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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Never expierenced it myself.

Whats the over all view on it from you guys/girls??

Share....the good....the bad...or indeed the ugly?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never expierenced it myself.

Whats the over all view on it from you guys/girls??

Share....the good....the bad...or indeed the ugly? "

I find pegging gets the job done to my satisfaction at this time of year.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Never expierenced it myself.

Whats the over all view on it from you guys/girls??

Share....the good....the bad...or indeed the ugly?

I find pegging gets the job done to my satisfaction at this time of year."

Just this time of year? ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve tried it once. All I can say is, aiiieeee.

Bit painful. Don’t mind a finger or even better a tongue.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never expierenced it myself.

Whats the over all view on it from you guys/girls??

Share....the good....the bad...or indeed the ugly?

I find pegging gets the job done to my satisfaction at this time of year.

Just this time of year? ??"

Sometimes the job gets done very quickly in the summer. Must be because of the hot weather.

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By *rsTrellisWoman  over a year ago

Cambridge

It’s tricky to get the hang of it!

You can’t feel how deep/shallow you are as you thrust so there’s a risk of it popping out. It’s easier with a long dildo. Not to push all the way in necessarily but to allow you to pull back without it falling out.

Also, if you’re pegging a guy, you need to sort out the height difference. It’s likely he’ll be too high to reach if he’s on all fours and you’re on your knees, or if he’s bent over the bed and you’re standing behind.

Top tip - put a condom on it. The clean up is faster.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nice...love it

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By *001handMan  over a year ago

Birmingham

Depends totally on the circumtantace, who it is and build up....

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By *artinbobMan  over a year ago

Leicester

I love it. But it’s about trust and intimacy for me. I wouldn’t do it early on to knowing someone. You need to very relaxed and remember to lube lube and lube. Also don’t forget to breath

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It’s tricky to get the hang of it!

You can’t feel how deep/shallow you are as you thrust so there’s a risk of it popping out. It’s easier with a long dildo. Not to push all the way in necessarily but to allow you to pull back without it falling out.

Also, if you’re pegging a guy, you need to sort out the height difference. It’s likely he’ll be too high to reach if he’s on all fours and you’re on your knees, or if he’s bent over the bed and you’re standing behind.

Top tip - put a condom on it. The clean up is faster. "

Seems like you know ur stuff? :p

Think id like to give it a shot in what ever positions....maybe lieing flat in back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I love it. But it’s about trust and intimacy for me. I wouldn’t do it early on to knowing someone. You need to very relaxed and remember to lube lube and lube. Also don’t forget to breath "

Do you find many women are 'into' it or is it still viewed as 'taboo, or wrong for a man to want to try it'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I enjoy it, with the right man... I bought my first strap on for a guy I used to see, that wanted to try it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I enjoy it, with the right man... I bought my first strap on for a guy I used to see, that wanted to try it "

Can i be the right man pleeeease lol. Ah no thanks for the reply.

How do you think women over all view it? Id love to try it. Try anything once kinda guy i am

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London

Me I love it.. If you both are comfortable doing it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Me I love it.. If you both are comfortable doing it. "

Any experiences to share ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I enjoy it, with the right man... I bought my first strap on for a guy I used to see, that wanted to try it

Can i be the right man pleeeease lol. Ah no thanks for the reply.

How do you think women over all view it? Id love to try it. Try anything once kinda guy i am "

I had never even thought it was a thing, let alone considered doing it, before I met that guy... I think it has become fairly popular, fairly quickly, as far as I can tell

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I enjoy it, with the right man... I bought my first strap on for a guy I used to see, that wanted to try it

Can i be the right man pleeeease lol. Ah no thanks for the reply.

How do you think women over all view it? Id love to try it. Try anything once kinda guy i am

I had never even thought it was a thing, let alone considered doing it, before I met that guy... I think it has become fairly popular, fairly quickly, as far as I can tell "

I find people seem to view a guy who wants it differently.

Its a strange one.

Im one of those people who in latter years would prob try anything consentual. Or atleast be open to discussion really on anything. Worst that can happen is you dont like something so you stop

But it is def something id love to experience with someone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's something I've always wanted to try, but I've never met anyone who wanted to try it too. Same with rimming.

