outside and ugly on the inside and the other way round
Personally both of mine are pretty ugly |
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over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?
Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not
But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?
I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train
I don’t think anybody’s being negative, we’re just wondering why you perhaps think they don’t get attention in real life
Its an assumption... are people not allowed to assume things these days without offending folk?
ASSUME = You make an ASS out of U and ME! "
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts? "
If it makes them feel better about themselves then sure, have a huge ego.
But you may think they have a huge ego, whereas they may just be joking. I tell everyone I’m a solid 10/10 and, although I am, I know fine well that not everyone agrees with me. If someone points this out, I’ll tell them they’re wrong.
Why? Cause it’s a joke. No ego here, despite what I’ve heard about myself  |
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over a year ago
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"Have some   OP
We all need it! 
Jo.Xx "
I have loads of love! And I love that folk have a great time here and get confidence...it’s the huge egos that tickle me xx |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
If it makes them feel better about themselves then sure, have a huge ego.
But you may think they have a huge ego, whereas they may just be joking. I tell everyone I’m a solid 10/10 and, although I am, I know fine well that not everyone agrees with me. If someone points this out, I’ll tell them they’re wrong.
Why? Cause it’s a joke. No ego here, despite what I’ve heard about myself "
Some people dig the whole ‘huge ego’ thing, so if they meet in person and realise their huge ego is only when they’re online, then meh. They played themselves |
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"Have some OP
We all need it!
Jo.Xx
I have loads of love! And I love that folk have a great time here and get confidence...it’s the huge egos that tickle me xx"
So me, love you too OP |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts? "
Do you include yourself in that? Or are you deserving of the attention you deride others for receiving? |
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"Have some OP
We all need it!
Jo.Xx
I have loads of love! And I love that folk have a great time here and get confidence...it’s the huge egos that tickle me xx
So me, love you too OP "
(As in, I have a great time and confidence) |
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over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
If it makes them feel better about themselves then sure, have a huge ego.
But you may think they have a huge ego, whereas they may just be joking. I tell everyone I’m a solid 10/10 and, although I am, I know fine well that not everyone agrees with me. If someone points this out, I’ll tell them they’re wrong.
Why? Cause it’s a joke. No ego here, despite what I’ve heard about myself
Some people dig the whole ‘huge ego’ thing, so if they meet in person and realise their huge ego is only when they’re online, then meh. They played themselves "
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Do you include yourself in that? Or are you deserving of the attention you deride others for receiving?"
Interesting question. If my verifications weren’t hidden perhaps you could make your own assumption from that. |
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There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.
Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".
If you think you're better than other people, you might wanna check in on your own confidence/arrogance before bashing other people's behaviour. Dulling someone's sparkle ain't gonna make yours shine any brighter.
Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not. |
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Threads like these get negativity because they imply certain people are not deserving of the attention they get on here. And on whose say so? Would an ego be more acceptable if the person gets that attention in ‘real life’ too? |
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"Have some OP
We all need it!
Jo.Xx
I have loads of love! And I love that folk have a great time here and get confidence...it’s the huge egos that tickle me xx
So me, love you too OP
(As in, I have a great time and confidence)"
Cool! That’s great. |
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"There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.
Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".
If you think you're better than other people, you might wanna check in on your own confidence/arrogance before bashing other people's behaviour. Dulling someone's sparkle ain't gonna make yours shine any brighter.
Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not."
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"Have some OP
We all need it!
Jo.Xx
I have loads of love! And I love that folk have a great time here and get confidence...it’s the huge egos that tickle me xx"
Yes, but what you have done here is create negative energy for yourself and that can't feel good.
But.. We all do what we want right!
Jo.Xx |
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over a year ago
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"There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.
Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".
If you think you're better than other people, you might wanna check in on your own confidence/arrogance before bashing other people's behaviour. Dulling someone's sparkle ain't gonna make yours shine any brighter.
Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not."
Yup agree 100% |
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"There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.
Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".
If you think you're better than other people, you might wanna check in on your own confidence/arrogance before bashing other people's behaviour. Dulling someone's sparkle ain't gonna make yours shine any brighter.
Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not."
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"There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.
Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".
If you think you're better than other people, you might wanna check in on your own confidence/arrogance before bashing other people's behaviour. Dulling someone's sparkle ain't gonna make yours shine any brighter.
Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not."
Absolutely this! |
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"There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.
Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".
If you think you're better than other people, you might wanna check in on your own confidence/arrogance before bashing other people's behaviour. Dulling someone's sparkle ain't gonna make yours shine any brighter.
Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not."
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"Have some OP
We all need it!
Jo.Xx
I have loads of love! And I love that folk have a great time here and get confidence...it’s the huge egos that tickle me xx
Yes, but what you have done here is create negative energy for yourself and that can't feel good.
But.. We all do what we want right!
Jo.Xx "
I enjoy seeing what folk think. And think everyone is bored right now and having a debate is great. But my original point has gone lost here. I’m taking about egos not confidence but folk are jumping on the wrong train.
