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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST "thanks for that informative post | |||
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"I'm going to put, I'm not Hugh Jackman on my profile now." Loved you in the greatest showman | |||
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"I'm going to put, I'm not Hugh Jackman on my profile now." I'm not craving Krispy Kreme donuts. A | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST "Of course OP... did you have it on yours then?  | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST "I like the OPs logic. If you put on your profile you ARE racist then everyone will think I’m not  very clever | |||
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"Someone put that on their profile? " Yes after the you must be white. Am white but as my fab name get a few gems sent back to me like we would never never never meet you. Coda for KKK | |||
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"You're. Just saying "I resisted that. Didn't want to be accused of being a grammar nazi....cos nazis are.....you know.....racist.
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"You're. Just saying
I resisted that.
Didn't want to be accused of being a grammar nazi....cos nazis are.....you know.....racist.
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"Someone put that on their profile? Yes after the you must be white. Am white but as my fab name get a few gems sent back to me like we would never never never meet you. Coda for KKK" Did they say they would never never never meet you because of your fab name though? | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST
I like the OPs logic. If you put on your profile you ARE racist then everyone will think I’m not very clever "As a norm the not racist bit is after we only meet white people Or why would you need to put your not racist. | |||
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"Someone put that on their profile? Yes after the you must be white. Am white but as my fab name get a few gems sent back to me like we would never never never meet you. Coda for KKK Did they say they would never never never meet you because of your fab name though?" Never never never is coda for kkk One never meet you would of done  | |||
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"Someone put that on their profile? Yes after the you must be white. Am white but as my fab name get a few gems sent back to me like we would never never never meet you. Coda for KKK Did they say they would never never never meet you because of your fab name though? Never never never is coda for kkk One never meet you would of done "How do you know that? | |||
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"Someone put that on their profile? Yes after the you must be white." Oh I’ve seen this far too often. but prepare yourself for the inevitable response. | |||
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"I'm going to put, I'm not Hugh Jackman on my profile now." Please take the claws off before coming to bed. | |||
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"I’ve never actually seen it on a profile to be honest "I've seen not looking for black/Asian guys But I've also seen not looking for white guys If you are not looking for a gay man does that make you homophobic? | |||
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"I’ve never actually seen it on a profile to be honest
I've seen not looking for black/Asian guys
But I've also seen not looking for white guys
If you are not looking for a gay man does that make you homophobic?"Exactly. It’s about fulfilling fantasies here. So you can pick exactly what you like. | |||
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"Someone put that on their profile? Yes after the you must be white. Am white but as my fab name get a few gems sent back to me like we would never never never meet you. Coda for KKK" Ok, but what about people who are here to fulfill fantasies. If I had a fantasy about getting gangbanged by a group of black guys, I'd probably state that they'd need to be black. It if I had a fantasy about getting triple P'd by 3 tattooed white guys I'd more than likely state that in the "what I'm looking for" If I want those 2 things a week apart from each other. Would that make me racist? I agree there IS racism in the world and on here, but there's generally more to a picture. P | |||
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"I’ve never actually seen it on a profile to be honest
I've seen not looking for black/Asian guys
But I've also seen not looking for white guys
If you are not looking for a gay man does that make you homophobic?"I’ve seen that on profiles and sometimes they get labelled racist by some on here for me it’s there preference | |||
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"I'm going to put, I'm not Hugh Jackman on my profile now. Please take the claws off before coming to bed." You're breaking the 4th wall! Wrong character! | |||
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"I don’t think it’s racist for a white person wants to meet a white person. Likes it’s the same if a black persons wants to meet a black person. It’s just sex and you can have sex with whoever you want. They haven’t said anything derogatory about another race so it’s not really racism. " Yup, everyone has a preference and they’re entitled to it...be a long(er) queue if we all wanted the exact same thing  | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST "My Racist what? | |||
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"Omg, can we not have discussions about racism on the forums, please! It never goes well and frankly, it’s not all that nice to read. " omg dont read it then  | |||
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"I don’t think it’s racist for a white person wants to meet a white person. Likes it’s the same if a black persons wants to meet a black person. It’s just sex and you can have sex with whoever you want. They haven’t said anything derogatory about another race so it’s not really racism. " Just out of interest what do you mean about gold chain out side your shirt on your profile. Some have no class at all on here | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST
My Racist what?"Nan? | |||
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"First off, its you're on both accounts aaaaaaand, if I was to say I'm not a Millionaire on my profile, would that make me one? Going by your detailed explanation in the OP, it would seem that way. I dont want to be labelled as a racist or anything but, I'm not one.....I'm also not a millionaire either BTW!" *Removes from hotlist* not getting an indecent proposal from you anytime soon now, am I! | |||
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"I'm going to put, I'm not Hugh Jackman on my profile now. Please take the claws off before coming to bed. You're breaking the 4th wall! Wrong character!" Wrong character? | |||
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"Omg, can we not have discussions about racism on the forums, please! It never goes well and frankly, it’s not all that nice to read. omg dont read it then "You’re lovely x | |||
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"These conversations aren’t had with a desire to learn, so what’s the point in having them? Please. " I feel for you bud x | |||
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We’re not racist - seriously OP us saying that right now really doesn’t make us racist (One of us having Latina heritage and the other having North European heritage we have both been subjected to prejudice attitudes especially when we were much younger)
Just find the OP’s statement a bizarre one to make, unfortunately there are many who feel that down to their own preferences based upon who they are attracted to they have to explain that it’s not based on racism. Sorry sad world we live in xx | |||
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"Omg, can we not have discussions about racism on the forums, please! It never goes well and frankly, it’s not all that nice to read. omg dont read it then
You’re lovely x"come on your begging people to not talk about something you dont like knowone has made you press on this topic. You say its not a nice read yet you keep coming back and reading it. Im not trying to be a cock but if you dont want to read something then dont, dont cry about it when you have then come back to read more. | |||
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"Omg, can we not have discussions about racism on the forums, please! It never goes well and frankly, it’s not all that nice to read. omg dont read it then
You’re lovely x come on your begging people to not talk about something you dont like knowone has made you press on this topic. You say its not a nice read yet you keep coming back and reading it. Im not trying to be a cock but if you dont want to read something then dont, dont cry about it when you have then come back to read more."Yeah you’re right. There’s always hope though that someone might say something sensible on the topic. | |||
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"These conversations aren’t had with a desire to learn, so what’s the point in having them? Please. I feel for you bud x"  | |||
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"I'm going to put, I'm not Hugh Jackman on my profile now. Please take the claws off before coming to bed. You're breaking the 4th wall! Wrong character! Wrong character?" That's Deadpool, he is the one who addresses himself outside of comics real. Omg I feel so nerdy right now, must eat bacon and pound my chest with fists to regain masculinity points! | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST "But then you really shouldn't have to defend yourself because other people don't really find certain minorities unattractive. | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue." You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are " Because I lean more towards Caucasian men. It's pretty self explanatory | |||
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" read more" There you go. Fixed that for you... | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST
I like the OPs logic. If you put on your profile you ARE racist then everyone will think I’m not very clever
As a norm the not racist bit is after we only meet white people
Or why would you need to put your not racist.
