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Why do i attract Gay/Bi Men
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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90% of the people who view my profile are men? Can you please give me an honest reason as to why and if i need to change my profile. By the way i have nothing against Bi/gay, just not my thing |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"90% of the people who view my profile are men? Can you please give me an honest reason as to why and if i need to change my profile. By the way i have nothing against Bi/gay, just not my thing"
Personal experience aside, I reckon that pic might be a bit of a temptation.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"90% of the people who view my profile are men? Can you please give me an honest reason as to why and if i need to change my profile. By the way i have nothing against Bi/gay, just not my thing"
reaffirming ones hetro status nicely there.... or doth protest to much ???
seeing as about 80% of memberships male....id say its proportionate lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"90% of the people who view my profile are men? Can you please give me an honest reason as to why and if i need to change my profile. By the way i have nothing against Bi/gay, just not my thing"
i get loads of views and mail from women and couples even tho im not bi and my profile clearly states what im looking for, which is men
Honestly is it really hurting anyone if someone of the same sex has a nose at you? why does such trivial things bother men so much  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some people just nose when reading forum posts, i do it all the time, if something someone says catches my eye i click on their profile so i know who it is, even if i have no intentions of mailing or meeting them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No it does not hurt me in anyway, otherwise i would have blocked them in the first place. Just wanted to get different opinions that all"
thing is how do they know your not bi till they open your profile and read it
maybe they see your avatar and think...ooooh i fancy a bit of that i'll just see if hes bi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No it does not hurt me in anyway, otherwise i would have blocked them in the first place. Just wanted to get different opinions that all"
A) there are lots of gay/bi men on here.
B) many of them say on their profile that they are str8 and so they assume that other men do the same.
C) check out the competition
i) what does your profile look like and can I crib anything to make my own profile look better
ii) who have you met (ie, who has verified you), they may meet single guys so it's another way to find people to mail who may be interested in a meet.
Par for the course I am afraid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No it does not hurt me in anyway, otherwise i would have blocked them in the first place. Just wanted to get different opinions that all"
some guys will look at your profile to check out vrifications from people you may have both met or they are looking to meet up with we have also found some guys will check guys local to the to team up fo gangbangs
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Every time you post on the forum, it leaves a link to your profile. Sometimes people want to know more about the guy who's posting, sometimes it's a misclick, whatever - point is, there are a ton of links to your profile around, some of the people clicking will be guys, doesn't mean they're all after your cock.
that, and you know all those "How do I improve my profile" threads? You know how the advice is normally "look at other profiles"? Some people actually follow that advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks every one for the replies. Happy swinging everyone  "
Tell you what try putting on your status your a man for the ladies oh also try a picture with you in a shirt undone keep the mystique |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe most of my fab'd pictures are from guys... Doesn't bother me. I check out other guys profiles if they do. Sometimes they are gay, bi or straight. Its a compliment whatever the circumstance. |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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"90% of the people who view my profile are men? Can you please give me an honest reason as to why and if i need to change my profile. By the way i have nothing against Bi/gay, just not my thing"
why do you think that a man who looks at your profile is gay or bi? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No i dont think every man who looks at my profile is gay/bi but most of them are as per their profiles , am afraid and like i said i have no problem with that, i am very confident with my sexuality
"90% of the people who view my profile are men? Can you please give me an honest reason as to why and if i need to change my profile. By the way i have nothing against Bi/gay, just not my thing
why do you think that a man who looks at your profile is gay or bi?"
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"90% of the people who view my profile are men? Can you please give me an honest reason as to why and if i need to change my profile. By the way i have nothing against Bi/gay, just not my thing"
if they are not actually contacting you... then what does it matter....
I have just had to look at your profile because you started this thread, doesn't mean they think you're gods gift..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"90% of the people who view my profile are men? Can you please give me an honest reason as to why and if i need to change my profile. By the way i have nothing against Bi/gay, just not my thing
if they are not actually contacting you... then what does it matter....
I have just had to look at your profile because you started this thread, doesn't mean they think you're gods gift....."
I would never think, i am gods gift Fabio,but if you say so, thanks for the compliment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have just had to look at your profile because you started this thread, doesn't mean they think you're gods gift....."
very defensive thing to say
He never suggested he was gods gift 
i think what hes after is help to not attract people he dont want to meet and attract more that he does
Thing is no matter what you put on your profile it wont stop men looking, simply because they have to open your profile so they know what your after and by the time they realise your no bi and leave its already registered they have looked so basically your just going to have to live with it
P.S going by your pics your not far off a gift from the gods 
haha was that to cheesy? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
the point still being... if they are just looking and not actually contacting him.. they are respecting his wishes... so why on earth does it matter if they are looking at him or not???
people look for a million reasons.... because they start threads... to check out the oppo... to get a better feel for someone behind a thread...... and the list goes on and on and on.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i have just had to look at your profile because you started this thread, doesn't mean they think you're gods gift.....
very defensive thing to say
He never suggested he was gods gift
i think what hes after is help to not attract people he dont want to meet and attract more that he does
Thing is no matter what you put on your profile it wont stop men looking, simply because they have to open your profile so they know what your after and by the time they realise your no bi and leave its already registered they have looked so basically your just going to have to live with it
P.S going by your pics your not far off a gift from the gods
haha was that to cheesy?"
Thanks for that,i have had some bi guys asking if i wanted to meet today(as i was looking to meet-status) and i even replied politely to say thanks but no thanks.
But under no circumstances would i think i am all that and by the way that was not cheesy thanks for the compliment  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"P.S going by your pics your not far off a gift from the gods
haha was that to cheesy?
Flirt! 
haha sorry im bored "
Do you know what, i am going to take your advise and see what happens-might backfire though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But under no circumstances would i think i am all that and by the way that was not cheesy thanks for the compliment "
look at that
pay someone a compliment and all you get is a condescending eye roll
your right fabs he does think hes gods gift lol |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"P.S going by your pics your not far off a gift from the gods
haha was that to cheesy?
Flirt!
haha sorry im bored
Do you know what, i am going to take your advise and see what happens-might backfire though "
Yes, the question is, do you want loads of messages every day but from blokes, or very few messages a day, but at least they're from women? Decisions decisions!
I'll keep messaging you, never fear! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just the way it goes mate.
i get a lot of attention from the gay and bi guys too.
take it as a compliment because they are showing an interest in you.
i know its not from the people you wish but its not went badly.they are only expressing an interest because they like the way you look.
so relax.send a nice thanks for the compliment message by return.
no worries. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"P.S going by your pics your not far off a gift from the gods
haha was that to cheesy?
Flirt!
haha sorry im bored
Do you know what, i am going to take your advise and see what happens-might backfire though
Yes, the question is, do you want loads of messages every day but from blokes, or very few messages a day, but at least they're from women? Decisions decisions!
I'll keep messaging you, never fear!"
A few messages from potential meets would be great |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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But under no circumstances would i think i am all that and by the way that was not cheesy thanks for the compliment
look at that
pay someone a compliment and all you get is a condescending eye roll
your right fabs he does think hes gods gift lol "
I did say thank you, but trust me you could get more than an eye roll |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"just the way it goes mate.
i get a lot of attention from the gay and bi guys too.
take it as a compliment because they are showing an interest in you.
i know its not from the people you wish but its not went badly.they are only expressing an interest because they like the way you look.
so relax.send a nice thanks for the compliment message by return.
no worries."
Cheers mate, thats what i have started doing now, just a polite thanks but no thanks |
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