"No. But then we wouldn't accommodate as we have teenage children at home.
We feel it would be safer for single ladies to meet guys at a hotel or a club rather than a guys house."
I'd meet you anywhere you like. Lol |
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I've had a few house based meets and I have no idea what possesses a girl to let a strange man like me in their house, I'd never consider it the other way around.....   |
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"I wouldnt Im afraid no.
I've been surprised that I have met 3 that have. After lots of chat and photo swaps."
Surprises me too to be honest, but depends on the person I guess.  |
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"I have done.
Everyone seems to be worried about the woman's safety in that situation but what about the man? He has no idea what's waiting for him! "
On a previous profile I was invited to a womans house for our first meet and have to admit to being nervous and unsure about the whole situation....but when I heard the high heels walking towards the front door it made me feel far more at ease  |
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"I have done.
Everyone seems to be worried about the woman's safety in that situation but what about the man? He has no idea what's waiting for him! "
Very true. I was probably as nervous as they were. |
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I have done and have also gone to others on a first meet.
I don't do so lightly but after building up trust and ensuring we are on the same page. It's not something I've done often and I have never had any issues. |
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"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house. 
What about your mum
My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok "
You can do that in the garden |
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"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.
What about your mum
My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok
You can do that in the garden"
But slugs live in the garden and they carry sharp forks  #SlugsAreScary |
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"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.
What about your mum
My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok
You can do that in the garden
But slugs live in the garden and they carry sharp forks #SlugsAreScary"
Especially my racing slugs  |
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Although I've never met at a lady's house, I've had several travel up to stay with me for a couple of nights, 3 of them came from the south coast, and one stayed 4 nights, I thought she was planning on moving in |
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"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.
What about your mum
My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok
You can do that in the garden
But slugs live in the garden and they carry sharp forks #SlugsAreScary"
What about snails? |
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I have. It's not something I do all the time, but if we have been talking for a while and I get a good vibe from the guy, I sometimes make an exception.
I have two dogs who are very protective. One is large, one is small but has a very nasty bite. |
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"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.
What about your mum
My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok
You can do that in the garden
But slugs live in the garden and they carry sharp forks #SlugsAreScary
What about snails?"
The local snails are super friendly but I can't resist them and always blend them into my smoothie for added crunch... they don't visit too often these days 
Do you like crunchy snails? |
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"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.
What about your mum
My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok
You can do that in the garden
But slugs live in the garden and they carry sharp forks #SlugsAreScary
What about snails?
The local snails are super friendly but I can't resist them and always blend them into my smoothie for added crunch... they don't visit too often these days
Do you like crunchy snails? "
Yay for LBC  |
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"Although I've never met at a lady's house, I've had several travel up to stay with me for a couple of nights, 3 of them came from the south coast, and one stayed 4 nights, I thought she was planning on moving in "
4 days,that is a long time..a guest has to know when it's time to leave |
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I'd never let a guy in my house. I have kids. I live in a village where everyone knows your business before you do. So for me, play meets are either clubs or hotels. Socials are always outside of the village.
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"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.
What about your mum
My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok
You can do that in the garden
But slugs live in the garden and they carry sharp forks #SlugsAreScary
What about snails?
The local snails are super friendly but I can't resist them and always blend them into my smoothie for added crunch... they don't visit too often these days
Do you like crunchy snails? "
No. I tell my husband off for standing on snails. We must protect them at all costs |
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Definitely not, not the second or third. Huge amount of trust and getting to know someone before this ever happens, this is my kid’s territory and I wouldn’t risk that safe haven being jeopardised |
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"I have done many times in the past when hubby worked and would do again if it was possible. I dont have a problem with it! "
That's brilliant whats your post code lol xxx only joking x  |
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I have done both ways round in the past. Definitely wouldn’t now ended up with a very crazy stalker type guy, police involved the lot. Definitely don’t risk your home until trust has been strongly built, but even the people we trust can be dangerous. Go careful people xx |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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I've been invited into someone's home several times for a first meet. Obviously occurred after frequent messaging and chatting for a while. I was always humbled by the trust they put in me to do such a thing |
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Nope. My home is my private space. No one gets here initially.
Once I know someone really well and trust them then I might consider it. However my house is very rarely empty so it's unlikely to be possible |
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"I have done both ways round in the past. Definitely wouldn’t now ended up with a very crazy stalker type guy, police involved the lot. Definitely don’t risk your home until trust has been strongly built, but even the people we trust can be dangerous. Go careful people xx"
Exactly us ladies need to be more cautious  |
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"No. But then we wouldn't accommodate as we have teenage children at home.
We feel it would be safer for single ladies to meet guys at a hotel or a club rather than a guys house."
Inagreenwith this 50 million percent  |
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We have in the past. As for safety, it's the safest place we know. No one knows what we have to protect ourselves or where it is. The personal protection dogs are well trained haha |
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"We have in the past. As for safety, it's the safest place we know. No one knows what we have to protect ourselves or where it is. The personal protection dogs are well trained haha"
They like peanut butter I’ve heard |
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"We have in the past. As for safety, it's the safest place we know. No one knows what we have to protect ourselves or where it is. The personal protection dogs are well trained haha
They like peanut butter I’ve heard "
Ours only move when told |
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