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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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when you were a 20 year old?
My own answer is no.
I yesterday rediscovered old pics and noticed damn I had lovely eyebrows, but since trimming them became the norm because of Dennis Healey.
I hardly have any now!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No...that was three years ago. I was in my prime. No baby belly/mum tum, no bags under my eyes due to lack of sleep, my skin was glowing, my hair was amazing.
Now I’m a bald, sleep deprived mess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No...that was three years ago. I was in my prime. No baby belly/mum tum, no bags under my eyes due to lack of sleep, my skin was glowing, my hair was amazing.
Now I’m a bald, sleep deprived mess"
Still hot though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No...that was three years ago. I was in my prime. No baby belly/mum tum, no bags under my eyes due to lack of sleep, my skin was glowing, my hair was amazing.
Now I’m a bald, sleep deprived mess
Still hot though"
no bad for a super sexy bbw x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never had a boyfriend till I was 23 so id say ive learned to look after what I got and spend more time on.my appearance then when I was 20 plus I was a proper tomboy soldier. I didnt own anything sexy and had the worse back combed hair ever lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just want to make a point.
Dennis Healey was a Labour politician, well respected but often the butt of a comics jokes when I was growing up due to his bushy eyebrows. Looking at them now I would say he has the right to wear them as he wishes.
Eyebrows help to frame a face.
I would encourage all parents to be aware of those who are the butt of status quo jokes.
As the influence of 'distancing' oneself from them can backfire.
'Social distancing is fine'! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look younger now than I did 5 years ago. Before being reborn I did not make any effort or care for myself. Now I'm not ent happy with my shape but yes, I'm certainly better looking.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when you were a 20 year old?
My own answer is no.
I yesterday rediscovered old pics and noticed damn I had lovely eyebrows, but since trimming them became the norm because of Dennis Healey.
I hardly have any now!
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I think personally most men get better with age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks wise, absolutely. It's partly genetic but over time I've also learnt to accentuate what works.
But as others have said, confidence and knowing how to project myself has a lot to do with it too. |
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I honestly haven't changed that much since I was 20, but I have a better haircut now! My face looks the same, I am probably a pretty similar weight (give or take a kilo or two). Physically I think I look the same. I didn't need a wheelchair back then though, no idea if that makes me more or less attractive.
S looks just as hot to me now as he did then, but his increased confidence and willingness to take control in the bedroom is definitely sexier. He also has better taste in clothes now (he wears colours other black now, and sexy suits  ) |
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"It’s amazing how everyone seems much confident and happier in their older skin. "
I don't think I'm any more or less confident in my appearance now. Needing the chair means my confidence out and about in general is probably lower now  |
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No. My cheekbone was fractured and my jaw was damaged when I was 25 and it left my face lopsided and changed the shape of my eye socket. My face is far less symmetrical now.
I have grown into my looks. I have never been pretty, but I hope to age into handsomeness. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No. My cheekbone was fractured and my jaw was damaged when I was 25 and it left my face lopsided and changed the shape of my eye socket. My face is far less symmetrical now.
I have grown into my looks. I have never been pretty, but I hope to age into handsomeness."
What a beautiful expression! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t look at all that much different now to when I was 20, since it was only 6 years ago!
I do think I’m better looking now but that’s likely more to do with confidence than anything else. |
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I think the attractiveness has come from pure confidence in myself. Learning to love myself, be myself and not what others want you to be
People that have known me over 20 years, say I’m getting younger as I get older. It’s basically because I am now truly me and I can express who I am without being judged, so the serious tough shell is cracking and falling away
Physically my body is better nearly 30 years on, even with the wrinkles and greyness coming thick and fast  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’d like to think so. I was poorly until I was about 23 and hated how I looked, I didn’t see it though, I just saw the opposite of what I actually was. Now I’m older, ironically I’m bigger but happier. My confidence has taken a bashing at time’s, but I’ve grown to like me. I look at those images now and see a deeply unhappy young lady and you can see my smile doesn’t reach my eyes. It does now!
I don’t try to hide away anymore. I’m in competition with no one (including my own head at times) and know my own worth. Confidence is attractive, and I’m a lot more confident now x Viv x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 30 this year and I'm definitely way more comfortable in my own skin now than I was 10 years ago and I think having that confidence automatically makes you (feel) more attractive anyway - k x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s amazing how everyone seems much confident and happier in their older skin. "
I wouldn't say I'm any more or less confident but I'm certainly not as attractive as the 20 year old me. The 20 year old me was slim and perky and wrinkle free and grey hair free and just fresh faced and innocent looking. I'm realistic that now I look like a crazy cat lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t say I’m better looking but I’m definitely more comfortable in my own skin than I was in my 20s  "
I was ridiculously self conscious in my 20's - and looking back now I hate that I wasted all that time caring about my weight 
I'd love to go back in time and tell myself that youth is beauty and not to waste it! |
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