"Perhaps they have previously been accused of being racist by people that can't differentiate "isms" from preferences | |||
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"I'm going to put, I'm not Hugh Jackman on my profile now. Please take the claws off before coming to bed. You're breaking the 4th wall! Wrong character! Wrong character? That's Deadpool, he is the one who addresses himself outside of comics real. Omg I feel so nerdy right now, must eat bacon and pound my chest with fists to regain masculinity points!" Haha okay but the real Hugh Jackman is the one who has to wear the claws and can take them off. Wolverine just retracts them . | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Because I lean more towards Caucasian men. It's pretty self explanatory "
But why | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are " Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” | |||
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"God you are a proper plant pot op. Just because someone dose not want to sleep with any given race dose NOT make them racist. Im bi i wouldnt sleep with a black guy coz i dont find black men attractive but would sleep with a black women because i do find them atractive so dose that make me half racist op?" I think it makes you a bit of a hypocrite though. You're bisexual so you'd sleep with women of colour but not men. Is that on your bucket list then? | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST
I like the OPs logic. If you put on your profile you ARE racist then everyone will think I’m not very clever
As a norm the not racist bit is after we only meet white people
Or why would you need to put your not racist.
Perhaps they have previously been accused of being racist by people that can't differentiate "isms" from preferences"You should read more | |||
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"Someone put that on their profile? Yes after the you must be white. Am white but as my fab name get a few gems sent back to me like we would never never never meet you. Coda for KKK" Or maybe they just never never want to meet you. Plenty of people I never want to meet and it's got nowt to do with colour. I'd meet you though op | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” " Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? | |||
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"God you are a proper plant pot op. Just because someone dose not want to sleep with any given race dose NOT make them racist. Im bi i wouldnt sleep with a black guy coz i dont find black men attractive but would sleep with a black women because i do find them atractive so dose that make me half racist op?" Most likely a virgin and never had sex with anyone | |||
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"Why do things boil down to race? People have preferences.... surely that’s not racist is it? Some people prefer black people. Some prefer Asian. Some even prefer white
We’re not racist - seriously OP us saying that right now really doesn’t make us racist (One of us having Latina heritage and the other having North European heritage we have both been subjected to prejudice attitudes especially when we were much younger)
Just find the OP’s statement a bizarre one to make, unfortunately there are many who feel that down to their own preferences based upon who they are attracted to they have to explain that it’s not based on racism. Sorry sad world we live in xx"Although Latina is a racialised group, particularly in the US, it’s an ethnicity. You can have black latinas, white latinas, etc. | |||
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"God you are a proper plant pot op. Just because someone dose not want to sleep with any given race dose NOT make them racist. Im bi i wouldnt sleep with a black guy coz i dont find black men attractive but would sleep with a black women because i do find them atractive so dose that make me half racist op? I think it makes you a bit of a hypocrite though. You're bisexual so you'd sleep with women of colour but not men. Is that on your bucket list then?" no it makes it MY prefarance | |||
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"I think this lockdown is starting to send people cuckoo" Starting, people are cuckoo. | |||
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"Why do things boil down to race? People have preferences.... surely that’s not racist is it? Some people prefer black people. Some prefer Asian. Some even prefer white
We’re not racist - seriously OP us saying that right now really doesn’t make us racist (One of us having Latina heritage and the other having North European heritage we have both been subjected to prejudice attitudes especially when we were much younger)
Just find the OP’s statement a bizarre one to make, unfortunately there are many who feel that down to their own preferences based upon who they are attracted to they have to explain that it’s not based on racism. Sorry sad world we live in xx
Although Latina is a racialised group, particularly in the US, it’s an ethnicity. You can have black latinas, white latinas, etc. "Difference between race and ethnicity are of course subtle but are important to acknowledge | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Because I lean more towards Caucasian men. It's pretty self explanatory
But why "I don't know, I tend to find more white guys attractive, before you try to imply I'm racist, check my veris, I have play veris from many different races/religions/backgrounds. | |||
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"God you are a proper plant pot op. Just because someone dose not want to sleep with any given race dose NOT make them racist. Im bi i wouldnt sleep with a black guy coz i dont find black men attractive but would sleep with a black women because i do find them atractive so dose that make me half racist op? Most likely a virgin and never had sex with anyone "is that the best u could come up with how old are you 12. | |||
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"This conversation crops up so often on fab. And to be honest, I don’t mean offence but it’s clear that many people aren’t well read on racism and don’t have experiences with it either. The clear misunderstanding of the concept or how historically, experiences have negatively impacted different races, hypersexualisation, global racist beauty standards imposed, desirability, sexual racism etc. There’s plenty of information available online but yes, research and theories are things you’ll likely have to pay for. But to come in here and dismiss topics as if you’re experts when you’re not is insulting. Whether something is intentionally racist or is unintentionally rooted in racism, it’s important to recognise the way that historically and now, things have impacted our perceptions, and desires etc. And we also need to stop ignoring power dynamics to racism. My advice would be to genuinely read further on this stuff. There are countless academics that have written about it. " | |||
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"God you are a proper plant pot op. Just because someone dose not want to sleep with any given race dose NOT make them racist. Im bi i wouldnt sleep with a black guy coz i dont find black men attractive but would sleep with a black women because i do find them atractive so dose that make me half racist op? I think it makes you a bit of a hypocrite though. You're bisexual so you'd sleep with women of colour but not men. Is that on your bucket list then?" How the hell does it make him a hypocrite? | |||
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"I'm going to put, I'm not Hugh Jackman on my profile now." I'm going to put on my profile, I'm not here to shag everyone on Fab. | |||
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"God you are a proper plant pot op. Just because someone dose not want to sleep with any given race dose NOT make them racist. Im bi i wouldnt sleep with a black guy coz i dont find black men attractive but would sleep with a black women because i do find them atractive so dose that make me half racist op? I think it makes you a bit of a hypocrite though. You're bisexual so you'd sleep with women of colour but not men. Is that on your bucket list then? no it makes it MY prefarance" Yeh but why though? What is it you dont like about black guys? The fuzzy hair? The big lips? The coconut accent? What is it? | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST "I like the way you eat biscuits with no pants on. | |||
