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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
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Number of which?
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"What department do we need to rate?" You choose, depends if the memory is good or bad I guess. Shallow as you like from morality, to kindness, to looks, to bank balance......  | |||
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"-9999999.999 Yeah, he’s that bad." Did he/she help choose your username? | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
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Number of which?
"Out of any number you choose as long as you're clear - 1/10, 70/453 idm? | |||
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"What department do we need to rate? You choose, depends if the memory is good or bad I guess. Shallow as you like from morality, to kindness, to looks, to bank balance...... "She tried to clean me out. She has done well for herself. I would give her a 8.  | |||
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"A straight up 10 - that was out of 100 though" Your username is an 8 | |||
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"What department do we need to rate? You choose, depends if the memory is good or bad I guess. Shallow as you like from morality, to kindness, to looks, to bank balance......
She tried to clean me out. She has done well for herself. I would give her a 8. "8 for criminal effort? | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
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"Why? | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
Nip x
Why?"Ok, rate the second most recent if it helps? Just bored with looking at cock.... | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
Nip x
Why?"Light-hearted fun innit | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
Nip x
Why?
Light-hearted fun innit "Don't be cheeky | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
Nip x
Why?
Light-hearted fun innit
Don't be cheeky "I'm nippy! | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
Nip x
Why?
Light-hearted fun innit
Don't be cheeky
I'm nippy!"Yeah Don't answer me back | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
Nip x
Why?
Light-hearted fun innit
Don't be cheeky
I'm nippy!
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Don't answer me back"You love me!  | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
Nip x
Why?
Light-hearted fun innit
Don't be cheeky
I'm nippy!
Yeah
Don't answer me back
You love me! "Yep x | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
Nip x
Why?
Light-hearted fun innit
Don't be cheeky
I'm nippy!
Yeah
Don't answer me back
You love me!
Yep x"Ilu2 | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
Nip x
Why?
Light-hearted fun innit
Don't be cheeky
I'm nippy!
Yeah
Don't answer me back
You love me!
Yep x
Ilu2 "Fanku x | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
Nip x
Why?
Light-hearted fun innit
Don't be cheeky
I'm nippy!
Yeah
Don't answer me back
You love me!
Yep x
Ilu2
Fanku x"Yvw babez x | |||
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"10/10. I have great taste in guys. Sadly this one didn’t work for various reasons but nothing but love and best wishes "Awww that's cool . Ex's don't have to be monsters do they | |||
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"10/10. I have great taste in guys. Sadly this one didn’t work for various reasons but nothing but love and best wishes
Awww that's cool . Ex's don't have to be monsters do they "Mine wasn't he was lovely | |||
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"10/10. I have great taste in guys. Sadly this one didn’t work for various reasons but nothing but love and best wishes
Awww that's cool . Ex's don't have to be monsters do they
Mine wasn't he was lovely "I know I'm amazing, but shushhhhhh   | |||
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"4. Inches. " ucky | |||
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"4. Inches. " Flaccid? | |||
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"10/10. I have great taste in guys. Sadly this one didn’t work for various reasons but nothing but love and best wishes
Awww that's cool . Ex's don't have to be monsters do they
Mine wasn't he was lovely
I know I'm amazing, but shushhhhhh "Are you my ex | |||
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"4. Inches. " Lucky | |||
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"10/10. I have great taste in guys. Sadly this one didn’t work for various reasons but nothing but love and best wishes
Awww that's cool . Ex's don't have to be monsters do they
Mine wasn't he was lovely
I know I'm amazing, but shushhhhhh
Are you my ex"I know, I came back and you've just moved on, no love....  | |||
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"10/10. I have great taste in guys. Sadly this one didn’t work for various reasons but nothing but love and best wishes
Awww that's cool . Ex's don't have to be monsters do they
Mine wasn't he was lovely
I know I'm amazing, but shushhhhhh
Are you my ex
I know, I came back and you've just moved on, no love.... "Such is life | |||
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"10/10. I have great taste in guys. Sadly this one didn’t work for various reasons but nothing but love and best wishes
Awww that's cool . Ex's don't have to be monsters do they
Mine wasn't he was lovely
I know I'm amazing, but shushhhhhh
Are you my ex
I know, I came back and you've just moved on, no love....
