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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok ladies its the big question from Patrick.
age.
how do you see this.
are you offended by terms such as milf or even gmilf.
do you like the attentions of younger men or can it really piss you off sometimes.
and as your getting older are you enjoying better sex now than when you were younger.
and if so what kind of sex is it? a quick fuck, passionate intense sex, being made to feel wanted?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t give a toss about what you call me. Sex has always been good, must be varied though. I’ve never had a problem with confidence and usually get what I like. Fab has taught me that age (within limits) is just a number. Thank you.  |
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"I don’t give a toss about what you call me. Sex has always been good, must be varied though. I’ve never had a problem with confidence and usually get what I like. Fab has taught me that age (within limits) is just a number. Thank you. "
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I’m not a huge fan of being called a MILF as I don’t have kids and am not a mother- feels a bit weird to me. I’m not sure I need a label like that anyway, I’m me- not my age. It’s a bit deflating to get messages like- looking great for your age- kind of a back handed compliment? Not you look great, only you look great for you age haha
Having said all that it’s not a deal breaker for me if someone puts those things in their messages. I know they are generally trying to be nice and also tend to have developed their own vocabulary for what they are looking for. |
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over a year ago
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Ive definitely found sex has got amazing as ive got older. Ive learnt more and experimented with BDSM too. I dont think I ever orgasmed in my 20s by men.
I dont like any term relating to my age though. I detest milf or anything similar. Mature is another awful word. If I meet an older man at a fab social and we click age is irrelevant then but on here I tend to fancy a little younger when viewing profilesx .  |
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I've always been much more drawn to the so called "older woman" though that's mainly been down to their conversational skills and their ability to communicate, plus they have more confidence and life experience, and so have more to talk about and more experiences to chat about, its all about the individual for me and how they come across |
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over a year ago
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"I’m not a huge fan of being called a MILF as I don’t have kids and am not a mother- feels a bit weird to me. I’m not sure I need a label like that anyway, I’m me- not my age. It’s a bit deflating to get messages like- looking great for your age- kind of a back handed compliment? Not you look great, only you look great for you age haha
Having said all that it’s not a deal breaker for me if someone puts those things in their messages. I know they are generally trying to be nice and also tend to have developed their own vocabulary for what they are looking for. "
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"I’m not a huge fan of being called a MILF as I don’t have kids and am not a mother- feels a bit weird to me. I’m not sure I need a label like that anyway, I’m me- not my age. It’s a bit deflating to get messages like- looking great for your age- kind of a back handed compliment? Not you look great, only you look great for you age haha
Having said all that it’s not a deal breaker for me if someone puts those things in their messages. I know they are generally trying to be nice and also tend to have developed their own vocabulary for what they are looking for.
I fancy you "
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"I’m not a huge fan of being called a MILF as I don’t have kids and am not a mother- feels a bit weird to me. I’m not sure I need a label like that anyway, I’m me- not my age. It’s a bit deflating to get messages like- looking great for your age- kind of a back handed compliment? Not you look great, only you look great for you age haha
Having said all that it’s not a deal breaker for me if someone puts those things in their messages. I know they are generally trying to be nice and also tend to have developed their own vocabulary for what they are looking for.
I fancy you
Thank you sweetheart xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Labels are just shorthand used to put people in boxes to make them easier to catagorise.
Some find them aggravating as it can be a sign of lazy thinking. Best avoided.
Turning 50 has been fabulous fun. More options, less hangups. Younger men who knew? |
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"I’m not a huge fan of being called a MILF as I don’t have kids and am not a mother- feels a bit weird to me. I’m not sure I need a label like that anyway, I’m me- not my age. It’s a bit deflating to get messages like- looking great for your age- kind of a back handed compliment? Not you look great, only you look great for you age haha
Having said all that it’s not a deal breaker for me if someone puts those things in their messages. I know they are generally trying to be nice and also tend to have developed their own vocabulary for what they are looking for.