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"God you are a proper plant pot op. Just because someone dose not want to sleep with any given race dose NOT make them racist. Im bi i wouldnt sleep with a black guy coz i dont find black men attractive but would sleep with a black women because i do find them atractive so dose that make me half racist op? I think it makes you a bit of a hypocrite though. You're bisexual so you'd sleep with women of colour but not men. Is that on your bucket list then? no it makes it MY prefarance Yeh but why though? What is it you dont like about black guys? The fuzzy hair? The big lips? The coconut accent? What is it?" just not my cup of tea. When i look at a black bloke my cock done not even twitch if that makes he a hipo then fine u clearly havent got a clew what your talking about. | |||
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"Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there?" If by “hundreds of years” you are referring to slavery which points more towards black people, so does this mean that because of the wrongs of the world throughout history that in the current world everyone must be obliged to have sex with any race, sex, religion, or whatever else? Again, it’s everyone’s individual right to have preferences, whatever the reasoning behind it (by that we mean no you can’t exclude the idea that a small percentage may well have racist ideas but for the majority we’re pretty convinced that’s not the case!) Again, both of us have been on the receiving end of prejudice in the past because of our heritage.... but we don’t understand why someone’s preference automatically makes it a racial issue? For the male of us most of you would have absolutely no idea about his heritage to look at him or hearing him talking, but some people do. For the female of us most of you would notice - some even getting it completely wrong which is always entertaining. We have preferences based on the individual, nothing to do with race (ie. some black men - for example - are a big yes... some however are a no) | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST "I’m RACIST, does two positives make a negative? | |||
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"God you are a proper plant pot op. Just because someone dose not want to sleep with any given race dose NOT make them racist. Im bi i wouldnt sleep with a black guy coz i dont find black men attractive but would sleep with a black women because i do find them atractive so dose that make me half racist op? I think it makes you a bit of a hypocrite though. You're bisexual so you'd sleep with women of colour but not men. Is that on your bucket list then? no it makes it MY prefarance Yeh but why though? What is it you dont like about black guys? The fuzzy hair? The big lips? The coconut accent? What is it? just not my cup of tea. When i look at a black bloke my cock done not even twitch if that makes he a hipo then fine u clearly havent got a clew what your talking about." Lmao. You should read more. | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST
I like the OPs logic. If you put on your profile you ARE racist then everyone will think I’m not very clever
As a norm the not racist bit is after we only meet white people
Or why would you need to put your not racist.
Perhaps they have previously been accused of being racist by people that can't differentiate "isms" from preferences
You should read more"I don't think my reading levels are anything to do with this, and are definitely none of your concern. Someone's opinion on a matter does not make it a fact, no matter how learned they are or how many letters they have after their name. I'm sure if I did do some research on this matter there would be conflicting opinions on what constitutes racism and what doesn't. Furthermore, telling people to stop talking about a subject on an open forum is denying them their right to free speech. Are you an oppressor? Whether you think someone is right or wrong is irrelevant in a debate, everybody is entitled to discuss their own opinion....that's what makes it a debate and not a monologue. | |||
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"Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? If by “hundreds of years” you are referring to slavery which points more towards black people, so does this mean that because of the wrongs of the world throughout history that in the current world everyone must be obliged to have sex with any race, sex, religion, or whatever else? Again, it’s everyone’s individual right to have preferences, whatever the reasoning behind it (by that we mean no you can’t exclude the idea that a small percentage may well have racist ideas but for the majority we’re pretty convinced that’s not the case!) Again, both of us have been on the receiving end of prejudice in the past because of our heritage.... but we don’t understand why someone’s preference automatically makes it a racial issue? For the male of us most of you would have absolutely no idea about his heritage to look at him or hearing him talking, but some people do. For the female of us most of you would notice - some even getting it completely wrong which is always entertaining. We have preferences based on the individual, nothing to do with race (ie. some black men - for example - are a big yes... some however are a no) " This is a shallow understanding of racism throughout history, boiling it down to just slavery and not recognising how racism developed throughout history and affects modern ideas and perceptions. | |||
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"Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? If by “hundreds of years” you are referring to slavery which points more towards black people, so does this mean that because of the wrongs of the world throughout history that in the current world everyone must be obliged to have sex with any race, sex, religion, or whatever else? Again, it’s everyone’s individual right to have preferences, whatever the reasoning behind it (by that we mean no you can’t exclude the idea that a small percentage may well have racist ideas but for the majority we’re pretty convinced that’s not the case!) Again, both of us have been on the receiving end of prejudice in the past because of our heritage.... but we don’t understand why someone’s preference automatically makes it a racial issue? For the male of us most of you would have absolutely no idea about his heritage to look at him or hearing him talking, but some people do. For the female of us most of you would notice - some even getting it completely wrong which is always entertaining. We have preferences based on the individual, nothing to do with race (ie. some black men - for example - are a big yes... some however are a no) This is a shallow understanding of racism throughout history, boiling it down to just slavery and not recognising how racism developed throughout history and affects modern ideas and perceptions. " Spot on. Tried to pm you bud but your filters wont let me | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST
I like the OPs logic. If you put on your profile you ARE racist then everyone will think I’m not very clever
As a norm the not racist bit is after we only meet white people
Or why would you need to put your not racist.
Perhaps they have previously been accused of being racist by people that can't differentiate "isms" from preferences
You should read more
I don't think my reading levels are anything to do with this, and are definitely none of your concern.
Someone's opinion on a matter does not make it a fact, no matter how learned they are or how many letters they have after their name. I'm sure if I did do some research on this matter there would be conflicting opinions on what constitutes racism and what doesn't.
Furthermore, telling people to stop talking about a subject on an open forum is denying them their right to free speech. Are you an oppressor?
Whether you think someone is right or wrong is irrelevant in a debate, everybody is entitled to discuss their own opinion....that's what makes it a debate and not a monologue. "Ah I see, so you reckon you could do some academic research and find out something different to all the academics before you? .
