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does absence really make the heart grow fonder?
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over a year ago
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"Absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder... but boy is being apart from people you love really sucky!
It really is "
Nora, has your heart grown fonder for me? |
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Years ago a male friend said to me , about his wife, see her love her, don't see her don't love her.
I thought he was shallow but as i've aged i agree.
If I don't see someone for a while, the relationship isn't nurtured , doesn't grow and dies. What people hold on to are the memories not the person they think they still know.
There are exceptions. |
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"Absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder... but boy is being apart from people you love really sucky!
It really is
Nora, has your heart grown fonder for me? "
I don’t know you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Years ago a male friend said to me , about his wife, see her love her, don't see her don't love her.
I thought he was shallow but as i've aged i agree.
If I don't see someone for a while, the relationship isn't nurtured , doesn't grow and dies. What people hold on to are the memories not the person they think they still know.
There are exceptions."
Granny! I love your wisdom! Can I give you a pen drive to copy some of your wisdom? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder... but boy is being apart from people you love really sucky!
It really is
Nora, has your heart grown fonder for me?
I don’t know you "
Well, don't you think it is about time? |
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over a year ago
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"Absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder... but boy is being apart from people you love really sucky!
It really is "
Yep.. proper sucky! n hating every minute |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it doesn't you need to move on. "
Oh I am not worried about me n mr not going anywhere. We hate being away from each other, but also so very excited n cant wait till we do see each other
I was curious to what other people thought |
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"Years ago a male friend said to me , about his wife, see her love her, don't see her don't love her.
I thought he was shallow but as i've aged i agree.
If I don't see someone for a while, the relationship isn't nurtured , doesn't grow and dies. What people hold on to are the memories not the person they think they still know.
There are exceptions.
Granny! I love your wisdom! Can I give you a pen drive to copy some of your wisdom? " Not sure there's one large enough Send over a mainframe...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the person, sometimes being apart makes you realise you don't miss them at all, sometimes they are all you can think about"
Yep he’s all I can think about |
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"Depends on the person, sometimes being apart makes you realise you don't miss them at all, sometimes they are all you can think about
Yep he’s all I can think about "
Awww! You never told me that till now! |
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"Depends on the person, sometimes being apart makes you realise you don't miss them at all, sometimes they are all you can think about
Yep he’s all I can think about
Awww! You never told me that till now! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Years ago a male friend said to me , about his wife, see her love her, don't see her don't love her.
I thought he was shallow but as i've aged i agree.
If I don't see someone for a while, the relationship isn't nurtured , doesn't grow and dies. What people hold on to are the memories not the person they think they still know.
There are exceptions."
Absolutely spot on |
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"Depends on the person, sometimes being apart makes you realise you don't miss them at all, sometimes they are all you can think about
Yep he’s all I can think about
Awww! You never told me that till now!
. Are you stalking me? "
Would you like me to stalk you? |
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"Years ago a male friend said to me , about his wife, see her love her, don't see her don't love her.
I thought he was shallow but as i've aged i agree.
If I don't see someone for a while, the relationship isn't nurtured , doesn't grow and dies. What people hold on to are the memories not the person they think they still know.
There are exceptions."
I’d agree with this......friendships/relationships need to be nurtured to keep them alive or it dies...... |
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"Depends on the person, sometimes being apart makes you realise you don't miss them at all, sometimes they are all you can think about
Yep he’s all I can think about "
Yep, same as |
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"Years ago a male friend said to me , about his wife, see her love her, don't see her don't love her.
I thought he was shallow but as i've aged i agree.
If I don't see someone for a while, the relationship isn't nurtured , doesn't grow and dies. What people hold on to are the memories not the person they think they still know.
There are exceptions."
If I'm very close to someone (e.g. family) then it's different, and if we're in touch but not meeting up with each other it's also different - you're still in each other's lives and still growing together.
Otherwise I agree - if I'm not in contact with someone then gradually the importance of the relationship will diminish. We will both move on and grow separately, and when we meet again we won't be meeting as intimates, a strangeness sets in.
You can't leave a field fallow and expect to reap a harvest. All relationships take work, but distant ones take more work in my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes absence can and does make the heart grow fonder , but only if it was fond in the first place ..If its a take it or leave it situation then no there's nothing for it to hang on to and grow
And ive experienced that in the past ..
Right now though my heart is so fond im amazed at how strong it has grown |
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