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By *artinbobMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"I love it. But it’s about trust and intimacy for me. I wouldn’t do it early on to knowing someone. You need to very relaxed and remember to lube lube and lube. Also don’t forget to breath

Do you find many women are 'into' it or is it still viewed as 'taboo, or wrong for a man to want to try it'"

In the vanilla outside world I think it’s rare. But I’ve seen many women on here who love it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Very interested in trying this. Certainly dont mind a woman playing with my arse and had toys used in sex, for both parties lol so keen to try it

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"Me I love it.. If you both are comfortable doing it.

Any experiences to share ??"

Started when I was younger. With a partner. Was plugged and put into panties for bed time..

Woke up with her rimming me and fingering me. Before long she pulled out a strapon and she took her time and fucked me until I came into the panties.

The size went bigger as time went on.

Dated a few women who loved strapon play. Me being me so open never said no.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lie flat on your back, pillow under bottom, bring legs up to knees, lubricant galore, take it slowly and communicate with female in the harness "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh this is something on my bucket list to do to a guy, have a good strap on with 3 different attachments all ready for action when this lockdown is over. I have had a few guys say they would like to try it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh this is something on my bucket list to do to a guy, have a good strap on with 3 different attachments all ready for action when this lockdown is over. I have had a few guys say they would like to try it. "

May i be on that list too lol....bump me to 1st place

pleeeease

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Me I love it.. If you both are comfortable doing it.

Any experiences to share ??

Started when I was younger. With a partner. Was plugged and put into panties for bed time..

Woke up with her rimming me and fingering me. Before long she pulled out a strapon and she took her time and fucked me until I came into the panties.

The size went bigger as time went on.

Dated a few women who loved strapon play. Me being me so open never said no. "

Where are all these great women........?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I definitely want to try it !

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By *isub85Man  over a year ago

Bracknell

Tried a few times now and love it. Favourite is being tied down and fucked

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"Me I love it.. If you both are comfortable doing it.

Any experiences to share ??

Started when I was younger. With a partner. Was plugged and put into panties for bed time..

Woke up with her rimming me and fingering me. Before long she pulled out a strapon and she took her time and fucked me until I came into the panties.

The size went bigger as time went on.

Dated a few women who loved strapon play. Me being me so open never said no.

Where are all these great women........?"

Have no idea. Been trying to get back into strapon play for a few years now but no luck so far.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wow I want to meet a woman as sexy and well prepared as you are for pegging! Confident too, all about the confidence x

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By *B69Woman  over a year ago

Wiltshire

It’s something that has to be taken slowly and know their limits.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS  over a year ago

Derby


"Wow I want to meet a woman as sexy and well prepared as you are for pegging! Confident too, all about the confidence x"

It's not all about the confidence

...its as much in the hip movement and a well fitted harness.

The rest is enthusiasm and a mindset to destroy the pegees ass

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"Wow I want to meet a woman as sexy and well prepared as you are for pegging! Confident too, all about the confidence x

It's not all about the confidence

...its as much in the hip movement and a well fitted harness.

The rest is enthusiasm and a mindset to destroy the pegees ass "

Os true.

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"It’s something that has to be taken slowly and know their limits. "

Yes start soft and slow. Once you get to know each other that's when the fun starts with the hard fucking mmmmm fun times.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My wife loves to peg me as much as I like to be pegged.. Hot as fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My wife loves to peg me as much as I like to be pegged.. Hot as fuck "

Jealous...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never tried it but its on the list... id say its a lot of fun!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I LOVE pegging

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I LOVE pegging "

Wanna help me out so after this lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not tried yet but I'd like to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I LOVE pegging "

I love to be pegged. And would LOVE to be pegged by Pin Up Play!!

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"Not tried yet but I'd like to"

Maybe I cna help? Be your first?

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By *artinbobMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"Not tried yet but I'd like to"

I’d get to know you for it

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By *lowtongue99Man  over a year ago

Thames Ditton

Good morning xx When did you move from North Wales?