There’s no need to have this conversation if you’re going to reject respected research and theory on the matter because ‘Someone's opinion on a matter does not make it a fact, no matter how learned they are or how many letters they have after their name’. So just fuck all of their work and their entire fields. | |||
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"God you are a proper plant pot op. Just because someone dose not want to sleep with any given race dose NOT make them racist. Im bi i wouldnt sleep with a black guy coz i dont find black men attractive but would sleep with a black women because i do find them atractive so dose that make me half racist op? I think it makes you a bit of a hypocrite though. You're bisexual so you'd sleep with women of colour but not men. Is that on your bucket list then? no it makes it MY prefarance Yeh but why though? What is it you dont like about black guys? The fuzzy hair? The big lips? The coconut accent? What is it? just not my cup of tea. When i look at a black bloke my cock done not even twitch if that makes he a hipo then fine u clearly havent got a clew what your talking about. Lmao. You should read more. "and like i said ten posts ago you should stop reading. | |||
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"God you are a proper plant pot op. Just because someone dose not want to sleep with any given race dose NOT make them racist. Im bi i wouldnt sleep with a black guy coz i dont find black men attractive but would sleep with a black women because i do find them atractive so dose that make me half racist op? I think it makes you a bit of a hypocrite though. You're bisexual so you'd sleep with women of colour but not men. Is that on your bucket list then? no it makes it MY prefarance Yeh but why though? What is it you dont like about black guys? The fuzzy hair? The big lips? The coconut accent? What is it? just not my cup of tea. When i look at a black bloke my cock done not even twitch if that makes he a hipo then fine u clearly havent got a clew what your talking about. Lmao. You should read more. and like i said ten posts ago you should stop reading. "Yeah, no I’ve decided to stick around. Sorry b xxx | |||
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"I'm going to put, I'm not Hugh Jackman on my profile now. Please take the claws off before coming to bed. You're breaking the 4th wall! Wrong character! Wrong character? That's Deadpool, he is the one who addresses himself outside of comics real. Omg I feel so nerdy right now, must eat bacon and pound my chest with fists to regain masculinity points! Haha okay but the real Hugh Jackman is the one who has to wear the claws and can take them off. Wolverine just retracts them ."True, so I'm the lame version  | |||
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"Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? If by “hundreds of years” you are referring to slavery which points more towards black people, so does this mean that because of the wrongs of the world throughout history that in the current world everyone must be obliged to have sex with any race, sex, religion, or whatever else? Again, it’s everyone’s individual right to have preferences, whatever the reasoning behind it (by that we mean no you can’t exclude the idea that a small percentage may well have racist ideas but for the majority we’re pretty convinced that’s not the case!) Again, both of us have been on the receiving end of prejudice in the past because of our heritage.... but we don’t understand why someone’s preference automatically makes it a racial issue? For the male of us most of you would have absolutely no idea about his heritage to look at him or hearing him talking, but some people do. For the female of us most of you would notice - some even getting it completely wrong which is always entertaining. We have preferences based on the individual, nothing to do with race (ie. some black men - for example - are a big yes... some however are a no) This is a shallow understanding of racism throughout history, boiling it down to just slavery and not recognising how racism developed throughout history and affects modern ideas and perceptions. Spot on. Tried to pm you bud but your filters wont let me" PM away | |||
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"Ok that's it, I've posted twice (3 times now) on this thread and I've been ignored each time! Nobody has quoted me or replied to my posts and I'm feeling left out. You're all a bunch of racists towards me!" *bantist | |||
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"Ok that's it, I've posted twice (3 times now) on this thread and I've been ignored each time! Nobody has quoted me or replied to my posts and I'm feeling left out. You're all a bunch of racists towards me!" Do you need a hug? | |||
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"Ok that's it, I've posted twice (3 times now) on this thread and I've been ignored each time! Nobody has quoted me or replied to my posts and I'm feeling left out. You're all a bunch of racists towards me! Do you need a hug? "Throw in a shnecky and you've got a deal!  | |||
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"Ok that's it, I've posted twice (3 times now) on this thread and I've been ignored each time! Nobody has quoted me or replied to my posts and I'm feeling left out. You're all a bunch of racists towards me! Do you need a hug?
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"Have a read of that. Thats rasist https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1011384" You’re unbelievable. One’s experiences with racism do not negate another and frankly your attempt to gaslight and make out that there are levels to it are disgusting. I’ve lived my entire life navigating experiences with racism and I’ve never thought about weighing one over another. They’re all horrific. | |||
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"Ok that's it, I've posted twice (3 times now) on this thread and I've been ignored each time! Nobody has quoted me or replied to my posts and I'm feeling left out. You're all a bunch of racists towards me! Do you need a hug?
Throw in a shnecky and you've got a deal!
Deal get your arse over here "come on were all on lock down u will both have to wate. Hahaha | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST
I like the OPs logic. If you put on your profile you ARE racist then everyone will think I’m not very clever
As a norm the not racist bit is after we only meet white people
Or why would you need to put your not racist.
Perhaps they have previously been accused of being racist by people that can't differentiate "isms" from preferences
You should read more
I don't think my reading levels are anything to do with this, and are definitely none of your concern.
Someone's opinion on a matter does not make it a fact, no matter how learned they are or how many letters they have after their name. I'm sure if I did do some research on this matter there would be conflicting opinions on what constitutes racism and what doesn't.
Furthermore, telling people to stop talking about a subject on an open forum is denying them their right to free speech. Are you an oppressor?
Whether you think someone is right or wrong is irrelevant in a debate, everybody is entitled to discuss their own opinion....that's what makes it a debate and not a monologue.
Ah I see, so you reckon you could do some academic research and find out something different to all the academics before you? .
There’s no need to have this conversation if you’re going to reject respected research and theory on the matter because ‘Someone's opinion on a matter does not make it a fact, no matter how learned they are or how many letters they have after their name’. So just fuck all of their work and their entire fields. "Did I once reject any previous research? I think you ought to take your own advice and read posts before you respond to them. What I actually said is I'm sure that if I researched the available previous theories (note the word theoried, not facts - a word that you used) then I'm certain that I would find conflicting opinions from different people. I didn't say whether I agreed or disagreed with any of it. And please don't presume to know my academic level, any field that I have or haven't studied, and think that you are in a position to mock it. This isn't a place for immature personal attacks. I haven't once personally attacked you, I'm stating my opinion in a debate. | |||
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"Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? If by “hundreds of years” you are referring to slavery which points more towards black people, so does this mean that because of the wrongs of the world throughout history that in the current world everyone must be obliged to have sex with any race, sex, religion, or whatever else? Again, it’s everyone’s individual right to have preferences, whatever the reasoning behind it (by that we mean no you can’t exclude the idea that a small percentage may well have racist ideas but for the majority we’re pretty convinced that’s not the case!) Again, both of us have been on the receiving end of prejudice in the past because of our heritage.... but we don’t understand why someone’s preference automatically makes it a racial issue? For the male of us most of you would have absolutely no idea about his heritage to look at him or hearing him talking, but some people do. For the female of us most of you would notice - some even getting it completely wrong which is always entertaining. We have preferences based on the individual, nothing to do with race (ie. some black men - for example - are a big yes... some however are a no) This is a shallow understanding of racism throughout history, boiling it down to just slavery and not recognising how racism developed throughout history and affects modern ideas and perceptions. " We were merely referring to the “hundreds of years” comment.... not wanting to pick through humanity’s history of racism, prejudice or just excuses for being rather unpleasant towards one another. Again - we have been on the ass end of stupid views by others who have prejudice or racial ideas. Again - we have preferences as I’m sure the OP and everyone who has answered this thread have also. Everyone is entitled to a preference or several. Our preferences aren’t determined by race, heritage, skin colour or accents. Some people’s are. That’s fine. Let them be. However if someone has racial hatred or prejudices that’s something they need to understand isn’t right for a whole heap of reasons. But the subject of discussion was the OPs comment of stating “I’m not racist” automatically makes you exactly the opposite. Surely a quite ridiculous statement to make. | |||
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"Have a read of that. Thats rasist https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1011384 You’re unbelievable. One’s experiences with racism do not negate another and frankly your attempt to gaslight and make out that there are levels to it are disgusting. I’ve lived my entire life navigating experiences with racism and I’ve never thought about weighing one over another. They’re all horrific. " no no no lol that is racism someone putting not looking for a set race on there profile is not racism. Get a grip | |||
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" someone putting not looking for a set race on there profile is not racism. " It is a bit though isn't it? | |||
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" someone putting not looking for a set race on there profile is not racism. It is a bit though isn't it?" Ok so not wanting to be overly pedantic with this thread now as the original point from the Op seems to have been lost so much that even he had disappeared.... but to the post above this (quoted) on your profile you use the term “S+M Nazi” ... would you care to enlighten us as to why you would use the word Nazi? | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST
I like the OPs logic. If you put on your profile you ARE racist then everyone will think I’m not very clever
As a norm the not racist bit is after we only meet white people
Or why would you need to put your not racist.
