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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Since being on Fab I have always been very polite and reply to everyone even if it’s a no thank you. I’ve expressed this many times on here in other threads, but today I’m struggling to be the normal polite Kitty I normally am. Is anyone else finding this weekend full on, I think the competition might have something to do with it as my inbox gets busy but today is ridiculous!!
The strangest thing is, it’s not been just men today!!! I can officially say I have been hit on by women and couples of fab (this is a first for me!), but unfortunately none of them are the ladies or couples that I’d like them to be!!
So I guess I’m trying to say those wise people of Fab, maybe you were right as I can feel this Kitty changing her approach slightly. Delete, ignore, Delete, block.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The trouble with being fanciable is that people you don’t fancy fancy you. As long as they’re polite it doesn’t warrant a snappy or rude response just because they’re mingers.
It’s not a problem that us fuglies get, so embrace being desirable to others - even if you don’t fancy them!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The trouble with being fanciable is that people you don’t fancy fancy you. As long as they’re polite it doesn’t warrant a snappy or rude response just because they’re mingers.
It’s not a problem that us fuglies get, so embrace being desirable to others - even if you don’t fancy them! "
This is the thing I’m never rude and find it very very flattering that anyone despite their looks message me. But it’s getting to the point where even me being polite is not working. And you Mr are not Fugly! X |
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"Since being on Fab I have always been very polite and reply to everyone even if it’s a no thank you. I’ve expressed this many times on here in other threads, but today I’m struggling to be the normal polite Kitty I normally am. Is anyone else finding this weekend full on, I think the competition might have something to do with it as my inbox gets busy but today is ridiculous!!
The strangest thing is, it’s not been just men today!!! I can officially say I have been hit on by women and couples of fab (this is a first for me!), but unfortunately none of them are the ladies or couples that I’d like them to be!!
So I guess I’m trying to say those wise people of Fab, maybe you were right as I can feel this Kitty changing her approach slightly. Delete, ignore, Delete, block. "
Must feel nice to be popular  |
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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago
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"Since being on Fab I have always been very polite and reply to everyone even if it’s a no thank you. I’ve expressed this many times on here in other threads, but today I’m struggling to be the normal polite Kitty I normally am. Is anyone else finding this weekend full on, I think the competition might have something to do with it as my inbox gets busy but today is ridiculous!!
The strangest thing is, it’s not been just men today!!! I can officially say I have been hit on by women and couples of fab (this is a first for me!), but unfortunately none of them are the ladies or couples that I’d like them to be!!
So I guess I’m trying to say those wise people of Fab, maybe you were right as I can feel this Kitty changing her approach slightly. Delete, ignore, Delete, block. "
look at my status x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Since being on Fab I have always been very polite and reply to everyone even if it’s a no thank you. I’ve expressed this many times on here in other threads, but today I’m struggling to be the normal polite Kitty I normally am. Is anyone else finding this weekend full on, I think the competition might have something to do with it as my inbox gets busy but today is ridiculous!!
The strangest thing is, it’s not been just men today!!! I can officially say I have been hit on by women and couples of fab (this is a first for me!), but unfortunately none of them are the ladies or couples that I’d like them to be!!
So I guess I’m trying to say those wise people of Fab, maybe you were right as I can feel this Kitty changing her approach slightly. Delete, ignore, Delete, block. look at my status x"
I’m confused is that aimed at me?? |
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"Since being on Fab I have always been very polite and reply to everyone even if it’s a no thank you. I’ve expressed this many times on here in other threads, but today I’m struggling to be the normal polite Kitty I normally am. Is anyone else finding this weekend full on, I think the competition might have something to do with it as my inbox gets busy but today is ridiculous!!
The strangest thing is, it’s not been just men today!!! I can officially say I have been hit on by women and couples of fab (this is a first for me!), but unfortunately none of them are the ladies or couples that I’d like them to be!!
So I guess I’m trying to say those wise people of Fab, maybe you were right as I can feel this Kitty changing her approach slightly. Delete, ignore, Delete, block. "
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Since being on Fab I have always been very polite and reply to everyone even if it’s a no thank you. I’ve expressed this many times on here in other threads, but today I’m struggling to be the normal polite Kitty I normally am. Is anyone else finding this weekend full on, I think the competition might have something to do with it as my inbox gets busy but today is ridiculous!!
The strangest thing is, it’s not been just men today!!! I can officially say I have been hit on by women and couples of fab (this is a first for me!), but unfortunately none of them are the ladies or couples that I’d like them to be!!
So I guess I’m trying to say those wise people of Fab, maybe you were right as I can feel this Kitty changing her approach slightly. Delete, ignore, Delete, block. "
You need a personal fab PA. You're in the big leagues now   |
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"Since being on Fab I have always been very polite and reply to everyone even if it’s a no thank you. I’ve expressed this many times on here in other threads, but today I’m struggling to be the normal polite Kitty I normally am. Is anyone else finding this weekend full on, I think the competition might have something to do with it as my inbox gets busy but today is ridiculous!!
