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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and it was 13 yrs in the past and you were your younger self but still had your current memories and experiences?
How I see success today, would be complete different to what I believed it was 13 yrs ago. I will put more focus on relationships that mattered and dont take important people in my life for granted! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oooooo so back when I was 13
I’d catfish so many people and make some money. Pretty easy to do nowadays
Gotta use my knowledge for good! (Good for me, I’m skint) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oooooo so back when I was 13
I’d catfish so many people and make some money. Pretty easy to do nowadays
Gotta use my knowledge for good! (Good for me, I’m skint) "
Maybe I will ask you that question in 13 yrs time!  |
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"What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and it was 13 yrs in the past and you were your younger self but still had your current memories and experiences?
How I see success today, would be complete different to what I believed it was 13 yrs ago. I will put more focus on relationships that mattered and dont take important people in my life for granted!"
I'd slash my wrists knowing what I know now would be coming....im staying in the here and now thankyou very much as it's a far nicer place to be and the people aren't phsyco's  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So I’d be 15.
I’d probably smile more in in pictures and not be so insecure about my braces 
Besides that I don’t think there’s anything I’d change.
Probably would bet on sporting events and make some extra money  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only 13 yrs? I think I need to go back a bit further to make much of a difference
Move south anyway. "
2007 is where everything changed for me. It doesn't have to be 13yrs. |
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"I'd tell myself not to be so bloody ambitious academically, it won't end well
Yeah, that too. Dont do it for others. Do it for yourself! "
It was my last year as an undergraduate and I took on a subject on which there had been no publications since before I was born.
... There was a reason for this    |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd tell myself not to be so bloody ambitious academically, it won't end well
Yeah, that too. Dont do it for others. Do it for yourself!
It was my last year as an undergraduate and I took on a subject on which there had been no publications since before I was born.
... There was a reason for this "
I did spend bloody four years doing a degree in IT! |
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I wouldn’t change a thing as although I left my ex with 6 hard years to deal with, I would be without my lad.
I’m very much a believer that an alternative path you would choose, with hindsight, is not likely to be any better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How strange think you will like this! I would have been 21 OP, I had not long been divorced after marrying very young! I should have taken the chance to move to NewZealand with my family but chose to stay here. No regrets but I’m certain my life would be completely different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn’t change a thing as although I left my ex with 6 hard years to deal with, I would be without my lad.
I’m very much a believer that an alternative path you would choose, with hindsight, is not likely to be any better "
I reckon this aswell,your mistakes are always going to be yours to make. It just would have been with different people. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How strange think you will like this! I would have been 21 OP, I had not long been divorced after marrying very young! I should have taken the chance to move to NewZealand with my family but chose to stay here. No regrets but I’m certain my life would be completely different. "
I should have met you then. You would be on NZ now!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How strange think you will like this! I would have been 21 OP, I had not long been divorced after marrying very young! I should have taken the chance to move to NewZealand with my family but chose to stay here. No regrets but I’m certain my life would be completely different.
I should have met you then. You would be on NZ now! "
Totally should have gone, If I could I’d be there now.  |
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By *ineMan
over a year ago
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Yesterday is but a memory that cannot be changed. Tomorrow a place we cannot see...
Today is where our life is now. What we do with today is how we change our lives our Hope's our fears. Today is where we change.....if we want to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would tell myself that I can get through anything and to live my life to the full. You can’t change your past but you can definitely learn from it x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How strange think you will like this! I would have been 21 OP, I had not long been divorced after marrying very young! I should have taken the chance to move to NewZealand with my family but chose to stay here. No regrets but I’m certain my life would be completely different.
I should have met you then. You would be on NZ now!
Totally should have gone, If I could I’d be there now. "
What is stopping you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yesterday is but a memory that cannot be changed. Tomorrow a place we cannot see...
Today is where our life is now. What we do with today is how we change our lives our Hope's our fears. Today is where we change.....if we want to."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How strange think you will like this! I would have been 21 OP, I had not long been divorced after marrying very young! I should have taken the chance to move to NewZealand with my family but chose to stay here. No regrets but I’m certain my life would be completely different.
I should have met you then. You would be on NZ now!
Totally should have gone, If I could I’d be there now.