Perhaps they have previously been accused of being racist by people that can't differentiate "isms" from preferences
You should read more
I don't think my reading levels are anything to do with this, and are definitely none of your concern.
Someone's opinion on a matter does not make it a fact, no matter how learned they are or how many letters they have after their name. I'm sure if I did do some research on this matter there would be conflicting opinions on what constitutes racism and what doesn't.
Furthermore, telling people to stop talking about a subject on an open forum is denying them their right to free speech. Are you an oppressor?
Whether you think someone is right or wrong is irrelevant in a debate, everybody is entitled to discuss their own opinion....that's what makes it a debate and not a monologue.
Ah I see, so you reckon you could do some academic research and find out something different to all the academics before you? .
There’s no need to have this conversation if you’re going to reject respected research and theory on the matter because ‘Someone's opinion on a matter does not make it a fact, no matter how learned they are or how many letters they have after their name’. So just fuck all of their work and their entire fields.
Did I once reject any previous research? I think you ought to take your own advice and read posts before you respond to them.
What I actually said is I'm sure that if I researched the available previous theories (note the word theoried, not facts - a word that you used) then I'm certain that I would find conflicting opinions from different people.
I didn't say whether I agreed or disagreed with any of it.
And please don't presume to know my academic level, any field that I have or haven't studied, and think that you are in a position to mock it. This isn't a place for immature personal attacks. I haven't once personally attacked you, I'm stating my opinion in a debate. "I mean you said ‘if I do some research on this matter’ not if you researched theories. But ok. Anyway, I’m not personally attacking you or your academic level, whatever it is. You could be a professor in engineering but if you’re not well read on this topic, how are you going to be able to give a fully informed opinion? To go back to your original point, racism, is invariably linked with racial preferences. No need to separate isms from preferences. That’s why I said you should read more. | |||
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"No its not same as someone putting looking for large cocks,small cocks, bbw, slim, big tits, small tits, bi, no bi, or anything else its there pref. Get over it " Amen | |||
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"These threads always play out in a predictable way. You'll have a group of people, who tend to lean heavily into social studies and social justice matters that will equate preference with either overt racism or thinly disguised racism. Often times they'll anoint themselves as "enlightened" and educated and show their disdain for those who disagree. It's useless having a discussion with these people as they see oppression in virtually all aspects of modern society or have a massive chip on their shoulders. This, in spite of living in the freest society in human history " | |||
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"Have a read of that. Thats rasist https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1011384 You’re unbelievable. One’s experiences with racism do not negate another and frankly your attempt to gaslight and make out that there are levels to it are disgusting. I’ve lived my entire life navigating experiences with racism and I’ve never thought about weighing one over another. They’re all horrific. no no no lol that is racism someone putting not looking for a set race on there profile is not racism. Get a grip " Are you actually ok? | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there?" So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. | |||
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"These threads always play out in a predictable way. You'll have a group of people, who tend to lean heavily into social studies and social justice matters that will equate preference with either overt racism or thinly disguised racism. Often times they'll anoint themselves as "enlightened" and educated and show their disdain for those who disagree. It's useless having a discussion with these people as they see oppression in virtually all aspects of modern society or have a massive chip on their shoulders. This, in spite of living in the freest society in human history
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"So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. " This! | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. " Nobody is asking you to do that. People are just saying that you can recognise that racism and how its manifested itself throughout has an effect on things like preferences. Rather than getting defensive and refuting the idea and seeing it as a personal attack. Also, the term ‘BBC’ is itself a term that is rooted in racism and the hypersexualisation of black men but that’s for another day. | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. " Yeh because those hundreds of years of oppression have had echoes that stretch deeply into our culture and the present day that most people aren't even aware of or think about. And as for the "BBC" comment, it does come across as a bit racist yeh. Its fetishising someone purely on a physical characteristic and its got its basis in the hypersexualisation of POCs in colonial history. Hope that's cleared things up a bit. Peace and love x | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. Yeh because those hundreds of years of oppression have had echoes that stretch deeply into our culture and the present day that most people aren't even aware of or think about. And as for the "BBC" comment, it does come across as a bit racist yeh. Its fetishising someone purely on a physical characteristic and its got its basis in the hypersexualisation of POCs in colonial history. Hope that's cleared things up a bit. Peace and love x" | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. Nobody is asking you to do that. People are just saying that you can recognise that racism and how its manifested itself throughout has an effect on things like preferences. Rather than getting defensive and refuting the idea and seeing it as a personal attack. Also, the term ‘BBC’ is itself a term that is rooted in racism and the hypersexualisation of black men but that’s for another day. "^^^ that's what I said... | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. Nobody is asking you to do that. People are just saying that you can recognise that racism and how its manifested itself throughout has an effect on things like preferences. Rather than getting defensive and refuting the idea and seeing it as a personal attack. Also, the term ‘BBC’ is itself a term that is rooted in racism and the hypersexualisation of black men but that’s for another day. "I wholeheartedly disagree. If someone put something derogotary on their profile then fair enough. However, simply not wanting to ahev sex with a particular type of person, whether that's ethnicity, hair colour, build, cock size isn't racist or prejudice. Its personal preference and putting it on the profile stops people who don't meet the criteria from wasting their time. Much like couples saying they will only meet bi males. It doesn't discriminate against heterosexual guys, it simply stops them wasting everyone's time. | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. Nobody is asking you to do that. People are just saying that you can recognise that racism and how its manifested itself throughout has an effect on things like preferences. Rather than getting defensive and refuting the idea and seeing it as a personal attack. Also, the term ‘BBC’ is itself a term that is rooted in racism and the hypersexualisation of black men but that’s for another day.
I wholeheartedly disagree. If someone put something derogotary on their profile then fair enough. However, simply not wanting to ahev sex with a particular type of person, whether that's ethnicity, hair colour, build, cock size isn't racist or prejudice.
