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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The joys of fab. People are so quick to judge and hide behind the keyboard , have been at receiving end of crap on here. It's not nice but way I see it, their the one with the issue not you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure about the joke bit but been called a few nasty names on here...strangely once I said I wasn’t interested...stupid bitch, fat bitch umm mainly bitch really for saying thanks but no thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cant believe you got messaged that lovely.
Why are some people so nasty, if you are not her type why waste time messaging you.
My hubby got jealousy abuse off a women for his birthday thread to me. No wonder its easier keeping my filters on  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I cant believe you got messaged that lovely.
Why are some people so nasty, if you are not her type why waste time messaging you.
My hubby got jealousy abuse off a women for his birthday thread to me. No wonder its easier keeping my filters on "
I'm not even sure if it was meant to be nasty but I was a bit like realy that's not nice I know I'm hairy but some people like it I'm sure |
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By *Wman15Man
over a year ago
Altrincham |
Dwarf
I am pretty tiny but don't have a beard or fishing rod
Oddly I've been stumpy all my life so don't care what I'm called...not as if I'd meet the name callers..
Those that have met me seem to have enjoyed themselves at least   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just been called a gorilla.
I know I'm hairy but come on realy be kind people 
Have you guys ever been called anything even if its only meant as a joke that just makes you think realy thanks alot
Did you show them your banana?  I didnt think of that lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many things over the years. I tend to just let them wash over me now. Strangers on the Internet are meaningless to me.
The one that hurts the most was something a friend said to me once about my weight.
I still hear the words and my insecuritues take over.
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
most fundamental aspects |
I had a couple began messaging me here and after a while I supplied a face picture. In it my (longer than average) hair was a bit messy. I got the reply:
Sorry we don’t do hippies LOL
I took it to heart for a while but then shrugged it off.
About a year later, the same couple messaged me again. Needless to say I ignored them
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"Many things over the years. I tend to just let them wash over me now. Strangers on the Internet are meaningless to me.
The one that hurts the most was something a friend said to me once about my weight.
I still hear the words and my insecuritues take over.
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The power of words from friends can hurt so much more than enemies. But friends close enemies closer.
But screw them your body is to die for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a block message then block me saying why dont i get someone to wash my feet properly lol i was freshly out of the bath for that pic and my feet were sparkling clean lol |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I've been called man whore and man tart before by people i'm not friends with and was unsure if it was in jest or a dig. Didn't bother me. Just carry on doing your own thing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got a load of abuse in one of the chat rooms off a couple about my cock tattoo. Real nasty fuck em if they dont like it dont comment. I could have been really nasty back when I looked at there profile but I just chuckled to my self lol... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not here (yet) but in public yes.
Unfortunately kindness is not a quality that everyone carries x  "
This is one of the rare things that annoys me. Some people constantly have the need to put others down. It's the only way they know... on occasions they lash out if had a bad day or stressing about something on here or personal life, but if can't be kind in that moment step back a little... i'm sure some must regret the things they said after and just can't apologise.
In the past if I seen these type of things going on in here (happens in forums) I used to step in, but then individuals/groups used to try and come after me. Those days were hilarious
If I see this happening in person... in my presence... wherever and whenever... that is a no no... I get an auto reaction to step in and say something like no need for that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I cant believe you got messaged that lovely.
Why are some people so nasty, if you are not her type why waste time messaging you.
My hubby got jealousy abuse off a women for his birthday thread to me. No wonder its easier keeping my filters on "
Trust me what I quoted was tame to others I get for saying a polite no. It’s a shame as most guys just say ok no problem thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just been called a gorilla.
I know I'm hairy but come on realy be kind people
Have you guys ever been called anything even if its only meant as a joke that just makes you think realy thanks alot "
Nothing wrong with way you are, I've been called a few not nice things, but never got to me as such, or for any length of time if it did strike a nerve. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not here, but I’ve been told before I’m ‘too nice’ and it’s a shit thing to hear.
OK, I’ll be an absolute cunt instead then. I’m sure that will work out really well for you..... |
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"I've just been called a gorilla.
I know I'm hairy but come on realy be kind people
Have you guys ever been called anything even if its only meant as a joke that just makes you think realy thanks alot "
Ignore the haters OP.
I love body hair |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've just been called a gorilla.