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By *egmelpoolMan  over a year ago

liverpool

I love to be pegged,wish I could meet someone in Liverpool who was interested

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd love to try

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Done it, they enjoyed it as I took the time to make sure they were prepared and comfortable x Viv x

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By *uciferLingerieMan  over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely want to try, on my to-do list...or to-be done by list!

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"Done it, they enjoyed it as I took the time to make sure they were prepared and comfortable x Viv x"

Did you not enjoy it as well.?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Done it, they enjoyed it as I took the time to make sure they were prepared and comfortable x Viv x

Did you not enjoy it as well.?"

I enjoyed them enjoying it, more than it doing anything sexually for me. From a control point of view that was enjoyable x

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"Done it, they enjoyed it as I took the time to make sure they were prepared and comfortable x Viv x

Did you not enjoy it as well.?

I enjoyed them enjoying it, more than it doing anything sexually for me. From a control point of view that was enjoyable x"

Very true, they don't do anything for the wearer. But the power play and the dynamic is amazing. Use to have a partner that used to insert duo balls before putting the strapon on. She said it gave her a little buzz.

You can get some that are a 2 way strapon. But not sued on.

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By *outhman15Man  over a year ago

southampton

Would like to try it i love a womans finger just need to find a woman willing to give it a go and has a small strap on

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS  over a year ago

edinburgh

I love being pegged.....had it many times and always want more. XX

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By *h86Man  over a year ago

Glos

To me its one of the ultimate forms of submission to a woman, and that fills my soul. I suppose its just a bonus that it feels amazing and gives intense orgasms!

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS  over a year ago

London

I love being pegged, wish I could get it more but the feeling and the mood is amazing when pegged by a women x

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By *rNaughtyNickMan  over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"I love being pegged, wish I could get it more but the feeling and the mood is amazing when pegged by a women x"

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"To me its one of the ultimate forms of submission to a woman, and that fills my soul. I suppose its just a bonus that it feels amazing and gives intense orgasms!"

So true. But it's amazing to submit to a women.

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By *h86Man  over a year ago

Glos


"To me its one of the ultimate forms of submission to a woman, and that fills my soul. I suppose its just a bonus that it feels amazing and gives intense orgasms!

So true. But it's amazing to submit to a women. "

It really is, the power switch and being completely under her control

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman  over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I love to do it to a really sexy guy one time in my life

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"To me its one of the ultimate forms of submission to a woman, and that fills my soul. I suppose its just a bonus that it feels amazing and gives intense orgasms!

So true. But it's amazing to submit to a women.

It really is, the power switch and being completely under her control"

I love that.. I love the role reversal aspect of it.

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"I love to do it to a really sexy guy one time in my life "

It's an amazing experience. The power play is hot but it will become addictive.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I really enjoy it. But as other have said it is about trust and intimacy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

On my list of things to try after lockdown lifts

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"On my list of things to try after lockdown lifts "

If you need a volunteer I'm very willing and not far away x

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By *ames-77Man  over a year ago

milton keynes

Why do people do it ?? Surely it isn't pleasurable ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people do it ?? Surely it isn't pleasurable ?"

You won’t know if you don’t try I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people do it ?? Surely it isn't pleasurable ?"

I disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lots of women on here seem to like it, must be one that would like to have a go with me.....?

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By *ames-77Man  over a year ago

milton keynes


"Why do people do it ?? Surely it isn't pleasurable ?

I disagree. "

I don't know myself that's why I'm kind of asking.. is it pleasurable then ??

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By *ames-77Man  over a year ago

milton keynes

I thought it was that thing where men put things down their cock.. my bad

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By *uciferLingerieMan  over a year ago

Leeds

Any ladies fancy easing into me...sorry easing me into it??

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Anyone any ideas why so few women seem to be into this sorg of thing ?

As for me im nesrly always ooen to trying new things or atleast open to discussing them

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By *entleman4MMFMan  over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I love being pegged

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To me its one of the ultimate forms of submission to a woman, and that fills my soul. I suppose its just a bonus that it feels amazing and gives intense orgasms!

So true. But it's amazing to submit to a women.