Its personal preference and putting it on the profile stops people who don't meet the criteria from wasting their time. Much like couples saying they will only meet bi males. It doesn't discriminate against heterosexual guys, it simply stops them wasting everyone's time." | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. Yeh because those hundreds of years of oppression have had echoes that stretch deeply into our culture and the present day that most people aren't even aware of or think about. And as for the "BBC" comment, it does come across as a bit racist yeh. Its fetishising someone purely on a physical characteristic and its got its basis in the hypersexualisation of POCs in colonial history. Hope that's cleared things up a bit. Peace and love x" And as for the BBC issue..... Surely there's a difference between saying 'I only want black guys beciase they have bbc' (which I have never seen on a profile). Are people not just saying their preference are for black guys that happen to have a big cock? As in they are more attracted to black guys and want a big cock to play with? | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. Nobody is asking you to do that. People are just saying that you can recognise that racism and how its manifested itself throughout has an effect on things like preferences. Rather than getting defensive and refuting the idea and seeing it as a personal attack. Also, the term ‘BBC’ is itself a term that is rooted in racism and the hypersexualisation of black men but that’s for another day.
I wholeheartedly disagree. If someone put something derogotary on their profile then fair enough. However, simply not wanting to ahev sex with a particular type of person, whether that's ethnicity, hair colour, build, cock size isn't racist or prejudice.
Its personal preference and putting it on the profile stops people who don't meet the criteria from wasting their time. Much like couples saying they will only meet bi males. It doesn't discriminate against heterosexual guys, it simply stops them wasting everyone's time."So what is it you "prefer" about "BBC" then? Genuine question, I'm intrigued... | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. Nobody is asking you to do that. People are just saying that you can recognise that racism and how its manifested itself throughout has an effect on things like preferences. Rather than getting defensive and refuting the idea and seeing it as a personal attack. Also, the term ‘BBC’ is itself a term that is rooted in racism and the hypersexualisation of black men but that’s for another day.
I wholeheartedly disagree. If someone put something derogotary on their profile then fair enough. However, simply not wanting to ahev sex with a particular type of person, whether that's ethnicity, hair colour, build, cock size isn't racist or prejudice.
Its personal preference and putting it on the profile stops people who don't meet the criteria from wasting their time. Much like couples saying they will only meet bi males. It doesn't discriminate against heterosexual guys, it simply stops them wasting everyone's time.
So what is it you "prefer" about "BBC" then? Genuine question, I'm intrigued..."Are you asking us? We have no preference for ethnicity. It's not on our profile. We just respect the right of others to have a preference. | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. Yeh because those hundreds of years of oppression have had echoes that stretch deeply into our culture and the present day that most people aren't even aware of or think about. And as for the "BBC" comment, it does come across as a bit racist yeh. Its fetishising someone purely on a physical characteristic and its got its basis in the hypersexualisation of POCs in colonial history. Hope that's cleared things up a bit. Peace and love x" The hundreds of profiles of black men on fab who proudly have BBC in their profile apparently have no issue with this. | |||
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"If we define "racism" as treating people to their detriment based purely on their ethnicity without any regard to their individual qualities, then it seems to me refusing to include people of a particular ethnicity in your potential sex partner pool is, by definition, racist. Saying its a "preference" makes no difference. If a white bloke has a personal preference not to have black people has neighbours, he's still racist. However, sex is, as it were, a protected area of personal autonomy where one has complete and utter freedom of choice. So if you have racist sexual preferences, you completely entitled to them. " That is a good point. Its all about personal freedom of choice obvs. But then again why get defensive and block your ears when it gets flagged up? | |||
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"If we define "racism" as treating people to their detriment based purely on their ethnicity without any regard to their individual qualities, then it seems to me refusing to include people of a particular ethnicity in your potential sex partner pool is, by definition, racist. Saying its a "preference" makes no difference. If a white bloke has a personal preference not to have black people has neighbours, he's still racist. However, sex is, as it were, a protected area of personal autonomy where one has complete and utter freedom of choice. So if you have racist sexual preferences, you completely entitled to them. " I agree and I would even expand the definition of racism to include doing or saying things that are offensive because of their historical meanings/contexts. But I agree with this | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. Yeh because those hundreds of years of oppression have had echoes that stretch deeply into our culture and the present day that most people aren't even aware of or think about. And as for the "BBC" comment, it does come across as a bit racist yeh. Its fetishising someone purely on a physical characteristic and its got its basis in the hypersexualisation of POCs in colonial history. Hope that's cleared things up a bit. Peace and love x The hundreds of profiles of black men on fab who proudly have BBC in their profile apparently have no issue with this." Thanks bud, that makes it okay. I also know Black people that don’t mind their mates using the N weird around them or towards them, so it’s fine. | |||
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"If we define "racism" as treating people to their detriment based purely on their ethnicity without any regard to their individual qualities, then it seems to me refusing to include people of a particular ethnicity in your potential sex partner pool is, by definition, racist. Saying its a "preference" makes no difference. If a white bloke has a personal preference not to have black people has neighbours, he's still racist. However, sex is, as it were, a protected area of personal autonomy where one has complete and utter freedom of choice. So if you have racist sexual preferences, you completely entitled to them. That is a good point. Its all about personal freedom of choice obvs. But then again why get defensive and block your ears when it gets flagged up?" Probably because people are wrongly being labelled as racist. The neighbour analogy doesn't work as being neighbours with someone doesn't involve attraction of allowing them to enter your body. This whole thing creates a victim perception.... And not wanting to shag someone doesn't make that person a victim. There is enough actual racism in the world to not have to label people racist for sexual preferences. | |||
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" There is enough actual racism in the world to not have to label people racist for sexual preferences. " dismissing this does absolutely nothing to help people trying to dismantle or challenge racism. | |||
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"If you feel the need to keep calling people racist you have an issue. You have on your profile lean towards Caucasian men why I call people what thay are Can we refer back to our reply a few above this OP This person makes a choice based on her preference. Same as if you prefer chocolate digestive to a regular plain digestive doesn’t make you “biscuit-ist” Yeh but then again there hasnt been hundreds of years of violence and discrimination against biscuits has there? So because of the appalling culture and behavior of people before any of us were even born we should all fuck anyone who's ancestors have been mistreated? I can't belive this is even a conversation. People can fuck whoever they want. It's not racist to not find something attractive. Do you consider it racist when couples say 'only looking for BBC'? Of course it isn't. It's their personal preference and they are entitled to it. Nobody is asking you to do that. People are just saying that you can recognise that racism and how its manifested itself throughout has an effect on things like preferences. Rather than getting defensive and refuting the idea and seeing it as a personal attack. Also, the term ‘BBC’ is itself a term that is rooted in racism and the hypersexualisation of black men but that’s for another day.
