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over a year ago
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"I am only jealous when I feel that his cum seems to be hotter than mine when we both cream pie her in double vagina pene"
Have a vindaloo the night before... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am only jealous when I feel that his cum seems to be hotter than mine when we both cream pie her in double vagina pene
Have a vindaloo the night before..."
If only I knew what that mean I'd probably wouldn't do it |
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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago
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"So threesomes are they worth it in the end? Does jealousy play a part? What’s the best threesome fantasy you know of? Role play etc"
yes for sure. Only couple I ever played with he put me up against the wall in the loo and said you only want her!!! Never ever would I meet a couple again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think in all honesty for me any future threesome I have would have to be a one off experience in a Club with authentic swingers.
Most past experiences in hotels, etc in these matters have not worked well for me and that's the conclusion and way forward I've decided is best for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had a few 3sommes with my hubby and other men but ive never tried it without. Ive searched a few years but its proven difficult. Id just like to try 2 men that are new to me and not worry that ive not given my hubby the same attention because that's what has gone through my mind in the past. Not sure if men think like that but I do xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive had a few 3sommes with my hubby and other men but ive never tried it without. Ive searched a few years but its proven difficult. Id just like to try 2 men that are new to me and not worry that ive not given my hubby the same attention because that's what has gone through my mind in the past. Not sure if men think like that but I do xx"
I thought of having a threesome, but then I realised, if I wanted to disappoint two people at the same time, I might as well have dinner with my parents!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive had a few 3sommes with my hubby and other men but ive never tried it without. Ive searched a few years but its proven difficult. Id just like to try 2 men that are new to me and not worry that ive not given my hubby the same attention because that's what has gone through my mind in the past. Not sure if men think like that but I do xx"
With a cracking body like that I doubt you’d be short of volunteers, I’d definately be first in line!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive had a few 3sommes with my hubby and other men but ive never tried it without. Ive searched a few years but its proven difficult. Id just like to try 2 men that are new to me and not worry that ive not given my hubby the same attention because that's what has gone through my mind in the past. Not sure if men think like that but I do xx"
Well some of us do. When we've had threesomes with another woman I am very conscious of not giving the impression that I'm not interested/less interested in C. When we've had threesomes with a guy I'm very much focused on making sure she is safe/enjoying/happy.
They only work if the three of you all stay within whatever boundaries you each have which means learning each other's boundaries. We had a few awkward experiences to start where we behaved in ways that we felt were appropriate for ourselves but weren't what the other wanted.
Having learnt each other's boundaries you then need to find the right person who is going to fit in with and be satisfied by those boundaries.
As above, a club situation can make this easier as there is far less need for build up and interaction outside of play time. Even here though communication is important, it is easy to assume your partner is aware of a growing situation that they may not be or may even actually be unhappy with. Things move much faster in a club so you both need to be open and clear about your feelings all the way through.
We have experienced play in a club where I thought she was totally aware of building interest between another woman and I and ok with it. Turned out she was preoccupied  and unaware so by the time she noticed it felt to her that we'd just jumped into play.
Equally, on another occasion I was aware that she was getting attention from someone I found cocky and rude. I didn't say anything assuming she felt the same (we tend to have similar views when no drinks have been had/we're not aroused). She assumed that my silence was consent so I was a little surprised when she happily allowed herself to be led off for a little 'soft play'
The big thing is to be able to discuss these feelings without anger at the other person. Understand that there was no intention to hurt and that we each have different perceptions of the same situation.
This all makes it sound fraught with problems but the truth is that with a bit if understanding and clear communication there is no need for jealousy and you can both have a great deal of fun 
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some guys struggle to come to terms with pleasuring there girl!! .... like if a another man comes in and she’s enjoying it.. but not like she enjoys you I think that’s a ego /man thing no
I think some men struggle with that
Some men struggle with the fact another man can pleasure his girl rather than him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive had a few 3sommes with my hubby and other men but ive never tried it without. Ive searched a few years but its proven difficult. Id just like to try 2 men that are new to me and not worry that ive not given my hubby the same attention because that's what has gone through my mind in the past. Not sure if men think like that but I do xx
I thought of having a threesome, but then I realised, if I wanted to disappoint two people at the same time, I might as well have dinner with my parents!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive had a few 3sommes with my hubby and other men but ive never tried it without. Ive searched a few years but its proven difficult. Id just like to try 2 men that are new to me and not worry that ive not given my hubby the same attention because that's what has gone through my mind in the past. Not sure if men think like that but I do xx
Well some of us do. When we've had threesomes with another woman I am very conscious of not giving the impression that I'm not interested/less interested in C. When we've had threesomes with a guy I'm very much focused on making sure she is safe/enjoying/happy.
They only work if the three of you all stay within whatever boundaries you each have which means learning each other's boundaries. We had a few awkward experiences to start where we behaved in ways that we felt were appropriate for ourselves but weren't what the other wanted.
Having learnt each other's boundaries you then need to find the right person who is going to fit in with and be satisfied by those boundaries.
