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Goodbye and sleep in peace my little Mouse
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To all fabbers, who knew my wife / us from here and clubs -- My little Mouse died this morning 11th May / 4 am in BRI, Bradford.
She endured no pain in the last stages of her Cov19 infection due to the powerful medications received; I was with her to the last breath of my Angel.
I thank all for the messages in the past, for the enjoyment and for the laughter....
At the end of this week I am closing this account out of repsect to her and her happiness |
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So sorry for what you must be going through.
Your act of respect is honourable but please make sure there are people somewhere for you to talk to still when you need them. Even here is still a place to chat.
Take care. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To all fabbers, who knew my wife / us from here and clubs -- My little Mouse died this morning 11th May / 4 am in BRI, Bradford.
She endured no pain in the last stages of her Cov19 infection due to the powerful medications received; I was with her to the last breath of my Angel.
I thank all for the messages in the past, for the enjoyment and for the laughter....
At the end of this week I am closing this account out of repsect to her and her happiness"
A really funny lady in the chatrooms who was sharp witted and admired....
Sorry for your loss....
Sooo sad x |
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There are never any words to console those left behind and I am so sorry for your loss. Your little mouse knew she was loved and in that may you take some comfort.
Don’t shut down the ears that will listen to your sorrow, don’t hide away in your grief. Let others be there for you, as you were there for little mouse. Take care 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thoughts and prayers... Take your right finger and tap your right temple three times.. She hasn't gone anywhere.. You can talk to her anytime you like... Massive hugs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think we have ever spoke before but I just want to say I'm very very sorry for your loss
"To all fabbers, who knew my wife / us from here and clubs -- My little Mouse died this morning 11th May / 4 am in BRI, Bradford.
She endured no pain in the last stages of her Cov19 infection due to the powerful medications received; I was with her to the last breath of my Angel.
I thank all for the messages in the past, for the enjoyment and for the laughter....
At the end of this week I am closing this account out of repsect to her and her happiness"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To all fabbers, who knew my wife / us from here and clubs -- My little Mouse died this morning 11th May / 4 am in BRI, Bradford.
She endured no pain in the last stages of her Cov19 infection due to the powerful medications received; I was with her to the last breath of my Angel.
I thank all for the messages in the past, for the enjoyment and for the laughter....
At the end of this week I am closing this account out of repsect to her and her happiness"
I forgot - Tuesday before she died I ensured with the help of Rome that a Catholic father made us both in the eyes of the Vatican man and wife.
This due many years of wishing and never getting there because of illnesses and work.
The Vatican took pity on myself with my begging telephone call and instructed the Diocese of Leeds to act on a dying person's wish.
This small gesture has made a big impact on me as all these friendly words from the Fab community.
She was full of life and daring but sadly those two did not win the fight against Cov19 |
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"To all fabbers, who knew my wife / us from here and clubs -- My little Mouse died this morning 11th May / 4 am in BRI, Bradford.
She endured no pain in the last stages of her Cov19 infection due to the powerful medications received; I was with her to the last breath of my Angel.
I thank all for the messages in the past, for the enjoyment and for the laughter....
At the end of this week I am closing this account out of repsect to her and her happiness"
Peace & love to you |
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Offering sympathy and condolences seems futile and I can’t imagine what you’re going through as I’ve lost a parent but not a partner.
I do know that being bitter about nurses, nhs etc can eat you up and stop you from grieving properly though - as it happened with my dad.
He was neglected in the ward he was on but I could do nothing about it as I was away at the time. He died 5 days after discharge at home.
No - not all nurses are angels - we found that out the hard way (dad was regularly left in his own filth as for the first time ever he was bed ridden and they didn’t come when he called) - but most are doing the best they can in what are currently horrendous circumstances.
I know it’s shit and it’s hard - but it’s difficult to grieve properly and rem_mber the good stuff until you’ve let the anger go - trust me I tried!
I hope you have lovely people around you who can help - even if it’s only over the phone or online - but if not please feel free to message and I’ll happily give you my number.
Huge hugs
Peachy xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To all fabbers, who knew my wife / us from here and clubs -- My little Mouse died this morning 11th May / 4 am in BRI, Bradford.
She endured no pain in the last stages of her Cov19 infection due to the powerful medications received; I was with her to the last breath of my Angel.
I thank all for the messages in the past, for the enjoyment and for the laughter....
At the end of this week I am closing this account out of repsect to her and her happiness
I forgot - Tuesday before she died I ensured with the help of Rome that a Catholic father made us both in the eyes of the Vatican man and wife.
This due many years of wishing and never getting there because of illnesses and work.
The Vatican took pity on myself with my begging telephone call and instructed the Diocese of Leeds to act on a dying person's wish.
This small gesture has made a big impact on me as all these friendly words from the Fab community.
She was full of life and daring but sadly those two did not win the fight against Cov19"
From us both we are so incredibly sorry to hear of your loss.
Our very best wishes to you, your family and friends during this very sad time.
C and P  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Offering sympathy and condolences seems futile and I can’t imagine what you’re going through as I’ve lost a parent but not a partner.
I do know that being bitter about nurses, nhs etc can eat you up and stop you from grieving properly though - as it happened with my dad.
He was neglected in the ward he was on but I could do nothing about it as I was away at the time. He died 5 days after discharge at home.
No - not all nurses are angels - we found that out the hard way (dad was regularly left in his own filth as for the first time ever he was bed ridden and they didn’t come when he called) - but most are doing the best they can in what are currently horrendous circumstances.