I wholeheartedly disagree. If someone put something derogotary on their profile then fair enough. However, simply not wanting to ahev sex with a particular type of person, whether that's ethnicity, hair colour, build, cock size isn't racist or prejudice.
Its personal preference and putting it on the profile stops people who don't meet the criteria from wasting their time. Much like couples saying they will only meet bi males. It doesn't discriminate against heterosexual guys, it simply stops them wasting everyone's time.
So what is it you "prefer" about "BBC" then? Genuine question, I'm intrigued...
Are you asking us? We have no preference for ethnicity. It's not on our profile. We just respect the right of others to have a preference. "I'd say that its a pretty infantile "preference" but what ever floats their boat eh. You're just not into biscuits... | |||
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"Also just to add race =/= ethnicity" Very good point Latinos are not white am thinking a very good looking actress that was married to brad pit. | |||
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"Also just to add race =/= ethnicity Very good point Latinos are not white am thinking a very good looking actress that was married to brad pit. " In fact, Latinos can be white, black Asian etc. Because being Latino refers to being from Latin America. Plenty of Black people ended up in Latin America during the colonial period and they are Afro Latina. For example, Lionel Messi is both white and Latino Same with the fact that my race is British but my ethnicity is Black British, and that differs to say African American etc, although we’re both Black. | |||
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"Didn’t realise sex was equal opportunities. " Up to you who you play with but if you only wish to consider white people then don't try to make out your not preduces. Am sure social class is on your hate list as well. | |||
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"If you need to put on your profile that your not racist your. RACIST
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"Also just to add race =/= ethnicity Very good point Latinos are not white am thinking a very good looking actress that was married to brad pit. In fact, Latinos can be white, black Asian etc. Because being Latino refers to being from Latin America. Plenty of Black people ended up in Latin America during the colonial period and they are Afro Latina. For example, Lionel Messi is both white and Latino Same with the fact that my race is British but my ethnicity is Black British, and that differs to say African American etc, although we’re both Black. " But then is race/ ethnicity and nationality the same thing? Unfortunately I can remember nationalist slogans that I heard as a child that suggest some people dont think so. Also if we're talking about "latin" America do some research into its colonial history right up to US foreign policy under Trump. Horrific | |||
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"Also just to add race =/= ethnicity Very good point Latinos are not white am thinking a very good looking actress that was married to brad pit. In fact, Latinos can be white, black Asian etc. Because being Latino refers to being from Latin America. Plenty of Black people ended up in Latin America during the colonial period and they are Afro Latina. For example, Lionel Messi is both white and Latino Same with the fact that my race is British but my ethnicity is Black British, and that differs to say African American etc, although we’re both Black. But then is race/ ethnicity and nationality the same thing? Unfortunately I can remember nationalist slogans that I heard as a child that suggest some people dont think so. Also if we're talking about "latin" America do some research into its colonial history right up to US foreign policy under Trump. Horrific" Your ethnicity is related to your nationality but not necessarily your racist. Although ethnonationalism is mostly adopted by nationalists or racists and would lead to belief that Englishness, say, is invariably linked to whiteness. I’ll look into that, cheers bud | |||
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"Also just to add race =/= ethnicity Very good point Latinos are not white am thinking a very good looking actress that was married to brad pit. In fact, Latinos can be white, black Asian etc. Because being Latino refers to being from Latin America. Plenty of Black people ended up in Latin America during the colonial period and they are Afro Latina. For example, Lionel Messi is both white and Latino Same with the fact that my race is British but my ethnicity is Black British, and that differs to say African American etc, although we’re both Black. But then is race/ ethnicity and nationality the same thing? Unfortunately I can remember nationalist slogans that I heard as a child that suggest some people dont think so. Also if we're talking about "latin" America do some research into its colonial history right up to US foreign policy under Trump. Horrific Your ethnicity is related to your nationality but not necessarily your racist. Although ethnonationalism is mostly adopted by nationalists or racists and would lead to belief that Englishness, say, is invariably linked to whiteness. I’ll look into that, cheers bud "your race *** lol | |||
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"I only want to meet a Chinese, transsexual, amputee, dwarf nurse. And bollocks if it upsets anyone. " Beggars can't be choosers | |||
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"I'm going to put, I'm not Hugh Jackman on my profile now. Please take the claws off before coming to bed. You're breaking the 4th wall! Wrong character! Wrong character? That's Deadpool, he is the one who addresses himself outside of comics real. Omg I feel so nerdy right now, must eat bacon and pound my chest with fists to regain masculinity points! Haha okay but the real Hugh Jackman is the one who has to wear the claws and can take them off. Wolverine just retracts them .
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"Whatever the outcome of the debate is, I refuse to be bullied into shagging someone that I'm not attracted to, regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, cock size, body size etc. " | |||
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"Whatever the outcome of the debate is, I refuse to be bullied into shagging someone that I'm not attracted to, regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, cock size, body size etc. " Nobody cares who you shag. Nobody wants to force you to shag people, just to recognise that racial preferences not as innocent everyone on here likes to make out and have a lot to do with racism, racist attitudes and so many historical things. No self respecting person would shag someone that doesn’t find their entire race attractive anyway.
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"Whatever the outcome of the debate is, I refuse to be bullied into shagging someone that I'm not attracted to, regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, cock size, body size etc. Nobody cares who you shag. Nobody wants to force you to shag people, just to recognise that racial preferences not as innocent everyone on here likes to make out and have a lot to do with racism, racist attitudes and so many historical things. No self respecting person would shag someone that doesn’t find their entire race attractive anyway.
People always think that the motive for discussing racial preference must be to get these people to want to sleep with you and not to get them to acknowledge or consider where their preferences come from. "Are you straight? | |||
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"Whatever the outcome of the debate is, I refuse to be bullied into shagging someone that I'm not attracted to, regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, cock size, body size etc. Nobody cares who you shag. Nobody wants to force you to shag people, just to recognise that racial preferences not as innocent everyone on here likes to make out and have a lot to do with racism, racist attitudes and so many historical things. No self respecting person would shag someone that doesn’t find their entire race attractive anyway.
People always think that the motive for discussing racial preference must be to get these people to want to sleep with you and not to get them to acknowledge or consider where their preferences come from.
Are you straight?"Guilty | |||
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"Whatever the outcome of the debate is, I refuse to be bullied into shagging someone that I'm not attracted to, regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, cock size, body size etc. Nobody cares who you shag. Nobody wants to force you to shag people, just to recognise that racial preferences not as innocent everyone on here likes to make out and have a lot to do with racism, racist attitudes and so many historical things. No self respecting person would shag someone that doesn’t find their entire race attractive anyway.
People always think that the motive for discussing racial preference must be to get these people to want to sleep with you and not to get them to acknowledge or consider where their preferences come from.
Are you straight?
