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Common things you don’t like (sex)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just want to hear about things you will never do or haven’t done yet because u aren’t ready for it but people seem to love it
I’m not a big fan of eating someone’s arse never really appealed to me but I may try it one day ???? just not really my thing and everyone else loves it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shite. Don’t understand why people would want excrement involved.
Also extreme pain. I once had a women ask for her fanny to be burned with a lighter. No thank you. |
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Spitting in someone’s mouth. Someone did this to me once and I nearly threw up.
Oh and people who constitute domination as rough sex.
Agree with the oral sex thing too. You can either do it or you can’t. 90% of people can’t unfortunately |
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"Oral sex.
I find oral sex (being done to me) a bit hit and miss. I find it hard to relax, it rarely makes me cum and I can’t “let go”. "
I used to have this until I found a diamond of a man who blew my world apart orally |
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By *kiolo1Couple
over a year ago
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"Just want to hear about things you will never do or haven’t done yet because u aren’t ready for it but people seem to love it
I’m not a big fan of eating someone’s arse never really appealed to me but I may try it one day ???? just not really my thing and everyone else loves it "
DP. That shit scares me. Not ready for anal yet either. Although a little play down there with a finger is just right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The slapping a girls tits, it hurts and not in a pleasurable way.
Also rimming a guy, absolutely not!
I don't like guys spitting in my mouth, I find it very disrespectful (even in a dom/sub situation). |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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Agree with the oral sex thing too. You can either do it or you can’t. 90% of people can’t unfortunately "
For me I think the same percentage applies to having my balls played with.
Most squeeze mine as if they’re trying to get the last bit of toothpaste out of the tube. |
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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago
Suffolk - East Anglia |
"Oral sex.
I find oral sex (being done to me) a bit hit and miss. I find it hard to relax, it rarely makes me cum and I can’t “let go”. "
Mrs Trellis
I can solve that problem, 30 minutes with me and you'll love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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BDSM, even the lighter end like kinbaku/shibari; just does absolutely nothing for me and feels like it’s just trying way too hard.
I understand why people like it, including the harder end (pain, CNC, etc.) but it’s not my bag.
Scat and watersports are a no.
Role play and dressing up.... yawn. Trying too hard again. |
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Agree with the oral sex thing too. You can either do it or you can’t. 90% of people can’t unfortunately
For me I think the same percentage applies to having my balls played with.
Most squeeze mine as if they’re trying to get the last bit of toothpaste out of the tube. "
Oh wow! I only do that if that’s what they want haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oral sex.
I find oral sex (being done to me) a bit hit and miss. I find it hard to relax, it rarely makes me cum and I can’t “let go”. "
That’s unfortunate I enjoy giving the woman I’m with oral, maybe you need to find the right one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anything that involves pain is another one, BDSM (extreme levels) normal tying up is okay, hard slapping just feels awkward also I can’t see myself doing that to a woman |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I've avoided anal in the past in spite of it being offered / requested by a number of women. Tried it once and couldn't see all the fuss. I'm slowly warming to idea now, however.
Maybe I just need more practice / exposure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hands in my mouth... Really don't like it.
Someone put their finger in my mouth in a club once
Killed the mood. "
This fish hooking malarkey, proper pulling at your cheeks and mouth... Not for me at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who don't talk during sex. I find it really disconcerting - are they enjoying it? Hating it? Aaargh!
Mrs TMN x"
Ohhh that too.. Complete silent fucks.. Kinda creepy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hands in my mouth... Really don't like it.
Noted!
You'd have to have long body arms to reach me from that far
It's called social distancing! "
Rule follower I see.. Good on you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hands in my mouth... Really don't like it.
Someone put their finger in my mouth in a club once
Killed the mood. "
That’s disgusting I would understand a partner doing it but a complete stranger ?? Some people take things too far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The slapping a girls tits, it hurts and not in a pleasurable way.
Also rimming a guy, absolutely not!
I don't like guys spitting in my mouth, I find it very disrespectful (even in a dom/sub situation). "
All of the above...i hate it when a guy spits on your bits for lubrication..its totally gross and seems like they have watched to many porn films. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The slapping a girls tits, it hurts and not in a pleasurable way.
Also rimming a guy, absolutely not!
I don't like guys spitting in my mouth, I find it very disrespectful (even in a dom/sub situation).
All of the above...i hate it when a guy spits on your bits for lubrication..its totally gross and seems like they have watched to many porn films. "
Agree. Its gross! I always carry WD40 with me at all times. You don't know when you need them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been asked by a woman to throttle her while fucking and by another to bite her tits really (I mean really) hard. On both occasions I couldn't do it, it just felt counterintuitive. Another time a bloke I met started slapping me and spitting in my mouth. I stopped that shit pretty quick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cum on my face. No thank you.
I’ve always thought about this but never tried it, apparently it’s good for the skin "
But stings like hell when it goes in your eyes..no no no no no |
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"I'm not really a fan of 69, I get far too distracted by what he's doing to concentrate on what I'm supposed to be doing I'd much rather take it in turns so we can both appreciate it fully "
It's not just that lily ...... different heights ?? What's all that about. If I can suck cock the blokes face is generally on my feet....... if he's at pussy level .... then i'd be lickin' out his belly button ......
It doesn't fooking work ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not really a fan of 69, I get far too distracted by what he's doing to concentrate on what I'm supposed to be doing I'd much rather take it in turns so we can both appreciate it fully "
You see I like it when my partner has to stop because I’m distracting her. In fact the less she is able to do the happier I am in that position |
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"People who don't talk during sex. I find it really disconcerting - are they enjoying it? Hating it? Aaargh!