No it’s not nice when folk get the wrong impression of what you’re trying to say and I probably should have worded it better than I did  xx |
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"There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.
Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".
If you think you're better than other people, you might wanna check in on your own confidence/arrogance before bashing other people's behaviour. Dulling someone's sparkle ain't gonna make yours shine any brighter.
Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not."
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"Here I am a king outside I am just an asshole with expensive shoes !
You're an asshole with expensive shoes on Fab too  "
Come on woman ! Let me live my dreams ! |
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"Here I am a king outside I am just an asshole with expensive shoes !
You're an asshole with expensive shoes on Fab too
Come on woman ! Let me live my dreams ! "
Sorry Roberto I'll get back to the kitchen!  |
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"Here I am a king outside I am just an asshole with expensive shoes !
You're an asshole with expensive shoes on Fab too
Come on woman ! Let me live my dreams !
Sorry Roberto I'll get back to the kitchen! "
Or in your room so I can say the word ! |
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I’ll be the first to admit I get more attention online that in My real life.......
In real life , No one looks at me sexually or will chat me up....
But online I am a bbc bull that will get 10 emails a day from MEN asking to suck me off ...... |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
For some of us munters this is the only place we can come and not feel like munters.
Twat."
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"Here I am a king outside I am just an asshole with expensive shoes !
You're an asshole with expensive shoes on Fab too
Come on woman ! Let me live my dreams !
Sorry Roberto I'll get back to the kitchen!
Or in your room so I can say the word ! "
Oh you just gave me a minge twinge
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"I’ll be the first to admit I get more attention online that in My real life.......
In real life , No one looks at me sexually or will chat me up....
But online I am a bbc bull that will get 10 emails a day from MEN asking to suck me off ......"
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"I’ll be the first to admit I get more attention online that in My real life.......
In real life , No one looks at me sexually or will chat me up....
But online I am a bbc bull that will get 10 emails a day from MEN asking to suck me off ......
11 "
That’s awesome for you both! Like I’ve said fab is awesome to gain confidence it’s when the confidence turns to an ego I think that’s when someone can change and not in a good way. But yeah happy for you and go with it xx |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters "
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time. |
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over a year ago
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"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down
No I’m
Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it"
Why do you think their egos are inflated? Do you think self worth should be based on looks then? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters "
So when did you hide your profile? Before or after your 'munter' comment? |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
So when did you hide your profile? Before or after your 'munter' comment? "
Pandemic on, try it |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
So when did you hide your profile? Before or after your 'munter' comment?
Pandemic on, try it "
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over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts? "
Which category do you fit into then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time."
So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?
Do one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.
So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?
Do one "
You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth???  |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts? "
Why do have to be so mean ;( Everyone is beautiful in their own and some find it easier on here to talk to people. What’s wrong with someone having compliments? Everyone wants to feel good about themselves |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.
So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?
Do one "
No one has had a pop at the OP.
She knew exactly what she was doing when she started the thread and her subsequent comments.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.
So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?
Do one
You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth??? "
Try reading through the thread properly
If anyone pops there head above the pit in this place and dares to question, all the fluffy brigade gang up and jump on board, it's pathetic, sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.
So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?
Do one
You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth???
Try reading through the thread properly
If anyone pops there head above the pit in this place and dares to question, all the fluffy brigade gang up and jump on board, it's pathetic, sorry. "
I think you Will find having a different opinion on here is perfectly acceptable, I do all the time. The difference is Some of us can do it without being offensive and putting others down |
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over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.
So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?
Do one "
The comment was nasty. You cant deny that. Calling people munters isnt speaking the truth, not calling people munters isnt being fluffy. It's laughable to suggest either of those is the case.
I'm not convinced, actually I'm never convinced by the "telling it like it is" defence. |
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over a year ago
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Dont we all appreciate a little attention? And ultimately feeling appreciated and wanted has a positive affect on us all.
I'm trying to be objective about your debate, but I really dont think attention on fab is about people's ego getting a boost or them being able to get attentionnormally. Its sexually orientated no doubt, and people will pay compliments to have their way, but were all different and fit into life in a mosaic pattern....usually looks great as a whole picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The comment was nasty. You cant deny that. Calling people munters isnt speaking the truth, not calling people munters isnt being fluffy. It's laughable to suggest either of those is the case.
I'm not convinced, actually I'm never convinced by the "telling it like it is" defence. "
Some of the fluffy brigade may call it nasty, others on here who dare to speak their minds may call it being honest, either way I haven't seen anyone from the fluffy brigade have a go at the person who called me a twat? Or is that acceptable?
Or, is that laughable to suggest they might? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.
So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?
Do one
You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth???
Try reading through the thread properly
If anyone pops there head above the pit in this place and dares to question, all the fluffy brigade gang up and jump on board, it's pathetic, sorry. "
People can have different opinions on here and they do, all the time. Difference is, you resorted to name calling which there was no need for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.