Such is life"It'll be a tough struggle to find another perfect 10 but I'll never give up..... | |||
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"10/10. I have great taste in guys. Sadly this one didn’t work for various reasons but nothing but love and best wishes
Awww that's cool . Ex's don't have to be monsters do they
Mine wasn't he was lovely
I know I'm amazing, but shushhhhhh
Are you my ex
I know, I came back and you've just moved on, no love....
Such is life
It'll be a tough struggle to find another perfect 10 but I'll never give up..... "But you left me  | |||
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"4. Inches. Flaccid?" Sadly not. Would like to say made up for it in other ways. Sadly not... | |||
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"Mine was wonderful. Together 17 years but drifted apart and split 2 and a half years ago. Knew all about "Lisa" and we are still good friends to this day. " Aww cool
Lisa is a brilliant name btw | |||
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"4. Inches. Flaccid? Sadly not. Would like to say made up for it in other ways. Sadly not..." Noway? How long/short were you together? | |||
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"10/10. I have great taste in guys. Sadly this one didn’t work for various reasons but nothing but love and best wishes
Awww that's cool . Ex's don't have to be monsters do they
Mine wasn't he was lovely
I know I'm amazing, but shushhhhhh
Are you my ex
I know, I came back and you've just moved on, no love....
Such is life
It'll be a tough struggle to find another perfect 10 but I'll never give up.....
But you left me
"You were always on my mind, you were always on my mind..... | |||
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"Mine was wonderful. Together 17 years but drifted apart and split 2 and a half years ago. Knew all about "Lisa" and we are still good friends to this day. Aww cool
Lisa is a brilliant name btw " I picked it from a song about two lesbians in the early 90s. It suited me perfectly | |||
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"10/10. I have great taste in guys. Sadly this one didn’t work for various reasons but nothing but love and best wishes
Awww that's cool . Ex's don't have to be monsters do they
Mine wasn't he was lovely
I know I'm amazing, but shushhhhhh
Are you my ex
I know, I came back and you've just moved on, no love....
Such is life
It'll be a tough struggle to find another perfect 10 but I'll never give up.....
But you left me
You were always on my mind, you were always on my mind....."Sang that like Elvis  | |||
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"Mine was wonderful. Together 17 years but drifted apart and split 2 and a half years ago. Knew all about "Lisa" and we are still good friends to this day. Aww cool
Lisa is a brilliant name btw
I picked it from a song about two lesbians in the early 90s. It suited me perfectly "Where have you been not seen you on for a while you good? | |||
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"Mine was wonderful. Together 17 years but drifted apart and split 2 and a half years ago. Knew all about "Lisa" and we are still good friends to this day. Aww cool
Lisa is a brilliant name btw
I picked it from a song about two lesbians in the early 90s. It suited me perfectly "My girls mum was called Lisa | |||
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"Was listening to this on the radio with two of my daughters in the car it was even funnier listening to them rate my ex’s "It's on the radio? I want commission! (Funnier than Nippy on fab????  ) | |||
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"Rate my ex? Rather shit in my hands and clap .." Do it then then sniff your hands  | |||
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"Rate my ex? Rather shit in my hands and clap .." You can just give them a minus? Save on the mess and clearing up innit.... | |||
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"Mine was wonderful. Together 17 years but drifted apart and split 2 and a half years ago. Knew all about "Lisa" and we are still good friends to this day. Aww cool
Lisa is a brilliant name btw
I picked it from a song about two lesbians in the early 90s. It suited me perfectly
My girls mum was called Lisa "Was she a lesbian too | |||
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"Rate my ex? Rather shit in my hands and clap .. Do it then then sniff your hands "Stop encouraging him! | |||
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"Mine was wonderful. Together 17 years but drifted apart and split 2 and a half years ago. Knew all about "Lisa" and we are still good friends to this day. Aww cool
Lisa is a brilliant name btw
I picked it from a song about two lesbians in the early 90s. It suited me perfectly
My girls mum was called Lisa
Was she a lesbian too " | |||
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"Mine was wonderful. Together 17 years but drifted apart and split 2 and a half years ago. Knew all about "Lisa" and we are still good friends to this day. Aww cool
Lisa is a brilliant name btw
I picked it from a song about two lesbians in the early 90s. It suited me perfectly
My girls mum was called Lisa
Was she a lesbian too "Lol not that I knew of | |||
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"Mine was wonderful. Together 17 years but drifted apart and split 2 and a half years ago. Knew all about "Lisa" and we are still good friends to this day. Aww cool
Lisa is a brilliant name btw
I picked it from a song about two lesbians in the early 90s. It suited me perfectly
Where have you been not seen you on for a while you good?"Yes I'm good, my best Tgirl friend died so was a bit sad but I'm OK now | |||
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"Mine was wonderful. Together 17 years but drifted apart and split 2 and a half years ago. Knew all about "Lisa" and we are still good friends to this day. Aww cool
Lisa is a brilliant name btw
I picked it from a song about two lesbians in the early 90s. It suited me perfectly
Where have you been not seen you on for a while you good?