Mrs TMN x
Ohhh that too.. Complete silent fucks.. Kinda creepy. "
I spend the whole time asking "How's that? Does that feel good?" Feel like a bloody optician. "Is that better, or this?" |
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"I'm not really a fan of 69, I get far too distracted by what he's doing to concentrate on what I'm supposed to be doing I'd much rather take it in turns so we can both appreciate it fully "
Yep! Too much going on, plus it's a bit uncomfortable.
Mrs TMN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like it is someone presumes they can spank me. Not everyone can get away with it!
I'm with TMN.. no talking/communicating is weird.
Performance sex. "
Ohhhh that’s a good one! Performance sex is the ultimate turn off |
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"People who don't talk during sex. I find it really disconcerting - are they enjoying it? Hating it? Aaargh!
Mrs TMN x"
That's me screwed then. Ive been described as a captain solemnly going down with his ship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like it is someone presumes they can spank me. Not everyone can get away with it!
I'm with TMN.. no talking/communicating is weird.
Performance sex. "
What about Tantric sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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69 is massively overrated on my opinion. There’s too much going on at once it’s hard to relax into it.
Also boob slapping a guy did it to me and it was so weird and awkward it made me laugh so we had to take a moment to get back in the mood |
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"I'm not really a fan of 69, I get far too distracted by what he's doing to concentrate on what I'm supposed to be doing I'd much rather take it in turns so we can both appreciate it fully
It's not just that lily ...... different heights ?? What's all that about. If I can suck cock the blokes face is generally on my feet....... if he's at pussy level .... then i'd be lickin' out his belly button ......
It doesn't fooking work ......"
That's so true
The neck ache trying to stretch to reach |
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"I don't like it is someone presumes they can spank me. Not everyone can get away with it!
I'm with TMN.. no talking/communicating is weird.
Performance sex. "
Oh, yes! Someone desperate to show you their greatest hits without considering what you like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rough play/slapping or groping boobs hard... especially straight away. They are sensitive and it hurts.
Any humiliation/degradation. No thanks."
Glad I have always treated you with respect! |
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"People who don't talk during sex. I find it really disconcerting - are they enjoying it? Hating it? Aaargh!
Mrs TMN x
That's me screwed then. Ive been described as a captain solemnly going down with his ship "
Do you keep your hat on? |
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"Oral sex.
I find oral sex (being done to me) a bit hit and miss. I find it hard to relax, it rarely makes me cum and I can’t “let go”.
Mrs Trellis
I can solve that problem, 30 minutes with me and you'll love it."
It seems that pubic hair is a deal breaker for you. I love my pubic hair. |
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"People who don't talk during sex. I find it really disconcerting - are they enjoying it? Hating it? Aaargh!
Mrs TMN x
That's me screwed then. Ive been described as a captain solemnly going down with his ship
Do you keep your hat on? "
Alas, hats dont suit me |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
Wellington |
"I'm not really a fan of 69, I get far too distracted by what he's doing to concentrate on what I'm supposed to be doing I'd much rather take it in turns so we can both appreciate it fully "
I totally agree with you on this!! |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm not really a fan of 69, I get far too distracted by what he's doing to concentrate on what I'm supposed to be doing I'd much rather take it in turns so we can both appreciate it fully "
Totally agree with you on this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Feet. Toe sucking especially
Ain't no toes coming near my mouth and you'll seriously have to tie me down to get to my feet...
Peach "
I'm with you there Peach, definitely no feet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shite. Don’t understand why people would want excrement involved.
Also extreme pain. I once had a women ask for her fanny to be burned with a lighter. No thank you. " This would be the deal breaker. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just want to hear about things you will never do or haven’t done yet because u aren’t ready for it but people seem to love it
I’m not a big fan of eating someone’s arse never really appealed to me but I may try it one day ???? just not really my thing and everyone else loves it "
And yet you put up with the shit Arsenal serve you every season |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spitting in someone’s mouth. Someone did this to me once and I nearly threw up.
Oh and people who constitute domination as rough sex.
Agree with the oral sex thing too. You can either do it or you can’t. 90% of people can’t unfortunately "
Exactly what I was about to put |
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"Just want to hear about things you will never do or haven’t done yet because u aren’t ready for it but people seem to love it
I’m not a big fan of eating someone’s arse never really appealed to me but I may try it one day ???? just not really my thing and everyone else loves it
And yet you put up with the shit Arsenal serve you every season "
That’s a different thread lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Roleplay. As in whole set scenarios including getting into character, saying certain lines etc. I prefer free flow, not being squeezed into one role. Saying that I never liked dressing up/costumes but warmed up to the idea.
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"A woman I met called me daddy, instant turn off."
Oh god, I find that whole ddlg thing a bit odd. I get that loads of people really love it and fair play to them, but I can't call a lover daddy with a straight face. I'm 45 years of age, that's not going to work.
I once had a guy start referring to himself as daddy in the third person: daddy is very horny right now, daddy is going to spank you, show daddy your arse. Honestly made me grimace and I had to keep asking him to stop. |
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"A woman I met called me daddy, instant turn off.
Oh god, I find that whole ddlg thing a bit odd. I get that loads of people really love it and fair play to them, but I can't call a lover daddy with a straight face. I'm 45 years of age, that's not going to work.
I once had a guy start referring to himself as daddy in the third person: daddy is very horny right now, daddy is going to spank you, show daddy your arse. Honestly made me grimace and I had to keep asking him to stop."
This! Haha... completely agree.. makes me wanna become a nun lol x |
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