I know I'm hairy but come on realy be kind people
Have you guys ever been called anything even if its only meant as a joke that just makes you think realy thanks alot
Ignore the haters OP.
I love body hair "
I like my body hair I dont care if it's not for everyone I'm sure some people like it |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I've been called man whore and man tart before by people i'm not friends with and was unsure if it was in jest or a dig. Didn't bother me. Just carry on doing your own thing
You are very flirty in real life though lol
Shhhh.... she has got a point mate but guess what so am I lol"
And nothing wrong with that when done in good taste |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We call each other Twats. Don't worry we've known each other a long long time, it's only banter. We only banter with those we know well. "
I think if you know someone then you ca banter like that but when you dont you shouldn't |
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"Many things over the years. I tend to just let them wash over me now. Strangers on the Internet are meaningless to me.
The one that hurts the most was something a friend said to me once about my weight.
I still hear the words and my insecuritues take over.
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That’s sad who needs friend’s like that ... |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
I've been told I look older than I say that I am..by a guy I politely turned down, btw!
It's never nice getting put downs about appearance. I'm not very secure about how I look, but I've toughened up considerably since being on Fab!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've also had several guys tell us how much they want to meet us as they like BBW so much. I'm 9 stone 4 .
I have no problem with BBW by the way. "
Omg yes this
Like yeah thanks for calling me fat |
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exactly! When I’ve been shouted at “shortie” in college , it stuck with me so long. I struggled with low self-esteem because of it!
Until I found out hot guys and girls also love shorties in bed, I raise from hell to heaven  |
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"We've also had several guys tell us how much they want to meet us as they like BBW so much. I'm 9 stone 4 .
I have no problem with BBW by the way.
Omg yes this
Like yeah thanks for calling me fat"
. I genuinely don't care, it amuses me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been called man whore and man tart before by people i'm not friends with and was unsure if it was in jest or a dig. Didn't bother me. Just carry on doing your own thing
You are very flirty in real life though lol
Shhhh.... "
In a good way my friend, now get back to wales so we can dance to the time warp again lol |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I've been called man whore and man tart before by people i'm not friends with and was unsure if it was in jest or a dig. Didn't bother me. Just carry on doing your own thing
You are very flirty in real life though lol
Shhhh....
In a good way my friend, now get back to wales so we can dance to the time warp again lol"
Aww thanks. Those socials were great fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been called man whore and man tart before by people i'm not friends with and was unsure if it was in jest or a dig. Didn't bother me. Just carry on doing your own thing "
. Sorry. It was in jest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't give attention to negative people. It's not worth your time or energy. What happens to you is 10%, how you react to it is 90%.
This 100% "
Finally she agrees with me on something!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't give attention to negative people. It's not worth your time or energy. What happens to you is 10%, how you react to it is 90%.
This 100%
Finally she agrees with me on something! "
You’re growing on me actually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just been called a gorilla.
I know I'm hairy but come on realy be kind people
Have you guys ever been called anything even if its only meant as a joke that just makes you think realy thanks alot
Ignore the haters OP.
I love body hair "
I love natural on a lady
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I've been called man whore and man tart before by people i'm not friends with and was unsure if it was in jest or a dig. Didn't bother me. Just carry on doing your own thing
. Sorry. It was in jest "
When you did it I know exactly in what vein it was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't give attention to negative people. It's not worth your time or energy. What happens to you is 10%, how you react to it is 90%.
This 100%
Finally she agrees with me on something!
You’re growing on me actually "
Cannot wait to grow in you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m an inconsiderate arsehole because I wouldn’t travel 50 odd miles for a blowjob I didn’t ask for and from a bloke who’s girlfriend was going to be back in an hour
There’s so many things with that I just don’t know |
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God I've been called all sorts. I mostly forget them fairly quickly. Two have stuck with me though. One was someone saying I had chubby feet because it was such a weird comment. The other was someone who said to me "Imagine how hot you could be if you went to the gym and ate right" because for starters I actually do both of those things and secondly I just can't imagine saying something like that to someone completely unprompted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been here a long time and I don't think anyone has ever called me anything derogatory and I have never had to block anyone.