As above, a club situation can make this easier as there is far less need for build up and interaction outside of play time. Even here though communication is important, it is easy to assume your partner is aware of a growing situation that they may not be or may even actually be unhappy with. Things move much faster in a club so you both need to be open and clear about your feelings all the way through.
We have experienced play in a club where I thought she was totally aware of building interest between another woman and I and ok with it. Turned out she was preoccupied and unaware so by the time she noticed it felt to her that we'd just jumped into play.
Equally, on another occasion I was aware that she was getting attention from someone I found cocky and rude. I didn't say anything assuming she felt the same (we tend to have similar views when no drinks have been had/we're not aroused). She assumed that my silence was consent so I was a little surprised when she happily allowed herself to be led off for a little 'soft play'
The big thing is to be able to discuss these feelings without anger at the other person. Understand that there was no intention to hurt and that we each have different perceptions of the same situation.
This all makes it sound fraught with problems but the truth is that with a bit if understanding and clear communication there is no need for jealousy and you can both have a great deal of fun
Mr"
I totally understand, our mfm hasnt been easy, we were both very new when we tried mfm and some of the men were very over powering (dom) as that's what im attracted to. I could never enjoy it fully as i was aware that my hubby was struggling. Plus back then hed never played with men so it was just interacting with me. We played last year and now hes bi curious things were so much better. Im still unable to relax fully though as im constantly aware and worry if hes enjoying it. Im certain hed be the same with me in a fmf x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had quite a few all with two other men whilst hubby watched, no jealousy on his part."
Hubby asked for a threesome and you got two men. You were meant to get one other man, not two. Looks like maths is not your forte! |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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Ive had some lovely 3 sums with couples , but the best has been with a single lady friend and another male friend. More relaxing , we all felt like part of a team, it was very flowing and natural, swopping , trying different things..loved it .. |
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"Ive had a few 3sommes with my hubby and other men but ive never tried it without. Ive searched a few years but its proven difficult. Id just like to try 2 men that are new to me and not worry that ive not given my hubby the same attention because that's what has gone through my mind in the past. Not sure if men think like that but I do xx
Well some of us do. When we've had threesomes with another woman I am very conscious of not giving the impression that I'm not interested/less interested in C. When we've had threesomes with a guy I'm very much focused on making sure she is safe/enjoying/happy.
They only work if the three of you all stay within whatever boundaries you each have which means learning each other's boundaries. We had a few awkward experiences to start where we behaved in ways that we felt were appropriate for ourselves but weren't what the other wanted.
Having learnt each other's boundaries you then need to find the right person who is going to fit in with and be satisfied by those boundaries.
As above, a club situation can make this easier as there is far less need for build up and interaction outside of play time. Even here though communication is important, it is easy to assume your partner is aware of a growing situation that they may not be or may even actually be unhappy with. Things move much faster in a club so you both need to be open and clear about your feelings all the way through.
We have experienced play in a club where I thought she was totally aware of building interest between another woman and I and ok with it. Turned out she was preoccupied and unaware so by the time she noticed it felt to her that we'd just jumped into play.
Equally, on another occasion I was aware that she was getting attention from someone I found cocky and rude. I didn't say anything assuming she felt the same (we tend to have similar views when no drinks have been had/we're not aroused). She assumed that my silence was consent so I was a little surprised when she happily allowed herself to be led off for a little 'soft play'
The big thing is to be able to discuss these feelings without anger at the other person. Understand that there was no intention to hurt and that we each have different perceptions of the same situation.
This all makes it sound fraught with problems but the truth is that with a bit if understanding and clear communication there is no need for jealousy and you can both have a great deal of fun
Mr"
Well written and great advice! Totally agree |
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So far we've only had good experiences with mfm. I do spend quite a while chatting first to ensure he is going to be a good fit and we always meet for a social too. No jealousy but I do agree with what others have said that I am always aware of giving my husband an equal amount of attention. If you can get a good match though the dynamic can be great and the sex amazing. We've not done it in a club yet so some of those comments above are useful to note x
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"My ex asked me if I could have a threesome, which of her friends I would choose. Apparently, I was only supposed to name one, not two!  "
Lol my ex used to allow me to play with all her friends , everything, but no penetration |
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Prefer a threesome with 2 males. I have had a threesome a couple of times with a male and a female but find the female gets jealous when not getting enough attention. One even stormed out in a huff. |
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"Prefer a threesome with 2 males. I have had a threesome a couple of times with a male and a female but find the female gets jealous when not getting enough attention. One even stormed out in a huff."
Wow! A stamping feet tantrum |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"Had quite a few all with two other men whilst hubby watched, no jealousy on his part.
Hubby asked for a threesome and you got two men. You were meant to get one other man, not two. Looks like maths is not your forte! "
Hubby didn't ask for a threesome, he doesn't partake, me and two others playing, ie, threesome. What's so difficult to understand? Maths and rolling eyes....what's all that about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had quite a few all with two other men whilst hubby watched, no jealousy on his part.
Hubby asked for a threesome and you got two men. You were meant to get one other man, not two. Looks like maths is not your forte!