I know it’s shit and it’s hard - but it’s difficult to grieve properly and rem_mber the good stuff until you’ve let the anger go - trust me I tried!
I hope you have lovely people around you who can help - even if it’s only over the phone or online - but if not please feel free to message and I’ll happily give you my number.
Huge hugs
Peachy xxx"
I send you a hug but that does not replace your beloved one
I washed her face and combed her hair - made her look like she was sleeping and gave her a little Gruffalo ( her favorit figures Gruffalo and Mouse )
No one asked to help or offered but it was for her and I did not care - |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your love for her shines in your words. I hope you can grieve and find peace for yourself. "
My peace and happiness seized to exists at 4am today - My love for her was real and not "Hollywood" style.
She was alone (her family had not spoken to her for over 16 years), as I, but we both gave each other what we needed in life.
I thank all again and again for the words of kindness and sorrow, which pierce my heart - I hope and wish that she is in a better place where there is no pain and sorrow..
Please all stay safe and enjoy life, rem_mber life is not for granted and is a precious costly jewel... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We dont know you or ever spoken to you but.....fuuuuuck! This world is damned cruel and we are very sorry to hear your loss
May she rest well and may you find peace in the years to come
S |
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So sorry to hear your news. I lost my wife to cancer 10 weeks ago my closest family m_mber lives 200 miles away but I have made some good friends on fab over the years who have been fantastic supporting me through this difficult time. Things will never be the same but don't close your account keep in touch with friends it does help. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"To all fabbers, who knew my wife / us from here and clubs -- My little Mouse died this morning 11th May / 4 am in BRI, Bradford.
She endured no pain in the last stages of her Cov19 infection due to the powerful medications received; I was with her to the last breath of my Angel.
I thank all for the messages in the past, for the enjoyment and for the laughter....
At the end of this week I am closing this account out of repsect to her and her happiness
I forgot - Tuesday before she died I ensured with the help of Rome that a Catholic father made us both in the eyes of the Vatican man and wife.
This due many years of wishing and never getting there because of illnesses and work.
The Vatican took pity on myself with my begging telephone call and instructed the Diocese of Leeds to act on a dying person's wish.
This small gesture has made a big impact on me as all these friendly words from the Fab community.
She was full of life and daring but sadly those two did not win the fight against Cov19"
How special for you both. So sorry ...your Angel is now at peace, but she will remain all around you. God bless her and you and your family and take care of you.. |
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"So sorry to hear your news. I lost my wife to cancer 10 weeks ago my closest family m_mber lives 200 miles away but I have made some good friends on fab over the years who have been fantastic supporting me through this difficult time. Things will never be the same but don't close your account keep in touch with friends it does help."
Wise words just hide the profile for a while. Likewise I have made a few good friends via the site. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dear fabbers
I thank you all for the kind replies and messages.
My little Mouse, who deserves rest and peace, has been moved by the coroner's as they disbelieve the hospital doctors certification.
I am too tired to fight the system anymore as now I can not even lay my Mouse to her deserved rest.
I wish all fabbers peace, happiness and a fulfilled life. It is a good bye and God's bless
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"Dear fabbers
I thank you all for the kind replies and messages.
My little Mouse, who deserves rest and peace, has been moved by the coroner's as they disbelieve the hospital doctors certification.
I am too tired to fight the system anymore as now I can not even lay my Mouse to her deserved rest.
I wish all fabbers peace, happiness and a fulfilled life. It is a good bye and God's bless
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Mate your status is one of concern. Reach out. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Dear fabbers
I thank you all for the kind replies and messages.
My little Mouse, who deserves rest and peace, has been moved by the coroner's as they disbelieve the hospital doctors certification.
I am too tired to fight the system anymore as now I can not even lay my Mouse to her deserved rest.
I wish all fabbers peace, happiness and a fulfilled life. It is a good bye and God's bless
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You don't have to fight the system anymore. Your Little Mouse is at peace now and you will lay her to rest soon. Please don't leave the site, maybe hide your profile for a while so that you can gain comfort from others in similar circumstances, as yourself, when you are ready. Peace to you for now...x |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Good advice from _amiss.
There are lots of people here to support you at this terrible time "
Yes there are Sally, it's a very supportive community and many of us have been through this, so I hope we can be of some help between us
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"To all fabbers, who knew my wife / us from here and clubs -- My little Mouse died this morning 11th May / 4 am in BRI, Bradford.
She endured no pain in the last stages of her Cov19 infection due to the powerful medications received; I was with her to the last breath of my Angel.
I thank all for the messages in the past, for the enjoyment and for the laughter....
At the end of this week I am closing this account out of repsect to her and her happiness"
So sorry for your loss.
May you meet again in the next life x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dear Fabbers
Admin will close the account I thank them for this. RIP my little beloved Mouse I love you forever
May your terrible journal soon be ended and the coroner let you sleep.
I miss you and pray that you found peace from the pains Your grumpy Gruffalo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I lost my dad John read this and when I see a Rainbow he is there , and now there are rainbows all over the uk .:
Look for me in Rainbows
Time for me to go now, I won't say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, way up in the sky.
In the morning sunrise when all the world is new,
Just look for me and love me, as you know I loved you.
Time for me to leave you, I won't say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, high up in the sky.
In the evening sunset, when all the world is through,
Just look for me and love me, and I'll be close to you.
It won't be forever, the day will come and then
My loving arms will hold you, when we meet again.
Time for us to part now, we won't say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, shining in the sky.
Every waking moment, and all your whole life through
Just look for me and love me, as you know I loved you.
Just wish me to be near you,
And I'll be there with you
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