I fancy you
Thank you sweetheart xx
Hello there! "
You wouldn’t want me- I’m vegan, very far from the kind of girl you suggest you’re looking for in your profile hahahaha |
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I'm the same, dont have kids so not keen on milf! Have been called a cougar a couple of times, when chatting to much younger guys, dont mind that.
Find that sex has definetly got better as I've got older, even more so since joining fab!  |
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"I’m not a huge fan of being called a MILF as I don’t have kids and am not a mother- feels a bit weird to me. I’m not sure I need a label like that anyway, I’m me- not my age. It’s a bit deflating to get messages like- looking great for your age- kind of a back handed compliment? Not you look great, only you look great for you age haha
Having said all that it’s not a deal breaker for me if someone puts those things in their messages. I know they are generally trying to be nice and also tend to have developed their own vocabulary for what they are looking for.
I fancy you
Thank you sweetheart xx
Hello there!
You wouldn’t want me- I’m vegan, very far from the kind of girl you suggest you’re looking for in your profile hahahaha"
I know a place where they do vegan ribs! |
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"I’m not a huge fan of being called a MILF as I don’t have kids and am not a mother- feels a bit weird to me. I’m not sure I need a label like that anyway, I’m me- not my age. It’s a bit deflating to get messages like- looking great for your age- kind of a back handed compliment? Not you look great, only you look great for you age haha
Having said all that it’s not a deal breaker for me if someone puts those things in their messages. I know they are generally trying to be nice and also tend to have developed their own vocabulary for what they are looking for.
I fancy you
Thank you sweetheart xx
Hello there!
You wouldn’t want me- I’m vegan, very far from the kind of girl you suggest you’re looking for in your profile hahahaha
I know a place where they do vegan ribs! "
Auckland is quite a commute for a date  |
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over a year ago
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If I had a £1 for every message asking if I wanted to be daddy's princess/little girl or that type of thing I would be a trillionaire.
No that's sick.I don't mind being called princess babe or anything but to me being offered the daddy role or cash or spoilt is just a massive turn off and gross.I might be thinking into to it to much and others might like that but to me it's no lighty no likey |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not a huge fan of being called a MILF as I don’t have kids and am not a mother- feels a bit weird to me. I’m not sure I need a label like that anyway, I’m me- not my age. It’s a bit deflating to get messages like- looking great for your age- kind of a back handed compliment? Not you look great, only you look great for you age haha
Having said all that it’s not a deal breaker for me if someone puts those things in their messages. I know they are generally trying to be nice and also tend to have developed their own vocabulary for what they are looking for.
I fancy you
Thank you sweetheart xx
Hello there!
You wouldn’t want me- I’m vegan, very far from the kind of girl you suggest you’re looking for in your profile hahahaha
I know a place where they do vegan ribs!
Auckland is quite a commute for a date "
Well, it will help with our social distancing now and we could meet half way once all this is over! |
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I was never blessed with children so dislike being called a MILF but, I recognise that it is just a modern description and so don't take serious offence. I like younger guys with fit bodies, nice hair and teeth. The older guys I've met have lacked stamina and I've had to do all the work
I've had some truly amazing, breathtaking and memorable meets off here. Best sex of my life by far because I've been able to experiment with my kinks etc. |
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"If I had a £1 for every message asking if I wanted to be daddy's princess/little girl or that type of thing I would be a trillionaire.