Yes I'm good, my best Tgirl friend died so was a bit sad but I'm OK now "Oh nooo. | |||
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"4. Inches. Flaccid? Sadly not. Would like to say made up for it in other ways. Sadly not... Noway? How long/short were you together?" From me being a teenager to having teenagers of our own. Just grew apart, I didn’t realise how much I’d been short changed.... | |||
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"4. Inches. Flaccid? Sadly not. Would like to say made up for it in other ways. Sadly not... Noway? How long/short were you together? From me being a teenager to having teenagers of our own. Just grew apart, I didn’t realise how much I’d been short changed.... " So basically only half of your vagina was in the relationship? | |||
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"He has a huge cock. He is a huge cock. " Don't call me that! | |||
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"7....she would have been an 8 if it wasnt for her lack of sexual motivation and the fact she didnt take it in the bum. "Well shot of her then if bum fun wasn't on the menu..... | |||
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"He has a huge cock. He is a huge cock. " Awkward for bum fun I guess.... | |||
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"My ex is dead. He wasn't a good husband, a wife beater but I still feel sad he died so young. He gets a - 10 from me. " I'm sorry to hear that, that's sad . Was he your most recent ex then? My girls mum died 8 years ago, she was brilliant there's been some muppets since but a couple of good 'un's | |||
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"Last guy I dated 6 weeks a below average 4 ... Guy I was with 1.5 years 6 ( lovely cock but he got lazy) Guy I was with 7 months 7 And ex husband a 2 ( and I am being generous) cock was 4 inches and skills were none ... " Flaccid? | |||
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"6. He started off as a 10 but as I realised he was selfish and deceitful it dropped. He gets the 6 for his skill between the sheets and his bod though x" Did you keep him as a fuck friend? x | |||
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"Last guy I dated 6 weeks a below average 4 ... Guy I was with 1.5 years 6 ( lovely cock but he got lazy) Guy I was with 7 months 7 And ex husband a 2 ( and I am being generous) cock was 4 inches and skills were none ... Flaccid?" 4 inch hard It wasnt great truth be told | |||
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"My ex is dead. He wasn't a good husband, a wife beater but I still feel sad he died so young. He gets a - 10 from me. I'm sorry to hear that, that's sad . Was he your most recent ex then? My girls mum died 8 years ago, she was brilliant there's been some muppets since but a couple of good 'un's "We were childhood sweethearts and married young. We divorced and I re married, so yes, he's my only ex really, bar a couple of dates after my divorce. Sorry to hear about your wife. | |||
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"-9999999.999 Yeah, he’s that bad." Have we met ???? | |||
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"Last guy I dated 6 weeks a below average 4 ... Guy I was with 1.5 years 6 ( lovely cock but he got lazy) Guy I was with 7 months 7 And ex husband a 2 ( and I am being generous) cock was 4 inches and skills were none ... Flaccid? 4 inch hard It wasnt great truth be told " I didn't think they existed, yet there have been two mentioned on this thread. Can a guy compensate with "how he uses it"? Wait, it wasn't the same guy was it???? x | |||
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"-9999999.999 Yeah, he’s that bad. Have we met ???? "You work it fella! | |||
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"Last guy I dated 6 weeks a below average 4 ... Guy I was with 1.5 years 6 ( lovely cock but he got lazy) Guy I was with 7 months 7 And ex husband a 2 ( and I am being generous) cock was 4 inches and skills were none ... Flaccid? 4 inch hard It wasnt great truth be told I didn't think they existed, yet there have been two mentioned on this thread. Can a guy compensate with "how he uses it"? Wait, it wasn't the same guy was it???? x"Ex husband ... 4 inch hard no skills ... 13 years of frustration... only positive was my kid came out of it.... | |||
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"Last guy I dated 6 weeks a below average 4 ... Guy I was with 1.5 years 6 ( lovely cock but he got lazy) Guy I was with 7 months 7 And ex husband a 2 ( and I am being generous) cock was 4 inches and skills were none ... Flaccid? 4 inch hard It wasnt great truth be told I didn't think they existed, yet there have been two mentioned on this thread. Can a guy compensate with "how he uses it"? Wait, it wasn't the same guy was it???? x
Ex husband ... 4 inch hard no skills ... 13 years of frustration... only positive was my kid came out of it....
