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What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?
I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those
first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. |
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"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?
I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those
first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. "
Nice pic, by the way!  |
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Could be anything really. I see beauty in most but I cant "fancy" someone until I can see a connection somewhere in the chat. Your lips made me chat to you the first time. Bustys smile attracted me to her.  |
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"Looks dont bother me, as long as they are presentable. EQ is what gets me interested!"
I get that it doesn’t bother you but surely before chatting to someone. You find some sort of attraction.
I’m not talking about just on fab. Even when on a night out. Surely something pulls you in first? |
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"Their face as a whole for me. Although on here it's usually body first as that's all I can see on pictures, but if I don't find their face appealing when I see it then it's a no go"
Lol
Yeah I think that’s with most of us on here.
If we’re talking about body pics then it has to be somewhere in the middle.
I don’t like too muscly or too skinny |
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"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?
I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those
first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body.
Nice pic, by the way! "
Thanks Hun  |
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"Could be anything really. I see beauty in most but I cant "fancy" someone until I can see a connection somewhere in the chat. Your lips made me chat to you the first time. Bustys smile attracted me to her. "
So yours would be the mouth area bants??
You sure it wasn’t the boobs your eyes saw first haha |
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"What's he telling me with his eyes.. hands.. posture.
Hand posture??"
Haha. Should have used commas.
I meant: hands gestures, his body language which shows through posture, amongst other things. |
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"What's he telling me with his eyes.. hands.. posture.
Hand posture??
Haha. Should have used commas.
I meant: hands gestures, his body language which shows through posture, amongst other things. "
In fact same applies to women. A great confident walk..nice moves.. |
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As you know gobby I'm a sucker for sexy lips and eyes but I think i.aslo get attracted to personality being in forums and listening to different people I find some people attractive that I maybe wouldn't be at first look but as I speak to them and get to know them I find them sexy for them not their looks |
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"Looks dont bother me, as long as they are presentable. EQ is what gets me interested!
I get that it doesn’t bother you but surely before chatting to someone. You find some sort of attraction.
I’m not talking about just on fab. Even when on a night out. Surely something pulls you in first?"
Intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, their personal values are attractive traits for me than physical looks. Contrary to popular belief, I am a one woman man. This swinging thing is not my cup of tea. So what I look for is some who can communicate well, and there is a balance between emotion and logical thinking, cause it is not going to be a one night stand! |
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"What's he telling me with his eyes.. hands.. posture.
Hand posture??
Haha. Should have used commas.
I meant: hands gestures, his body language which shows through posture, amongst other things.
In fact same applies to women. A great confident walk..nice moves.."
Oh ok I get you now. Yes the way a person carries themselves can be sexy as fuck sometimes.  |
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"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?
I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those
first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. "
knees omg i love scuffed knees  |
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"As you know gobby I'm a sucker for sexy lips and eyes but I think i.aslo get attracted to personality being in forums and listening to different people I find some people attractive that I maybe wouldn't be at first look but as I speak to them and get to know them I find them sexy for them not their looks"
That happens a lot for most id say WD...
A person becomes more attractive the more you get to know them. Or it can have the opposite effect.
Attracted to looks but personality puts you off them.
I was just wondering what’s the first thing everyone look at when you first see someone or if someone sends you a pic. |
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"Looks dont bother me, as long as they are presentable. EQ is what gets me interested!
I get that it doesn’t bother you but surely before chatting to someone. You find some sort of attraction.
I’m not talking about just on fab. Even when on a night out. Surely something pulls you in first?
Intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, their personal values are attractive traits for me than physical looks. Contrary to popular belief, I am a one woman man. This swinging thing is not my cup of tea. So what I look for is some who can communicate well, and there is a balance between emotion and logical thinking, cause it is not going to be a one night stand!"