No that's sick.I don't mind being called princess babe or anything but to me being offered the daddy role or cash or spoilt is just a massive turn off and gross.I might be thinking into to it to much and others might like that but to me it's no lighty no likey "
Trillionare at 21! What is stopping you? I would use that money to come up with a vaccine that will make me more richer! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was never blessed with children so dislike being called a MILF but, I recognise that it is just a modern description and so don't take serious offence. I like younger guys with fit bodies, nice hair and teeth. The older guys I've met have lacked stamina and I've had to do all the work
I've had some truly amazing, breathtaking and memorable meets off here. Best sex of my life by far because I've been able to experiment with my kinks etc. "
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"I was never blessed with children so dislike being called a MILF but, I recognise that it is just a modern description and so don't take serious offence. I like younger guys with fit bodies, nice hair and teeth. The older guys I've met have lacked stamina and I've had to do all the work
I've had some truly amazing, breathtaking and memorable meets off here. Best sex of my life by far because I've been able to experiment with my kinks etc. "
I've always admired your profile, I'm just not able to message you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont get offended at all being called a milf, I see it as more of a compliment. Age really doesn't matter to me on here, although when I look back my verifications I do seem to have a thing for the 30s age bracket lol. But that's not on purpose |
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"ok ladies its the big question from Patrick.
age.
how do you see this.
are you offended by terms such as milf or even gmilf.
do you like the attentions of younger men or can it really piss you off sometimes.
and as your getting older are you enjoying better sex now than when you were younger.
and if so what kind of sex is it? a quick fuck, passionate intense sex, being made to feel wanted?
over to you ladies. "
Anyone who wants to meet me because they think I'll be a certain way due to my age might be bitterly disappointed unless they really are just attracted to the number of years I've been alive rather than me. I think expecting physiology or chronology to indicate how good a person is at sex, social interaction or personality traits is quite narrow thinking.
I'm not offended by terms such as milf, I save offence for important things.
I like attention from men of any age and certain kinds of attention piss me off royally
I do enjoy better sex now than when I was younger but that's down to many factors. How I enjoy it is between me and my partners |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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I love the attention I get from younger men. 
I never got any male attention in my 20s- I was the odd boyfriendless girl who spent every evening home alone. Never went clubbing or dancing...
Now I feel much better than when I was 25!
My preferred age bracket for men is 35-45. I’ve had younger and older than that, but I still prefer this age range. It will be quite exceptional that I meet a man older than me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love the attention I get from younger men.
I never got any male attention in my 20s- I was the odd boyfriendless girl who spent every evening home alone. Never went clubbing or dancing...
Now I feel much better than when I was 25!
My preferred age bracket for men is 35-45. I’ve had younger and older than that, but I still prefer this age range. It will be quite exceptional that I meet a man older than me. "
Let's wind the clock back and start all over again!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I got called a MILF by a younger guy I'd seen a few months ago. I was somewhat gobsmacked as I had never been called it before 
As I keep those two sides of my life very separate it's not a term that turns me on.
With age I've come to give less shits about how people see me and just crack on for my own enjoyment. Not that I gave many to begin with. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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"I love the attention I get from younger men.
I never got any male attention in my 20s- I was the odd boyfriendless girl who spent every evening home alone. Never went clubbing or dancing...
Now I feel much better than when I was 25!
My preferred age bracket for men is 35-45. I’ve had younger and older than that, but I still prefer this age range. It will be quite exceptional that I meet a man older than me.
Let's wind the clock back and start all over again! "
Been doing it for the last 2 years. I wish I’d discovered Fab sooner... |
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For me age is a number, meeting young guys and doing the “cougar” thing was never a great success and I decided to stick to late 40’s plus when looking for a meet, I just feel more comfortable with my own age bracket  |
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"For me age is a number, meeting young guys and doing the “cougar” thing was never a great success and I decided to stick to late 40’s plus when looking for a meet, I just feel more comfortable with my own age bracket "
Do I fit your box? I meant bracket! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok ladies its the big question from Patrick.
age.
how do you see this.
are you offended by terms such as milf or even gmilf.
do you like the attentions of younger men or can it really piss you off sometimes.
and as your getting older are you enjoying better sex now than when you were younger.
and if so what kind of sex is it? a quick fuck, passionate intense sex, being made to feel wanted?
over to you ladies. "
Obviously I'm not in that age category yet, but I'd never want to be called a milf or similar since I don't have and won't be having kids. It just doesn't make sense. |
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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago
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As I don't look my age, the biggest thrill is when guys dont believe I'm the age I am. Sex does get better with age, as well as experience, confidence, variety. But I do need to feel wanted, not just any port in a storm. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As I don't look my age, the biggest thrill is when guys dont believe I'm the age I am. Sex does get better with age, as well as experience, confidence, variety. But I do need to feel wanted, not just any port in a storm. "
I don't believe you are that old |
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I'm not easily offended at all but prefer not to be defined by my age.