So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?
Do one
You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth???
Try reading through the thread properly
If anyone pops there head above the pit in this place and dares to question, all the fluffy brigade gang up and jump on board, it's pathetic, sorry.
People can have different opinions on here and they do, all the time. Difference is, you resorted to name calling which there was no need for"
So someone calling me a twat is acceptable then? Don't see you calling that one out? Or are you part of the fluffy gang too? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.
So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?
Do one
You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth???
Try reading through the thread properly
If anyone pops there head above the pit in this place and dares to question, all the fluffy brigade gang up and jump on board, it's pathetic, sorry.
I think you Will find having a different opinion on here is perfectly acceptable, I do all the time. The difference is Some of us can do it without being offensive and putting others down"
Sorry but who was putting who down? If you read through the thread there are several put downs towards me. One saying I had sour grapes...so implying what about me? Another about losing ones shine by putting folk down...which isn’t what I did!!!
Confidence=great! Ego=not!
That was my message...but heaven forbid someone has a bleeding opinion.
Sorry if I offended anyone as it wasn’t my intention despite folk saying it was. And if you lot actually read everything I’ve said you’d see that |
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over a year ago
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"The green arrow gives you a great insight into a person. Excellent filter "
Yeah it shows I'm not up everyone's arse and is an honest person who says it as it is. Bloody hell, the fluffy gang are all out tonight |
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"The green arrow gives you a great insight into a person. Excellent filter
Yeah it shows I'm not up everyone's arse and is an honest person who says it as it is. Bloody hell, the fluffy gang are all out tonight "
Christ but you’re fun at parties |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.
So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?
Do one
You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth???
Try reading through the thread properly
If anyone pops there head above the pit in this place and dares to question, all the fluffy brigade gang up and jump on board, it's pathetic, sorry.
I think you Will find having a different opinion on here is perfectly acceptable, I do all the time. The difference is Some of us can do it without being offensive and putting others down
Sorry but who was putting who down? If you read through the thread there are several put downs towards me. One saying I had sour grapes...so implying what about me? Another about losing ones shine by putting folk down...which isn’t what I did!!!
Confidence=great! Ego=not!
That was my message...but heaven forbid someone has a bleeding opinion.
Sorry if I offended anyone as it wasn’t my intention despite folk saying it was. And if you lot actually read everything I’ve said you’d see that "
They have selective reading skills, they only see their fluffiness and miss all the slagging off they do to others as that's acceptable in their fluffy world |
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"The green arrow gives you a great insight into a person. Excellent filter
Yeah it shows I'm not up everyone's arse and is an honest person who says it as it is. Bloody hell, the fluffy gang are all out tonight "
I applaud speaking your opinion, after all if you're on the side of the majority, check your position as the saying goes.
But not everyone who's sensitive to others positions are pink and fluffy?
You can still have an opposing view without offending people? |
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over a year ago
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The comment was nasty. You cant deny that. Calling people munters isnt speaking the truth, not calling people munters isnt being fluffy. It's laughable to suggest either of those is the case.
I'm not convinced, actually I'm never convinced by the "telling it like it is" defence.
Some of the fluffy brigade may call it nasty, others on here who dare to speak their minds may call it being honest, either way I haven't seen anyone from the fluffy brigade have a go at the person who called me a twat? Or is that acceptable?
Or, is that laughable to suggest they might? "
I think many/most will always respond to a deliberately provocative post. That's what your's was. The abusive response wasn't provocative. |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time."
He’s probably been rejected a few too many times so has turned bitter overnight.
Happens all the time here. |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.
He’s probably been rejected a few too many times so has turned bitter overnight.
Happens all the time here."
Oh look here's another one |
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"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?
Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters
You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?
Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.
I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.
He’s probably been rejected a few too many times so has turned bitter overnight.
Happens all the time here.
Oh look here's another one "
Another what, “fluffy brigade” as you call it?
Or maybe just maybe you’re the problem here and not everyone else who sees you being nasty...
When several people are saying the same thing it’s time to look at yourself to see what you’re doing... |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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I think people are missing the point of this thread. Saying single guys who have trouble dating in real life, are successful on fab, doesn't ring true.
For single guys it's much harder to get a meet on fab than to meet outside. Personally I love the competitive side of it. |
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"I think people are missing the point of this thread. Saying single guys who have trouble dating in real life, are successful on fab, doesn't ring true.
For single guys it's much harder to get a meet on fab than to meet outside. Personally I love the competitive side of it. "
how competitive do you get? would you risk losing a chess match for a meet? |
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"I think people are missing the point of this thread. Saying single guys who have trouble dating in real life, are successful on fab, doesn't ring true.
For single guys it's much harder to get a meet on fab than to meet outside. Personally I love the competitive side of it.
how competitive do you get? would you risk losing a chess match for a meet?"
Hmmm. That's a good one.
I'd play chess to win. Loser becomes sex slave
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