What is stopping you? "
My daughter is young, I would never take her away from her Father. Doesn’t mean it won’t happen just not until she is older. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How strange think you will like this! I would have been 21 OP, I had not long been divorced after marrying very young! I should have taken the chance to move to NewZealand with my family but chose to stay here. No regrets but I’m certain my life would be completely different.
I should have met you then. You would be on NZ now!
Totally should have gone, If I could I’d be there now.
What is stopping you?
My daughter is young, I would never take her away from her Father. Doesn’t mean it won’t happen just not until she is older. "
Fair enough! |
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By *abonWoman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and it was 13 yrs in the past and you were your younger self but still had your current memories and experiences?
How I see success today, would be complete different to what I believed it was 13 yrs ago. I will put more focus on relationships that mattered and dont take important people in my life for granted!"
A huge believer that there’s medicine in every experience but...if I already had my current memories and experiences, ie I’ve learned all the lessons from the last 13 years, I would definitely make changes. I would walk out of my marriage and not look back, I’d go back to Australia and see if two or three opportunities were still available, I’d follow my vocation dreams rather than a career so I’m not juggling kids and starting over now, and if I could go back a smidge earlier still, I’d have another few conversations with my dad. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and it was 13 yrs in the past and you were your younger self but still had your current memories and experiences?
How I see success today, would be complete different to what I believed it was 13 yrs ago. I will put more focus on relationships that mattered and dont take important people in my life for granted!
A huge believer that there’s medicine in every experience but...if I already had my current memories and experiences, ie I’ve learned all the lessons from the last 13 years, I would definitely make changes. I would walk out of my marriage and not look back, I’d go back to Australia and see if two or three opportunities were still available, I’d follow my vocation dreams rather than a career so I’m not juggling kids and starting over now, and if I could go back a smidge earlier still, I’d have another few conversations with my dad."
How do I know you? |
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By *abonWoman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and it was 13 yrs in the past and you were your younger self but still had your current memories and experiences?
How I see success today, would be complete different to what I believed it was 13 yrs ago. I will put more focus on relationships that mattered and dont take important people in my life for granted!
A huge believer that there’s medicine in every experience but...if I already had my current memories and experiences, ie I’ve learned all the lessons from the last 13 years, I would definitely make changes. I would walk out of my marriage and not look back, I’d go back to Australia and see if two or three opportunities were still available, I’d follow my vocation dreams rather than a career so I’m not juggling kids and starting over now, and if I could go back a smidge earlier still, I’d have another few conversations with my dad.
How do I know you? "
I don’t think you do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd fuck off so much nonsense. And I'd mind how I spent my time with people - appreciate the company of some and figuratively set fire to other friendships. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd fuck off so much nonsense. And I'd mind how I spent my time with people - appreciate the company of some and figuratively set fire to other friendships."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and it was 13 yrs in the past and you were your younger self but still had your current memories and experiences?
How I see success today, would be complete different to what I believed it was 13 yrs ago. I will put more focus on relationships that mattered and dont take important people in my life for granted!
A huge believer that there’s medicine in every experience but...if I already had my current memories and experiences, ie I’ve learned all the lessons from the last 13 years, I would definitely make changes. I would walk out of my marriage and not look back, I’d go back to Australia and see if two or three opportunities were still available, I’d follow my vocation dreams rather than a career so I’m not juggling kids and starting over now, and if I could go back a smidge earlier still, I’d have another few conversations with my dad.
How do I know you?
I don’t think you do "
Maybe not! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you can't change whats gone before you can only live your life, i was happy enough 13 years ago and I'm happy enough now   "
Oye! You should be in bed sleeping. Did another hot chick walk past your room and set the alarm off again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be prepared..theres a shit storm coming your way and its gonna rip you apart. Who you are now will cease to exist but who you ll become will find the answers and find life.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d spend two years saving up money so that in 2009 I could buy a shitload of Bitcoins when they were barely more than pennies and then cash out when they hit over £15k each.
I’d learn to code so I wouldn’t end up professionally obsolete a decade later.
I wouldn’t have made certain mistakes I did.
I’d have prepared for the sub-prime market crash in 2008 so it wouldn’t almost bankrupt me.
I’d eat better and train more to avoid getting as heavy as I did about 7 years later.
I’d have seen that counsellor sooner. |
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