I hope you find all of that |
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"As you know gobby I'm a sucker for sexy lips and eyes but I think i.aslo get attracted to personality being in forums and listening to different people I find some people attractive that I maybe wouldn't be at first look but as I speak to them and get to know them I find them sexy for them not their looks
That happens a lot for most id say WD...
A person becomes more attractive the more you get to know them. Or it can have the opposite effect.
Attracted to looks but personality puts you off them.
I was just wondering what’s the first thing everyone look at when you first see someone or if someone sends you a pic. "
send me a picture or 2 and I'll let you know lol
As I said lips and eyes are a bug thing for me |
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"Looks dont bother me, as long as they are presentable. EQ is what gets me interested!
I get that it doesn’t bother you but surely before chatting to someone. You find some sort of attraction.
I’m not talking about just on fab. Even when on a night out. Surely something pulls you in first?
Intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, their personal values are attractive traits for me than physical looks. Contrary to popular belief, I am a one woman man. This swinging thing is not my cup of tea. So what I look for is some who can communicate well, and there is a balance between emotion and logical thinking, cause it is not going to be a one night stand!
I hope you find all of that "
One day. I am sure it won't be on fab. So I will flirt (not fuck) my way through fab till I find that person! |
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I’ve never been an instant attraction sort of person.
For me it builds up as I talk to them, how the chat flows, the sense of humour, the eyes, the smile and it’s the same on a night out
Attraction is a multiple of things for me |
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"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?
I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those
first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. knees omg i love scuffed knees "
So you look straight down at a the knees?? |
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"Loving your new pic beautiful 
I’m attracted to broad shoulders, arms and big hands
If they have a smile that lights up their whole face I totally melt "
I have all those things |
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"What's he telling me with his eyes.. hands.. posture.
That , and I would add lips.
It’s not just do they have nice sexy eyes, lips, posture etc , it’s what story are they telling. "
I think I know what you mean about the stories |
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"Looks dont bother me, as long as they are presentable. EQ is what gets me interested!
I get that it doesn’t bother you but surely before chatting to someone. You find some sort of attraction.
I’m not talking about just on fab. Even when on a night out. Surely something pulls you in first?
Intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, their personal values are attractive traits for me than physical looks. Contrary to popular belief, I am a one woman man. This swinging thing is not my cup of tea. So what I look for is some who can communicate well, and there is a balance between emotion and logical thinking, cause it is not going to be a one night stand!
I hope you find all of that
One day. I am sure it won't be on fab. So I will flirt (not fuck) my way through fab till I find that person! "
You never know where youll find it. |
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"I’ve never been an instant attraction sort of person.
For me it builds up as I talk to them, how the chat flows, the sense of humour, the eyes, the smile and it’s the same on a night out
Attraction is a multiple of things for me "
So would you not be out on a night and think “oh he’s good looking?” Not saying you want more to be there but something that makes you look twice?
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"Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly 
What’s tasteful to you groot? Describe a tasteful pic "
A little left to the imagination, snippets of a beautiful face, hell even clothed just showing what they do for fun. I don’t need to be seeing every inch of someone but I will bypass tasteless up close profile photos of vaginas in the same way most woman bypass a dick pic profile photo. Is that an ok description? |
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I certainly look more at a personality now than I did when in first joined fab there are some on here that are very sexy but not nice people and some that arnt thenbest looking that I'd jump in bed with in a heart beat as I think they are fun and nice to talk to |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I'm not sure there's a single "thing" that defines attraction for me - it's more about someone's overall presence and personality and the connection and chemistry we find for me to want to take things further and that usually develops over a period of time if we're talking about here.
If we're talking about a fleeting "ooh I like the look of them" on a night out or similar then it could be a variety of things that attract my attention, eyes and smile are big attractors, and legs and bums catch my eye, but it could be something as simple as the way someone stands or holds themself or generally acts |
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"I’ve never been an instant attraction sort of person.