"Thanks for that image of a man giving birth out of a four inch cock.... ....think I might skip breakfast now | |||
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"6 nice woman with big heart but after caring for her for nearly fourteen years she did something that was no coming back from. I am some glad I don't suffer from mental health problems like she does. Still see both my step daughters and occasionally the ex keep her car on the road " 14 good years though to cherish still? | |||
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"I don't think that people should be rated. Their skills, attributes or personality but not the person as a whole. " Rate what you're comfortable with. Give me a number and an attribute or....... I'll give him a 5 for your gravity defying penis | |||
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"14 years there were plenty of good times have three lovely girls calling me grandad so take the positives. As with all relationships there are lessons to be learned as we all make mistakes " Amen, can only do things once | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 30/04/20 09:00:20]" My fingers are ridiculously fat this morning, not a full ten at all... | |||
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Having said that honestly I wish him well in whatever he chooses we are just fine without him | |||
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"6. He started off as a 10 but as I realised he was selfish and deceitful it dropped. He gets the 6 for his skill between the sheets and his bod though x Did you keep him as a fuck friend? x" No, he was too busy fucking half of fab on a different profile! | |||
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"Whilst in the relationship definitely 10/10 but after 11 years together I unexpectedly got pregnant and he did one so would have to say 5/10 for not taking care of his responsibilities
Having said that honestly I wish him well in whatever he chooses we are just fine without him "Great a that you've been able to keep a balanced perspective | |||
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We live and learn no one is ever a 10 | |||
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"6. He started off as a 10 but as I realised he was selfish and deceitful it dropped. He gets the 6 for his skill between the sheets and his bod though x Did you keep him as a fuck friend? x No, he was too busy fucking half of fab on a different profile!" plenty more fish innit... | |||
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"9 "Inches? | |||
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"Minus 10 "Ice rainbow | |||
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"Started a 10 then his true colours came out now a 0 and maybe in prison from what I heard for attacking his current girlfriend We live and learn no one is ever a 10 "We can aspire to be a 10 though, no? And that makes a person a 10 in my book | |||
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"Started a 10 then his true colours came out now a 0 and maybe in prison from what I heard for attacking his current girlfriend We live and learn no one is ever a 10
We can aspire to be a 10 though, no? And that makes a person a 10 in my book "Most definitely | |||
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"My ex husband gets a 3. A point for each child he helped make. However as he decided he didn't want to actually be part of their lives I deduct down to - 30 Hes an ass hole who doesn't deserve a thing " | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
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"My most recent (and last) who I only realised the other day was still on here!!?? She was a 10 out of 10! Clever pretty and incredibly sexy! | |||
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"......your most recent one please? No names, just numbers! Have a great evening
Nip x
My most recent (and last) who I only realised the other day was still on here!!??
She was a 10 out of 10! Clever pretty and incredibly sexy! "Good stuff for being able to say something positive about an ex | |||
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"10" That's the way I see it mostly, if they weren't a 10 (at least at the time) then what the eff were you doing, innit... | |||
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"10 for dick 0 for anything else" Bag on head and listen to a TED talk on your dates maybe? | |||
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"9 for companionship 5 or less for the rest depending on how generous I'm feeling." How generous are you feeling? | |||
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"There's a reason why people are exes." Usually coz we're dicks innit | |||
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"7 He gets those points for introducing me to swinging, for taking me places like cap dagde and hedonism, and for having a genuine nice gentle side. I wont go into why he lost points and why I left" | |||
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"6.5/10 Pros: good sized suckable cock, durcell battery stamina fucked for hours, enjoyed licking me out, good sexy body Cons: not the best at licking or sensuous enough. Not my usual sexy type in face" Love your honesty and bluntness | |||
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"Sex 10 Smile 10 Temper 10 Volatility 10 " No negatives? | |||
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"I'd denounce all knowledge of a relationship as spurious lies And if she was dating someone else... Tell them they could do WAY better than her" Virgin right?  | |||
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"My most recent one Looks 10 Penis 10 Sex 5 but had potential to go higher if he could last longer and would let me put things in his arse. General personality 8 Emotions -10!" In that order? | |||
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"She was a 10 for so long " What is she now? | |||
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"She was a 10. Until she broke my heart "Worth it though, right, for the good times? | |||
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"Why? Doesn't matter...they're an ex" Not a lot matters on the fab forum really (if you're using it right) - gimme a number! | |||
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"Btw...he was an 8 to start with. I'm a harsh critic "Worth the effort? | |||
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"Btw...he was an 8 to start with. I'm a harsh critic
Worth the effort?"Most definitely. We are still good friends. | |||
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"The last girl I dated? Lovely woman, pretty and vibrant, but controlling which is why I left. 6/10 The last girl I slept with? Definitely above 6 "It's surprising me lately just how controlling and deflective some can be. I think as we get older we can get pretty fucked up and insecure.... | |||
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"Btw...he was an 8 to start with. I'm a harsh critic
Worth the effort?
