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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, much better I think.
I have some pasty’s in the oven.
I’m focused on those right now.
I feel good about my pasty’s "
I thought this said Patsy and I was going to ask why you put her in the oven |
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Focusing on what's gone wrong doesn't have to be negative.
I always try to be positive but I'm a firm believer in learning from my mistakes. If I didn't take time to look at what went wrong I wouldn't develop as a person.
The same can be said for society as a whole. It's only by recognising what's gone wrong that solutions and improvements can be made. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Focusing on what's gone wrong doesn't have to be negative.
I always try to be positive but I'm a firm believer in learning from my mistakes. If I didn't take time to look at what went wrong I wouldn't develop as a person.
The same can be said for society as a whole. It's only by recognising what's gone wrong that solutions and improvements can be made. "
Yes! I don't think there's anything wrong in taking time to learn from mistakes and trying to grow. As a whole, maybe focusing on the positive is a good thing. On the other hand, it's okay to not be okay. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Focusing on what's gone wrong doesn't have to be negative.
I always try to be positive but I'm a firm believer in learning from my mistakes. If I didn't take time to look at what went wrong I wouldn't develop as a person.
The same can be said for society as a whole. It's only by recognising what's gone wrong that solutions and improvements can be made. "
Absolutely but I think there's a difference between focussing on what's gone wrong and learning from it and dealing with it positively and having a negative outlook and demeanour and assuming the worst all the time.
And I know for some that is a struggle, and count myself lucky that I am able to see the positives in most things, and when I do have periods of negativity, which we all do, that they're usually short-lived.
I also know it's not simply a case of just "being positive and things will be positive" for some, you have to *feel* positive to be positive and I honestly feel for those that struggle with that.
For me though as I said, I always look for the positives, even in adversity and it usually serves me well. |
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"Would things get better or worse if humans focused on what was going well rather than what’s going wrong?"
Got to be better! I try to look for the positives. Doesn't have to be big things. Just the little every day things. Especially at the moment 
Mrs TMN x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In my opinion, better - negativity is such a draining emotion
Truth gal
What can I say to that answer young Leviosa..your a hoot! "
Aww I so hope you’re not being sarcastic - thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Twitter feed would beg to differ - fucking whingey twats!
It’s why I like your posts OP, they invariably have a picture of you in various states of underwear at the top of them .. definitely a good thing!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My Twitter feed would beg to differ - fucking whingey twats!
It’s why I like your posts OP, they invariably have a picture of you in various states of underwear at the top of them .. definitely a good thing! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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When turkey twizzlers the most positive thing back in the day got banned, humanity just went downhill and everyone became negative.
I don't think we'll recover and be positive again unless they bring back turkey twizzlers  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When turkey twizzlers the most positive thing back in the day got banned, humanity just went downhill and everyone became negative.
I don't think we'll recover and be positive again unless they bring back turkey twizzlers "
We have matching hair cuts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When turkey twizzlers the most positive thing back in the day got banned, humanity just went downhill and everyone became negative.
I don't think we'll recover and be positive again unless they bring back turkey twizzlers
We have matching hair cuts "
looks better on you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When turkey twizzlers the most positive thing back in the day got banned, humanity just went downhill and everyone became negative.
I don't think we'll recover and be positive again unless they bring back turkey twizzlers
We have matching hair cuts
looks better on you "
True  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You cant sweep certain feelings and failing under the carpet. So yes the scales should tip to positivity, but every emotion deserves time to process.
Give me a reason.. x |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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To my mind, you can’t bury your head in the sand and just focus on the good things. That’s basically just ignoring a problem if you know there is a problem.
To fix a problem you have to address it, or the problem could get worse, making it nigh on impossible to ever bury your head in the sand about anything, ever again.
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