For me it builds up as I talk to them, how the chat flows, the sense of humour, the eyes, the smile and it’s the same on a night out
Attraction is a multiple of things for me "
All my fav women are looking gorgeous in their pics. Is there any challenge going on in any of the threads? |
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"Could be anything really. I see beauty in most but I cant "fancy" someone until I can see a connection somewhere in the chat. Your lips made me chat to you the first time. Bustys smile attracted me to her.
So yours would be the mouth area bants??
You sure it wasn’t the boobs your eyes saw first haha"
In all honesty, no. Your mouth was all I could see when I first started chatting with you. Granted, busty is very busty but the first thing I complemented her on was her smile. |
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"Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly
What’s tasteful to you groot? Describe a tasteful pic
A little left to the imagination, snippets of a beautiful face, hell even clothed just showing what they do for fun. I don’t need to be seeing every inch of someone but I will bypass tasteless up close profile photos of vaginas in the same way most woman bypass a dick pic profile photo. Is that an ok description? "
That’s a perfect description and Im definitely in with you on that.
I like profiles that gets my mind ticking. |
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"Eyes
Smile
Boobs (duh I look sneakily)
Their style
That they're checking me out when I'm checking them out
Then personality blows my mind (if they have one)
Or just the latter with a naughty side  "
Lol I hope you get away with the sneaky looks, as it’s uncomfortable when you have eyes bogging at the boobs |
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"Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly
What’s tasteful to you groot? Describe a tasteful pic
A little left to the imagination, snippets of a beautiful face, hell even clothed just showing what they do for fun. I don’t need to be seeing every inch of someone but I will bypass tasteless up close profile photos of vaginas in the same way most woman bypass a dick pic profile photo. Is that an ok description?
That’s a perfect description and Im definitely in with you on that.
I like profiles that gets my mind ticking. "
Phew I thought I was going to get ripped a new one for not adhering to the potential social construct that is “tasteful”.. or I may be over thinking it  |
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"I'm not sure there's a single "thing" that defines attraction for me - it's more about someone's overall presence and personality and the connection and chemistry we find for me to want to take things further and that usually develops over a period of time if we're talking about here.
If we're talking about a fleeting "ooh I like the look of them" on a night out or similar then it could be a variety of things that attract my attention, eyes and smile are big attractors, and legs and bums catch my eye, but it could be something as simple as the way someone stands or holds themself or generally acts "
Yes I was talking more about the “oh I like the look of them” attraction.
It’s never the same for you then Gemini man |
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"Could be anything really. I see beauty in most but I cant "fancy" someone until I can see a connection somewhere in the chat. Your lips made me chat to you the first time. Bustys smile attracted me to her.
So yours would be the mouth area bants??
You sure it wasn’t the boobs your eyes saw first haha
In all honesty, no. Your mouth was all I could see when I first started chatting with you. Granted, busty is very busty but the first thing I complemented her on was her smile."
Awwww bants |
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I don't think there is just one thing for me. Can be different things with different people. In the forum it is definitely their personalities that draw me in. Mostly those that make me chuckle to myself but also come across as a nice person x |
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"Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly
What’s tasteful to you groot? Describe a tasteful pic
A little left to the imagination, snippets of a beautiful face, hell even clothed just showing what they do for fun. I don’t need to be seeing every inch of someone but I will bypass tasteless up close profile photos of vaginas in the same way most woman bypass a dick pic profile photo. Is that an ok description?
That’s a perfect description and Im definitely in with you on that.
I like profiles that gets my mind ticking.
Phew I thought I was going to get ripped a new one for not adhering to the potential social construct that is “tasteful”.. or I may be over thinking it "
Haha sorry didn’t mean to put you under pressure with that question.