Most definitely. We are still good friends. "Good, didn't think you were the type to have many recent regrets | |||
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"1st wife. 0 2nd wife. 10 Partner now p/t escor. Priceless" Just me? | |||
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"1st wife. 0 2nd wife. 10 Partner now p/t escor. Priceless" Escort? | |||
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"The last girl I dated? Lovely woman, pretty and vibrant, but controlling which is why I left. 6/10 The last girl I slept with? Definitely above 6
It's surprising me lately just how controlling and deflective some can be. I think as we get older we can get pretty fucked up and insecure.... "I couldn't have explained it any better man, it's all in the insecurities we have. A relationship is all about equal measure of love and give and take, it's become harder to find as I've gotten older so I've given up looking. I'm in no doubt that I'm as much to blame as my exes in my own ways but I've learnt that I'm better on my own. I'm happy with this but my family and friends still try and introduce me to women they know and I'd love to say, "it's ok, I'm a swinger" | |||
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"8 when I met him. 10 when things were good. 0 when I left him due to stupid possessiveness issues. " Would you share any blame with him? Just asking I'm not trying to be an arsehole I promise | |||
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"The last girl I dated? Lovely woman, pretty and vibrant, but controlling which is why I left. 6/10 The last girl I slept with? Definitely above 6
It's surprising me lately just how controlling and deflective some can be. I think as we get older we can get pretty fucked up and insecure....
I couldn't have explained it any better man, it's all in the insecurities we have. A relationship is all about equal measure of love and give and take, it's become harder to find as I've gotten older so I've given up looking. I'm in no doubt that I'm as much to blame as my exes in my own ways but I've learnt that I'm better on my own. I'm happy with this but my family and friends still try and introduce me to women they know and I'd love to say, "it's ok, I'm a swinger" "Haha, yeah, I've been through phases myself where I can't be arsed with the effort or agro, or more importantly the bitterness when things go bad... | |||
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"Before I found out he was a lying, cheating, dangerous man a 7, but now a -7 " Did you learn from it? | |||
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"Define ex. If you're talking full-on relationship then probably break even at 0. The fact he left me for dead puts him in negative numbers, but he was a bit hapless which does make for some very funny stories, so that brings him back up to zero. If you're talking long term FwB/FB type arrangement then 10/10. He was an absolute joy and if he ever comes back to the UK I hope he looks me up." So are you more interested in fwb and wary of relationships because of that? Or are you still open? x | |||
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I know, but I’m a lovely chap "I'm sure
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"8 when I met him. 10 when things were good. 0 when I left him due to stupid possessiveness issues. Would you share any blame with him? Just asking I'm not trying to be an arsehole I promise "Oh I’m a terrible flirt but he knew that from the start. I got bored... it wasn’t really a blame thing. | |||
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"She was a 10 for so long What is she now? "She has every potential to be a 10 again, in time | |||
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"8 when I met him. 10 when things were good. 0 when I left him due to stupid possessiveness issues. Would you share any blame with him? Just asking I'm not trying to be an arsehole I promise
Oh I’m a terrible flirt but he knew that from the start. I got bored... it wasn’t really a blame thing."You are and excellent flirt, but flirting isn't cheating is it. I miss flirting with you | |||
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"She was a 10 for so long What is she now?