I certainly don't mind getting messages from younger people, but am unlikely to meet a person in their early to mid 20s. This is simply because I have children that age.
Most of my meets are in clubs with hubby. If we are all attracted to each other and get on well, age is no barrier. |
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over a year ago
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I dont like being defined by my age, or childbearing status. Yet put me in the category of Redhead, and I am fine with it. Although I dont really want to be objectified for that either, and it does sometimes happen.
I seek more connection, to feel some friendship towards those I play with, so I guess, younger guys need to have those skills, in order to interest me. |
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over a year ago
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Being called a milf or gilf is complimentary I find. I'm a mother & grandmother & proud!
I've always had a good sex life ( apart from one period in my life. Sex is much better for me now that I can explore my submissive side as much as I want to now I've found a partner who understands me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it cringy being called a milf
Our daughter's male friends once had a discussion on milfs and voted me one. She was (if possible) even more pissed off about it than I was. "
Makes my skin crawl! |
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"I find it cringy being called a milf
Our daughter's male friends once had a discussion on milfs and voted me one. She was (if possible) even more pissed off about it than I was.
Makes my skin crawl!"
One of them sat in our living room commenting to Mr N on the female athletes on the telly in a sexual way. . I said to our daughter that the guys worth her time were the ones who didn't join in the discussion, she agreed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Enjoying sex so much more as I’m lucky enough to have met someone who knows all my needs and desires, and knows the real me.
Being called a milf (or cougar) doesn’t bother me. My ex bf (after my marriage ended) was ten years younger and loved the fact I was so much older than him. My oldest (22) is disabled and my youngest is only 9 so I won’t be a gilf for a while. I’ll still be rocking the alt look, still be young at heart and still exploring the very thing life has to offer x Viv x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I personally don't like being called anything by people I don't know, I'm not keen on milf anyway (by anyone).
I've had an amazing time since I joined Fab, learning more about what I like, and I've enjoyed the best sex of my life.
I haven't gone much younger yet, maybe after lockdown I should try it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Doesn't bother me tbh
Backhanded compliments such as 'you look good for your age' makes me shit itch, wtf has age got to do with anything if they think you look good |
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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago
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"As I don't look my age, the biggest thrill is when guys dont believe I'm the age I am. Sex does get better with age, as well as experience, confidence, variety. But I do need to feel wanted, not just any port in a storm.
I don't believe you are that old"
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It’s just a word so as long as not said with malice it doesn’t bother me.
As for age, I have my range and I’ve been known to go outside of this when it felt right. All through life everyone I’ve been with has been younger, with only two exceptions. I don’t go looking for younger it just happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get offended by the term, but it definitely turns me off and it's usually an instant delete
I don't know if I'd meet a young guy.. They haven't yet given me the mental connection that i need... Well maybe one did, but he is flipping miles away |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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Wouldn’t say I’m offended by someone calling me a MILF but having not been blessed with children I don’t fall into that category so put them right that if that’s their fantasy is to just meet with a mother then there knocking at the wrong door as I can’t fulfil that fantasy.
Kind of off putting when someone’s first message starts off hey babe or hey beautiful as you just know that message goes to everyone and probably 20 a day lol.
As for age that’s down to the individual, everyone’s different and although we have quite a small age range filter we don’t rule out meeting people outside of it if there’s attraction all round.
As for sex, always enjoyed great sex, it just puts a different twist on it being a couple and meeting with others, we have enjoyed some amazing group fun over the years and had some amazingly fun times. |
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