What we all class as tasteful is different for us all so no answer is wrong |
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"Eyes
Smile
Boobs (duh I look sneakily)
Their style
That they're checking me out when I'm checking them out
Then personality blows my mind (if they have one)
Or just the latter with a naughty side
Lol I hope you get away with the sneaky looks, as it’s uncomfortable when you have eyes bogging at the boobs "
Well you didn't notice |
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"I don't think there is just one thing for me. Can be different things with different people. In the forum it is definitely their personalities that draw me in. Mostly those that make me chuckle to myself but also come across as a nice person x"
Yes that’s a big thing for me too. Someone that can make me laugh is such a big thing. |
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"Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly
What’s tasteful to you groot? Describe a tasteful pic
A little left to the imagination, snippets of a beautiful face, hell even clothed just showing what they do for fun. I don’t need to be seeing every inch of someone but I will bypass tasteless up close profile photos of vaginas in the same way most woman bypass a dick pic profile photo. Is that an ok description?
That’s a perfect description and Im definitely in with you on that.
I like profiles that gets my mind ticking.
Phew I thought I was going to get ripped a new one for not adhering to the potential social construct that is “tasteful”.. or I may be over thinking it
Haha sorry didn’t mean to put you under pressure with that question.
What we all class as tasteful is different for us all so no answer is wrong "
It’s ok I can be under pressure deciding which pringles I want to buy |
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"I’ve never been an instant attraction sort of person.
For me it builds up as I talk to them, how the chat flows, the sense of humour, the eyes, the smile and it’s the same on a night out
Attraction is a multiple of things for me
So would you not be out on a night and think “oh he’s good looking?” Not saying you want more to be there but something that makes you look twice?
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I can appreciate a good looking person if it’s bought up in conversation, but I don’t look around the room thinking oh he’s nice, she’s nice. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I'm not sure there's a single "thing" that defines attraction for me - it's more about someone's overall presence and personality and the connection and chemistry we find for me to want to take things further and that usually develops over a period of time if we're talking about here.
If we're talking about a fleeting "ooh I like the look of them" on a night out or similar then it could be a variety of things that attract my attention, eyes and smile are big attractors, and legs and bums catch my eye, but it could be something as simple as the way someone stands or holds themself or generally acts
Yes I was talking more about the “oh I like the look of them” attraction.
It’s never the same for you then Gemini man "
I don't think it is no, but then everyone is different so it's no surprise to find different things attractive in different people really.
To give an example that may help relate, and to an extent is an "oooh I like the look of them".
We often see on here "celebrity crush" threads and my usual response is Keeley Hawes, Hermione Norris and Ruth Wilson all of whom I think are very attractive - yet are physically different in appearance - and it's the same for me on a night out.
Maybe it's because I've never been a "go out on the pull" type so I'm not actually looking to attract when I go out so don't have a "type" I focus on if that makes sense? |
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"A little bit of everything, I like to be surprised and intrigued by people.
What kind of surprise tho?? Three breasts??
Massive teeth?
Lol"
Hahah exactly that, I’ve chatted to a few just seeing body pics then been like damn... you are fit as fuck when they shared their face.
A cute naughty smile does it for me. |
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100% personality over looks any day of the week. You could look like God's gift to women but if you act like a dick it's an instant turn off. Looks wise tho I do like broad shoulders and chest hair x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Keeley Hawes, Hermione Norris and Ruth Wilson all of whom I think are very attractive - yet are physically different in appearance."
Yes, white and slim. So very different.  (I'm teasing in case anyone gets very upset).
OP do you think you like your lips/hope others notice them that's why you like lips a lot?
In a photo on here, I like a genuine smile with warmth behind it. That and eyes are things I notice first in a face picture.
Out and about, I really do have varied taste. Lots of different things can catch my eye or attract me to someone. |
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"Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly
What’s tasteful to you groot? Describe a tasteful pic
A little left to the imagination, snippets of a beautiful face, hell even clothed just showing what they do for fun. I don’t need to be seeing every inch of someone but I will bypass tasteless up close profile photos of vaginas in the same way most woman bypass a dick pic profile photo. Is that an ok description?