What am I doing wrong? "
Absolutely nothing (said through gritted teeth and not at all jealous)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody has ever said anything nasty to me on here and I've never been nasty to anyone here either. Take it with a pinch of salt, shrug your shoulders and move onto the next victim....I mean beautiful lady!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a message from a guy saying he likes my pictures and that beautiful body of mine needs to be worshipped.. He asked to meet me and when I politely declined as he wasn't my type, he then said he prefers slim girls anyway and I should go to the gym.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had a message from a guy saying he likes my pictures and that beautiful body of mine needs to be worshipped.. He asked to meet me and when I politely declined as he wasn't my type, he then said he prefers slim girls anyway and I should go to the gym.. "
You have a perfect body girl. Ignore those idiots! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't give attention to negative people. It's not worth your time or energy. What happens to you is 10%, how you react to it is 90%.
This 100%
Finally she agrees with me on something!
You’re growing on me actually
Cannot wait to grow in you! "
You’ve just taken two steps back now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't give attention to negative people. It's not worth your time or energy. What happens to you is 10%, how you react to it is 90%.
This 100%
Finally she agrees with me on something!
You’re growing on me actually
Cannot wait to grow in you!
You’ve just taken two steps back now "
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"I've just been called a gorilla.
I know I'm hairy but come on realy be kind people
Have you guys ever been called anything even if its only meant as a joke that just makes you think realy thanks alot "
I get called Tranny alot or flat chested (when i was young and skinny) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't give attention to negative people. It's not worth your time or energy. What happens to you is 10%, how you react to it is 90%.
This 100%
Finally she agrees with me on something!
You’re growing on me actually
Cannot wait to grow in you!
You’ve just taken two steps back now "
Story of my life. Two steps backwards and three steps forwards! |
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"I've just been called a gorilla.
I know I'm hairy but come on realy be kind people
Have you guys ever been called anything even if its only meant as a joke that just makes you think realy thanks alot
I get called Tranny alot or flat chested (when i was young and skinny) "
But biologically I am a woman.i have a real vagina and get stupid annoying periods. So its offensive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't give attention to negative people. It's not worth your time or energy. What happens to you is 10%, how you react to it is 90%.
This 100%
Finally she agrees with me on something!
You’re growing on me actually
Cannot wait to grow in you!
You’ve just taken two steps back now
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Nice teeth. Do you use Colgate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m an inconsiderate arsehole because I wouldn’t travel 50 odd miles for a blowjob I didn’t ask for and from a bloke who’s girlfriend was going to be back in an hour
There’s so many things with that I just don’t know "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't give attention to negative people. It's not worth your time or energy. What happens to you is 10%, how you react to it is 90%.
This 100%
Finally she agrees with me on something!
You’re growing on me actually
Cannot wait to grow in you!
You’ve just taken two steps back now
Story of my life. Two steps backwards and three steps forwards! "
. That’s mildly amusing. Move forward one space. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just been called a gorilla.
I know I'm hairy but come on realy be kind people
Have you guys ever been called anything even if its only meant as a joke that just makes you think realy thanks alot
I get called Tranny alot or flat chested (when i was young and skinny)
But biologically I am a woman.i have a real vagina and get stupid annoying periods. So its offensive "
I'll need to see photographic evidence of this vagina of yours! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't give attention to negative people. It's not worth your time or energy. What happens to you is 10%, how you react to it is 90%.
This 100%
Finally she agrees with me on something!
You’re growing on me actually
Cannot wait to grow in you!
You’ve just taken two steps back now
Story of my life. Two steps backwards and three steps forwards!
. That’s mildly amusing. Move forward one space. "
Would you like to walk with me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m getting called stupid a lot. Not in an out right ‘you’re thick’ kind of way. But subtly veiled as compliments.
‘I love that you’re a bit ditzy. No one likes a know it all’
The wise man plays the fool, big man. I just dumb it down for your benefit  *finger guns* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I cant believe you got messaged that lovely.
Why are some people so nasty, if you are not her type why waste time messaging you.
My hubby got jealousy abuse off a women for his birthday thread to me. No wonder its easier keeping my filters on I'm not even sure if it was meant to be nasty but I was a bit like realy that's not nice I know I'm hairy but some people like it I'm sure "
I like guys with a hairy chest... Its actually some what of a preferance, not everyone can like everything and what wasn't for her doesn't mean that it wouldent be for everyone... There was definitely no reason to be rude and make you feel bad about it tho x |
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