It really is, the power switch and being completely under her control

I love that.. I love the role reversal aspect of it. "

Same here..love my gf to be the one in control..we love changing roles..it's just natural to us..and it really does feel sooo good

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No way are they coming near my bottom with one of those -o

Not even if you restrain me, lock my legs above my head wearing a spreader bar and force me to take it. Not on your Nellie

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And I thought this was a discussion about the virtues of different types of pegs........ personally I prefer the wooden ones, just for the record

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By *entleman4MMFMan  over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I definitely feel as if I am a submissive slut when a lady pegs me. I have a massive fantasy where I am forced to suck cock as I am pegged.

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"Anyone any ideas why so few women seem to be into this sorg of thing ?

As for me im nesrly always ooen to trying new things or atleast open to discussing them "

It's the power play.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For me, it is more about the mental stimulation than the physical feeling- for both parties.

I'm mostly dom, but do enjoy being completely submissive to a lady every now and again, and the ladies I know who enjoy this love the feeling of being in charge!

Top tips from me:

Start with guy on his side and knees raised slightly to stomach.

Use a condom on the strap on

Make sure you buy a good strap on, nice and firm shaft

If it's starting to get sore, stop, lube up and start again (if the lady was wearing panties, she should take them off at this point to demonstrate how excited it got her.... Stuff them in his mouth for good measure!)

Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people do it ?? Surely it isn't pleasurable ?

I disagree.

I don't know myself that's why I'm kind of asking.. is it pleasurable then ??"

I certainly gain pleasure from it. I love the feeling of her being in charge, but also the fullness it creates once the toy is inside me. The P-spot certainly and shouldn't be ignored, makes a very very good orgasm and lots of cum shooting.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Been curious to try this. But qould need a female I can really trust.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Anyone else anything to add ??

Anyone up for this when able?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Id be curious to try it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Id be curious to try it x"

Im looking to be on te reciving end :p

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By *witchRichMan  over a year ago

Southport


"I LOVE pegging "

Would love to be pegged by you, would you be gentle or rough

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wud love a woman to peg me xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would love be pegged by a nice cougar

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

its a pain in the butt

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mmm me to

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By *nly us 4448Couple  over a year ago

London

Love being pegged by my girl

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've watched the wife peg a few guys lol. It's to painfull for me but love the idea...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's good when putting your clothes out to dry on a windy day!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's good when putting your clothes out to dry on a windy day! "
cmon you love it

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By *carlett AllureWoman  over a year ago

Cardiff

I love it

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By *ty31Man  over a year ago

NW London

I'd give it a go with the right woman, looks like a unique experience

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Weve been experimenting with in for about 18 months but this lockdown (and a few people we've spoken to) have helped us adapt and develop a technique that works. I (Boobs) always felt so nervous doing it and Chubbs seemed to fight the urge to let go but weve each come into our own the past 5/6 weeks and now quite like it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Scarlett yes please

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"I love it "

Yummy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's good when putting your clothes out to dry on a windy day! cmon you love it "

It's pain in the arse!

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By *etite_delightWoman  over a year ago

BunnyLand

not my field of play

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By *nblemishedhotwifeCouple  over a year ago

Warwick

Yep. Hubby is a pro.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes please

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"Yep. Hubby is a pro."

Very lucky Hubby.

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By *oxychicWoman  over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I peg I love my strap on lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't peg ppl I know. Even the one I don't know anyway.

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By *VineMan  over a year ago

The right place

I’ve never tried it. I’m open to the idea but I’ve not been asked.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS  over a year ago

Cheshire

Real and not real not often but done both. Agree with an earlier post better to get a long one, so it doesn’t fall out. I found the guy was a lot more tense and scared than a previous female partner I had, she was a lot more into it.

Prefer a strap on if I’m topping but real if I’m bottoming

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yep its kinda the default run to thing we do ... she fucks me , never ever the other way around .. The good bits ? Some times she is happy with the run of the mill strap on which fits ok although i do sort of pull my insides up a bit as it reaches the top ( its a kinda self taught technique )

The bad bits ? She uses the one the " size of a thermos flask " ... That one has the ability to actually make me beg at my very best , once i was sure i suffered palpitations during its use ..