That’s a perfect description and Im definitely in with you on that.
I like profiles that gets my mind ticking.
Phew I thought I was going to get ripped a new one for not adhering to the potential social construct that is “tasteful”.. or I may be over thinking it
Haha sorry didn’t mean to put you under pressure with that question.
What we all class as tasteful is different for us all so no answer is wrong
It’s ok I can be under pressure deciding which pringles I want to buy "
pick the prawn cocktail flavour or sour cream |
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"I'm not sure there's a single "thing" that defines attraction for me - it's more about someone's overall presence and personality and the connection and chemistry we find for me to want to take things further and that usually develops over a period of time if we're talking about here.
If we're talking about a fleeting "ooh I like the look of them" on a night out or similar then it could be a variety of things that attract my attention, eyes and smile are big attractors, and legs and bums catch my eye, but it could be something as simple as the way someone stands or holds themself or generally acts
Yes I was talking more about the “oh I like the look of them” attraction.
It’s never the same for you then Gemini man
I don't think it is no, but then everyone is different so it's no surprise to find different things attractive in different people really.
To give an example that may help relate, and to an extent is an "oooh I like the look of them".
We often see on here "celebrity crush" threads and my usual response is Keeley Hawes, Hermione Norris and Ruth Wilson all of whom I think are very attractive - yet are physically different in appearance - and it's the same for me on a night out.
Maybe it's because I've never been a "go out on the pull" type so I'm not actually looking to attract when I go out so don't have a "type" I focus on if that makes sense?"
I do get what you’re saying. |
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"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?
I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those
first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. knees omg i love scuffed knees
So you look straight down at a the knees??"
yes i maintain eye contact with the knees at all times |
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On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.
Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.
That being said, I’m sucker for kind eyes too so if I got chatting to someone who didn’t tickle my pickle initially, and we got on well, we made each other laugh then I’d still fall head over heels |
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"Keeley Hawes, Hermione Norris and Ruth Wilson all of whom I think are very attractive - yet are physically different in appearance.
Yes, white and slim. So very different. (I'm teasing in case anyone gets very upset).
OP do you think you like your lips/hope others notice them that's why you like lips a lot?
In a photo on here, I like a genuine smile with warmth behind it. That and eyes are things I notice first in a face picture.
Out and about, I really do have varied taste. Lots of different things can catch my eye or attract me to someone."
Hi _eli
Haha no that’s not why I like lips.
I’ve always gone for guys who have nice lips, it quite simply is something that first draws me in.
When talking to someone i tend to stare at the lips a lot (hoping it doesn’t come across as freaky to them)
Always nice to have a good lips to kiss also
In person I get more compliments on my eyes than lips. I’d much prefer them noticing those.
I just chose to bombard fab with my lip pics haha |
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"The way a woman portrays herself through her pictures.
That’s just on here though. What attracts you first in person? "
The way a woman portrays* herself outside |
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"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.
Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.
That being said, I’m sucker for kind eyes too so if I got chatting to someone who didn’t tickle my pickle initially, and we got on well, we made each other laugh then I’d still fall head over heels "
Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice |
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"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?
I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those
first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. knees omg i love scuffed knees
So you look straight down at a the knees??yes i maintain eye contact with the knees at all times "
Haha you must be on your knees a lot to maintain that kind of contact |
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"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.
Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.
That being said, I’m sucker for kind eyes too so if I got chatting to someone who didn’t tickle my pickle initially, and we got on well, we made each other laugh then I’d still fall head over heels
Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice "
Also accent/pronunciation/content. A few months ago I was out with friends and I just heard this beautiful voice say ‘well if you’re not going to let me listen to Taylor Swift I’m going to drive myself’ and my heart skipped a beat!   |
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"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.
Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.
That being said, I’m sucker for kind eyes too so if I got chatting to someone who didn’t tickle my pickle initially, and we got on well, we made each other laugh then I’d still fall head over heels
Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice "
Not sure if I’m past a little husky at this point |
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"The way a woman portrays herself through her pictures.
