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Quiet and slow on Fab?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it me or do things seem slower on here recently? I guess the extended lockdown has reduced people's enthusiasm to talk about sex with others as we won't be meeting for a while unfortunately. This board is still fairly busy with chit chat, but the other boards and messages seem to be dwindling off a little. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That and all the married (yet pretending to be single) women’s husbands are at home ... "
Yeah true! Plus childcare duties will be getting in the way for many I guess. |
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"That and all the married (yet pretending to be single) women’s husbands are at home ...
Yeah true! Plus childcare duties will be getting in the way for many I guess."
All very true. And given that this is a lot about meeting, most peeps are being sensible and not being tempted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does seem rather painfully slow from my perspective.
If more people are apparently at home, then it would be more likely to attract interests? Or were people using FAB in work time prior? 
As for not meeting...wouldn't now be a good time to build connections with the hope of a meet in the future? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Probably a combination of all things mentioned.
Childcare
Working from home
No meets
Wanked out
Depression / lack of motivation or sex drive
Harder to cheat on partners (for the married contingent)
Running out of things to say! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably a combination of all things mentioned.
Childcare
Working from home
No meets
Wanked out
Depression / lack of motivation or sex drive
Harder to cheat on partners (for the married contingent)
Running out of things to say!"
Wanked out 
Their eyesight is knackered from all the wanking so they can't see to log on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally - I'm spending less time on here, because I'm not a lover of all the arguments and lamppost pissing contests. "
I just popped back after a while and I'm told it's been angsty and LoO has been banned for life and all in all not very nice.
Definitely quiet OP |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Pleased it's not just me that thinks it's slow.
I wouldn't say it's been hostile, but we only joined recently so probably don't have the same reference point. There's been some hate on those who choose to play bareback. But that's all I've really noticed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally - I'm spending less time on here, because I'm not a lover of all the arguments and lamppost pissing contests.
I just popped back after a while and I'm told it's been angsty and LoO has been banned for life and all in all not very nice.
Definitely quiet OP"
Why was LOO banned? |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Personally - I'm spending less time on here, because I'm not a lover of all the arguments and lamppost pissing contests.
I just popped back after a while and I'm told it's been angsty and LoO has been banned for life and all in all not very nice.
Definitely quiet OP"
Good to see you back mate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally - I'm spending less time on here, because I'm not a lover of all the arguments and lamppost pissing contests. "
We on on here less and less this past few weeks for the same reason as you have mentioned. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally for me, haven't been on much, as have disabled adult in the house, so kept busy as ever. I am sure there are several reasons for being quiet, as most have mentioned possible reasons already. Hopefully threads will lighten up soon enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally - I'm spending less time on here, because I'm not a lover of all the arguments and lamppost pissing contests.
Yep. Me too 
I know is same for others too. "
We should have a nicety nice Telegram group  |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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VERY slow..
Yesterday I got about 5 messages all day. Lowest number I’ve ever got in 2 years! I normally can’t count how many messages I get in a day... I was so bored I went to read mums net
It’s picked up a bit today. Still, nothing interesting. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Personally - I'm spending less time on here, because I'm not a lover of all the arguments and lamppost pissing contests.
Yep. Me too
I know is same for others too.
We should have a nicety nice Telegram group "
Love to. Please Send me your details. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally - I'm spending less time on here, because I'm not a lover of all the arguments and lamppost pissing contests.
Yep. Me too
I know is same for others too.
We should have a nicety nice Telegram group "
Telegram? That's a new one on me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally - I'm spending less time on here, because I'm not a lover of all the arguments and lamppost pissing contests. "
Where else am I supposed to piss? If I do it in the house I get whacked with a rolled up newspaper... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally - I'm spending less time on here, because I'm not a lover of all the arguments and lamppost pissing contests.
Yep. Me too
I know is same for others too.
We should have a nicety nice Telegram group
Telegram? That's a new one on me. "
So behind the times you...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally - I'm spending less time on here, because I'm not a lover of all the arguments and lamppost pissing contests.
Yep. Me too
I know is same for others too.
We should have a nicety nice Telegram group
Telegram? That's a new one on me.
So behind the times you... "
Only just got to grips with zoom and houseparty. Mind you I've gone back to posting letters. I like the romance of snail mail.
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
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"Is it me or do things seem slower on here recently? I guess the extended lockdown has reduced people's enthusiasm to talk about sex with others as we won't be meeting for a while unfortunately. This board is still fairly busy with chit chat, but the other boards and messages seem to be dwindling off a little."
Even some forums I've found are getting less traffic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally - I'm spending less time on here, because I'm not a lover of all the arguments and lamppost pissing contests.
Yep. Me too
I know is same for others too.
We should have a nicety nice Telegram group
Telegram? That's a new one on me.
So behind the times you...
Only just got to grips with zoom and houseparty. Mind you I've gone back to posting letters. I like the romance of snail mail.
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Want to be pen pals? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally - I'm spending less time on here, because I'm not a lover of all the arguments and lamppost pissing contests.
Yep. Me too
I know is same for others too.
We should have a nicety nice Telegram group
Telegram? That's a new one on me.
So behind the times you...
Only just got to grips with zoom and houseparty. Mind you I've gone back to posting letters. I like the romance of snail mail.
Want to be pen pals? "
Of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A number of factors I suspect.
Many, like me, are likely home schooling as well as trying to work from home and finding that there just aren't enough hours in the day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or do things seem slower on here recently? I guess the extended lockdown has reduced people's enthusiasm to talk about sex with others as we won't be meeting for a while unfortunately. This board is still fairly busy with chit chat, but the other boards and messages seem to be dwindling off a little."
No meets no fun really. |
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