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"I peg I love my strap on lol "

I can only imagine how sexy you look.

Sorry how even more sexy you look wearing the strapon.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Still waiting for the right guy to come along. I don’t want a sub who offers himself easily but someone that needs coaxing and convincing. It’s not happening on the first meet either

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"Still waiting for the right guy to come along. I don’t want a sub who offers himself easily but someone that needs coaxing and convincing. It’s not happening on the first meet either "

O a little fight in him. You need to seduce him? Encourage him to allow you? Tease him.

I take it you enjoy role reversal play then?

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By *andy2Man  over a year ago

Ealing

Girlfriend loves using her strap on

Just make sure you get a good one ( soft silicone) the plastic ones so painful

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By *nnnikCouple  over a year ago

Walsall

Pegging was invented by woman who just want to get their own back on men nik

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Pegging was invented by woman who just want to get their own back on men nik"

And taken up by women who don't have issues with men

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By *nnnikCouple  over a year ago

Walsall


"Pegging was invented by woman who just want to get their own back on men nik

And taken up by women who don't have issues with men "

wow I see jokes are not your cupa tea, arsenic maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Anyone up for discussing a potental meet after this crazy time is over

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Me I love it.. If you both are comfortable doing it.

Any experiences to share ??

Started when I was younger. With a partner. Was plugged and put into panties for bed time..

Woke up with her rimming me and fingering me. Before long she pulled out a strapon and she took her time and fucked me until I came into the panties.

The size went bigger as time went on.

Dated a few women who loved strapon play. Me being me so open never said no.

Where are all these great women........?"

Taken!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love being pegged by missus

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I never even thought it was a thing until I started using the forums here....perhaps I've lived a sheltered life?! I've experienced a finger and one girl wanted to use a small toy on me. I let her for a wee while but didnt enjoy it and asked her to stop.....but I must admit, I'd be keen to give it another go. I think pegging would be out the question though!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I absolutely love doing it! but you have to know what you’re doing and takes time and patience oh and lube!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s tricky to get the hang of it!

You can’t feel how deep/shallow you are as you thrust so there’s a risk of it popping out. It’s easier with a long dildo. Not to push all the way in necessarily but to allow you to pull back without it falling out.

Also, if you’re pegging a guy, you need to sort out the height difference. It’s likely he’ll be too high to reach if he’s on all fours and you’re on your knees, or if he’s bent over the bed and you’re standing behind.

Top tip - put a condom on it. The clean up is faster. "

Yes always put a condom on the device of choice! And getting the height difference sorted honestly makes a real difference! As a shorter lady I tend to get the guy kneeling on pillows or I stand on sthing. Once you get the main issues sorted it’s rock and roll

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I absolutely love doing it! but you have to know what you’re doing and takes time and patience oh and lube! "

Liquid silk lube lol and taken missus several goes to learn how to fuck me! Now she gets cocky and tries to make me squeak!!!

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I like it but only occasionally when I'm in the right mood, I don't usually feel submissive enough.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I absolutely love doing it! but you have to know what you’re doing and takes time and patience oh and lube!

Liquid silk lube lol and taken missus several goes to learn how to fuck me! Now she gets cocky and tries to make me squeak!!!"

Ah yes it does take some rehearsing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Something I'm interested in trying.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s ok but as others have suggested can be tricky with positioning etc. I find sharing a double ender dildo easier

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s ok but as others have suggested can be tricky with positioning etc. I find sharing a double ender dildo easier "

The biggest turn on is seeing a guy enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s ok but as others have suggested can be tricky with positioning etc. I find sharing a double ender dildo easier

The biggest turn on is seeing a guy enjoying it "

I think I really fancy you!!