That’s just on here though. What attracts you first in person?
The way a woman portrays* herself outside
such as??"
Let's say that I avoid loud women, or women who want to make themselves seen by others by any means necessary |
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"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.
Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.
That being said, I’m sucker for kind eyes too so if I got chatting to someone who didn’t tickle my pickle initially, and we got on well, we made each other laugh then I’d still fall head over heels
Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice
Not sure if I’m past a little husky at this point "
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"The way a woman portrays herself through her pictures.
That’s just on here though. What attracts you first in person?
The way a woman portrays* herself outside
such as??
Let's say that I avoid loud women, or women who want to make themselves seen by others by any means necessary "
Oh ok that makes perfect sense. I know what kind of woman you’re talking about |
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"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.
Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.
That being said, I’m sucker for kind eyes too so if I got chatting to someone who didn’t tickle my pickle initially, and we got on well, we made each other laugh then I’d still fall head over heels
Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice
Not sure if I’m past a little husky at this point
Very husky then?? "
Yeah we could say that, comes with screaming in a metal band for years |
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"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.
Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.
That being said, I’m sucker for kind eyes too so if I got chatting to someone who didn’t tickle my pickle initially, and we got on well, we made each other laugh then I’d still fall head over heels
Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice
Not sure if I’m past a little husky at this point
Very husky then??
Yeah we could say that, comes with screaming in a metal band for years "
Sounds intriguing....you should do one of those voice challenges I’ve seen up on here.
Would love to hear a husky voice |
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"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.
Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.
That being said, I’m sucker for kind eyes too so if I got chatting to someone who didn’t tickle my pickle initially, and we got on well, we made each other laugh then I’d still fall head over heels
Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice
Not sure if I’m past a little husky at this point
Very husky then??
Yeah we could say that, comes with screaming in a metal band for years
Sounds intriguing....you should do one of those voice challenges I’ve seen up on here.
Would love to hear a husky voice "
I can’t take things seriously I’d be sucking on helium for shits n giggles before hand |
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"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.
Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.
That being said, I’m sucker for kind eyes too so if I got chatting to someone who didn’t tickle my pickle initially, and we got on well, we made each other laugh then I’d still fall head over heels
Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice
Not sure if I’m past a little husky at this point
Very husky then??
Yeah we could say that, comes with screaming in a metal band for years
Sounds intriguing....you should do one of those voice challenges I’ve seen up on here.
Would love to hear a husky voice
I can’t take things seriously I’d be sucking on helium for shits n giggles before hand "
That’s even better
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"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?
I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those
first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. knees omg i love scuffed knees
So you look straight down at a the knees??yes i maintain eye contact with the knees at all times
Haha you must be on your knees a lot to maintain that kind of contact "
i go for really tall women that way i always look up to them |
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"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?
I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those
first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. "
I generally do not try to look for an attraction
It is just there really and not really any set rules
However once drawn in by whatever iv found alluring and sexy I will probably focus carfully upon the eyes and lips first to determine something
I can find a warm, cheeky and or innocent face alluring
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Eyes first definitely after that their smile. Have chatted to guys here and thought was chemistry but in person nothing and I'm sure a few guys have thought same when we have met. I know one very publicly said so lol.
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There is always a certain je ne sais quoi about them. However for a really strong initial physical attraction it is invariably due to their face, the soulful eyes and an enigmatic smile. On here I find a lot of bodies attractive and don’t have a particular type. |
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"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?
I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those
first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. "
In fab usually how they presented themselves in the profile as you can’t see face or conversation straight away but they are effective whether my first glance stay for more or not
Outside - smile
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over a year ago
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"Loving your new pic beautiful
I’m attracted to broad shoulders, arms and big hands
If they have a smile that lights up their whole face I totally melt I have all those things
you do so your saying theres a chance "
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