The strangest thing is, it’s not been just men today!!! I can officially say I have been hit on by women and couples of fab (this is a first for me!), but unfortunately none of them are the ladies or couples that I’d like them to be!!
So I guess I’m trying to say those wise people of Fab, maybe you were right as I can feel this Kitty changing her approach slightly. Delete, ignore, Delete, block. look at my status x"
Did someone send you that..Jeez  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it’s best to delete and block, if they aren’t for you then there’s no point them been able to contact you again. X"
Yeah probably right but not something that I like to do, as makes it look like I’m arrogant and I really do appreciate the fact people take time out of their day to message. Maybe I’m still a bit naive and I need to grow some balls! |
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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago
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Giantkitty,, I have seen you in the forums so many times ,you are always sweet and polite , filters and block are there for a good reason so use them to make the fab experience pleasant but please don't stop being golden, you add a ray of sunshine to the world.
Xxx Chloe Xxx |
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"I think it’s best to delete and block, if they aren’t for you then there’s no point them been able to contact you again. X
Yeah probably right but not something that I like to do, as makes it look like I’m arrogant and I really do appreciate the fact people take time out of their day to message. Maybe I’m still a bit naive and I need to grow some balls! "
Everyone does things different you’ll find your own way. When I first joined I replied to as many as I could, didn’t know about the email filters. But so many replies then you end up getting into a conversation with someone you aren’t interested in and also they’ll then bypass any filters set. I just think if someone’s not my cup of tea it’s easier to just block them so we can avoid each other. You don’t anyone a reply for contacting you xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Giantkitty,, I have seen you in the forums so many times ,you are always sweet and polite , filters and block are there for a good reason so use them to make the fab experience pleasant but please don't stop being golden, you add a ray of sunshine to the world.
Xxx Chloe Xxx "
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"The trouble with being fanciable is that people you don’t fancy fancy you. As long as they’re polite it doesn’t warrant a snappy or rude response just because they’re mingers.
It’s not a problem that us fuglies get, so embrace being desirable to others - even if you don’t fancy them!
This is the thing I’m never rude and find it very very flattering that anyone despite their looks message me. But it’s getting to the point where even me being polite is not working. And you Mr are not Fugly! X"
Do you answer everyone?
Maybe tighten up your filters so you get less messages.
But don't feel bad if you don't reply
Jo x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The trouble with being fanciable is that people you don’t fancy fancy you. As long as they’re polite it doesn’t warrant a snappy or rude response just because they’re mingers.
It’s not a problem that us fuglies get, so embrace being desirable to others - even if you don’t fancy them!
This is the thing I’m never rude and find it very very flattering that anyone despite their looks message me. But it’s getting to the point where even me being polite is not working. And you Mr are not Fugly! X
Do you answer everyone?
Maybe tighten up your filters so you get less messages.
But don't feel bad if you don't reply
Jo x "
Yeah Since day 1 I have responded to every message. But no more. I’m worried if I tighten filters then the friends I’ve made won’t be able to message me? X |
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We always try to be polite and reply even if its just a "no thank you", however like you say OP, we have had some messages recently that have made us almost reach for the delete button. Must be something in the air. |
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"The trouble with being fanciable is that people you don’t fancy fancy you. As long as they’re polite it doesn’t warrant a snappy or rude response just because they’re mingers.
It’s not a problem that us fuglies get, so embrace being desirable to others - even if you don’t fancy them!
This is the thing I’m never rude and find it very very flattering that anyone despite their looks message me. But it’s getting to the point where even me being polite is not working. And you Mr are not Fugly! X
Do you answer everyone?
Maybe tighten up your filters so you get less messages.
But don't feel bad if you don't reply
Jo x
Yeah Since day 1 I have responded to every message. But no more. I’m worried if I tighten filters then the friends I’ve made won’t be able to message me? X"
If they have messaged you before or you are friends then the filters don’t matter to them xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The trouble with being fanciable is that people you don’t fancy fancy you. As long as they’re polite it doesn’t warrant a snappy or rude response just because they’re mingers.
It’s not a problem that us fuglies get, so embrace being desirable to others - even if you don’t fancy them!
This is the thing I’m never rude and find it very very flattering that anyone despite their looks message me. But it’s getting to the point where even me being polite is not working. And you Mr are not Fugly! X
Do you answer everyone?
Maybe tighten up your filters so you get less messages.
But don't feel bad if you don't reply
Jo x
Yeah Since day 1 I have responded to every message. But no more. I’m worried if I tighten filters then the friends I’ve made won’t be able to message me? X
If they have messaged you before or you are friends then the filters don’t matter to them xx"
Thank you x |
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