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By *urse4visitsWoman  over a year ago

hull


"I love it. But it’s about trust and intimacy for me. I wouldn’t do it early on to knowing someone. You need to very relaxed and remember to lube lube and lube. Also don’t forget to breath

Do you find many women are 'into' it or is it still viewed as 'taboo, or wrong for a man to want to try it'

In the vanilla outside world I think it’s rare. But I’ve seen many women on here who love it "

I love it xx

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By *artinbobMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"I love it. But it’s about trust and intimacy for me. I wouldn’t do it early on to knowing someone. You need to very relaxed and remember to lube lube and lube. Also don’t forget to breath

Do you find many women are 'into' it or is it still viewed as 'taboo, or wrong for a man to want to try it'

In the vanilla outside world I think it’s rare. But I’ve seen many women on here who love it

I love it xx"

Get ya strap on n lube ready haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have done it once or twice in the past with past FWB. Wasn’t really something that I went out seeking. I enjoyed it simply because I was giving somebody else something that they really wanted to try, which made it worth it.

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By *urse4visitsWoman  over a year ago

hull


"I love it. But it’s about trust and intimacy for me. I wouldn’t do it early on to knowing someone. You need to very relaxed and remember to lube lube and lube. Also don’t forget to breath

Do you find many women are 'into' it or is it still viewed as 'taboo, or wrong for a man to want to try it'

In the vanilla outside world I think it’s rare. But I’ve seen many women on here who love it

I love it xx

Get ya strap on n lube ready haha "

Ah it's a bring ya you're own kind of think I think xx

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By *artinbobMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"I love it. But it’s about trust and intimacy for me. I wouldn’t do it early on to knowing someone. You need to very relaxed and remember to lube lube and lube. Also don’t forget to breath

Do you find many women are 'into' it or is it still viewed as 'taboo, or wrong for a man to want to try it'

In the vanilla outside world I think it’s rare. But I’ve seen many women on here who love it

I love it xx

Get ya strap on n lube ready haha

Ah it's a bring ya you're own kind of think I think xx"

Haha

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By *urse4visitsWoman  over a year ago

hull


"I love it. But it’s about trust and intimacy for me. I wouldn’t do it early on to knowing someone. You need to very relaxed and remember to lube lube and lube. Also don’t forget to breath

Do you find many women are 'into' it or is it still viewed as 'taboo, or wrong for a man to want to try it'

In the vanilla outside world I think it’s rare. But I’ve seen many women on here who love it

I love it xx

Get ya strap on n lube ready haha

Ah it's a bring ya you're own kind of think I think xx

Haha "

Thing! I meant obviously. Just make sure it's got adjustable straps xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s ok but as others have suggested can be tricky with positioning etc. I find sharing a double ender dildo easier

The biggest turn on is seeing a guy enjoying it

I think I really fancy you!! "

Oh really!! You think? Lol

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By *urse4visitsWoman  over a year ago

hull

Position wise I find spooning is compatible for any height difference xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s ok but as others have suggested can be tricky with positioning etc. I find sharing a double ender dildo easier

The biggest turn on is seeing a guy enjoying it

I think I really fancy you!!

Oh really!! You think? Lol "

Ok, I definitely do! Do I need a mate to ask you out or can I sort it myself?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never tried and have no interest in doing so

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What I would like to try is to be on my back wearing strapon with the guy riding it on top

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"What I would like to try is to be on my back wearing strapon with the guy riding it on top "

Reverse Cowboy?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s ok but as others have suggested can be tricky with positioning etc. I find sharing a double ender dildo easier

The biggest turn on is seeing a guy enjoying it

I think I really fancy you!!

Oh really!! You think? Lol

Ok, I definitely do! Do I need a mate to ask you out or can I sort it myself? "

Depends how fit is your mate?

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By *arbellsWoman  over a year ago

Cambridge


"What I would like to try is to be on my back wearing strapon with the guy riding it on top "

This is one of my favourites not going to lie. The look on his the guys face makes me bite my bottom lip

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What I would like to try is to be on my back wearing strapon with the guy riding it on top

Reverse Cowboy?"

No facing me so I can see his face and see him cum

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"What I would like to try is to be on my back wearing strapon with the guy riding it on top

Reverse Cowboy?