Hubby didn't ask for a threesome, he doesn't partake, me and two others playing, ie, threesome. What's so difficult to understand? Maths and rolling eyes....what's all that about."
I am a maths teacher. I popped in to see 3 sum!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only threesomes I've had have been natural progressions at clubs.
Not sure I'd want to try and plan it because planning can put too much pressure and expectation on which could mess up the whole experience. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"So threesomes are they worth it in the end? Does jealousy play a part? What’s the best threesome fantasy you know of? Role play etc"
Threesome are like any other sexual encounter I suppose, it depends on the people involved, some will be better than others.
I have very much enjoyed the ones I've had. Aaah fond memories |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Threesomes can be awesome, but does depend on the attraction and also the respect shown. It’s not always the single woman who is treated without respect. Sometimes it’s the woman in the couple treated like her feelings don’t matter, where the single woman has one agenda, and that’s to fuck the man. Obviously happens with men as well.
As long as everyone is honest, boundaries have been discussed and agreed on (like with any meet) and it’s relaxed, it can be an amazing experience x Viv x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So threesomes are they worth it in the end? Does jealousy play a part? What’s the best threesome fantasy you know of? Role play etc"
Some can be amazing some can be awkward it depends how experienced the couple are.
I tend to avoid first time couple's now as when fantasy becomes reality they're like rabbits in headlights |
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We have done nothing else but 3sums , She loves having two men , and i love her enjoying herself , discuss boundries in pub beforehand & if all is well go back to the hotel room , far easier than meeting couples when theres 4 people involved, we have known each other 30 years it enhancers our relationship , we also have great fun on our own aswell , just keep it fun |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"So threesomes are they worth it in the end? Does jealousy play a part? What’s the best threesome fantasy you know of? Role play etc"
Depends what you mean by threesomes, if you mean long term threesomes we don't know, if you mean a couple meeting the same single man over many years we have a few of these and everyone is happy with the situation.
We think jealousy should have no place in swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Threesomes can be awesome, but does depend on the attraction and also the respect shown. It’s not always the single woman who is treated without respect. Sometimes it’s the woman in the couple treated like her feelings don’t matter, where the single woman has one agenda, and that’s to fuck the man. Obviously happens with men as well.
As long as everyone is honest, boundaries have been discussed and agreed on (like with any meet) and it’s relaxed, it can be an amazing experience x Viv x"
So, yes, they’re worth it, just have to be sure that everyone is on the same page, and just relax and have fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So threesomes are they worth it in the end? Does jealousy play a part? What’s the best threesome fantasy you know of? Role play etc"
We've had a few and why would jealousy get in the way when we're both willing? We don't have a jealous bone in our bodies, it's not healthy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So threesomes are they worth it in the end? Does jealousy play a part? What’s the best threesome fantasy you know of? Role play etc
We've had a few and why would jealousy get in the way when we're both willing? We don't have a jealous bone in our bodies, it's not healthy. "
That’s how we see it, if we were jealous we wouldn’t meet others. We don’t meet men (my choice as much as his) and we enjoy seeing each other with other women, so it’s all good x Viv x |
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I (Luke) had an mff a few years ago and the two ladies fell out with each other during our time together. Awkward!
Now I'm with a different partner and we're taking our time to find the right third person. We have a couple of potential Fab ladies we have a good vibe with so hopefully if it happens for us it will be a wonderful experience. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Threesomes have always been the main fantasy for me, in past relationships I’ve shared that with my ex partner and it hasn’t gone down well. So obviously not happened. The fantasy has remained, now it’s a case of finding a couple either MF or FF to let me join them. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I've had an ffm twice; once in a club and once outside. Amazing experience and from my perspective, certainly something every man should experience once if they have the chance.
I had more than enough stamina for both and the experience itself just fueled the libido even more 
Memories are wonderful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Met a beautiful couple where the woman arrived in just a rain mac and stockings and then we blindfolded her husband on the bed next to us and tied him to the bedside lamp while we fucked so he could just hear us... She had a thing about prosecco blow jobs too....
Funny as fuck but ended up being quite sexy too tbh....   |
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We’ve had a few ffm things didn’t always go as we had hoped but we like to think we have learnt from our mistakes and realised ffm was not really for us...would like to try mmf sometime in the future it’s just making sure we find someone we can trust and have fun with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do love a threesome, it's the one thing I'm looking forward to post lockdown, there's nothing like kissing your wife as another man slides his cock in her.
And as for two women, makes you feel like a king |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Popular in clubs and when asked, I never refuse - mmf especially x
Got to love a spitroast"
No I like the guys together.
As in MMF...
Nobody spits or roasts, not with me anyway honey! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do enjoy a threesome.
Or a foursome.
Or more...
What about a handsome like me?
Send me an arse pic, and I'll let ya know! "
As long you dont plan to peg it. It will be a real pain in my arse! |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"I do enjoy a threesome.
Or a foursome.
Or more...
What about a handsome like me?
Send me an arse pic, and I'll let ya know!
As long you dont plan to peg it. It will be a real pain in my arse! "
Now there's a thought... |
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