She has every potential to be a 10 again, in time "Awww that's actually lovely | |||
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"Hmmmm only way to do this fairly is by attribute! Personality 9 Physical attractiveness 8 Filthy fuckerness 11 Head fuck? Off the scale. Sometimes you just have to walk away to preserve your sanity! Haha" Yep, some ppl can get inside you and vice versa and it becomes unhealthy.... | |||
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"Define ex. If you're talking full-on relationship then probably break even at 0. The fact he left me for dead puts him in negative numbers, but he was a bit hapless which does make for some very funny stories, so that brings him back up to zero. If you're talking long term FwB/FB type arrangement then 10/10. He was an absolute joy and if he ever comes back to the UK I hope he looks me up. So are you more interested in fwb and wary of relationships because of that? Or are you still open? x" I never say never, but it's been 20 years since I lived with someone and I've become extremely prickly and set in my ways, so it would be really tough for anyone who wanted more than sex and occasional dates. I also think that because he was the last in a series of abusers, with the abuse escalating each time, I would find it hard to trust myself and would be constantly questioning whether I was repeating the behaviour that put me into the situation where I would accept being treated poorly. Not sure if that makes any sense? I'm not accepting blame for what happened, but I do acknowledge that it was a cycle of behaviour that fed a need in me in the early stages. I'm not sure whether that need would still be there if I placed myself back in that situation again or if I'm in a healthier place now and could sustain a functional relationship. I'd hope the latter, but I suspect I would be constantly mistrusting my instincts and overthinking everything, at least at the beginning. Not much fun to be my partner when I'm working through that. I'm not that way with a FWB arrangement, even where that arrangement has been monogamous and long-lasting. It's easier for me to just enjoy without questioning too deeply. Not a quick or easy response but it's a complex issue! | |||
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"Before I found out he was a lying, cheating, dangerous man a 7, but now a -7 Did you learn from it? "After I got over the heart ache and helped my young daughter repair her image of men, I guess I have. | |||
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"Define ex. If you're talking full-on relationship then probably break even at 0. The fact he left me for dead puts him in negative numbers, but he was a bit hapless which does make for some very funny stories, so that brings him back up to zero. If you're talking long term FwB/FB type arrangement then 10/10. He was an absolute joy and if he ever comes back to the UK I hope he looks me up. So are you more interested in fwb and wary of relationships because of that? Or are you still open? x I never say never, but it's been 20 years since I lived with someone and I've become extremely prickly and set in my ways, so it would be really tough for anyone who wanted more than sex and occasional dates. I also think that because he was the last in a series of abusers, with the abuse escalating each time, I would find it hard to trust myself and would be constantly questioning whether I was repeating the behaviour that put me into the situation where I would accept being treated poorly. Not sure if that makes any sense? I'm not accepting blame for what happened, but I do acknowledge that it was a cycle of behaviour that fed a need in me in the early stages. I'm not sure whether that need would still be there if I placed myself back in that situation again or if I'm in a healthier place now and could sustain a functional relationship. I'd hope the latter, but I suspect I would be constantly mistrusting my instincts and overthinking everything, at least at the beginning. Not much fun to be my partner when I'm working through that. I'm not that way with a FWB arrangement, even where that arrangement has been monogamous and long-lasting. It's easier for me to just enjoy without questioning too deeply. Not a quick or easy response but it's a complex issue!" Aww thanks for taking the time to put that all together, and yes it makes total sense . If you've lived a certain life then of course you fear it will happen again and that you can't trust your own judgement and so if you get close to anything similar it can become at worst a self fulfilling prophecy and and best very messy and argumentative.
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"This thread went a bit Jeremy Kyle but I quite like that tbh, it's nice to learn a little about you ppl rather than the usual shite....
Come on then. What’s your next thread going to be? "Probs some inane shite to wind up the silent ones innit.... | |||
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"This thread went a bit Jeremy Kyle but I quite like that tbh, it's nice to learn a little about you ppl rather than the usual shite....
Come on then. What’s your next thread going to be?
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"This thread went a bit Jeremy Kyle but I quite like that tbh, it's nice to learn a little about you ppl rather than the usual shite.... "Jeremy who? | |||
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"This thread went a bit Jeremy Kyle but I quite like that tbh, it's nice to learn a little about you ppl rather than the usual shite....
Jeremy who?"He's like Corbyn, only angrier and without a beard, or a job.... | |||
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