No facing me so I can see his face and see him cum "

Ah ok, silly me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not tried it before, but it's currently on the list of stuff to try.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What I would like to try is to be on my back wearing strapon with the guy riding it on top

This is one of my favourites not going to lie. The look on his the guys face makes me bite my bottom lip "

Definitely on my list to try

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s ok but as others have suggested can be tricky with positioning etc. I find sharing a double ender dildo easier

The biggest turn on is seeing a guy enjoying it

I think I really fancy you!!

Oh really!! You think? Lol

Ok, I definitely do! Do I need a mate to ask you out or can I sort it myself?

Depends how fit is your mate? "

Ouch....that really hurt!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s ok but as others have suggested can be tricky with positioning etc. I find sharing a double ender dildo easier

The biggest turn on is seeing a guy enjoying it

I think I really fancy you!!

Oh really!! You think? Lol

Ok, I definitely do! Do I need a mate to ask you out or can I sort it myself?

Depends how fit is your mate?

Ouch....that really hurt!"

Sorry want me to kiss it better?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never expierenced it myself.

Whats the over all view on it from you guys/girls??

Share....the good....the bad...or indeed the ugly? "

For the guys the view is often a pillow. For the girls usually a bum hole. As fas as I understand it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sooooo much fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to do this to an ex who was really into it. He used to get on all fours on the bed and I would be standing on the floor which made us roughly the same height. Slowly is the best way and when we started out, we started from a small dildo and worked our way up the more comfortable it became.

For me personally it was a real turn on as I was the one with the control. xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As bizarre as it sounds I tried it a few years ago and liked it...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love it, plenty of lube = plenty of fun

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"I used to do this to an ex who was really into it. He used to get on all fours on the bed and I would be standing on the floor which made us roughly the same height. Slowly is the best way and when we started out, we started from a small dildo and worked our way up the more comfortable it became.

For me personally it was a real turn on as I was the one with the control. xx"

Yeah.... Its the whole power paly, role reversal that is amazing.

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"On my list of things to try after lockdown lifts "

Highley recommended it.

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"Position wise I find spooning is compatible for any height difference xx"

Spooning as the women wears the strapon is hot.

Weather its the guy spooning or the women spooning the guy..

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"I peg I love my strap on lol "

Would love to see you wearing a strapon.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s ok but as others have suggested can be tricky with positioning etc. I find sharing a double ender dildo easier

The biggest turn on is seeing a guy enjoying it

I think I really fancy you!!

Oh really!! You think? Lol

Ok, I definitely do! Do I need a mate to ask you out or can I sort it myself?

Depends how fit is your mate?

Ouch....that really hurt!

Sorry want me to kiss it better? "

Yes please!

I'll point to all my sore bits.x

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London

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By *ovestrapMan  over a year ago

London


"What I would like to try is to be on my back wearing strapon with the guy riding it on top "

Mmmm yes he feels how a women feels when he is doing the fucking..

Very hot. Every tried it in front of a mirror?

With you on top of him.. So you can both see yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Really useful on a windy day especially or back in the machine it all goes...

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By *urse4visitsWoman  over a year ago

hull


"I used to do this to an ex who was really into it. He used to get on all fours on the bed and I would be standing on the floor which made us roughly the same height. Slowly is the best way and when we started out, we started from a small dildo and worked our way up the more comfortable it became.

For me personally it was a real turn on as I was the one with the control. xx"

Yeah same here. A real turn on having all that power xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Meh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What I would like to try is to be on my back wearing strapon with the guy riding it on top

This is one of my favourites not going to lie. The look on his the guys face makes me bite my bottom lip "

Yes one of my favourite positions too! Amazing seeing the guys reactions sooooo hot

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You are sounding like a pro!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i would love this to happe to me but havent found someone ye to try on me and im a straight male

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By *tuvyMan  over a year ago

bedford

Massive fan of it any ladies or couples feel free to message me

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By *ovestrap69TV/TS  over a year ago

Croydon

Love it...

Love it...

Love it...

Also love sucking on a nice strapon too mmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Love it...

Love it...

Love it...

Also love sucking on a nice strapon too mmmm "

Care to share expierences? Good or bad ?

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By *aked_magicMan  over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

Dying to try it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wow you make me think you'd be a perfect woman to do this with x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

buttache

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