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"Whatever the outcome of the debate is, I refuse to be bullied into shagging someone that I'm not attracted to, regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, cock size, body size etc. Nobody cares who you shag. Nobody wants to force you to shag people, just to recognise that racial preferences not as innocent everyone on here likes to make out and have a lot to do with racism, racist attitudes and so many historical things. No self respecting person would shag someone that doesn’t find their entire race attractive anyway.
People always think that the motive for discussing racial preference must be to get these people to want to sleep with you and not to get them to acknowledge or consider where their preferences come from.
Are you straight?
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So why wont you have sex with gay men? That makes you prejudice at best, homophobic at worse. Or is it just a preference?"Not a preference, it’s sexual orientation. And considering racism transcends sexual orientation, this is a false equivalence. In fact I read about sexual racism and its preventive in the gay community which led to dating apps taking action against such discrimination. But even if I entertained your rubbish example, I’m not denying the existence of heteronormativity or disputing its impacts on my perceptions of the world. I’ve made efforts to unlearn behaviour and challenge my ideas that existed that were produced in heteronormative, homophobic, biphobic, queerphobic and transphobic dominated cultures. The difference is, people in this thread, including yourself, seem unwilling to do the same about racism. Shame. | |||
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"Whatever the outcome of the debate is, I refuse to be bullied into shagging someone that I'm not attracted to, regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, cock size, body size etc. Nobody cares who you shag. Nobody wants to force you to shag people, just to recognise that racial preferences not as innocent everyone on here likes to make out and have a lot to do with racism, racist attitudes and so many historical things. No self respecting person would shag someone that doesn’t find their entire race attractive anyway.
People always think that the motive for discussing racial preference must be to get these people to want to sleep with you and not to get them to acknowledge or consider where their preferences come from.
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So why wont you have sex with gay men? That makes you prejudice at best, homophobic at worse. Or is it just a preference?
Not a preference, it’s sexual orientation. And considering racism transcends sexual orientation, this is a false equivalence. In fact I read about sexual racism and its preventive in the gay community which led to dating apps taking action against such discrimination.
But even if I entertained your rubbish example, I’m not denying the existence of heteronormativity or disputing its impacts on my perceptions of the world. I’ve made efforts to unlearn behaviour and challenge my ideas that existed that were produced in heteronormative, homophobic, biphobic, queerphobic and transphobic dominated cultures. The difference is, people in this thread, including yourself, seem unwilling to do the same about racism. Shame. "Prevalence * | |||
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"Whatever the outcome of the debate is, I refuse to be bullied into shagging someone that I'm not attracted to, regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, cock size, body size etc. Nobody cares who you shag. Nobody wants to force you to shag people, just to recognise that racial preferences not as innocent everyone on here likes to make out and have a lot to do with racism, racist attitudes and so many historical things. No self respecting person would shag someone that doesn’t find their entire race attractive anyway.
People always think that the motive for discussing racial preference must be to get these people to want to sleep with you and not to get them to acknowledge or consider where their preferences come from.
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So why wont you have sex with gay men? That makes you prejudice at best, homophobic at worse. Or is it just a preference?
Not a preference, it’s sexual orientation. And considering racism transcends sexual orientation, this is a false equivalence. In fact I read about sexual racism and its preventive in the gay community which led to dating apps taking action against such discrimination.
But even if I entertained your rubbish example, I’m not denying the existence of heteronormativity or disputing its impacts on my perceptions of the world. I’ve made efforts to unlearn behaviour and challenge my ideas that existed that were produced in heteronormative, homophobic, biphobic, queerphobic and transphobic dominated cultures. The difference is, people in this thread, including yourself, seem unwilling to do the same about racism. Shame. "No its a preference, we all have them. You disagree which means by default you discriminate against any male who is not hetro sexual. You should be ashamed of yourself. There is no pkace for people rith such backward views and thinking in a midern society. Makes me feel sick to my core knowing there are still people like that around  | |||
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"Excuse the spelling. On my phone and so angry by such prejudice I missed the buttons "Don’t worry about it, pal. Don’t mean to upset you or work you up. Again, you’re providing a false equivalence. Sexuality, as I and I think most others, understand it, is not produced but is a sexual orientation that one is born. Sexual desire and perceptions of beauty in this context specifically to do with race are produced in society. That is, you’re not born that way. So it’s perfectly simple to understand that it would be formed based on experiences, socialisation and impacted by dominant historical ideas such as racism, homophobia (preferring people that perform gender a certain way because of the implications of gender performance on sexuality), colourism, ableism etc. Sorry I worked you up again, pal. | |||
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"Whatever the outcome of the debate is, I refuse to be bullied into shagging someone that I'm not attracted to, regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, cock size, body size etc. Nobody cares who you shag. Nobody wants to force you to shag people, just to recognise that racial preferences not as innocent everyone on here likes to make out and have a lot to do with racism, racist attitudes and so many historical things. No self respecting person would shag someone that doesn’t find their entire race attractive anyway.
People always think that the motive for discussing racial preference must be to get these people to want to sleep with you and not to get them to acknowledge or consider where their preferences come from.
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So why wont you have sex with gay men? That makes you prejudice at best, homophobic at worse. Or is it just a preference?
Not a preference, it’s sexual orientation. And considering racism transcends sexual orientation, this is a false equivalence. In fact I read about sexual racism and its preventive in the gay community which led to dating apps taking action against such discrimination.
But even if I entertained your rubbish example, I’m not denying the existence of heteronormativity or disputing its impacts on my perceptions of the world. I’ve made efforts to unlearn behaviour and challenge my ideas that existed that were produced in heteronormative, homophobic, biphobic, queerphobic and transphobic dominated cultures. The difference is, people in this thread, including yourself, seem unwilling to do the same about racism. Shame. "It's very presumptuous to assume that nobody else has read anything about or has no knowledge of this subject. What if they have and have simply formed a different opinion to the one that you have? Would you like to stop free thinking as well as freedom of speech? | |||
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Don’t worry about it, pal.
Don’t mean to upset you or work you up. Again, you’re providing a false equivalence. Sexuality, as I and I think most others, understand it, is not produced but is a sexual orientation that one is born. Sexual desire and perceptions of beauty in this context specifically to do with race are produced in society. That is, you’re not born that way. So it’s perfectly simple to understand that it would be formed based on experiences, socialisation and impacted by dominant historical ideas such as racism, homophobia (preferring people that perform gender a certain way because of the implications of gender performance on sexuality), colourism, ableism etc.
Sorry I worked you up again, pal. "Sexual preferences are not formes by society they are produced by the individual. If someone's sexual preference is a certain race only that is exactly that, their preference. It doesn't make them racist. Same as if someone's sexual preference is the opposite sex only that doesn't make them homophobic. But you disagree, that is your choice and, to be frank, I couldn't care less. What I do care about is someone who takes a condescending approach to the choices and preferences of others. That is prejudice in one of its very worst forms. I've made my point, I'm out. | |||
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