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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it a yes providing your both honest and discuss ground rules so you both know where you stand .... Or is it a big no no in the world of Fab?
Go?! "
There are 2 swinging ladies from my work and I have played with them both. No issues at all. Can be fun when we pass each other with knowing smiles!  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Is it a yes providing your both honest and discuss ground rules so you both know where you stand .... Or is it a big no no in the world of Fab?
Go?! "
It would be big no from me for a few reasons.
But sure it could work out for some people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say it is best avoided.
If things get 'messy' it is not just your personal life that will be affected, but your work life too.
Also, depending on where you work, some companies take a dim view of inter office relationships, especially if either party has a spouse.
So depending on where you work, you could end up with some explaining to do if it becomes public knowledge, whether it gets messy or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No from me
things dont always go to plan and i have met people and really gone off them after the sex, or they have got a little clingy etc which is ok on here as i dont have to ever see them again i wouldnt want that with someone i have to see every time i go to work
why make life more complicated than it has to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if you have to ask on a forum for a yes answer then i think normally the answer is no , no matter what the question is lol "
Do we have our cynical head on this afternoon Robert ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if you have to ask on a forum for a yes answer then i think normally the answer is no , no matter what the question is lol
Do we have our cynical head on this afternoon Robert ? "
well if it was a good idea im thinking he would of already nailed it, just being realistic haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if you have to ask on a forum for a yes answer then i think normally the answer is no , no matter what the question is lol
Do we have our cynical head on this afternoon Robert ?
well if it was a good idea im thinking he would of already nailed it, just being realistic haha "
I already have after a works night out last weekend however I'm sat here in the sun weighing up the pro's and cons similar to what's been said above.
Its this sun .... It makes you think rude things!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if you have to ask on a forum for a yes answer then i think normally the answer is no , no matter what the question is lol
Do we have our cynical head on this afternoon Robert ?
well if it was a good idea im thinking he would of already nailed it, just being realistic haha
I already have after a works night out last weekend however I'm sat here in the sun weighing up the pro's and cons similar to what's been said above.
Its this sun .... It makes you think rude things!!!!"
being rude once is one thing
being rude time and again with someone at work is asking for trouble imho |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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being rude once is one thing
being rude time and again with someone at work is asking for trouble imho "
That's the concern and what's on my mind in fairness.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to be fair if she's a crank who going to cause problems, then its also going to come when u wont play no more ! sounds like u probs wont avoid out bad, so have to weigh up if she loose cannon emmotionally when dont get her own way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had fun with a few women at various companies I've worked for with no problems at all.
In fact I'm still very good friends with them all and still occasionally get up to no good 
I say as long as everyone knows it's just fun, why not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to be fair if she's a crank who going to cause problems, then its also going to come when u wont play no more ! sounds like u probs wont avoid out bad, so have to weigh up if she loose cannon emmotionally when dont get her own way!"
that's very one sided and most unlike you
it could be gordinho that's the crank !
(am not saying it is btw)
women don't have the full ownership of 'crank' or 'loose cannon' ya know
there's enough blokes out there who they could be just as easily applied to |
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"I would say no but when i worked at the hotel i did work my way through all seven chefs lol"
Really, I worked in hotel as well, had two of the housemaids, sadly not at the same time, and one of their mothers as well!
Oh to be young again.......sigh.......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always sleep with someone from my work.she is my wife though."
yeah this is the problems were all trying to steer him clear from, dont want him to end up married or nothing |
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"I would say no but when i worked at the hotel i did work my way through all seven chefs lol
Really, I worked in hotel as well, had two of the housemaids, sadly not at the same time, and one of their mothers as well!
Oh to be young again.......sigh.......
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I know we had some wicked parties at the staff house lol, i was about 22 then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"to be fair if she's a crank who going to cause problems, then its also going to come when u wont play no more ! sounds like u probs wont avoid out bad, so have to weigh up if she loose cannon emmotionally when dont get her own way!
that's very one sided and most unlike you
it could be gordinho that's the crank !
(am not saying it is btw)
women don't have the full ownership of 'crank' or 'loose cannon' ya know
there's enough blokes out there who they could be just as easily applied to "
oh yeah thats true, but i was just looking at it from his point of view, he's not going to admit to being the mad one is he |
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Used to work at Thorntons, in the 80's. There was a lift with 2 gates on it, if you got halfway between levels & opened the inner gate the lift would automatically stop. Much fun ensued when I found this out.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always sleep with someone from my work.she is my wife though.
yeah this is the problems were all trying to steer him clear from, dont want him to end up married or nothing "
Laughing here at this one! Top quality posting sir |
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By *eamCouple
over a year ago
Exeter |
own a business it is amazing how many staff what to sleep with the boss just somthing you dont do ever how ever attrative they are......
not keen on staff doing it as when or if it go's wrong causes so many problems in the work place and effects other staff to taking sides  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends where u work, for instance, i work in a contact centre and there is always affairs going on even when both parties are married, its common knowledge what is going on aswell, people just laugh about it, its up to yourself whether you think it will just a quick fuck or more and is it worth the risk of losing a job?? |
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By *eamCouple
over a year ago
Exeter |
"How can you have any control over what staff do in their own time and in their private lives?.....
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You don't and not saying you should but it do's cause problems.... you find that the singles sort it better than the married ones as we have had a husband come to the office and knocked out a co worker for sleeping with his wife who worked here.....  |
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